I am 22 years old and i am homosexual. I am trying To remember how all these started To create a correlation in understanding this lifestyle and possibly finding a solution.

I remember acting effeminate at home from 6 year old till 11, but in school i was not effeminate, just normal. And from JSS, i was like every boy.
I dont do sports but hang around people that do it. Even till date. I cant kick the ball

In pornography, i started with heterosexual pornography as every normal boy, heterosexual sex games and heterosexual thought while masturbation for a year, until i saw gay porn six years ago and never went back. But i am now trying To stop porn all together

Why am i like this.

I am not looking for your pity or disdain just answers if you have any

I'm glad you already identified the genesis of your problem.

The leading cause of your addiction was your exposure to pornography + your high sex drive mixed with an adventrous mindset.

Another thing that got you sticked to the act was due to the company of friends you were surrounded with... I believe they played a vital role in your addiction.

Way Out?
*First step out is to disassociate yourself from friends who shares the same addiction with you.
*Steer clear of groups and associates that initiate homosexual discussions.
*Learn to live a solo life.
*Practice Introspection.
*Don't try hard to change at once.
*Highlight your bad habit and embrace a timeline for breaking habits one after the other.

Just some miles away, you'll break the addiction.

SouthNigerian:
I'm glad you already identified the genesis of your problem.

The leading cause of your addiction was your exposure to pornography + your high sex drive mixed with an adventrous mindset.

Another thing that got you sticked to the act was due to the company of friends you were surrounded with... I believe they played a vital role in your addiction.

Way Out?
*First step out is to disassociate yourself from friends who shares the same addiction with you.
*Steer clear of groups and associates that initiate homosexual discussions.
*Learn to live a solo life.
*Practice Introspection.
*Don't try hard to change at once.
*Highlight your bad habit and embrace a timeline for breaking habits one after the other.

Just some miles away, you'll break the addiction.

ok thanks. So you dont think there is a biological component ?

Durentt:
ok thanks. So you dont think there is a biological component ?

Kindly expantiate what you mean by biological component.

SouthNigerian:


Kindly expantiate what you mean by biological component.

childhood effeminacy and adult homosexuality ?

Its expatiate not expantiate. Not trying To be rude

Faqqots disgust me

Show me your friends and i'll tell you who you're.
Mr. Man u're the cause of all the addiction and is better to be late than never. Pls they're ladies outside there find one and get ur self off this act because; the way am seeing this, u're already been entangle in this act but sha sha may God help u out. but u must be willing b4 God to intervain Or else u'll rost in hell.

Onuhgabriel:
Show me your friends and i'll tell you who you're.
Mr. Man u're the cause of all the addiction and is better to be late than never. Pls they're ladies outside there find one and get ur self off this act because; the way am seeing this, u're already been entangle in this act but sha sha may God help u out. but u must be willing b4 God to intervain Or else u'll rost in hell.

SweetBuns:
Faqqots disgust me

but i am not a faqqot, i dont engage in anal sex so?

@ op, you need women in your life.

Durentt:
childhood effeminacy and adult homosexuality ?

Its expatiate not expantiate. Not trying To be rude

There's certainly a bridge between your childhood effeminacy and adult homosexuality, but doesn't mean the former was solely responsible for the later.

Many homosexuals today dint effeminate during their childhood stages.
Like I once stated, you got exposed to homosexuality through addiction to pornography. Thank you.

Durentt:
but i am not a faqqot, i dont engage in anal sex so?

Is it the other guys' nose you insert your deek into?

SouthNigerian:


There's certainly a bridge between your childhood effeminacy and adult homosexuality, but doesn't mean the former was solely responsible for the later.

Many homosexuals today dint effeminate during their childhood stages.
Like I once stated, you got exposed to homosexuality through addiction to pornography. Thank you.

ok thanks

Durentt:
ok thanks. So you dont think there is a biological component ?

No.
Just a demonic one.

ThothHermes:
No.
Just a demonic one.

ok

SouthNigerian:


There's certainly a bridge between your childhood effeminacy and adult homosexuality, but doesn't mean the former was solely responsible for the later.

Many homosexuals today dint effeminate during their childhood stages.
Like I once stated, you got exposed to homosexuality through addiction to pornography. Thank you.

No offense but you know nothing about human sexuality. You are quite smart and learned though. You just need to broaden your mind.
Google and ebooks are on said subject are free

.

Homosexuality is immoral.

No one is born gay,same way no one is born straight..

Yes,check your upbringing.

sylve11:


Is it the other guys' nose you insert your deek into?

the thing sef shock me!

Palehair:

No offense but you know nothing about human sexuality. You are quite smart and learned though. You just need to broaden your mind.
Google and ebooks are on said subject are free

Honestly, I appreciate this call... man can only get better

Durentt:
I am 22 years old and i am homosexual. I am trying To remember how all these started To create a correlation in understanding this lifestyle and possibly finding a solution.

I remember acting effeminate at home from 6 year old till 11, but in school i was not effeminate, just normal. And from JSS, i was like every boy.
I dont do sports but hang around people that do it. Even till date. I cant kick the ball

In pornography, i started with heterosexual pornography as every normal boy, heterosexual sex games and heterosexual thought while masturbation for a year, until i saw gay porn six years ago and never went back. But i am now trying To stop porn all together

Why am i like this.

I am not looking for your pity or disdain just answers if you have any

Possibly so.

The mind is complex. You probably got hooked on the idea of homosexual sex.
I mean you once found heterosexual sex a turn on.

How about now, do you still find heterosexual sex a turn on?

Elxandre:


Possibly so.

The mind is complex. You probably got hooked on the idea of homosexual sex.
I mean you once found heterosexual sex a turn on.

How about now, do you still find heterosexual sex a turn on?

I started with heterosexual porn like every normal man, but homosexual porn was just it. Like a plant waiting To be germinated with the right stimulus

mehnn

Durentt:
I started with heterosexual porn like every normal man, but homosexual porn was just it. Like a plant waiting To be germinated with the right stimulus

You did not answer the rest of my questions.

SouthNigerian:
I'm glad you already identified the genesis of your problem.

The leading cause of your addiction was your exposure to pornography + your high sex drive mixed with an adventrous mindset.

Another thing that got you sticked to the act was due to the company of friends you were surrounded with... I believe they played a vital role in your addiction.

Way Out?
*First step out is to disassociate yourself from friends who shares the same addiction with you.
*Steer clear of groups and associates that initiate homosexual discussions.
*Learn to live a solo life.
*Practice Introspection.
*Don't try hard to change at once.
*Highlight your bad habit and embrace a timeline for breaking habits one after the other.

Just some miles away, you'll break the addiction.

Lmao... Welcome to Nigeria where ignorant heterosexuals give homosexual advices.

All these steps you've listed which of them have you done for yourself as a hetero?

SweetBuns:
Faqqots disgust me

Who cares? Who asked??

Onuhgabriel:
Show me your friends and i'll tell you who you're.
Mr. Man u're the cause of all the addiction and is better to be late than never. Pls they're ladies outside there find one and get ur self off this act because; the way am seeing this, u're already been entangle in this act but sha sha may God help u out. but u must be willing b4 God to intervain Or else u'll rost in hell.

Blah blah blah... God will always roast gay people but straight liars, porn addicts, misogynists and toxic masculinity will go to heaven.... Hallelujah!!!

Ekemeze:
Thank you for being truthful,

LGBT community is fighting a losing battle, because no man is born gay. gays get the whole shit from early exposure to gay porn and WRONG SEX EDUCATION. my opinion

It's good that you acknowledged the community bro.....Stop giving advices to what you have zero experience about!

Just be proudly homophobic and stop trying to hide behind wrong sex education facade.

Durentt:
I started with heterosexual porn like every normal man, but homosexual porn was just it. Like a plant waiting To be germinated with the right stimulus

Nigga you were always gay...Stop being apologetic to these heterosexuals....this is 2020!

Being gay comes in different spices and effeminacy is one of them. I started out similar like you, but i was always GAY, even before the advent of porn.

Dumb illiterate heterosexual Nigerians still can't differentiate between sex and sexuality in the 21st century, cos they all see women as their sex object!

sylve11:
@ op, you need women in your life.

That's all the know! Seeing women as sex objects and their footstools! He needs women in his life, same way you need men in ur life

rosy1992:
Homosexuality is immoral.

Heterosexuality is immoral.