Good evening guys. My friend's dad is about to bring in a new wife. He has been worried for long as he is scared that his dad won't be responsible anymore. He also talked of how his dad has been neglecting his responsibilities recently. Any advice or trick on how to prevent this would be welcomed.

I need y'all advices pls. I promised to get back to him with a solution tomorrow. I've been thinking about it for long before saying it here

The only trick is to “MIND YOUR BUSINESS”.

How old is your friend
Please leave your father alone
I hate when children don't like seeing their parents happy..so selfish
He should take up the responsibility and move out if he can't stand them

Nigerians can be heartless.



Op, what can be the reason for this change in your dad I mean your friends dad? Isn't there somebody your dad holds in high esteem who can wade into this matter and right things? What could your mum have done to warrant this? Isn't there a family member of repute who can stall this actions? I wish you luck. Does your dad have a man of God who can speak to him?


I wish you good luck, You need that

jawalis:
The only trick is to “MIND YOUR BUSINESS”.

should I teach you how to walk outta the thread ni?

Op face your book !

HRHQueenPhil:
How old is your friend
Please leave your father alone
I hate when children don't like seeing their parents happy..so selfish
He should take up the responsibility and move out if he can't stand them

there is no happiness about this. The woman is properly ugly. I'm really sorry for the guy.

HRHQueenPhil:
How old is your friend
Please leave your father alone
I hate when children don't like seeing their parents happy..so selfish
He should take up the responsibility and move out if he can't stand them

Do you know impact of second marriage on kids, do you actually know what they go through. Don't speak on what you have no idea of in anyway. Most of them turn out depressed, frustrated and the rest.


There's this saying which Read's "don't get married if your proposed plan is to destroy the marriage later in the future" . No child deserves a broken home.


Read your comment again and ask yourself if you're making any sense. Go get a life for yourself and stop commenting on stuffs you have no idea of.

Thank you and have a blessed day.

Baloranking:


Do you know impact of second marriage on kids, do you actually know what they go through. Don't speak on what you have no idea of in anyway. Most of them turn out depressed, frustrated and the rest.


There's this saying which Read's "don't get married if your proposed plan is to destroy the marriage later in the future" . A child do not deserve a broken home.


Read your comment again and ask yourself if you're making any sense. Go get a life for yourself and stop commenting on stuffs you have no idea of.

Thank you and have a blessed day.

So daddy should be visiting ashawo than be responsible?
Life is not easy and there would be challenges whether it's from his second wife or even his selfish children but it doesn't mean nobody should take steps..he just wants to be happy and do the right thing..let him be

smallpriq:
there is no happiness about this. The woman is properly ugly. I'm really sorry for the guy.

Isn't this supposed to be the least of your 'friend's' worries abi is there something you ain't telling us

DanseMacabre:



Isn't this supposed to be the least of your 'friend's' worries abi is there something you ain't telling us

aiit walk out of here since u have nothing to contribute

HRHQueenPhil:


So daddy should be visiting ashawo than be responsible?
Life is not easy and there would be challenges whether it's from his second wife or even his selfish children but it doesn't mean nobody should take steps..he just wants to be happy and do the right thing..let him be

Funny you call that situation "being happy", sometimes I wonder how people think. There are challenges everywhere not only at home,big deal here is how you deal with. Taking the right steps by breaking another step is that how things work.

Sooner or later it will come right back at him.From the guys story the supposed husband has been neglecting his responsibilities,of all solutions to think of is getting a second wife.

Ask yourself will that change anything, but what happens to the kid involved.

smallpriq:
should I teach you how to walk outta the thread ni?

I already walked out when I dropped my comment but you had to invite me by quoting me again and now I’ll walk away again. But pls don’t forget to always mind your business. He’s just a friend’s father. Nothing more.. nothing less.

smallpriq:
aiit walk out of here since u have nothing to contribute

Come and carry me out na. Mtchew.

HRHQueenPhil:


So daddy should be visiting ashawo than be responsible?
Life is not easy and there would be challenges whether it's from his second wife or even his selfish children but it doesn't mean nobody should take steps..he just wants to be happy and do the right thing..let him be

plz dont be offended

is ur mother a 2nd wife? or are u a 2nd wife.?

DanseMacabre:


Come and carry me out na. Mtchew.

i won't stress myself

smallpriq:
i won't stress myself

Oya I don comot oooo no vex.

KELVINXY:


plz dont be offended

is ur mother a 2nd wife? or are u a 2nd wife.?

nah. Am neither..just hate people that try to separate two lovers

HRHQueenPhil:
nah. Am neither..just hate people that try to separate two lovers

I hail you

There is little he can do, he should just pray for his dad and focus on building a future for himself.

HRHQueenPhil:
How old is your friend
Please leave your father alone
I hate when children don't like seeing their parents happy..so selfish
He should take up the responsibility and move out if he can't stand them

Keep quiet woman , you don't fully know the entire story, not everything that seem to be good to you will eventually end up not being what you expect.

HRHQueenPhil:
nah. Am neither..just hate people that try to separate two lovers

alright

i think i get ur view now