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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by martineverest(m): 9:51am On May 23
pornography,social media,music videos and movies, hedonism,love of money, nudity and morale decadence

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Humblega(m): 9:51am On May 23
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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Enculer: 9:52am On May 23
It is advisable to have sex with your future wife/husband.

If you do not do this then you are dumb

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Zombiekiller010: 9:52am On May 23
Its because of the love of gift by ladies
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Matrimonous: 9:52am On May 23
Basically because of boyfriend/girlfriendship.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by InyinyaAgbaOku(m): 9:53am On May 23
Bacteriologist:
Whatever happened in the past should stay there. So does sex automatically and suddenly become something sacred because of marriage (which is merely a certificate with two names and signature and few people invited to a feast)?,

The idea of premarital sex was to reduce the rate of unwanted pregnancies and to guilt trip people into getting married before having sex. Unwanted pregnancies can be abolished by using contraceptives and adequate sexual education. And marriage in all sincerity has outlived it's usefulness.

So "premarital sex" doesn't have command much fear as it used to. And this may not change soon. Sorry.

STDs nko? Aside condoms, other contraceptives don't prevent them

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by xendra: 9:53am On May 23
Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.wink

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?cheesy

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?
parent of those days caused it, they wanted to preach decency to children but they couldn't be decent themselves to set example

And they were educating a girl child about sex they refused to scold the Male child. ignoring the fact that it takes 2 to tango and the Male child should have got more education because he has the upper hand.

Parents failed. Now?
If the foundation be destroyed what can anyone do?

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by virginboy1(m): 9:54am On May 23
It was a norm even in the days of Samson, Abraham, Moses, Jacob.


Holy holy People Bleep like Chicken. So? undecided

Na Apostle Paul Aka Saul that came to change the narrative. lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by illicit(m): 9:54am On May 23
Well....

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by dxdiag(m): 9:54am On May 23
Lots of impunity and mediocrity been celebrated by the new generations of today, its such a shame its the new normal among the youths of this days. If you don't indulge in this, they see you as too numb, abnormal, alien and consider you unexposed without realizing the transaction that will be involved spiritually, physically, mentally and health wise. Something that you will get tired of by the time you settle down in marriage.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by cococandy(f): 9:54am On May 23
Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.wink

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?cheesy

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?

Because it’s beyond unreasonable to think that you can encourage sex amongst boys and somehow have the girls be all virgins. Are the boys sleeping with themselves?

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Lostz(m): 9:55am On May 23
the world is running towards it end

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by winj: 9:56am On May 23
The crazy thing is that in Nigeria the following is normal but sexy clothes, and premarital sex are frowned upon.
-Nigerians by and large worship and celebrate corrupt politicians and criminals
-Nigerians support pastors who sleep with their wives and steal their money with 419 religions.
-Nigerians will accept bribes and gratification for services they are already paid to provide.
-Nigerians practice primitive traditions like having many wives, concubines and children born into instant poverty.

But when they see female on Instagram with semi nude outfits they start preaching religion and immorality!

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by hopefulLandlord: 9:56am On May 23
iCauseTrouble:
This life is too short. There is no gain in dying a virgin.
You need to be fvcked atleast once!!!

Life forks us all anyways

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by pickatyou: 9:56am On May 23
Get use to it baba, it's more of an exercise
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by CaveAdullam: 9:56am On May 23
It is because we didn't separate "core traditional values" from technology.

Parents should not expect their children to be well behaved like them if they refuse to use this traditional rod to correct and train their offsprings.

Thanks.

God bless.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by EmmyDJourno: 9:57am On May 23
It is confusing

But, it has to be the decision of both parties involved

If the decision to abstain isn't, problem don start

But, if u r heading to marriage and u start fucking speed up to marriage, please

Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by afstrongest(m): 9:57am On May 23
Well back In those days, dem no Dey f.uck puna anyhow, dem even Dey check girls for community dah time whether dia kpekus never go south, but now we have to do it ourselves to check if we’re not marrying a basket and a LovePeddler... u know I have to test my product before buying to know if it’s Fake or the Original

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Benwallt(m): 9:58am On May 23
The girls are to be blamed. They are too gullible. If they can shut guys out from attending the party in their pants, premarital sex will be a thing of the past. Most of them even surrender it for, ice cream, super pack indomie, recharge cards.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by NaijaRoyalty(m): 9:58am On May 23
Welcome to the new world

Welcome to the 21st century .

Bros leave story, we like the new world like that.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by praiseneo(m): 9:59am On May 23
It's like u mumu gan
Meanwhile me I never marry o
And I wan Bleep oo
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Nickymichy(m): 9:59am On May 23
I remembered when I was in secondary school...one of my classmates a girl came looking for me..I entertained her...we discussed on so many things...I noticed that after a while she lost interest in our discussion...then she said she was leaving...I escorted her to a nearby junction and she left...I was shocked the next day in school...she went about telling her friends that she came to my house to that I couldn't do anything..I didn't even touch her... that am not a man...it baffled me even up till now.....my opinion is that... parents have failed...society have failed... evil spirits everywhere...alot of girls are possessed...it takes the grace of God to scale through...

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by omonnakoda: 9:59am On May 23
Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.wink

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?cheesy

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?

Back in those days?

Were you there?
Do you have video evidence?

Leave story
Nothing has changed

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by MajorOvakporaye(f): 9:59am On May 23
think of ways of uplifting your life and people around you.
sex is not the problem of the society

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by adeshola1(m): 10:00am On May 23
Love of the World
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Almunjid(m): 10:01am On May 23
Bacteriologist:
Whatever happened in the past should stay there. So does sex automatically and suddenly become something sacred because of marriage (which is merely a certificate with two names and signature and few people invited to a feast)?,

The idea of premarital sex was to reduce the rate of unwanted pregnancies and to guilt trip people into getting married before having sex. Unwanted pregnancies can be abolished by using contraceptives and adequate sexual education. And marriage in all sincerity has outlived it's usefulness.

So "premarital sex" doesn't have command much fear as it used to. And this may not change soon. Sorry.


A product of one-night stand will never see any usefulness in Marriage.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Salex007(m): 10:01am On May 23
access to Internet � at our doorstep also contributed to it
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by MajorOvakporaye(f): 10:01am On May 23
Nickymichy:
I remembered when I was in secondary school...one of my classmates a girl came looking for me..I entertained her...we discussed on so many things...I noticed that after a while she lost interest in our discussion...then she said she was leaving...I escorted her to a nearby junction and she left...I was shocked the next day in school...she went about telling her friends that she came to my house to that I couldn't do anything..I didn't even touch her... that am not a man...it baffled me even up till now.....my opinion is that... parents have failed...society have failed... evil spirits everywhere...alot of girls are possessed...it takes the grace of God to scale through...

na weak man u be
legbere like u!
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Vivian16: 10:01am On May 23
the world can change and everything in it but the word of God remains eternal, we can not modernise God. Pre-marital sex remains what it is SIN against God and yourself.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by ppogba: 10:03am On May 23
Every Generation always claim to be better than the previous ones.

OP, please tell me your age and I will tell you how teenagers bleeped like hell atleast within that age range.

The point is, social media, technology etc are just over-hyping this nonsense.

Make I know "lie" you, teenagers bleeped shege for 80s and 90s

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