latitidejavu:
See the text, someone who openly claims to be the sister of a lady in crises is sharing on the internet. That long message with all those accusations of seizing phone etc is pure blackmail. This is a text book psychology case of abusive, bitter and entitled family. Your sister. Do you hate her that much to destroy the father of her kids. You think the UK Police is dumb. They have been running psychological profile of both parties. The person being held for 28 days outside the home is obviously a very real threat to others. The young man caused all this. Once a lady shows herself to be bitter or toxic, cut her off without looking back immediately. I repeat cut her off. Kids or no kids. Cut her off. Once a woman sets out to destroy you because they very emotional people she burns down everything. Only weak mean allow such women even a chance. At the first sign, cut her off!

Tending:
Mheeeeedn. Things dey happen ooooh.

My contribution.

What I can see here is a WEAK HUSBAND.

I had this same experience sometimes ago. My wife maltreated me, the mother maltreated me, the father, brothers same thing.

I'm a kind that's extremely stubborn to the core.

I called my wife, if my mother were to be alive, do you think this I'll be child play.

At a point, I paid three old women to follow me to my in-law to beg. I knelt down, begged. What I got in return was a slabbb.

My wife disrespect me, takes decisions without my concept.

I called her. I told her, I'll strike one day. You, your mum and families as a whole will not recover from it. She laughed.

At a point, the father cane and arrested me with the notion I'll never raised my hand on the daughter. I kept asking myself what the problem is. How can a wife belt on frustrating me.

Bros. One day. I packed my wears I left for 2 months they were begging my brother to talk to me. I have actually made up my mind never to return. They told a well known pastor who drove to meet my brother to give them my address. My brother refused.

My friend called me that my wife was dying and has reduced to a single broom and I should forgive her.

Lass lass. I don't know how they got in touch with my G.O.

Somehow I returned home to see my wife emaciated. It was them she started telling she was b pushed to do what she did.

Till date, making 2 years, I haven't call then to greet them (my in-laws). Though, I'm planning to GI visiting

As a man, don't raise your hand on a woman. Work out of the marriage if is causing you more harm than go. Many good girls are still there.

Forget this noise called children children, when children grows up, they I'll look for their father. Don't allow a woman to kill you. I'll rather die than to give up my respect to a woman.

My in-law tremble when they hear my name.

At a point I walk them out of my house, including the mother and father.

OP. If you can, come back to Nigeria and organize yourself.

As for the sisters, I don't have anything to say.

rs172:





Na una dey use una hand dey attract wetin go later kill you, stay off Nigerian girls, if you're overseas una no go hear word..

SweetCunt97:
You've done an objective research on the subject matter to arrive at such figure huh? Anyways u still with AAH?

incogni2o:


I understand what you mean Bro by the OP being weak.

And even appreciate your advice you him.

But as a MAN, one should also be able to study your wife and know her weaknesses, we are made to Lead. When you know are weaknesses , maturity should make you to be able to deal with it like a MAN, not just react like a weak Man.

A Wife thats not lead well and not personally responsible might end up causing one Pain.

Women come to thier senses when the Men that truely love them take a bit of affection away.

It works 100%.

But Pls temper justice with mercy Bro.

Forgive your Wife, She has come to her senses.

EDGEof2MORO:


I suggested he bundles the woman and her children back to Nigeria, but he should let them know it was mummy's fault. They would grow up and the ones that would have sense would still have sense.

SweetCunt97:
You've done an objective research on the subject matter to arrive at such figure huh? Anyways u still with AAH?

Tending:


Bros. From the look of things, that woman is not ready to come back to Nigeria. Read up the write you I'll see were the woman vow not to come to Nigeria even if the mother die.

This is nonsense, absolute nonsense. Op, don't beat her, don't complain any more. Forget career and move down to Nigeria. Organise your self and go back.

You don't have a wife. See, that woman is coming with full force if possible to eliminate you.

Luckymama:


And in case it’s a fake story, well men should note that we never forget the maltreatment. We just bide our time. So always treat your woman right.

EDGEof2MORO:


It's very easy to deport a woman like that. I would have offered more practical solutions but

1. OP does not take advice

2. He has deactivated his profile

3. The woman has her family members viewing this thread and would make the exercise futile

But I can guarantee 100% she would be sent to Nigeria

henryhemon:


Who is this? This person know me small. I left years ago. Identify thyself.

Ebenezer2O2O:
pm

henryhemon:


I have personal experience, I know friends n family too, there are stories littered everywhere. 2 our of 20 Nigerian men still bring their wives or girlfriends oversea.

They are wiser and look for an African girl or someone else to marry. Nigerian women are bottom of the ladder oversea, very few wants them. Make your research yourself. They Caribbeans, Mexicans are hotties.

Nigerian men are in high demand because we dey hustle die and we dey knack craze outta of them. They view Nigerian women as liabilities ....they only have brezz n sex to offer which isn't a big deal over there.

incogni2o:

Its just that none of them is trying to summon up the courage to make things work.

Emotions at play here , and Emotion is far greater than IQ.

Ask the divorced celebrities, professors and billonaires.

TheArchangel:
Don't mind them. Constituting nuisance on the cyberspace.

Seeing how emotionally bankrupt they are, I won't be surprised if they still go back to each other citing works of the devil as the reason for their initial break up.

Tending:


Boss. Thanks. I'm so simple to the core. Friends who knew me them was wondering what has transpired. They know I don't talk, that I carried my actions before talking.

Bros. I was not born wicked, the altitude of my wife made me to be wicked to her.

Truth is this, we have resolved everything. We live as husband and wife now. For close to 2 years, we never had serious misunderstanding apart from normal rancour which occur between husband and wife.

See. NEVER bring third party to your family. It kills 100℅.

As a man, maintain your respect. If you like keep collecting my money, but my respect should be intact.

SweetCunt97:
send na

sisisioge:


They dont belong together... Look where their previous patch got them. They should just part amicably while they allow each other to lead chosen lives, regardless of where. It must be so dreadful being either of the parties right now. I can't even imagine their state of mind and pressure. It is really well.

TheArchangel:
Soursop marriage .
They are better off bickering and patching up especially with their incessant blackmails and emotional wrecks they have become. What happened when they divorce with such bitterness, they may end up killing themselves.

sisisioge:


Hmmmm....they've gone off the rails too far. These two would probably harm each other given the chance to live together again. A will not trust that B isn't scheming...their friends and families are already insulting the spouses and one another. How do you think that extended relationship will be post reconciliation? Let them go their separate ways bikonu....they have left enough bad taste around and definitely should NOT attempt another recycling!

Gilbertase:
corrected. I'm sure this is what you meant to write.

sisisioge:


They dont belong together... Look where their previous patch got them. They should just part amicably while they allow each other to lead chosen lives, regardless of where. It must be so dreadful being either of the parties right now. I can't even imagine their state of mind and pressure. It is really well.

sisisioge:


They dont belong together... Look where their previous patch got them. They should just part amicably while they allow each other to lead chosen lives, regardless of where. It must be so dreadful being either of the parties right now. I can't even imagine their state of mind and pressure. It is really well.

jumpymonkey:
I'm sure these two would have preferred if someone had long advised them to get a divorce.

Ebenezer2O2O:
can't access the one here on my account.
Kindly drop your email address and quote me in a dead thread.
Thanks

SweetCunt97:
How about u drop ur mail and I'll msg you?

henryhemon:


I have personal experience, I know friends n family too, there are stories littered everywhere. 2 our of 20 Nigerian men still bring their wives or girlfriends oversea.

They are wiser and look for an African girl or someone else to marry. Nigerian women are bottom of the ladder oversea, very few wants them. Make your research yourself. They Caribbeans, Mexicans are hotties.

Nigerian men are in high demand because we dey hustle die and we dey knack craze outta of them. They view Nigerian women as liabilities ....they only have brezz n sex to offer which isn't a big deal over there.

jumpymonkey:

SweetCunt97:
OH well, who said one can't find something beautiful in d midst of toxicity? Una don crucify Nigerian women finish naw. But the truth is, men will still continue to bring their women over to hand. You know the person you with and what they are capable of.

jumpymonkey:
At least from your name, Ebenezer already knows what he is in for. It's a win win for everyone