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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by luvyaself95(m): 3:26pm On May 28, 2020 |
I can marry someone like my mum and i cannot.
The matter is twist in the leg.
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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Iamikeokwu(m): 3:27pm On May 28, 2020 |
Of course na, a woman that will suffer and struggle to provide for the family, and put food on the table, while you sit down and not do anything, but still deserve respect abi? Nonsense [/quote] U are talking in d rubbish U are talking in d nonsense U are talking bullshit Pls let d admin in dis site need to block some people who did not suck there mother breast very well because we d nairaland people can not allow dis nonsense to continue People like u can not stay in marriage Because if u mange to marry ur duty is to causes trouble in ur home Final year idiot with first class qualification of low sense count |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Ladycewhy(f): 3:28pm On May 28, 2020 |
membranus:well i am a living witness that one can do without the input of a father , infact his presence was a set back to us at a time. 5 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Okeytus(m): 3:29pm On May 28, 2020 |
your mother behaves exactly like mine but I realized her wrongs earlier and stopped her from using me against my father. I wonder why women behaves this way, they usually put the blame on the bad habits of the man but the fact is that, they married not for love because if it was there, they will try love their husbands unconditionally. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by angelfallz(m): 3:33pm On May 28, 2020 |
Ladycewhy: Maybe that's why they're perfect for each other. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Tajbol4splend(m): 3:35pm On May 28, 2020 |
Alero3Arubi: This doesn't even tally with what OP's saying 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Ladycewhy(f): 3:38pm On May 28, 2020 |
angelfallz:lol, it cost her too much though. I had to wonder to what end? Which is why I am not a fan of giving people too many chances,there are certain traits that are inbuilt . Imagine wanting a typical Nigerian man with cultural belief of the 17th century with a bit of narcissistic triats to change. You will keep fasting and praying like a virtuous woman and hoping for the impossible. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by angelfallz(m): 3:39pm On May 28, 2020 |
Emaprince: It's one of the easiest ways to know ladies that hate their fathers. Ladies that have a good relationship with their fathers always respect men. But ladies with Daddy issues habour deep hatred for men, and should be avoided. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by angelfallz(m): 3:41pm On May 28, 2020 |
Ladycewhy: Maybe that's why they're perfect, your mum and dad I mean. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by angelfallz(m): 3:43pm On May 28, 2020 |
chiddyok: Because of his temper? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Ladycewhy(f): 3:44pm On May 28, 2020 |
angelfallz:nah, I don't even wish for such a marriage for my enemy. She endured for as long as she should till we took her to safety. So they were never a perfect match, the poor woman was just bearing for the sake of society and religion. 5 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Ladycewhy(f): 3:48pm On May 28, 2020 |
angelfallz:bla bla bla. How many ladies and even guys here will want their daughters to marry a man like their fathers? . That should tell you that the men are the issue ,our mothers of old covered the nasty attitudes of these men. And let me just say this ,just because a marriage lasts doesn't mean it was healthy . Many marriages stood the test of time because our mothers had to compromise,not because the men were all that . 6 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by freethinker420(m): 3:51pm On May 28, 2020 |
Yes my mother is guilty of most of the things the OP mentioned.. but I still love her tho. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Alaganature(m): 3:53pm On May 28, 2020 |
adadike: From your Profile Picture... it's obvious you aren't from a prayer warrior home�� |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by tydi(m): 3:53pm On May 28, 2020 |
If only I was created in the 70s 80s so I could get a good woman (wife) to marry and live happy everly after and not this generational hoes we have as women now parading themselves. I repeat never settle for a Nigerian woman, for its better to cry in Dubai, London, Canada, japan with a white lady in a house filled with air conditioning and fruits and food than with any Nigerian woman. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Sadteen: 3:54pm On May 28, 2020 |
Acmepreneur:My mum's IQ is 22 points higher than my dad's. Both are of them are extremely intelligent but my mum's the certified genius. And luckily for me, I took after mum's. My IQs actually 15 points higher than hers. My mum has often said, my dad's among the best man she dated because he understood her and he never felt threatened or emasculated by her intelligence. I think the intelligence gap between your dad and mum may have contributed to your dad's behavior. It is possible that they couldn't find a common ground on so many things or they didn't share the same values and this made your dad resent your mum to the point of him behaving in ways that may not be healthy for your mum. It could have also contributed to his clingyness. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by EmperorGodswill(m): 3:56pm On May 28, 2020 |
If i fel to be a gud father i wount blame my parent,it wil be a shame nd ful disappointment because dy ar such an envious couple,role model to al. Wish i can replicate as my dadd did. Am nt sayin dis because dy ar pastors NO bt because even wen i was a kid i notice a lovin,carin parents who touch life in d church,community nd any body dy associate wit. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Grandmeister(m): 3:57pm On May 28, 2020 |
Nooil:I say the same for my dad, the luckiest man to ever live(RIP dad)...how he snagged a woman like my mum...that's his greatest blessing from God...I will marry a woman half as good and productive like my mum..and if I were a woman..I will marry a man like my dad...he made me realise that honesty, integrity and knowledge superceeds money..a husband and a father without rival. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Grandmeister(m): 4:02pm On May 28, 2020 |
Sometimes I wonder and pity people who grew up hating either of their parents, I could never truly understand what it means for such children because I grew up in a healthy loving family and was provided with all my needs(and wants)...it is well.... 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Akuruoulo(m): 4:03pm On May 28, 2020 |
elektra:AND ? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by angelfallz(m): 4:04pm On May 28, 2020 |
Ladycewhy: It's a method that I use when seeking for relationships. I have nothing against you personally. But once I realise that you have a bad relationship with your dad I steer clear of you. I also realised from my own relationship and the relationship of others that, girls that have a good relationship with their fathers are the best to be in a relationship with. Whereas girls that have a bad relationship with their fathers are the worst to be in a relationship with. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by OdogwuAkataka1(m): 4:04pm On May 28, 2020 |
I can marry someone like my mum. This is because my mum is spiritual and hardworking. Though I'm married but my wife doesn't posses much of those qualities. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by dcyborg(m): 4:09pm On May 28, 2020 |
Alero3Arubi:When you have somebody like my mum, you won't be talking like that. It's not a crime to share the plight one is facing against yhem 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Akuruoulo(m): 4:09pm On May 28, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:your father can be anything , bt saying many nigerian men are like that is very wrong . My dad , my uncle and my mum are the best things i ever noticed in life. maybe its biological in ur home, thats why u generized it . so sorry 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by IAmTobore(m): 4:10pm On May 28, 2020 |
God forbid I marry someone like my mom. And I doubt if my sisters would like to marry someone like dad. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by dcyborg(m): 4:12pm On May 28, 2020 |
You just spoke exactly what I am going through the hands of my mother. When I lost my job and relocated back home, I prefer being with the devil than living with her because she made life unbearable for me since I am now pennyless 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by angelfallz(m): 4:13pm On May 28, 2020 |
Ramos16: The guy is right though. When you see women that have deep hatred for men, and there are many in this forum, it is because they have a bad relationship with their fathers. Women that have good relationships with their fathers don't habour that kind of hatred. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Ladycewhy(f): 4:16pm On May 28, 2020 |
Akuruoulo:I said Many because from my neighbors to church members ,to even colleagues, its like a pandemic if men without sense of responsibility everywhere I turn. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by adadike(f): 4:18pm On May 28, 2020 |
Omobada:thanks dear. Amen and God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Nobody: 4:21pm On May 28, 2020 |
angelfallz:Yes ooo. But I’ve not found anyone generous like him so I’m just on my own. My mom says God will bring someone as generous as he is but with her temper. Amen. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Fredoallan: 4:21pm On May 28, 2020 |
mikeybrainy: I respect women but to be honest with you, women are same everywer. Both the old and young women are same bro. Some just good in pretending while some can’t. I grew up in abusive home too. My dad used to beat my mum. But to be honest, my dad was a very gentle man and easy going but my mum always look for his trouble. It’s got to a stage dah my mum start portraying my dad has d bad one to us. Fear women. My dad is hard working. He will go out to work in other for us to eat while my mum was full house wife. Women are just naturally greedy, garrulous and devilish. I realized all my mistakes late. My dad had gone to rest when I realized all my mistakes. Please don’t follow ur mum’ advise, take care of your dad. RIP dad. I miss you 7 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Ladycewhy(f): 4:32pm On May 28, 2020 |
angelfallz:Girls with toxic fathers are woke,their intuition is highly alerted, they can see through bullshit and smell a man that will pose a problem from afar. Girls like this are not the ones to be naive or cowed by any man,they see the ending of the bullshit from the beginning and are usually courageous to walk away. Maybe that's what scares you cos women like that are quick to stop bullshit before it even takes off . 4 Likes |
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