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I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Theconglomerate(m): 8:34pm On May 24, 2020
So I met this girl a while back while I visited my alma mater for some reasons.
So I saw her walking and it was windy and trying to rain.
I pulled over and offered a lift to wherever she was going.
She politely declined and continued walking.
So I parked and joined her trekking.
We talked,laughed a little while I walked her to her destination.
So when I got there,it started raining she laughed and asked me how I was gonna get back and I told her not to worry that I will find my way.
So I asked for her number and she said she wasnt gonna give me on that day but I should come by another time by her class and she will give me the next time we see.she just gave me her name and class.
I said okay and left undecided
Then I went there after some days but looked for her and couldn't find her,asked around,then I met 2 girls that know her and I made them call her on the pretext that I was her cousin that just got to town and want to say hi but I lost my phone so I couldn't call her.
So they did call her and passed the phone to me,we talked and laughed and had a good time on phone and I asked if it was okay for me to get her number from her friends and she said okay so I took it.
Only for me to get home and call her and she started ranting on phone that how low could i go to the point of having to lie that I am a relative of hers to her friends.
I told her they wouldn't have called her If I told them who I was but she was having non of it.
So she says we can't be whatever no more and blocked me on all platforms and hangs up whenever she finds out I am the one calling undecided
So I am wondering,could that simple lie be the reason for her sudden strange behaviour or perhaps those friends of hers told her something else or what?
Because I don't want to believe her strange behaviour is simply because of this reason

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Orestino(m): 8:39pm On May 24, 2020
Let me pitch my tent here and wait for people that would come and give advices and observations #SipsKunu
Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by wildcatter23(m): 8:40pm On May 24, 2020
bring that kunu........I am thirsty
Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Orestino(m): 8:41pm On May 24, 2020
wildcatter23:
bring that kunu........I am thirsty

When they bring back Chibok girls, I'll bring it. for now, let me sip my kunu in peace

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Richadv(m): 8:44pm On May 24, 2020
Pass me d kunu b4 d rest finish m

Op you're a boss 4get about her,she's not worth it

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by decatalyst(m): 8:48pm On May 24, 2020
Theconglomerate:
So I met this girl a while back while I visited my alma mater for some reasons.
So I saw her walking and it was windy and trying to rain.
I pulled over and offered a lift to wherever she was going.
She politely declined and continued walking.
So I parked and joined her trekking.
We talked,laughed a little while I walked her to her destination.
So when I got there,it started raining she laughed and asked me how I was gonna get back and I told her not to worry that I will find my way.
So I asked for her number and she said she wasnt gonna give me on that day but I should come by another time by her class and she will give me the next time we see.she just gave me her name and class.
I said okay and left undecided
Then I went there after some days but looked for her and couldn't find her,asked around,then I met 2 girls that know her and I made them call her on the pretext that I was her cousin that just got to town and want to say hi but I lost my phone so I couldn't call her.
So they did call her and passed the phone to me,we talked and laughed and had a good time on phone and I asked if it was okay for me to get her number from her friends and she said okay so I took it.
Only for me to get home and call her and she started ranting on phone that how low could i go to the point of having to lie that I am a relative of hers to her friends.
I told her they wouldn't have called her If I told them who I was but she was having non of it.
So she says we can't be whatever no more and blocked me on all platforms and hangs up whenever she finds out I am the one calling undecided
So I am wondering,could that simple lie be the reason for her sudden strange behaviour or perhaps those friends of hers told her something else or what?
Because I don't want to believe her strange behaviour is simply because of this reason

Don't be a sissy fool!

Started getting pissed from where is bolded up there.

What happens to being in charge? What happens to building up curiosity...let her be puzzled...let her look for you! You lack manly skills! No Offence.

And you still went ahead and call till she got ur ass blocked on all platforms? Damn! These boys ehn undecided

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by eunisam: 8:52pm On May 24, 2020
drop her number here let us call her and talk sense and brain into her.
but sir, must you lie? I hate that. it seems you enjoy lying!

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Millennialaku(m): 8:59pm On May 24, 2020
let me call an elder

HARDDON
Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by mofeoluwadassah: 9:01pm On May 24, 2020
What’s the title of this movie please undecided
Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Nobody: 9:08pm On May 24, 2020
Theconglomerate:
So I met this girl a while back while I visited my alma mater for some reasons.
So I saw her walking and it was windy and trying to rain.
I pulled over and offered a lift to wherever she was going.
She politely declined and continued walking.
So I parked and joined her trekking.
We talked,laughed a little while I walked her to her destination.
So when I got there,it started raining she laughed and asked me how I was gonna get back and I told her not to worry that I will find my way.
So I asked for her number and she said she wasnt gonna give me on that day but I should come by another time by her class and she will give me the next time we see.she just gave me her name and class.
I said okay and left undecided
Then I went there after some days but looked for her and couldn't find her,asked around,then I met 2 girls that know her and I made them call her on the pretext that I was her cousin that just got to town and want to say hi but I lost my phone so I couldn't call her.
So they did call her and passed the phone to me,we talked and laughed and had a good time on phone and I asked if it was okay for me to get her number from her friends and she said okay so I took it.
Only for me to get home and call her and she started ranting on phone that how low could i go to the point of having to lie that I am a relative of hers to her friends.
I told her they wouldn't have called her If I told them who I was but she was having non of it.
So she says we can't be whatever no more and blocked me on all platforms and hangs up whenever she finds out I am the one calling undecided
So I am wondering,could that simple lie be the reason for her sudden strange behaviour or perhaps those friends of hers told her something else or what?
Because I don't want to believe her strange behaviour is simply because of this reason
Omo... Bros you get time ooo. I swear

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by moscow406(m): 9:19pm On May 24, 2020
E pele OP sir, adult like you that has a vehicle, trekked, then lied just to get 11 digits, which isn't money. Things guys do for bleeps thinking it is love. Boss she blocked you after wasting your fuel money and dignity, have you thought of how she would present you to her friends you got her number from?
There are lines you don't cross boss. No offence but you're weak, for bleeps, really boss. You fall my hand

Abeg kunu seller, gimme cold kunu #50.

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by fayded(m): 9:30pm On May 24, 2020
she's not interested, it's as simple as that.
And she also looks like someone wey go get better drama, and full of herself too. See what she put u thru to get number,ordinary number ooo. And u sef, Mumu still gree Dey follow her ways..
She even blocked u after u switched numbers to call her, kaiiiii.. Oga Pls.. Abeg, Respek yourself and leave her.
She ain't worth it. I promise u

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Nobody: 9:33pm On May 24, 2020
are u not a car owner
so why will a girl be forming for u
iyam surprised cheesy

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Seventy7kings: 9:35pm On May 24, 2020
You just dey disgrace yourself upandan. The moment she refused to give you number, you should have realised that you also chose a wrong way of approach. Or were you high on alcohol that you came down from your ride and started following a girl like mumu. You mumu small and I'm very sorry to say sir.

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Theconglomerate(m): 9:41pm On May 24, 2020
Seventy7kings:
You just dey disgrace yourself upandan. The moment she refused to give you number, you should have realised that you also chose a wrong way of approach. Or were you high on alcohol that you came down from your ride and started following a girl like mumu. You mumu small and I'm very sorry to say sir.
not 3very girl is interested or moved by petty things such as cars and besides,I don't think parking a car to stroll with a girl is such a big deal.
Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Seventy7kings: 9:49pm On May 24, 2020
Theconglomerate:
not 3very girl is interested or moved by petty things such as cars and besides,I don't think parking a car to stroll with a girl is such a big deal.
forget about car, you went too far by following her in the first place.

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Sixfeetbelle: 9:58pm On May 24, 2020
Theconglomerate:
So I met this girl a while back while I visited my alma mater for some reasons.
So I saw her walking and it was windy and trying to rain.
I pulled over and offered a lift to wherever she was going.
She politely declined and continued walking.
So I parked and joined her trekking.
We talked,laughed a little while I walked her to her destination.
So when I got there,it started raining she laughed and asked me how I was gonna get back and I told her not to worry that I will find my way.
So I asked for her number and she said she wasnt gonna give me on that day but I should come by another time by her class and she will give me the next time we see.she just gave me her name and class.
I said okay and left undecided
Then I went there after some days but looked for her and couldn't find her,asked around,then I met 2 girls that know her and I made them call her on the pretext that I was her cousin that just got to town and want to say hi but I lost my phone so I couldn't call her.
So they did call her and passed the phone to me,we talked and laughed and had a good time on phone and I asked if it was okay for me to get her number from her friends and she said okay so I took it.
Only for me to get home and call her and she started ranting on phone that how low could i go to the point of having to lie that I am a relative of hers to her friends.
I told her they wouldn't have called her If I told them who I was but she was having non of it.
So she says we can't be whatever no more and blocked me on all platforms and hangs up whenever she finds out I am the one calling undecided
So I am wondering,could that simple lie be the reason for her sudden strange behaviour or perhaps those friends of hers told her something else or what?
Because I don't want to believe her strange behaviour is simply because of this reason

Op, not every girl must fall for you. That's the first principle of life.

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by nanauju(f): 9:59pm On May 24, 2020
She's really not interested

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Theconglomerate(m): 10:09pm On May 24, 2020
nanauju:
She's really not interested
I thought this way too.
Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by xrayj(m): 10:19pm On May 24, 2020
Theconglomerate:
not 3very girl is interested or moved by petty things such as cars and besides,I don't think parking a car to stroll with a girl is such a big deal.
U are very senseless!!!
How old are u?
U parked your car to trek with a girl under a rainy weather just to get her number? It then means u will sell your soul to sleep with her?
U are a disgrace to men!

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by xrayj(m): 10:23pm On May 24, 2020
Seventy7kings:
You just dey disgrace yourself upandan. The moment she refused to give you number, you should have realised that you also chose a wrong way of approach. Or were you high on alcohol that you came down from your ride and started following a girl like mumu. You mumu small and I'm very sorry to say sir.
@bold him no mumu small, him mumu well well!
I wonder how he was able to buy a car with his level of reasoning. Dude is a disgrace to men!
Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by samdavjustin(m): 11:05pm On May 24, 2020
Theconglomerate:
So I met this girl a while back while I visited my alma mater for some reasons.
So I saw her walking and it was windy and trying to rain.
I pulled over and offered a lift to wherever she was going.
She politely declined and continued walking.
So I parked and joined her trekking.
We talked,laughed a little while I walked her to her destination.
So when I got there,it started raining she laughed and asked me how I was gonna get back and I told her not to worry that I will find my way.
So I asked for her number and she said she wasnt gonna give me on that day but I should come by another time by her class and she will give me the next time we see.she just gave me her name and class.
I said okay and left undecided
Then I went there after some days but looked for her and couldn't find her,asked around,then I met 2 girls that know her and I made them call her on the pretext that I was her cousin that just got to town and want to say hi but I lost my phone so I couldn't call her.
So they did call her and passed the phone to me,we talked and laughed and had a good time on phone and I asked if it was okay for me to get her number from her friends and she said okay so I took it.
Only for me to get home and call her and she started ranting on phone that how low could i go to the point of having to lie that I am a relative of hers to her friends.
I told her they wouldn't have called her If I told them who I was but she was having non of it.
So she says we can't be whatever no more and blocked me on all platforms and hangs up whenever she finds out I am the one calling undecided
So I am wondering,could that simple lie be the reason for her sudden strange behaviour or perhaps those friends of hers told her something else or what?
Because I don't want to believe her strange behaviour is simply because of this reason

You have a car and you Dey dull yourself, maka why? Don’t you have no self respect. Anyways I will teach you how to get girls with your car, hope it’s a fine car sha. Next time all you have to do is act like you’re lost and need a direction from any girl you like on the road, you can even tell her you’re new to the area. Collect her number and friendship don start be that, never you get down from your car to chase anyone, if she doesn’t stop move on to the next that way you keep your dignity.

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by samdavjustin(m): 11:06pm On May 24, 2020
grin grin
Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Richardonald(m): 12:10am On May 25, 2020
if una no hold this op. him case go be like this

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Shoodboi: 12:22am On May 25, 2020
In life, there is something called self-respect. It basically means knowing where you stand at every point in time.

Unfortunately, it appears that you don't know where you stand, and lack self-respect and discipline.

Years ago, I approached a lady and asked for her number.

She refused and asked for mine instead, promising to call. She never did.

It happened to me again and I quickly realized that women often do that to men they don't want to talk to.

It has not happened to me after the second time, but I've made up my mind never to give my number to a woman unless she asks for it first.

In your case, she has refused to give you her number and told you to come looking for her somewhere, which is idiotic and downgrading.

You should have never looked for her or at least, if you did, just tell her a "hi" and quickly leave whenever you come across her.

That will make her surprised, and she would even be the one to look for you and approach you the next time you meet.

But you went on to pretend to be her relative just to give her a call. That is actually the second time you messed up.

The first was when you alighted from your car to join her in the rain. You already belittled yourself there and should've gotten the hint when she refused to give you her number.

But she told you to come looking for her, which makes the whole thing strange. You know why?

It's because she's playing games.

She wants to friendzone you or turn you into a maga.

Nevermind about all the para she had with you on the phone. She'll come around. At least she spoke to you nicely when her friend's called her.

Don't try contacting her anymore, else you'll become more clingy and likelier to become a maga. She will contact you herself. Give it two weeks to a month.

But then, remember what I told you about you getting friendzoned and magaed. And don't apologize to her about the incident. Tell her that you were just fooling around.

You may even ask for her friend's number just to make her jealous and keep her on her toes.

Use your head.

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Seandisputed(m): 12:47am On May 25, 2020
A matured man disgracing himself and losing every atom of self respect he has just to get in between the legs of a young lady is what i find hard to grasp.
What's the deal?

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Nobody: 1:25am On May 25, 2020
She's not interested in whatever ur offering guy
Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Expresswriter: 5:28am On May 25, 2020
First impressions matter.

You've given her a wrong impression about yourself.

That you lie. "Possibly, there will be more lies to come if I get close to this guy or get to date him," she thinks.

So she cuts you off. She's protecting herself.

You're also being desperate. You needed her number by all means you had to lie to convince her friends you were her cousin. That wasn't bravery or doggedness. It was desperation.

Dishonesty (lying) & desperation are two red flags nobody who is serious about their relationships take for granted. If you were in that lady's shoe, I guess you'd probably do the same.

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by ecolime(m): 7:30am On May 25, 2020
Weak men like this disgusts me. What a sissy!
Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by Zabiboy: 7:57am On May 25, 2020
Theconglomerate:
So I asked for her number and she said she wasnt gonna give me on that day but I should come by another time by her class and she will give me the next time we see.she just gave me her name and class.




OP
Which CLASS are you talking of here??
Let me know whether to drop my opinion or not..
Hope say nor b Secondary School girl dey do you this kind thing o

Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by DonroxyII: 10:52pm On May 26, 2020
Theconglomerate:
So I met this girl a while back while I visited my alma mater for some reasons.
So I saw her walking and it was windy and trying to rain.
I pulled over and offered a lift to wherever she was going.
She politely declined and continued walking.
So I parked and joined her trekking.
We talked,laughed a little while I walked her to her destination.
So when I got there,it started raining she laughed and asked me how I was gonna get back and I told her not to worry that I will find my way.
So I asked for her number and she said she wasnt gonna give me on that day but I should come by another time by her class and she will give me the next time we see.she just gave me her name and class.
I said okay and left undecided
Then I went there after some days but looked for her and couldn't find her,asked around,then I met 2 girls that know her and I made them call her on the pretext that I was her cousin that just got to town and want to say hi but I lost my phone so I couldn't call her.
So they did call her and passed the phone to me,we talked and laughed and had a good time on phone and I asked if it was okay for me to get her number from her friends and she said okay so I took it.
Only for me to get home and call her and she started ranting on phone that how low could i go to the point of having to lie that I am a relative of hers to her friends.
I told her they wouldn't have called her If I told them who I was but she was having non of it.
So she says we can't be whatever no more and blocked me on all platforms and hangs up whenever she finds out I am the one calling undecided
So I am wondering,could that simple lie be the reason for her sudden strange behaviour or perhaps those friends of hers told her something else or what?
Because I don't want to believe her strange behaviour is simply because of this reason
Oga dey ur dey now abi na she u wan marry ni ....

if a girl Ghost u , u ghost her .... The earlier u people understand reverse psychology the better ... She has attitude and behavioural issues .... How could a dude park car and legged with you ... it started raining he has to legged back and u still no ayarge him number ....

a dude told ya fwends he be ya cousin in order to avoid long stories with ya fwends .... something to laugh over , she started ranting untop which level .... Her friends obviously made fun of you and it infuriated her ... They tagged u a low dude , and it questioned her relationship with you ... Cuz they will make fun of her too ... "Is that the cousin dude" ... Nonsense, why would he lie


You already have her Ziggy, abandon her for just one week .... After a week call her to apologise for the misunderstanding, then set up a meet ... If she still rant, lay her straight and liquidate ...!

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Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by DonroxyII: 10:55pm On May 26, 2020
decatalyst:


Don't be a sissy fool!

Started getting pissed from where is bolded up there.

What happens to being in charge? What happens to building up curiosity...let her be puzzled...let her look for you! You lack manly skills! No Offence.

And you still went ahead and call till she got ur ass blocked on all platforms? Damn! These boys ehn undecided
That guy is woman wrapper ... Imagine , he park car and legged and that babe no still ayarge him number .... And he says Okay and walk off .... Conglomerate of investment thread, u wey just finish fighting with Ireland .... Chaiii, Come off it grin .... Don't be online bully without real life game ooo !

She yaff sized u up finish , maybe she get better offer .... She sha get attitude was afraid of stooping.... Reason she blocked all ya grin

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