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She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 12:51pm On May 09, 2020
There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could remembered, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

You know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost contact, for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

But just last month, her call came, that she saw my contact on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keeps crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Harshreality: 12:59pm On May 09, 2020
Teebaba30:
There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could remembered, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

u know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost contact, for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

, but just last month, her call came, that she saw my contact on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keep crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?


Love is sweet but it doesn't sustain a marriage.
Can you both deal with the problems that come with an inter religious marriage?

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Sundrus: 1:00pm On May 09, 2020
Na tight corner u dey oh...family no gree, u need to look another corner. Except u want make her ur babymama.

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by madridguy(m): 1:06pm On May 09, 2020
Since getting her parent approval will be hard please let it go.

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:13pm On May 09, 2020
Harshreality:


Love is sweet but it doesn't sustain a marriage.
Can you both deal with the problems that come with an inter religious marriage?

As for me, all things will go down well, but from her side I doubt it she can deal with inter religious marriage.

We both just confused now

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by samincredible44(m): 1:14pm On May 09, 2020
guy give am belle

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:15pm On May 09, 2020
Sundrus:
Na tight corner u dey oh...family no gree, u need to look another corner. Except u want make her ur babymama.

She even say something like this before that I should impregnate her, that with that her dad might consider, But I resist from doing that.

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:16pm On May 09, 2020
madridguy:
Since getting her parent approval will be hard please let it go.

Have called her times without number for her approval in ending the relationship, but she never opt in

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by liquidfaya: 1:18pm On May 09, 2020
I'm just stunned a woman can allow herself to date a man for 11 yrs. Like WTF

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:18pm On May 09, 2020
samincredible44:
guy give am belle
But her dad might imprisoned me, or disowned her ....
and am afraid to be identify as an ex convict

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:19pm On May 09, 2020
liquidfaya:
I'm just stunned a woman can allow herself to date a man for 11 yrs. Like WTF

Not direct eleven years like that, we lost contact for like 6 years, but later reconnect this year.

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:20pm On May 09, 2020
madridguy:
Since getting her parent approval will be hard please let it go.

But she refused to end the relationship..... she keep crying everyday

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Sundrus: 1:21pm On May 09, 2020
Teebaba30:


She even say something like this before that I should impregnate her, that with that her dad might consider, But I resist from doing that.
e fit be better plan ooh. Try ur luck.

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by liquidfaya: 1:21pm On May 09, 2020
Teebaba30:


Not direct eleven years like that, we lost contact for like 6 years, but later reconnect this year.
well the story gets even more sad. Ha ha.

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by samincredible44(m): 1:23pm On May 09, 2020
Teebaba30:

But her dad might imprisoned me, or disowned her ....
and am afraid to be identify as an ex convict
two of you should run away

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:26pm On May 09, 2020
samincredible44:


two of you should run away

Yes we have plan this, she even said she is ready to foot the bill, we should leave the country, but wot if her parent starts disturbing my parent

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:27pm On May 09, 2020
Sundrus:
e fit be better plan ooh. Try ur luck.

Am about doing that, but I quickly give it a second thought
Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:28pm On May 09, 2020
[quote author=liquidfaya post=89356291]well the story gets even more sad. Ha ha. [/quote

Can't understand, more sad in what essence ...
Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Harshreality: 1:29pm On May 09, 2020
Teebaba30:


As for me, all things will go down well, but from her side I doubt it she can deal with inter religious marriage.

We both just confused now

I believe you guys are adults
If you really believe that you can made an inter religious marriage work then you should respectfully tell your parents you're getting married.
They will be angry and might disown you but at the end of they day they have no choice but to accept.

Just know that the marriage would be one of compromise.
There can not be selfishness from anybody.
I've seen some workout and some fail
you guys have to be all in.

At the end of the day, there and millions of men and women out there but only few truly complete us.

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Yellowblack: 1:31pm On May 09, 2020
Give her belle nd thank me later grin grin[color=#000000][/color]
Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Yellowblack: 1:31pm On May 09, 2020
Give her belle nd thank me later grin grin

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by liquidfaya: 1:32pm On May 09, 2020
[quote author=Teebaba30 post=89356517][/quote]
Okay it's a happy story.
Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:33pm On May 09, 2020
Harshreality:


I believe you guys are adults
If you really believe that you can made an inter religious marriage work then you should respectfully tell your parents you're getting married.
They will be angry and might disown you but at the end of they day they have no choice but to accept.

Just know that the marriage would be one of compromise.
There can not be selfishness from anybody.
I've seen some workout and some fail
you guys have to be all in.

At the end of the day, there and millions of men and women out there but only few truly complete us.

But she's always afraid to be disowned by her parent, Cos she's the only daughter

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Teebaba30(m): 1:34pm On May 09, 2020
Yellowblack:
Give her belle nd thank me later grin grin

What if her dad get me jailed nko....am afraid to be and ex convict

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by VillagePeople11: 1:36pm On May 09, 2020
A bird might love a fish, but where will they build a home together

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Exmilitant(m): 1:44pm On May 09, 2020
Why not march up to her parent and explain your position like a man? What are you scared of? You have the no go get the yes.... Your demeanor, attitude and intelligence may soften their rigid stance.

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by LuQuLuQu(m): 1:49pm On May 09, 2020
Your grammar gave me migraine and I have taken pain killers. I'd advise you when I feel better..

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Harshreality: 2:22pm On May 09, 2020
Teebaba30:


But she's always afraid to be disowned by her parent, Cos she's the only daughter

Then it can't work.
You can always remain friends.

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by RamessesIV(m): 2:48pm On May 09, 2020
If you truly love her go to court and get married,there is really no need to convert inter-religious marriage is not a new thing,but if you truly need your parents and societies support is better to break up cause nigerians are fundamentalists and aren't open to such marriages
Teebaba30:
There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could remembered, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

u know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost contact, for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

, but just last month, her call came, that she saw my contact on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keep crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by gunners160(m): 2:53pm On May 09, 2020
why can't the both of you stick to your various religion without the other person trying to covert the other?
must their be convertion self? Una just dey make a mountain out of a hill

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by paul100(m): 3:02pm On May 09, 2020
How can you say you were dating a lady for 11 yrs and you guys lost contact for 7yrs.That one na dating.Who does that,7good yrs.

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Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by PureGoldh(m): 3:04pm On May 09, 2020
The matter wey dey on ground so...e heavy for mouth

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