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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:40pm On Jun 13, 2020
Elxandre:


Possibly so.

The mind is complex. You probably got hooked on the idea of homosexual sex.
I mean you once found heterosexual sex a turn on.

How about now, do you still find heterosexual sex a turn on?

Every gay man started out with straight porn. If you think porn changes one's sexuality, you're wrong! I still watch heterosexual porn, sex is just pleasure and that's what it is!

Sexuality is an emotion and systematic preference. Why didn't gay people turn straight after years of forcing down heterosexuality down our throats through movies, culture, lifestyle and others??

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Elxandre(m): 7:46pm On Jun 13, 2020
HuntSon:


Every gay man started out with straight porn. If you think porn changes one's sexuality, you're wrong! I still watch heterosexual porn, sex is just pleasure and that's what it is!

Sexuality is an emotion and systematic preference. Why didn't gay people turn straight after years of forcing down heterosexuality down our throats through movies, culture, lifestyle and others??
Well, you could definitely get enchanted by an habit.

That's not to say every gay person falls in this category though.
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:46pm On Jun 13, 2020
Mr Op, from ur write-up, your only problem is porn addiction (don't care about the sexuality)

Sex is just pleasure, nothing else, being homosexual is a sexuality like being heterosexual and bi. That is why most gay men and women can still have heterosexual sex and still be GAY!

Many Nigerians are so naive and illiterate that they go along with the whatever idea they heard without thorough investigation. Their minds are so programmed to SEX that they hardly see women beyond that!

Stop being apologetic to anyone! If they refuse to make good use of the internet to learn beyond their pea sized brains, they can wallow in ignorance and homophobia for all i care...
The LGBTQ community is done educating y'all for free...

You've been gay since childhood and you know it forget the porn! Just know that watching pornography alot is not all that healthy and we all acknowledge it's sinful.

BEING GAY IS NOT!!!

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 7:55pm On Jun 13, 2020
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:57pm On Jun 13, 2020
Elxandre:

Well, you could definitely get enchanted by an habit.

That's not to say every gay person falls in this category though.

Yeah that's why it's called an ADDICTION. A straight man craving for gay sex after an experience doesn't change the fact that he is straight.

Being gay goes beyond having anal sex. Do you see yourself settling down with a man in future? Are you emotionally, physical and romantically involved with the same sex or the opposite sex. They're many other questions!

And I didn't get your second line, what category are you talking about?

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 8:00pm On Jun 13, 2020
Ekemeze:


yeah, proudly homophobic, what are u gonna do gay

Periodtt! Stop swerving and beating around the bush, are you that scared of us?? cheesy

And another thing....do you think calling me a fagh will get to me? Man this is not 1500 wink

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jun 13, 2020
Elxandre:


Possibly so.

The mind is complex. You probably got hooked on the idea of homosexual sex.
I mean you once found heterosexual sex a turn on.

How about now, do you still find heterosexual sex a turn on?
yes with some focus, but preference is not heterosexual stuff

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jun 13, 2020
HuntSon:


Every gay man started out with straight porn. If you think porn changes one's sexuality, you're wrong! I still watch heterosexual porn, sex is just pleasure and that's what it is!

Sexuality is an emotion and systematic preference. Why didn't gay people turn straight after years of forcing down heterosexuality down our throats through movies, culture, lifestyle and others??
were you effeminate during childhood ? I want To know if there is a concrete correlation
Thats all i wanted To know and these guys derailed my thread like that without providing answers
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 8:23pm On Jun 13, 2020
Durentt:
were you effeminate during childhood ? I want To know if there is a concrete correlation
Thats all i wanted To know and these guys derailed my thread like that without providing answers

Yes I was very effeminate back then but that wasn't entirely the reason for my homosexuality...

Why? 1. because I'm now masculine and still prefer guys(I hope the mad homophobes are reading this)? grin

2. They're a lot of guys who had been very very masculine from childbirth and still is...but they've always been gay

Behavior and lifestyle are sometimes subject to change but sexuality is not. That's y most gay couples raise perfect heterosexual children.

Gay porn just stems from the fact that you like masturbation and sex alot grin being gay is just ur sexuality and preference.

There is no concrete correlation between it. You're just you! Otherwise every gay person would have been effeminate and that's not true

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 8:27pm On Jun 13, 2020
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 8:37pm On Jun 13, 2020
Ekemeze:


and your puny mind thought calling me homophobic will get to me, gay, this isn't "America or Europe".

Come outta your closet, lets stone u to death. except u aren't in Nigeria, stop hiding in this faceless forum to sprew trash.

if your leaky anus hasn't blocked your lil sense, you would see in my initial comment where I said "my opinion", idiat

Here we go again....y'all homophobes love boring me cos you can't bring initiate a sensible conversation and score points.

Why should i come out to you or any sex obsessed homophobic Nigerian so you can experiment abi? grin first thing that comes to ur mind about sexuality is leaky anus(sex) why do y'all love proving me right?

It's high time you realize that i don't care if you're homophobic, Homo acceptable America and Europe is still far better than your Nigeria and they're even controlling it.

it's funny cheesy oh sorry, they worship Satan and immorality that's why they're progressing?? Awwn...so cute cry

Stoning gays to death? Really is that all you could come up with? grin in every lineage they'll always be a queer one...so brace up to stone ur relatives to death too babykiss

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Hisimperialmaje(m): 8:46pm On Jun 13, 2020
Wetin you wan make we do now, make we find the cause of the prblm?.. Simple na, na your fada people for village no want make you progres
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 8:58pm On Jun 13, 2020
Durentt:
but i am not a faqqot, i dont engage in anal sex so?
grin grin grin grin

Oh sweet Durentt, you are at it again. It's been years, don't you ever get tired of this self hate? I'd put you in my prayers for the rainbow gods to shine their light on you. Pathetic.

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jun 13, 2020
HuntSon:


Yes I was very effeminate back then but that wasn't entirely the reason for my homosexuality...

Why? 1. because I'm now masculine and still prefer guys(I hope the mad homophobes are reading this)? grin

2. They're a lot of guys who had been very very masculine from childbirth and still is...but they've always been gay

Behavior and lifestyle are sometimes subject to change but sexuality is not. That's y most gay couples raise perfect heterosexual children.

Gay porn just stems from the fact that you like masturbation and sex alot grin being gay is just ur sexuality and preference.

There is no concrete correlation between it. You're just you! Otherwise every gay person would have been effeminate and that's not true
ok thanks

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 9:21pm On Jun 13, 2020
sylve11:


Is it the other guys' nose you insert your deek into? shocked cool
If you're curious, go watch gay porn, it's free.
Ekemeze:
Thank you for being truthful,

LGBT community is fighting a losing battle, because no man is born gay. gays get the whole shit from early exposure to gay porn and WRONG SEX EDUCATION. my opinion

Your stupidity is loud. I liked boys before I started seeing porn and before I discovered gay porn, straight porn was my go to.

Wrong sex Education? grin grin I'm still wondering, I received same sex education with my siblings how come I alone turned out gay?
HuntSon:


Lmao... Welcome to Nigeria where ignorant heterosexuals give homosexual advices.

All these steps you've listed which of them have you done for yourself as a hetero?

Ikr grin grin

I blame Durentt, he always does this, subjecting himself to be judged by these ignorant straights. The acceptance he is looking for amongst them he will never find it as long as he still harbors that much internalize homophobia.

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by khia: 9:22pm On Jun 13, 2020
Durentt:
I am 22 years old and i am homosexual. I am trying To remember how all these started To create a correlation in understanding this lifestyle and possibly finding a solution.

I remember acting effeminate at home from 6 year old till 11, but in school i was not effeminate, just normal. And from JSS, i was like every boy.
I dont do sports but hang around people that do it. Even till date. I cant kick the ball

In pornography, i started with heterosexual pornography as every normal boy, heterosexual sex games and heterosexual thought while masturbation for a year, until i saw gay porn six years ago and never went back. But i am now trying To stop porn all together

Why am i like this.

I am not looking for your pity or disdain just answers if you have any
One day your homosexual the next day you're heterosexual, you have been posting this same crap for years, you'll say anything for attention.

Get a life.

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by ehmmy11(m): 9:25pm On Jun 13, 2020
Ekemeze:


and your puny mind thought calling me homophobic will get to me, gay, this isn't "America or Europe".

Come outta your closet, lets stone u to death. except u aren't in Nigeria, stop hiding in this faceless forum to sprew trash.

if your leaky anus hasn't blocked your lil sense, you would see in my initial comment where I said "my opinion", idiat
grin cheesy cheesy nigga you just had to go there


Let them be homosexuals Sha don't use it to disturb anybody it's free will after all... I wonder why they get so charged when straight guys talk like they want us to vex or something.. always hiding/faceless..no gay should quote me i am born homophobic i can never accept your views

Modified: to the block ear gay's your comments are noted and ignored..

Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RedEagle: 9:30pm On Jun 13, 2020
Durentt:
I am 22 years old and i am homosexual. I am trying To remember how all these started To create a correlation in understanding this lifestyle and possibly finding a solution.

I remember acting effeminate at home from 6 year old till 11, but in school i was not effeminate, just normal. And from JSS, i was like every boy.
I dont do sports but hang around people that do it. Even till date. I cant kick the ball

In pornography, i started with heterosexual pornography as every normal boy, heterosexual sex games and heterosexual thought while masturbation for a year, until i saw gay porn six years ago and never went back. But i am now trying To stop porn all together

Why am i like this.

I am not looking for your pity or disdain just answers if you have any

I personally believe there is a nature and nurture component to being gay.

So part of it is due to your nature, and part of it is due to absorbing stuff like porn.

I'd say you shouldn't look down on yourself for being gay, but if your moral leaning or religion says you should avoid homosexuality, all I can say is that you should try to avoid porn for 6 weeks and see what the effects are. You can substitute porn for exercise. If you don't see much change, it may not be totally about nurture for you.

Outside your moral suasion, you may want to explore your sexuality to understand yourself, there are some resources on the internet to help (not porn). Either way, staying off porn for a while will help clear your head.

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 9:59pm On Jun 13, 2020
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by ehmmy11(m): 10:14pm On Jun 13, 2020
Ekemeze:


Bro, I tire oh. Those mofos are damn disgusting. Spits!!

Always playing "the victim card". Buh thank God for what happened to Jussie Smollet(Jamal, empire cast).

Instead of finding a way to liberate themselves from shit, they go about campaigning for what won't stand a test of time,

If being a gay is one's sexuality, then, I can argue that, being a rapist or paedophile is also one's sexuality. nansense!

Ahh you want them to lecture you on a PhD level ... Yet they wanna adopt kids born by heterosexuals .... I don't have strength or time for that gay ish
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 10:17pm On Jun 13, 2020
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 10:28pm On Jun 13, 2020
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 11:06pm On Jun 13, 2020
Ekemeze:


That is what you chose to believe. that there's a disgusting gay in every family. only brain dead people could believe that in Nigeria.

I chose to believe it because it's true undecided

Wether you like it or not baby kiss it's not escapable. Someone who still think being gay was imported from abroad in 2020 is the brain dead one here cheesy
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 11:11pm On Jun 13, 2020
RichieMichie:

If you're curious, go watch gay porn, it's free.

Your stupidity is loud. I liked boys before I started seeing porn and before I discovered gay porn, straight porn was my go to.

Wrong sex Education? grin grin I'm still wondering, I received same sex education with my siblings how come I alone turned out gay?

Ikr grin grin

I blame Durentt, he always does this, subjecting himself to be judged by these ignorant straights. The acceptance he is looking for amongst them he will never find it as long as he still harbors that much internalize homophobia.

Like imagine trying to be apologetic to these ignorant illiterates heterosexuals whose toxic masculinity won't even allow them practice simple personal hygiene grin

He's busy looking for acceptance from ignoramuses in 2020 who'll tell you to stop being gay and start womanizing grin
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 11:15pm On Jun 13, 2020
Ekemeze:


your choice to be a gay is solely outta curiosity and nothing more.

gays are psychologically not balanced and you're just an example. Because, a sane person won't insult me for my opinion which I am entitled to.

Your ignorance about sexually is solely outta yiur choice to remain ignorant and nothing more.


Heterosexuals have always been stupid and full of sh*t to say about homosexuals and you're a classical example. In this day and age who still says "gays get the whole sh*t from early exposure to gay porn and WRONG SEX Education" tf

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 11:19pm On Jun 13, 2020
HuntSon:


Periodtt! Stop swerving and beating around the bush, are you that scared of us?? cheesy

And another thing....do you think calling me a fagh will get to me? Man this is not 1500 wink


Like my mat.no literally reads F.A.G/13/14, I wonder why someone thinks calling me a Fa*g will emotionally affect me grin

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 11:22pm On Jun 13, 2020
ehmmy11:

Ahh you want them to lecture you on a PhD level ... Yet they wanna adopt kids born by heterosexuals .... I don't have strength or time for that gay ish



We don't need your kids bro....if you wanna make this about kids...then I'll tell you we have BISEXUALS to provide that for the community kiss

Y'all homophobes have run out of lines... Gays certainly acknowledge straight reproduction and 90% of gays don't even want kids....so you have to come again baby

And for your information....some straights have reproductive defects and also adopt!
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 11:25pm On Jun 13, 2020
ehmmy11:

Ahh you want them to lecture you on a PhD level ... Yet they wanna adopt kids born by heterosexuals .... I don't have strength or time for that gay ish



Sorry to burst your bubble, we no longer want to adopt the children you dumped. It's the 21st century, so many ways to have a child

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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 11:25pm On Jun 13, 2020
RichieMichie:


Like my mat.no literally reads gay/13/14, I wonder my someone things calling me a gay will emotionally affect me grin

Homophobes keep using the same lines throughout the century...ain't it pathetic?? grin
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 11:26pm On Jun 13, 2020
RichieMichie:


Sorry to burst your bubble, we no longer want to adopt the children you dumped. It's the 21st century, so many ways to have a child
I don't think hetero blindness will allow him see that the world has moved on with science
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 11:28pm On Jun 13, 2020
Ekemeze:


Hahahaha. cheesy funny!

From a recent study, most of them are suffering from one psychological problem or the other, mostly bi polar personality Disorder, schizophrenia etc. so Brother, its all about madness, nothing more

I'd like to see the source of this recent study

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