davidylan:

Nobody said so! Use reading glasses if you need them.

david leave muki alone now
^{she may soon be an inlaw}
The Lord does work in mysterious ways,his wonders to perform!

11 pages. awesome. lol

babyosisi:

my sister,I am not ashamed to say that I buy the foods from the store, cook and clean daily.
I even make meat pies and moi moi.
My man can cook too but I don't demand we share cooking 50/50 because I'm now in America.
He works a whole lot longer hours than I do and sometimes he's home before me but I don't expect him to run in and start making semo for me when I arrive.

If I called him to put rice to boil while I'm driving home or cut up the meat for me while I'm on the way,he will not hesitate.
Like I-man says,the man brings home the bacon,it's only fair that I know how to cook it.

_{bring in my own smaller bacon too}

cool.

wes,what's your stand on this topic?

babyosisi:

wes,what's your stand on this topic?

No stand. she's waiting to take potluck shots at my posts. That's all she seems to do these days.

david,be nice to these girls,you never know who God says is the one

I shall not be found guilty of child abuse.

babyosisi:

wes,what's your stand on this topic?

a woman who can't cook has values.
any woman that's not amputated, or has disability with her hands, can cook. It's just up to her if she likes to cook or not.

I personally know that i don't like to cook. It's fun only when i have nothing else to do. a lot of other things interest me more than cooking.

This is a new dimension to the expand the debate beyond its original context philosophy.[b]This is not about women who can't cook well but women who can't cook at all.[/b]The woman we have spent 9 pages discussing(you must have missed it) cannot cook for her kids so there will be nothing for them to taste.

you mean a woman with amputated arms?
you mean if all the fast food stores are closed (lol) and she's locked up in the kitchen for 2 weeks, she won't be able to cook to save her life?
even the most clueless person in the world can put two things together in the kitchen to prepare something, with cookbooks and all.

I think that both males and females should learn cooking. but then this depends on the situation/ environment and all the other factors (gender roles and whatnot)
I have my own ideals though and i'm just stating them.

davidylan:

No stand. she's waiting to take potluck shots at my posts. That's all she seems to do these days.

lol. I swear i quote your posts more than any other person on this site. That's how annoying you are!!!

WesleyanA:

lol. I swear i quote your posts more than any other person on this site. That's how annoying you are!!!

lol i very much doubt it has anything to do with my being annoying at all. Most of the threads i post in do not have any relation to you, you only pop in to post in response to whatever i have to say. funny enough you seem to gloss over the same responses by others on the same thread!!!
You're just a kiddo really, you should be more interested in passing ur GED than coming here to respond on threads that have to do with married women.

I fully expect your diatribe. No be wesleyana?

shush. I graduated High School i don't need GED.

you mean a woman with amputated arms?
you mean if all the fast food stores are closed (lol) and she's locked up in the kitchen for 2 weeks, she won't be able to cook to save her life?
even the most clueless person in the world can put two things together in the kitchen to prepare something, with cookbooks and all.

I don't what to be mean to this teenybopper.

trust me, I can be meaner than you, old man river.

WesleyanA:

trust me, I can be meaner than you, old man river.

Grow up, u're still in ur teens. go find ur agemate to play mean, meaner, meanest with. You're on auto-ignore now.

bros david kai, take it easy on the youngin, she's free to express her own views isn't she?

davidylan:

Grow up, u're still in your teens. go find your agemate to play mean, meaner, meanest with. You're on auto-ignore now.

quit contradicting yourself.

debosky:

bros david kai, take it easy on the youngin, she's free to express her own views isn't she?

my brother, today na pay them back in their own coins day jare. Dem too dey get away with insulting others unprovoked.

On topic jare, one american woman just proudly confessed to being a genius at jollof rice and egusi soup, my own area of expertise. Meanwhile some chickens wey marriage still dey as far as the east is from the west dey misyarn about 50:50 and slavery!

davidylan:

my brother, today na pay them back in their own coins day jare. Dem too dey get away with insulting others unprovoked.

On topic jare, one american woman just proudly confessed to being a genius at jollof rice and egusi soup, my own area of expertise. Meanwhile some chickens wey marriage still dey as far as the east is from the west dey misyarn about 50:50 and slavery!

are they frying akara too?

maybe not, at least egusi and jollof rice is a step in the right direction from the "why should i cook" attitude of some. Jollof rice is pretty hard though, i find myself burning it a lot.

On topic jare, one american woman just proudly confessed to being a genius at jollof rice and egusi soup

If you're nigerian, that's not something to be proud of.

Jollof rice is pretty hard though, i find myself burning it a lot.

now, you need to go and learn to cook.

well oga don return,I need to go and cook.

_{yes,I have to go and cook}

goodluck, i hope you get to eat out of your own food before the house finishes it.

babyosisi:

well oga don return,I need to go and cook.

_{yes,I have to go and cook}

You should refuse to cook and insist on 50:50. A "real man" wont condemn you to slavery in the kitchen.

babyosisi:

well oga don return,I need to go and cook.

_{yes,I have to go and cook}

The horror! The horror!

WesleyanA:

now, you need to go and learn to cook.

burning jollof rice became the in thing in college. If you've ever noticed, the sweetest part of the rice is the burnt part. I should be teaching u to cook.  

I-man:

The horror! The horror!

yeah that's scary!!

i'll travel around the world twice and back if i get married to a professional chef.

davidylan:

You should refuse to cook and insist on 50:50.

she just told us that he works longer hours. that balances it out.

RichyBlack, you're an idiot and that is all I have to say to your wack ass.

Btw since food is the way to a retarded African man's heart, how come you guys still cheat on your women? The ones that live their entire lives just to cook for you.

I'd like an answer. Thanks.

I'll like to acknowledge all the ladies in here who have kept it real and are proud to show off their revered cooking skills to the delight of their families:
[list]
[li]babyosisi[/li]
[li]Imani[/li]
[li]tete[/li]
[li]hot chic[/li]
[li]Razorr[/li]
[li]Kaliyat[/li]
[li]queen2[/li]
[/list]

babyosisi, deserves special mention because she's the only one I'm sure is married in the list. Thank you all for your words of wisdom.

A prayer for you all:
Heavenly father, I call upon your holy name today with respect to these wonderful women. For those already married, may you continue to shower them with love, joy and happiness. If they seek the fruit of the womb, may you grant them blessed children. For those still looking for that special person, may you grant them their heart desires. For those who have found that special person but are yet to be married, may their hopes and desires, in every facet of life be granted by God Almighty. May the day of their wedding be a day of immense joy, peace and happiness. If they are still in school; guide them through their education so that they come out in flying colors. For those searching for a better job or just a job; place them with the right people, in the right place and at the right time so that their dreams of a good job will be actualized. May they all see their children grow to become prosperous. I pray this in Jesus' name. Amen.

Here is a Nigerian Females who's very scared of the ticking clock.
tick-toc, tick-toc, tick-toc, tick-toc
so please excuse the bile in her comment

ThiefOfHearts:

RichyBlack, you're an idiot and that is all I have to say to your wack ass.

Btw since food is the way to a retarded African man's heart, how come you guys still cheat on your women? The ones that live their entire lives just to cook for you.

I'd like an answer. Thanks.

ThiefOfHearts:

RichyBlack, you're an idiot and that is all I have to say to your wack ass.

Btw since food is the way to a retarded African man's heart, how come you guys still cheat on your women? The ones that live their entire lives just to cook for you.

I'd like an answer. Thanks.

Okay, now that I've finished praying for those seven wonderful ladies, I hope the Lord will forgive me as I dive into the pit to wrestle with a swine. Here we go:
ThiefOfHearts, you're a lost soul. I'm 100% sure you're not married. Which man will take you seriously? Did I hear you say you have a man? Forget it! He's only using you as a toy! Continue with your stink-up bumbaclot attitude and you'll be over 55 with a long list of men that have screwed you, dumped you and gone for other more respectful women (willing to cook ) as life-partners! I've met your type; far from the high-achieving women that every man respects, you're most likely a lazy, dull, angry, ugly beast. Instead of sitting your fat ass watching Oprah and smoking pot, get up and go learn to cook, maybe some guy will over-look your fat ugly ass and take you seriously! Listen asswipe, if you do not change that f*#ked-up attitude of yours, forget about men period. Feminazi, you can as well date other dykes, at least that's part of the feminazi idealogy! Crazed bitch, you will never see the inside of a loving home until you remove that nastiness in your decayed soul. ThiefOfHearts! Looking for heart to steal? Yours is gone, destroyed by the so-called real men you let in; ravaged you and left you with bitterness towards all men. F*&k you upside down!

cute_N_hot:

Here is a Nigerian Females who's very scared of the ticking clock.
tick-toc, tick-toc, tick-toc, tick-toc
so please excuse the bile in her comment

@cute_N_hot, I understand your plea and respect it. However, the ogress started it. I posted something and she started insulting me. I understand disagreeing with my view or even insulting my position, but I think insulting someone is crossing the line. Trolls like her do not understand restraint and I will exercise it minimally with her.

You're absolutely correct, she's most definitely afraid of something, maybe time, maybe men!

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