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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:21am On May 23
Righteousness89:


Dt does not make it Right!
That's why there is room for Forgiveness..




thank you.



stay blessed, bro.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by flexyrule(m): 10:22am On May 23
Kobojunkie:

15-year old boys in what country?
Philip Streich - USA
Eric Delgado - USA
Daniel Burd - Canada
Anastasia Roda - USA
Isha Jain - USA
Jack Andraka
Hannah Herbst

The list is endless...

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Longman8: 10:22am On May 23
they say charity begins at home,I think parent has failed in incurcating that moral and spiritual teachings to their children or wards, parent now get carried away with the daily hustling to provide for the family needs thereby neglecting some of the important measures in bringing their child up. Religious leader too has also fail in their own part,as most of the preaching in todays churches now seems to be centred on bringing money and more money to get huge blessing. VIRGINS are no more in the society this days.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Farki: 10:22am On May 23
winj:
The crazy thing is that in Nigeria the following is normal but sexy clothes, and premarital sex are frowned upon.
-Nigerians by and large worship and celebrate corrupt politicians and criminals
-Nigerians support pastors who sleep with their wives and steal their money with 419 religions.
-Nigerians will accept bribes and gratification for services they are already paid to provide.
-Nigerians practice primitive traditions like having many wives, concubines and children born into instant poverty.

But when they see female on Instagram with semi nude outfits they start preaching religion and immorality!
Let's go deeper.

Some people will marry underage girls under the excuse of religious freedom.

Some people will abuse their wives, househelp and other people who work under them because of 'spare the rod'.

Even kidnappers hold morning's devotion.

Nigerians don't know that they are useful sheep to the preachers.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by juniorstar(m): 10:23am On May 23
information age,
poverty in the land,
unemployment,
birth control,
dysfunctional homes!!!
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Kay25(m): 10:24am On May 23
There is lesser respect and sanctity in our doings and dealing this days .it's not just in pre- marital seX virtually most tings we do.No more fear or regards again everyone running after his or her interests and selfish gain.That's why the society is upside down.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by frozen70(f): 10:26am On May 23
Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.wink

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?cheesy

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?

It's just an unfortunate situation
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by efesmith(m): 10:29am On May 23
You can't stop the hands of time, even when you stop your own clock hand it doesn't mean time has stopped, it's just end time unfolding before our eyes. And there is nothing anyone can do about it be it church, mosque, government, society, even the angels. The best you can do is adhere to your maker's principle and path and pray for grace.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by 9jaDoomCountry: 10:30am On May 23
infogenius:
Let me answer the op here.

1.The truth is that Iniquity abounds.

2. The fear of God is far from men.
3. Technology and the media have escalated it.
4. Poverty and poor parenting
5. Internet (free porn sites to view)
Just to mention a few



God bless you.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by izubext007: 10:30am On May 23
religious leaders made it so easy....by saying when u commit a sin just ask God for forgiveness and u will be forgiven.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by blackknyte(m): 10:33am On May 23
The proliferation of the contraception culture and abortion on demand are directly responsible for this.

These are the direct consequences of the so-called sexual revolution which although failed and still failing, Nigerians are still accepting without shame in some distortion of feminism.

Women hold the key to chastity and sexual uprightness in any culture.

Women run the world.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by judedwriter(m): 10:35am On May 23
Ignorance.

A lot of people are ignorant of the consequences (both physical and spiritual) of premarital sex. They just think it's fun, fun and more fun.

Internet pornography has a very big blame.

It's now so easy to access porn unlike in the 60s and 70s.

By the time they clock 13, most children have already been exposed to internet porn...it's that bad.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Misterdhee1(m): 10:37am On May 23
omonnakoda:


Back in those days?

Were you there?
Do you have video evidence?

Leave story
Nothing has changed
Leave them now. My mum said prostitution, waywardness and pre-marital sex have been the norms even before she was born. The liberalization of our society only made it more open.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by monfizzy(m): 10:39am On May 23
Rubbish. You no dey like f*ck? Sex isn’t tied to a ring or some certificate. If your imaginary sky God wanted people not to indulge in premarital sex he should have made it possible for one to stop feeling h*orny until they get married. Sex is a natural need and should be enjoyed at anytime. Damn it
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Ochuksbaba(m): 10:40am On May 23
lailo:
watch ur comments on this topic bcs Jesus is on this platform and whatever u say will stand against u on the judgement day.#nosayinowarnu

so Ur Jesus is a nairalander,,,,,,even foolishness itself will be shocked at ur comment

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Achizzy7: 10:41am On May 23
Am i d only 1 who thinks sex is over rated ??

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by rosy1992(f): 10:42am On May 23
Civilization led to this situation. Technology Exposes youngsters to nudity, peer pressure is another factor, guys and ladies wants to feel among. The fact remains pre marital sex has done more harm than good.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by EvangelistChuks(m): 10:43am On May 23
SIN(Flesh, World & Devil).It's a nature everyone (except born again souls) has that predisposes or compels them to indulge it. Every unbeliever is a slave to it not only sexual indulgences,but there are predelictions,i.e some engage more in sexual sin because of 1-they have the time,2-opportunity,3-finances,4-peer pressure,5-exposure to pornography,6-lack of parental strictness or watchfulness,7-seeking for love or validation etc. But all these are no excuses for THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH and the blood of Jesus Christ is more than enough to deliver anyone,I repeat anyone that comes to Him for delivery,be it from fornication, adultery, masturbation, pornography etc.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Denique(f): 10:43am On May 23
Racoon:
The world is changing but God's standard never change.

True that!
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by amrichy: 10:44am On May 23
Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.wink

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?cheesy

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?
Once you take God and religion out of the equation, you will realize that there's nothing really bad or evil about premarital sex as long as it is done sensibly and "unaddictedly". It's just like every other thing that we enjoy doing.
Fortunately, these days many people no longer allow God or religion to govern their lives.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Degrezhaa: 10:45am On May 23
Sex sex sex...
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by eagleu: 10:46am On May 23
Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.wink

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?cheesy

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?

Another sex starved deviant opening a useless thread to cover his sexual deprivation. Of all the problems in Nigeria today sex is of most importance to you?
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by amrichy: 10:49am On May 23
Racoon:
The world is changing but God's standard never change.
Most people no longer care about any fvcking "God's standard".

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by jakD: 10:50am On May 23
Fabulouzjoseph:
The world has changed. undecided

So don't expect things to remain thesame. Kids are now smarter and they is easy access to information.

They is also contraceptive and birth control which is easily available so you can have sex without getting pregnant.

Go and study these two words thoroughly.

THEY and THERE

You really need to.

THERE should have been used in your sentence instead of THEY in both paragraphs.

THEY is a pronoun used instead of noun.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Eulalia(f): 10:52am On May 23
The reason is because most 21st century parents indulged in premarital sex, so they don't see anything wrong in it hence dont teach their children it is wrong to engage in it?

Secondly, parents these days are too busy with their jobs, chasing money, and track-marking their spouses for cheating, that they hardly have time to notice if these children are derailing or check/ monitor their social life if its dwindling or not. They dont even have the time to teach them core moral values. So even when the Church tries to teach them these things, it'll sound strange to them cos they were never taught from home that it is wrong hence they find it difficult to adhere except by the grace of God.

I remember from age 5, my mum would will tell us if we go near a man, he'll tear our private parts to pieces and that used to scare the hell out of us. Those warnings really guided me in a way to maintain and lead a decent life even after they left to be with the lord. I also made up my mind to pass such values to my children when the time comes.

My dad on his part would not say it verbatim to you but if he sees you standing with a guy especially in a secluded area, hmm... He'll beat both you and the guy on the spot ( was a force man). But how many parents have the time today? Parents seem to be weak in handling their children and they let them start having their way at a very age until they get out of hand and beyond their control.

There's still hope. if our parents can wake up to their responsibilities and begin to inculcate these values in their children early enough, it will go a long way in curbing this moral decadence.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by SyberKate(f): 10:53am On May 23
Because I don't want to be stuck with a one minute man
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Segeshow: 10:53am On May 23
This is simply because sex is a physiologic need and the urge to procreate is only natural. Sexual compatibility is a key part of courtship so you dont end up with someone who only wants missionary fucking and keeps you watching porn and jacking off even after marriage. Men cheat because they want something different, the fantasy of sleeping with someone else who allows them to express themselves more openly. Imagine finally getting to hit and finding out she just wants sex once a month. You may as well remain a bachelor and keep watching porn.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by bonnyhope: 11:00am On May 23
infogenius:
Let me answer the op here.

1.The truth is that Iniquity abounds.

2. The fear of God is far from men.
3. Technology and the media have escalated it.
4. Poverty and poor parenting
5. Internet (free porn sites to view)
Just to mention a few

All the points are correct

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Mywd: 11:05am On May 23
Kobojunkie:

Wiser? According to a report I read not too long ago, wisdom is something we have not gotten more of in the last 150 years. People aren't wiser..


Help me tell him ooo........ People are becoming more foolish.... What is wise in premarital sex abi they did not even teach them in secondary school?

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