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“If My Husband Sexually Abuses My Child,He’ll Be Reported But Not Divorced" Lady / Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him / One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Nobody: 8:25pm On May 21, 2020 |
bukatyne: God bless you there. You are really blessed and wise. You said it as it is. I dey owe you 5 bottles. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Agp19(m): 8:29pm On May 21, 2020 |
GOFRONT:how I which seun can allow me likes this comment five times. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by srclark: 8:31pm On May 21, 2020 |
Exc2000:most women are the cause of all this domestic violence,you see them looking for early marriage instead of acquiring a skill or developing themselves ,they just want to depend totally on the man .Love is not enough to make a marriage work .No matter how well to do your husband is try to have a job or business ,endeavor to also bring something to the table at the end of the month.My own two cents 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by perdollar(m): 8:31pm On May 21, 2020 |
A305:and words put u into porn. lobatan erotica |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Exc2000: 8:33pm On May 21, 2020 |
srclark: atleast be able to earn what can feed you, cloth you and provide one room self contain for you... funny thing is abusive men are generous, and they spend the money on them in a way that they are dependent... they never invest for them, they barely buy them luxury to make them addicted to flashy lifestyle they cant afford 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Fejimummy: 8:35pm On May 21, 2020 |
bukatyne:how is that supposed to be her problem .. if the guy needs help the lady is not a psychologist ... Bros na person wey dey alive dey shalaye 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Dollabiz: 8:37pm On May 21, 2020 |
hmmmm |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by srclark: 8:43pm On May 21, 2020 |
Exc2000:alot of naija women see marriage as a way to escape poverty ,i can remember some years back i had a landlord that was extremely rich (he owned more than 10 filling stations) but his wife was working with the state government ,she was earning less than 50k .I was always wondering why she was bothering herself when her husband was so rich .Now that i am married i understand better (if the 50k can only take care of feeding in the house and make her look neat and nice ) it is worth it .Ladies out there learn to develop yourself and stop chasing early marriage when you have nothing to offer than just your body 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Eketem: 8:54pm On May 21, 2020 |
Kaien: Please ignore her, she will jump on people's post attempt to bully them and when they fight back she starts crying bullying and speaking fake tongues 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by gracevile: 8:56pm On May 21, 2020 |
Kaien:is beating her right no if she don do am take her back to were he picked her from. No man born of a woman can try this on me if he does OYO is his case |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Lsofdk(m): 8:57pm On May 21, 2020 |
bukatyne: Btw, I love the songs you dropped, mind dropping some more |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by cooltola(m): 9:06pm On May 21, 2020 |
abbey621: no be so bro, sometimes it could be the man is a drunkard who spend his money on booze and other women. the woman may be the one who is the breadwinner in some cases. Some women will endure such marriage until the man dies or they finally snap. When a woman snap, it is scary |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by frozen70(f): 9:11pm On May 21, 2020 |
Kaien: Situations line this happens when a woman is helpless in all areas of her life But, she will definitely deal with that man towards the later end of that marriage, unless she doesn't have kids for him |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by A305: 9:15pm On May 21, 2020 |
perdollar:if you truly get a penny for every meaningful thought you conceive then I guess you need to pay back a penny for this remark of yours because it makes no sense. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by nemynely(m): 9:20pm On May 21, 2020 |
There's a question I usually ask men who beat their wives. Can they ever raise their finger on their female Boss at work? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by abbey621(m): 9:21pm On May 21, 2020 |
cooltola: Then my statement still holds true, she's not using her get out of jail card, unles the D is really explosive or her self esteem has hit rock bottom, no woman likes to be a punching bag and still be the breadwinner, na marry she marry she no kill person abeg! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by perdollar(m): 9:30pm On May 21, 2020 |
A305:unfortunately u lack d sense to understand. erotica filled skull |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Mizwisdom(f): 9:41pm On May 21, 2020 |
I remember I had a neighbor one time, this man behaves like a gentleman in day time but at night, the way he beats the wife almost every day. They were a deeper life couple, they can go to Church fellowship! but return to fight. I think people are concerned with what outsiders will say about them so they will rather remain in abusive marriages to impress people 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by benjanny(m): 9:49pm On May 21, 2020 |
Not just Nigerian ladies. Africa at large. And the reason is because we see every divorcy woman as someone who is irresponsible |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by benjanny(m): 9:50pm On May 21, 2020 |
Karma |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by SweetyMarvel00(m): 10:04pm On May 21, 2020 |
It has become cultural. Women are raised to build the home and never leave their marriage. So while building the home, even if the man is abusing, they will endure it. Another thing is our judgmental attitude. If a woman leaves her home, she's a witch or a wicked woman for most of us. I pity our women. They go through a lot. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by J2381: 10:45pm On May 21, 2020 |
BadBradley:bro I'm getting fed up that's why I hardly comment these days. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Coolcalmcollect(m): 10:46pm On May 21, 2020 |
Dyt:lol na online you dey get mouth, I go call your ex make him come humble u with slap |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by doitforyou(f): 11:13pm On May 21, 2020 |
ibkayee:The bolded is very common but people rarely talk about it. The most dangerous time for an abused victim is when they leave. When the abuser knows he’s about to lose control, the violence escalates. Sometimes it’s the threat to take the children away from her if she leaves. Victims should also not be dismissed as being weak, poor, stupid or suffering from low self-esteem. The abuser doesn’t start out as being abusive, abuse is a process, he love bombs, isolates and primes his victim for the eventual abuse. Kaien, abuse victims don’t leave until when they’re ready to, it takes time to undo all the emotional and psychological damage, the only thing you can do is let her know you will be there for her when she’s ready. If/when you move, you can leave your number with her, letting her know she will have support when she’s ready. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 11:37pm On May 21, 2020 |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 11:51pm On May 21, 2020 |
doitforyou:Exactly, it's seldom straightforward and as easy as 'just leaving' 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by MMotimo: 12:03am On May 22, 2020 |
bukatyne: Looking good, I saw what you did a few pages back You dodged "the garbage truck." Dyt I salute your courage. That emotional /mental strength to leave is in short supply for women all over the world, rich or poor, who are victims of abuse |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by AlhajaChinyere: 12:25am On May 22, 2020 |
Goldie16: This is the main reason! Fucking useless broke women - they infect you with their wretchedness! Abuse them but the mofos will refuse to leave. Nobody wants to marry a Nigerian woman abroad now. Annoying, dependent piece of misery! |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by AlhajaChinyere: 12:31am On May 22, 2020 |
MMotimo: The abuse gets worse. When a relationship is over believe me it's over! |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by juniorstar(m): 1:18am On May 22, 2020 |
I have never raised my hand on my wife...and i was shocked the day i saw a chat with her very close friend saying you mean your man has never raised his hands on you my sister be careful ooh you know his weakness push him, test him, provoke him". i av always told her i can never tolerate a woman raising her hand talkless of slapping me. thats really crossing the line i dont mind the long talk but crossing dat line she might never recover from the outcome. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Dyt(f): 2:17am On May 22, 2020 |
MMotimo: My broda I danced when I left I did thanks giving and people were wondering what happened Na only me sabi I have a couple of friends that can't leave and it breaks my heart mehn |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by Tabbaz(m): 3:04am On May 22, 2020 |
bukatyne:I like your analysis. |
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