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Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Wazzaowner(m): 7:56am On Jul 04
Please guy I am at a crossroads, my fiancée loves clubbing and night parties a lot, is it right to marry a girl like that?

FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by SUPERPACK: 7:58am On Jul 04
You, do you love clubbing? yes or no?
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Saltybear: 8:02am On Jul 04
Nope not worth the hassles

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Wazzaowner(m): 8:05am On Jul 04
SUPERPACK:
You, do you love clubbing? yes or no?

No, I just want to confirm if girls like that are very promiscuous
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by funshint(m): 8:06am On Jul 04
Well it depends on how chronic the issue is. Marriage calls for a lot of adjustment and compromise; but if not...
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Afriqan: 8:13am On Jul 04
Wazzaowner:


No, I just want to confirm if girls like that are very promiscuous

It's a red flag if u don't drink alcohol or go clubbing yourself, but I don't know about the promiscuity part.

I've also met some good girls who started clubbing as a result of bad influence, thinking there's something to gain from it, so it's not always an indication of bad character. Either ways, I no fit marry woman wey dey club cos I no dey go club or drink alcohol.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Goldbw122: 8:14am On Jul 04
When you get married to her she should change her character because there are stages in life so that is how marriage life is programmed.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Afriqan: 8:18am On Jul 04
Goldbw122:
When you get married to her she should change her character because there are stages in life so that is how marriage life is programmed.

This is where the biggest problem lies. Marriage doesn't change people like we think. There are many married people complaining cos they feel caged and the moment they see an opportunity to catch fun outside, they may start cheating...

Marry your type, finish. Nothing new about clubbing but don't marry a club girl if you're a church brother... That's life.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Franzinni: 8:21am On Jul 04
Bro God that have you the brain early will guide you all the way.. every situation is different but I will say, that is a red flag.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by dhameelare(m): 8:40am On Jul 04
Wazzaowner:
FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.
She doesnt drink or smoke, then what does she goes there to do.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by tomilayomi: 8:41am On Jul 04
If you can't cope with her lifestyle now, thinking she will change after marriage.
My Broda you're on your own o because she might add more to just sitting in clubs.

Ki Oluwa wa pelu e o! smiley
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by DankemzI(m): 8:57am On Jul 04
dhameelare:


She doesnt drink or smoke, then what does she goes there to do.

Probably to dance and network, if not na hook-up girl o! cry
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by AishaYesufu: 9:01am On Jul 04
Wazzaowner:
Please guy I am at a crossroads, my fiancée loves clubbing and night parties a lot, is it right to marry a girl like that?

FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.
Only if you can marry Okpoho then proceede with her sad
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by AishaYesufu: 9:03am On Jul 04
Goldbw122:
When you get married to her she should change her character because there are stages in life so that is how marriage life is programmed.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by SonofGod231: 9:03am On Jul 04
It is definitely a red flag for me. The last lady I dated I met her through a colleague at work.The first weekend she spent at my place was actually the last. The first night She kept disturbing me to take her clubbing but it wasn't something i was into so the next day which was on a Saturday evening I took her to a bar around the area that was always bubbling with people but before we could take our seats,she said it wasn't what she wanted then I formed I knew exactly what she would like and took her to a popular night club in town but she also complained that the place was too boring for her that she liked seeing activities.That was when I asked her if she had anywhere in mind that she would love us to go. She actually took me to a Strip Club that had prostitutes all around,with rough guys playing snooker one side.A bottle of beer there was #900 before I could finish one she was on three and she started dancing any how all over the place that I felt ashamed for her.
Took her Home and pretended I was cool but that was enough for me to find an excuse to ditch her. I did background checks.She was also smoking and had alcohol issues and other nasty tendencies I couldnt deal with.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Offpoint1: 9:23am On Jul 04
Girlfriend abi fiancee?


You know what happens in clubs?
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Wazzaowner(m): 10:17am On Jul 04
Offpoint1:
Girlfriend abi fiancee?


You know what happens in clubs?


Fiancee
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Akwaibomdude(m): 10:32am On Jul 04
SonofGod231:
It is definitely a red flag for me. The last lady I dated I met her through a colleague at work.The first weekend she spent at my place was actually the last. The first night She kept disturbing me to take her clubbing but it wasn't something i was into so the next day which was on a Saturday evening I took her to a bar around the area that was always bubbling with people but before we could take our seats,she said it wasn't what she wanted then I formed I knew exactly what she would like and took her to a popular night club in town but she also complained that the place was too boring for her that she liked seeing activities.That was when I asked her if she had anywhere in mind that she would love us to go. She actually took me to a Strip Club that had prostitutes all around,with rough guys playing snooker one side.A bottle of beer there was #900 before I could finish one she was on three and she started dancing any how all over the place that I felt ashamed for her.
Took her Home and pretended I was cool but that was enough for me to find an excuse to ditch her. I did background checks.She was also smoking and had alcohol issues and other nasty tendencies I couldnt deal with.
Wahala plenty for this life

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Harrykn: 11:10am On Jul 04
No insult mean’t brotherly. How do understand the quote “show me your friend and I will tell you who you are!”
It isn’t safe out there with that lifestyle.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Albertone(m): 11:40am On Jul 04
DankemzI:


Probably to dance and network, if not na hook-up girl o! cry

Which networking do you want to do inside a club?

Even if you network with big men that can help you,chances are that they just want to sleep with you!
Club is not for networking abeg!
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by brosom(m): 12:04pm On Jul 04
A decent girl no get time for night life.

Though is good to have fun sometimes but not constant.

Either she's an upcoming or a repackaged Olosho grin
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Angelacruz: 12:51pm On Jul 04
Mehn!
SonofGod231:
It is definitely a red flag for me. The last lady I dated I met her through a colleague at work.The first weekend she spent at my place was actually the last. The first night She kept disturbing me to take her clubbing but it wasn't something i was into so the next day which was on a Saturday evening I took her to a bar around the area that was always bubbling with people but before we could take our seats,she said it wasn't what she wanted then I formed I knew exactly what she would like and took her to a popular night club in town but she also complained that the place was too boring for her that she liked seeing activities.That was when I asked her if she had anywhere in mind that she would love us to go. She actually took me to a Strip Club that had prostitutes all around,with rough guys playing snooker one side.A bottle of beer there was #900 before I could finish one she was on three and she started dancing any how all over the place that I felt ashamed for her.
Took her Home and pretended I was cool but that was enough for me to find an excuse to ditch her. I did background checks.She was also smoking and had alcohol issues and other nasty tendencies I couldnt deal with.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Mophor: 1:05pm On Jul 04
Damn Niggar!!!!!
Issoright
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by SmellySperm(m): 1:09pm On Jul 04
brosom:
A decent girl no get time for night life.

Though is good to have fun sometimes but not constant.

Either she's an upcoming or a repackaged Olosho
grin
The bolded grin
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Fiscus105(m): 1:17pm On Jul 04
Wazzaowner:
Please guy I am at a crossroads, my fiancée loves clubbing and night parties a lot, is it right to marry a girl like that?

FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.

Go ahead nah, at least whenever she is coming from night club, you will wait beside ur gate and when you hear horn you can open gate for whoever that's his turn to drop her that nite

Thank God ur scripture says God loves a cheerful giver, modernisation also gives credence to such type of cooperative and blissful marriage.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by valentineuwakwe(m): 1:26pm On Jul 04
Is she a nice person, sincere and down to earth?
Those are the kind of stuffs you should be looking at. ..some girls don't go to such or do such things your girl does but are bad n worst like the devil!

So it's your choice
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Kobicove(m): 1:42pm On Jul 04
Wazzaowner:
Please guy I am at a crossroads, my fiancée loves clubbing and night parties a lot, is it right to marry a girl like that?

FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.

It's obvious both of you are not on the same wavelength... just ditch her
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by BareFacedLies(m): 1:44pm On Jul 04
Wazzaowner:


Fiancee

You should have asked this question before proposing to her
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by Youngpo413: 2:11pm On Jul 04
Wahalla be like wetin again?
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by debbydams(f): 3:24pm On Jul 04
Youngpo413:
Wahalla be like wetin again?
ah don forget too cheesy
Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by BarrSly: 3:28pm On Jul 04
Geee you are being a f@cking Simp with this question of yours. Who send u message to enter relationship Who even send u message to go date a club girl..

I can’t count how many club girls I’ve smashed in the bathroom of the club while their boyfriend is out there placing orders..

How many I secretly gave my complimentary cards while their bf is paying the bills..

guy your b!tch goes to the club in order to be impressed by affluent spending guys and those guys dig her sweet watery guts till she buhhhhhh...

Better run leave the girl and if u know what’s good for you simply date to smash and not to attach.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl Who Loves Night Party And Clubbing? by debbydams(f): 3:35pm On Jul 04
Wazzaowner:


Fiancee
u said she doesn't smoke or drink abi, I don't believe that sha..I don't like night parties but I visit my friend weeks back, we used go out to chill everynite I don't drink, one night we went out nd I was offered alcohol ,(she ws saying Emu si,drink more)in short I took 5 bottles nd I started behaving anyhow, it was very terrible day for me,I actually passed out o..since den I vowed not to take alcohol nd night parties is a no! The truth is once a lady is addicted to night parties nothing can make her change, it takes the grace of God..u are man I hope u understand me.

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