xynerise:

I am the kind of person that love reading. What she wrote about herself in the past is not a big deal to read. Unless she recorded her numerous abortion she did in the past and didnt tell me initially.  

LMAO. I highly doubt a woman would write about that I just think if a woman is not ashamed of her past or is truly over with the ex's. Of course I wont let him read EVERYTHING LOL, but some sure, if he gets mad @ anything he is an emotional prick

jay bee:

Snooping ain't good but couples should normally be free to access each other's private shitzo

Mygoldie:

Nope they don't.

xynerise:

I am the kind of person that love reading. What she wrote about herself in the past is not a big deal to read. Unless she recorded her numerous abortion she did in the past and didnt tell me initially.  

Mrs.Chima:

My husband is not to ask me what in my journals and I will not ask him what is in his journals. My husband always asking me questions like what are you and this dude talking about?  Why is my phone on silent?  Why do I have too many male friends?  Why must I interact with everyone that approaches me even men?

The list go on and on.  Check this out Mz Dark, we were at the airport picking somebody up that were visiting us.  There were a few guys standing on the side looking confused.  So, I am a friendly person so I asked them how were they doing and were they looking for something.  The guys were like yes and we chatted for about twenty minutes.  

I guess the guy wanted to "hollered" because he asked me were I single and I said no I am here with my husband.  The guy was like oh, how are you Mr. Chima?  Mr. Chima showed his arse!  He was looking as if he wanted to kick the guy's arse.  He shook his hands abruptly and motioned me to come to him.  I rolled my eyes and walked my arse on over there.  (Mr. Chima looked scary and I was nervous) He was "lecturing" me about talking to strangers and that some people are not to be trusted.  I am his wife and it is his duty to protect me.  You know the whole MACHO monologue.  I am like in disbelief that Mr. Chima tripped off me talking to some strange men.  I don't understand men sometimes.  

So basically Mr. Chima think he have every right to go in my poo and READ anything of mine under the claim what is mine is his.  BULLSHIT!  

koolchicco:

Perhaps you have a point here.

Lol.
Taking into accounts, your pernicious treatments towards your Husband(?) and as exhibited in most of your posts herein thus far, its safe to think that you either married your husband(like u paid his groom price?) or He's just a not-so-smart-person and a DOLL BABY! Congrats Sis!

cold:

^^^My intuition tells me that koolchicco is a lady.My hunch is never too far from the truth.So i blv as sister to another sister,she just told you some hometruths.No offense 

cold:

^^^My intuition tells me that koolchicco is a lady.My hunch is never too far from the truth.So i blv as sister to another sister,she just told you some hometruths.No offense

cold:

^^^My intuition tells me that koolchicco is a lady.My hunch is never too far from the truth.So i blv as sister to another sister,she just told you some hometruths.No offense

Mrs.Chima:

By the way, he have proven what I been saying all along about your species.

Lord_Reed:

Am I d only one who feels dat all d calls for privacy is only a cover for sinister activities?

C'mon this is some who sees u stark N A K E D on a daily basis yet u want to keep some funny journal dat u'll deny him access to?! To me it's unreasonable. Even if u are keeping state secrets he should at know dats wats there.

For people who want to build trust in their relationships declaring sometins off limits to disclosure is counter intuitive it's like saying lets open d door but lets keep it closed, its just whack!

I agree with both you AND livedit, I would be more than willing to let my man know who he is with via journals/diary and by telling him HOWEVER as I stated before I would not let him see/know everything as I do believe ppl are entitled to keep some secrets but not be too secretive to someone they claim to love.  

Murphy G:

The question is : Why would u write smthn u wldnt want him to see in a diary Or why keep the diary when u dont want him to see em?  Common tell me: What are your brains for if they cant keep your secrets? .

Murphy G:

The question is : Why would u write smthn u wldnt want him to see in a diary Or why keep the diary when u dont want him to see em?  Common tell me: What are your brains for if they cant keep your secrets? .

MzD@rkSkin:

Does a man have the right to read his woman's diary or journals about her[b] past loves/s3xual experiences? [/b]

pls. no derailing, lol.

MzD@rkSkin:

Cold you can agree with Murphy all you want but this doesn't make a lick of sense. If a girl is with a guy and writes about her experiences with him and then he becomes her ex and she moves on, how is she to know about her new man before he comes into her life?

I am not talking about women who are with their partners and write about him while they are together. [b]I am talking about women who when they were younger wrote their thoughts that they wouldnt share with someone else [/b]and decided to keep those journals. These women eventually meet someone worth while and I am asking if that man they love has a right to read about their past. I hope you understand that.