Wow . That is nice and cool..she is a strong woman, to HV raised a man like them..
I guess you know them right?

invectives:
Screw up which boys lives? Dem boys Tougher Dan Steel..and intelligent like their mom,one owns a photograph studio,whilst the other is Music director.
check the name crested on their photograph.its the son's.

"I love thinking about useless things"
OMG... Lol.

Her story, her life, her kids.

Most of you need to shut up and stop condemning her for making the story public.

She and her kids are strong emotionally to have no problems making the story public. Don't use your poor emotions to rubbish them.

angelfallz:


first things first, you may not be the type to put your family secrets/problems online for whatever reason, i am also like that. but we are not all the same, there are some family things that shouldn't be placed online, eg my wife's cooking is not good, what should i do? my husband is a 2 minute man what should i do? etc

secondly, is it not possible that she told her children that she would be posting online the circumstances surrounding their birth, and the children agreed to it? Remember, her children are in their twenties.

To your first paragraph, good a thing you agree that there are things that are wise to keep private..can you even compare exposing a bad cook to exposing your kids as a product of rape? They are Miles apart.../

Secondly, those kids probably agreed because their mum prevailed on them to do it..you know the control women have on their men(not to talk of a mother)...she probably made them see (her) reasons to go public.

Enoch07:
so these fine boys father na rapist. na wa

and what have u archieve in life

ValCon888:
This is not to condone rape, but she probably kept the pregnancy because the rapist was a fine guy.

I don't think she'd have kept it if it was a guy that looked like Ned Nwoko.

them the rape Sophia pr**k comot she put am back.

Not too sure if this disclosure is wise in a society such as ours and I hope she has sought the consent of the boys being young adults.

Davash222:

That woman would have shut her mouth cos of comments like this. She didn't consider the boys before opening up to something like this online.

its only in nairaland u would see...such demeaning comment cuz its filled wit some stupid people dat talk anyhow

Their father must be very handsome with shovel nose.

angelfallz:


Did it ever occur to you that she may have discussed this with her children?

Well, you are assuming, but we're talking about clear and present realities. Okay, assuming she's discussed it with them, as an adult, she's supposed to know better and hold back a few more years until they become adults and can handle their issues, they're just teens and if they don't have a strong hold of themselves, it can go the other way

Futurejoy:

You would not know because you don’t have sense , that’s why I said you should pray for sense. Think about it

The way you are defending this woman it seems you also is a product of rape.

This woman should not have brought this to public. she no get sense.

I'm sorry to say.

MasterJayJay:
Her story, her life, her kids.

Most of you need to shut up and stop condemning her for making the story public.

She and her kids are strong emotionally to have no problems making the story public. Don't use your poor emotions to rubbish them.

It is still not wise.
It just prolongs the story, draws unnecessary attention and dissipates energy, not to talk of the fact that it can limit the number of waters you can fish in.
If you are strong and have overcome something you just do that, move on.

Anuoluwa1234:
Wow . That is nice and cool..she is a strong woman, to HV raised a man like them..
I guess you know them right?

She is the strongest of her type around...Shata bandle dey Learn work

Grandmeister:

Give it a break! I've seen men raise their kids alone (and well )after their mother passed on in their childhood...humans are wired to adapt and survive no matter what!

Hmmm!!So do girls carry on with life when their parent die.And even go as far as taking care of thier younger ones till they become independent.

In this case I am talking about carrying the burden of an average woman of having to go through pain to have cute babies and at thesame time battling with weight problems as a result of child bearing and still thinking of how to shoulder the responsibility of keeping home front running smoothly and supporting thier husbands to provide for the home.

On the other hand, there is the yeye husband who want her breast to be firm like the way she was before child birth and thesame time expect her to return back to the model like statue with flat tommy and firm body even after child births.
These is what I meant when I said women have to go through a lot to please that ever ungrateful husbands like you who think they can eat their cake and have it.

Her life her choice.
If she had an abortion:
“murderer. Baby killer. Etc etc
If she kept them and kept quiet:
“ she’s must have lived a loose life. After one. Having kids at fifteen. She must have started following men too early. We wonder what her body count is”.
Now she kept them and talks about what really happened:
“Attention seeker. Messing up her sons lives. She should shut up. Bla bla bla.”

Ladies listen. You never win in the court of public opinion. No matter what happened and how unfair a hand you’ve been dealt. This woman chose what makes her happy. I applaud her. Doesn’t mean it will work for you if you choose same. Be wise and only make decisions that will fit into your future goals. Everyone is not the same.

megley:
"I love thinking about useless things" OMG... Lol.

Megley CUSTOMS SERVICES

Justbehave:
The way you are defending this woman it seems you also is a product of rape.

and what if he is?

ValCon888:
This is not to condone rape, but she probably kept the pregnancy because the rapist was a fine guy.

I don't think she'd have kept it if it was a guy that looked like Ned Nwoko.

you dey shake table

cococandy:
and what if he is?

NOT bad. But she should atleast respect other peoples opinion on the topic.

You and the bunch of fools that shared and liked your comment are all silly.

ValCon888:
This is not to condone rape, but she probably kept the pregnancy because the rapist was a fine guy.

I don't think she'd have kept it if it was a guy that looked like Ned Nwoko.

Reference:


It is still not wise.
It just prolongs the story, draws unnecessary attention and dissipates energy, not to talk of the fact that it can limit the number of waters you can fish in.
If you are strong and have overcome something you just do that, move on.

She is not the first and she won't be the last.

Everyone has their unique way of healing. Some need to make the story public while some would keep it private. Until most of us begin to understand the fact that individuals deal with issues differently, we shouldn't be in a position to categorize what is wise or not.

So what's d moral lesson of the story. Is she justifying rape or early pregnancy?? And her posting the pics of those boys shows how senseless and naive she is. She could hv even passed the message without posting or revealing the identities of the sons. The internet never forgets, cyber bullies that constitutes nuisance on social media will use the post to haunt and blackmail those boys in d nearest future

crazygod:
Wow. It take a lot of courage to keep a pregnancy as a result of rape. This guys set. (No homo)

Good decision.....a blessings in disguise....

Davash222:

That woman would have shut her mouth cos of comments like this. She didn't consider the boys before opening up to something like this online.

There are things beta not shared online.

Inform the children yes, but publicly is a no no.

This must trend attitude must stop, people are losing their sense of reasoning.

Well its good you did not Abort the pregnancy, but what Its not good exposing the two young guys. There is no moral there.. just keep mute and pray for them.

Righteousness89:
Wow!
Madam ,You are a Great Inspiration to other ladies !

We pray they take a clue from you

Instead of Wasting those lovely kids through Abortion, She kept them! And here they are!

I Praise GOD for you Ma!

2 Wrongs will never ever Make a Right!

GOD BLESS you and the Boys!

Your haters won't see this and praise the comment. But once JESUS appears in your comments, gbam! Hating starts life and direct.

I pray I can write good English like you, and not the tetraozonitrate-four acidic English I write.

Good job bro. God bless you.

omoharry:
Hmmm!!So do girls carry on with life when their parent die.And even go as far as taking care of thier younger ones till they become independent.

In this case I am talking about carrying the burden of an average woman of having to go through pain to have cute babies and at thesame time battling with weight problems as a result of child bearing and still thinking of how to shoulder the responsibility of keeping home front running smoothly and supporting thier husbands to provide for the home.

On the other hand, there is the yeye husband who want her breast to be firm like the way she was before child birth and thesame time expect her to return back to the model like statue with flat tommy and firm body even after child births.
These is what I meant when I said women have to go through a lot to please that ever ungrateful husbands like you who think they can eat their cake and have it.

Ungrateful husband like me? Do you know me from anywhere? Your emotions has gotten the better of you(which is typical of your kind anyway)..

ValCon888:
This is not to condone rape, but she probably kept the pregnancy because the rapist was a fine guy.

I don't think she'd have kept it if it was a guy that looked like Ned Nwoko.

Funny

kankan n dada lol

WILLuKPquiet:


You haters won't see this and praise the comment. But once JESUS appears in your comments, gbam! Hating starts life and direct.

I pray I can write good English like you, and not the tetraozonitrate-four acidic English I write.

Good job bro. God bless you.

You Are BLESSED My Brother