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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:40pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Elxandre: Every gay man started out with straight porn. If you think porn changes one's sexuality, you're wrong! I still watch heterosexual porn, sex is just pleasure and that's what it is! Sexuality is an emotion and systematic preference. Why didn't gay people turn straight after years of forcing down heterosexuality down our throats through movies, culture, lifestyle and others?? 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Elxandre(m): 7:46pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
HuntSon:Well, you could definitely get enchanted by an habit. That's not to say every gay person falls in this category though. |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:46pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Mr Op, from ur write-up, your only problem is porn addiction (don't care about the sexuality) Sex is just pleasure, nothing else, being homosexual is a sexuality like being heterosexual and bi. That is why most gay men and women can still have heterosexual sex and still be GAY! Many Nigerians are so naive and illiterate that they go along with the whatever idea they heard without thorough investigation. Their minds are so programmed to SEX that they hardly see women beyond that! Stop being apologetic to anyone! If they refuse to make good use of the internet to learn beyond their pea sized brains, they can wallow in ignorance and homophobia for all i care... The LGBTQ community is done educating y'all for free... You've been gay since childhood and you know it forget the porn! Just know that watching pornography alot is not all that healthy and we all acknowledge it's sinful. BEING GAY IS NOT!!! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 7:55pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:57pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Elxandre: Yeah that's why it's called an ADDICTION. A straight man craving for gay sex after an experience doesn't change the fact that he is straight. Being gay goes beyond having anal sex. Do you see yourself settling down with a man in future? Are you emotionally, physical and romantically involved with the same sex or the opposite sex. They're many other questions! And I didn't get your second line, what category are you talking about? 2 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 8:00pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Ekemeze: Periodtt! Stop swerving and beating around the bush, are you that scared of us?? And another thing....do you think calling me a fagh will get to me? Man this is not 1500 4 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Elxandre:yes with some focus, but preference is not heterosexual stuff 1 Like |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
HuntSon:were you effeminate during childhood ? I want To know if there is a concrete correlation Thats all i wanted To know and these guys derailed my thread like that without providing answers |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 8:23pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Durentt: Yes I was very effeminate back then but that wasn't entirely the reason for my homosexuality... Why? 1. because I'm now masculine and still prefer guys(I hope the mad homophobes are reading this)? 2. They're a lot of guys who had been very very masculine from childbirth and still is...but they've always been gay Behavior and lifestyle are sometimes subject to change but sexuality is not. That's y most gay couples raise perfect heterosexual children. Gay porn just stems from the fact that you like masturbation and sex alot being gay is just ur sexuality and preference. There is no concrete correlation between it. You're just you! Otherwise every gay person would have been effeminate and that's not true 3 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 8:27pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 8:37pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Ekemeze: Here we go again....y'all homophobes love boring me cos you can't bring initiate a sensible conversation and score points. Why should i come out to you or any sex obsessed homophobic Nigerian so you can experiment abi? first thing that comes to ur mind about sexuality is leaky anus(sex) why do y'all love proving me right? It's high time you realize that i don't care if you're homophobic, Homo acceptable America and Europe is still far better than your Nigeria and they're even controlling it. it's funny oh sorry, they worship Satan and immorality that's why they're progressing?? Awwn...so cute Stoning gays to death? Really is that all you could come up with? in every lineage they'll always be a queer one...so brace up to stone ur relatives to death too baby 4 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Hisimperialmaje(m): 8:46pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Wetin you wan make we do now, make we find the cause of the prblm?.. Simple na, na your fada people for village no want make you progres |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 8:58pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Durentt: Oh sweet Durentt, you are at it again. It's been years, don't you ever get tired of this self hate? I'd put you in my prayers for the rainbow gods to shine their light on you. Pathetic. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
HuntSon:ok thanks 1 Like |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 9:21pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
sylve11:If you're curious, go watch gay porn, it's free. Ekemeze: Your stupidity is loud. I liked boys before I started seeing porn and before I discovered gay porn, straight porn was my go to. Wrong sex Education? I'm still wondering, I received same sex education with my siblings how come I alone turned out gay? HuntSon: Ikr I blame Durentt, he always does this, subjecting himself to be judged by these ignorant straights. The acceptance he is looking for amongst them he will never find it as long as he still harbors that much internalize homophobia. 6 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by khia: 9:22pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Durentt:One day your homosexual the next day you're heterosexual, you have been posting this same crap for years, you'll say anything for attention. Get a life. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by ehmmy11(m): 9:25pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Ekemeze:nigga you just had to go there Let them be homosexuals Sha don't use it to disturb anybody it's free will after all... I wonder why they get so charged when straight guys talk like they want us to vex or something.. always hiding/faceless..no gay should quote me i am born homophobic i can never accept your views Modified: to the block ear gay's your comments are noted and ignored.. |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RedEagle: 9:30pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Durentt: I personally believe there is a nature and nurture component to being gay. So part of it is due to your nature, and part of it is due to absorbing stuff like porn. I'd say you shouldn't look down on yourself for being gay, but if your moral leaning or religion says you should avoid homosexuality, all I can say is that you should try to avoid porn for 6 weeks and see what the effects are. You can substitute porn for exercise. If you don't see much change, it may not be totally about nurture for you. Outside your moral suasion, you may want to explore your sexuality to understand yourself, there are some resources on the internet to help (not porn). Either way, staying off porn for a while will help clear your head. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 9:59pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 10:08pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by ehmmy11(m): 10:14pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Ekemeze: Ahh you want them to lecture you on a PhD level ... Yet they wanna adopt kids born by heterosexuals .... I don't have strength or time for that gay ish |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 10:17pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 10:28pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 11:06pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Ekemeze: I chose to believe it because it's true Wether you like it or not baby it's not escapable. Someone who still think being gay was imported from abroad in 2020 is the brain dead one here |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 11:11pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
RichieMichie: Like imagine trying to be apologetic to these ignorant illiterates heterosexuals whose toxic masculinity won't even allow them practice simple personal hygiene He's busy looking for acceptance from ignoramuses in 2020 who'll tell you to stop being gay and start womanizing |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 11:15pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Ekemeze: Your ignorance about sexually is solely outta yiur choice to remain ignorant and nothing more. Heterosexuals have always been stupid and full of sh*t to say about homosexuals and you're a classical example. In this day and age who still says "gays get the whole sh*t from early exposure to gay porn and WRONG SEX Education" tf 1 Like |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 11:19pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
HuntSon: Like my mat.no literally reads F.A.G/13/14, I wonder why someone thinks calling me a Fa*g will emotionally affect me 1 Like |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 11:22pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
ehmmy11: We don't need your kids bro....if you wanna make this about kids...then I'll tell you we have BISEXUALS to provide that for the community Y'all homophobes have run out of lines... Gays certainly acknowledge straight reproduction and 90% of gays don't even want kids....so you have to come again baby And for your information....some straights have reproductive defects and also adopt! |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 11:25pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
ehmmy11: Sorry to burst your bubble, we no longer want to adopt the children you dumped. It's the 21st century, so many ways to have a child 3 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 11:25pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
RichieMichie: Homophobes keep using the same lines throughout the century...ain't it pathetic?? |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 11:26pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
RichieMichie:I don't think hetero blindness will allow him see that the world has moved on with science |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by RichieMichie: 11:28pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Ekemeze: I'd like to see the source of this recent study |
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