This girl lived in the same compound with me, she is a jambite and l just graduated from the university last year, how l develop feelings for this girl to this extent baffles my imagination. I hate compound relationship but my emotion is just too weak to resist this girl. We have become very close and here lies my problem, :Am always thinking about this girl, am always the one chatting her up, am always waiting and watching when she will come back to the compound, am becoming a complete simp and an idiot due to the feelings l have for her, am becoming more vulnerable with my feelings towards her and am afraid this girl will know how much l love her and use me. This evening she wanted to go through my chat on WhatsApp and l refuse, she formed anger and l became weak and even have to beg her to collect the phone. I doubt this girl feel half of what l feel for her, but each time l try to get her off my mind l fail. What do l do nairalanders this is not what l want to occupy my mind with at this crucial point in my career, how do quench this feelings?

U get play station?

fuckingAyaya:
U get play station?

nop

Which work u dey do?

I recommend hard labour for u. By the time u don toil finish under rain and sun, woman go dey irritate u.

No need to thank me, what are friends for.

Well, tell her you like her as a sister that's all! .. you'll be surprised at how tables turn

yomi007k:
Which work u dey do?

I recommend hard labour for u. By the time u don toil finish under rain and sun, woman go dey irritate u.

No beed to thank me, what are friends for.

Good bless you, take one coke and pizza

It will end in premium tears

Let her go..e no dey hard.dem record rape.

Bola146:


Good bless you, take one coke and pizza

Amen. Thank u

See how small Jambite girl is manipulating you.



Guy, no woman (except your mother) is irreplaceable. The way the love is shacking you for her now is the way it will shack you for another babe after this one leaves you.

Women don’t appreciate guys who allow them to have their way all the time. If you continue being too nice, she will cheat on you and still blame you for it.

Guy that's infatuation. It fades in a moment. Quote me any year. It won't last.

AfroKnight:
See how small Jambite girl is manipulating you.



Guy, no woman (except your mother) is irreplaceable. The way the love is shacking you for her now is the way it will shack you for another babe after this one leaves you.

Women don’t appreciate guys who allow them to have their way all the time. If you continue being too nice, she will cheat on you and still blame you for it.

Someone is speaking from experience

Louisosazee:


Someone is speaking from experience

Brother.

Eyes have seen. Not necessarily my own experience, but meeehn eyes have seen.

Engage your yourself with some other things to get her off your mind.

1 Covid 19 dey around, gather children in various classes for tutorials
2 Download movies, watch from dawn to twilight.
3 Visit your friends often.
4 start a story in the literature section.

hmm... hop is nt lust sha because afta d cookie story go change. na u kno gat beta things 2 do abeg

... Leave the environment... Asin go visit an uncle, aunt, bro, sis in a far away place.. Where u can focus on job searching

Blackmann001:
... Leave the environment... Asin go visit an uncle, aunt, bro, sis in a far away place.. Where u can focus on job searching

And wen his back frm visitin wat happens next?

For Godsake


You a graduate with no job

I think you happy being a parasite abi

You had better go and engage your thoughts and energy in being money productive...


No shame at your age... Compound relationship.... You a baby

You just wan choop the poor gurl honey pot and clean mouth

She's too young and mentally unfit for a guy who has gone through the phase. Childish

yomi007k:
Which work u dey do?

I recommend hard labour for u. By the time u don toil finish under rain and sun, woman go dey irritate u.

No need to thank me, what are friends for.

lol @ hard labour, which offence did he commit? but you are right , there is a degree of hard work you will do, even if miss world winks at you, she go be like mannequin for your eye. There are some hard work I do not even wish for my enemy, your emotion/ feelings will die a natural death.

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Baba u understand...who no go no go know.

Olude193:
For Godsake


You a graduate with no job

I think you happy being a parasite abi

You had better go and engage your thoughts and energy in being money productive...


No shame at your age... Compound relationship.... You a baby

so all graduate automatically have no job? Get your fact before spewing pls.

Vick4rill:
so all graduate automatically have no job? Get your fact before spewing pls.

Whatever the case even if he has one, he should channel his thoughts towards building himself.

Vick4rill:
This girl lived in the same compound with me, she is a jambite and l just graduated from the university last year, how l develop feelings for this girl to this extent baffles my imagination. I hate compound relationship but my emotion is just too weak to resist this girl. We have become very close and here lies my problem, :Am always thinking about this girl, am always the one chatting her up, am always waiting and watching when she will come back to the compound, am becoming a complete simp and an idiot due to the feelings l have for her, am becoming more vulnerable with my feelings towards her and am afraid this girl will know how much l love her and use me. This evening she wanted to go through my chat on WhatsApp and l refuse, she formed anger and l became weak and even have to beg her to collect the phone. I doubt this girl feel half of what l feel for her, but each time l try to get her off my mind l fail. What do l do nairalanders this is not what l want to occupy my mind with at this crucial point in my career, how do quench this feelings?

is she up to 18?
Even if she is, don't let one small girl toy with you...
Leave her alone and face your hustle

Am always waiting, am always chatting, am always thinking... Mr graduate, "I am" please.

Vick4rill:
This girl lived in the same compound with me, she is a jambite and l just graduated from the university last year, how l develop feelings for this girl to this extent baffles my imagination.

Typically what happens when a guy gets locked up with a lady, devoid of the sight of beauties of the other gender. He starts seeing what he is cooped up with as his best chance. The local dog now looks like a foreign breed.

The best way to overcome your challenge is to get out and get busy, meet more girls, don't stay at home too often, watch movies, develop yourself, strengthen your mind; it's obviously weak. It seems like she's the only one proximal to you so your brain is automatically tending you towards her. If you're not careful your feeble self will lose control to her slightest touch, making you salivate like a lost puppy that has finally found a master.

Get up and get going

billynoni:
Am always waiting, am always chatting, am always thinking... Mr graduate, "I am" please.

thanks

Baddestguyp:
is she up to 18? Even if she is, don't let one small girl toy with you... Leave her alone and face your hustle

yea true

moscow406:

Typically what happens when a guy gets locked up with a lady, devoid of the sight of beauties of the other gender. He starts seeing what he is cooped up with as his best chance. The local dog now looks like a foreign breed.

The best way to overcome your challenge is to get out and get busy, meet more girls, don't stay at home too often, watch movies, develop yourself, strengthen your mind; it's obviously weak. It seems like she's the only one proximal to you so your brain is automatically tending you towards her. If you're not careful your feeble self will lose control to her slightest touch, making you salivate like a lost puppy that has finally found a master.

Get up and get going

good one

be careful before she brands you a #rapist