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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Joeiordye: 6:16am On Jun 08, 2020 |
I don't understand op. You got all these information from her e-mail account? Does she keep it as a journal or what? |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Ohizman73(m): 6:27am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Justbehave:if her mother could not put her through morally then what impact can he put in asuch that would be worth while. Listen to the tracks of xtian Essien Seun rere |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by luluosas(m): 6:50am On Jun 08, 2020 |
You are really not making any sense because you failed to view the matter from the angle the OP does. Who cares whatever you choose to do with your life, but don't ever pretend and lead people into rating you high when you are actually the lowest of all. Take care Amotolongbo: 3 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Icezikagu(m): 6:55am On Jun 08, 2020 |
:DMy advice for you is to give social distancing btw u and dat sales girl... leave d chasing away of the girl to ur wife. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by BlueAir: 6:57am On Jun 08, 2020 |
And they will have to prove I did it. who do u think you are talking to? Or am I too lame to get a lawyer or know the law? Mr Man she was my employee not my ward.and she's fully adult under the law and that's probably what compelled her further into her chosen life jidxin: |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by luluosas(m): 7:00am On Jun 08, 2020 |
OP, I empathize with you. Well, don't you ever fire her as a result of her waywardness in her private life, especially if she is performing on her job. And yes, you didn't make any wrong by assessing her Facebook Messenger, as this action has actually caught her unawares and exposing her true personality. This is why Christianity is NOT BY GOING TO CHURCH, CARRYING A BIBLE OR TYING YOUR HAIR, it is what you are in private, not the false pretence you present in the public. Good morning all |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Grandmeister(m): 8:59am On Jun 08, 2020 |
WeRblessed:Another irrational pseudo social justice warrior...you just learnt a new word(chauvinist) recently I guess? You're a spawn of a Morally bankrupt generation... |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Grandmeister(m): 9:13am On Jun 08, 2020 |
luluosas:It's not even the Christianity angle...let me play a scenario (which has happened all too often) that has led many innocent men to jail.. 1. The girl dies during an abortion 2. The grieving family will ask questions and demand answers. 3. They will involve the police. 4. The police will want to know the known male acquaintance(s) of the deceased girl. 5. They will obviously come to the Op as a male the deceased comes in contact almost daily. 6. They will invite the Op to the station for statement (e don enter police matter like play) 7. He might be detained for further information( now he has become a suspect in accessory to murder) 8. The media might get the gist and it will read '21 YEAR OLD SALES GIRL DEAD AFTER ABORTION, BOSS IMPLICATED'..... It will take a very good lawyer to extricate the Op from such legal ditch...if you have been to the prisons you will know this is an all too familiar story. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by stormborn28(m): 9:43am On Jun 08, 2020 |
stanliwise:it is you that don't understand... You don't know some people are bent on self destruction? A typical case is pharaoh. God even told Moses I know he won't allow you to go |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by stanliwise(m): 9:46am On Jun 08, 2020 |
stormborn28:Like I have been saying your goal to advise people is not to save them from destruction but to create awareness. Not all people indulging in bad things are always bad. Some are just ignorance and full of youthful exuberance. Creating awareness could help give a better mindset and maybe just maybe a change would happen. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by stormborn28(m): 9:55am On Jun 08, 2020 |
stanliwise:thank God you are also seeing it from my perspective. It is not that I don't advice like you advocated but over the years of my experience with girls... The moment you give them advice especially teenagers to stay away from relationships, you automatically become their number one enemy.. They will even stay away from you. Na day |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by stanliwise(m): 10:00am On Jun 08, 2020 |
stormborn28:people stay away from you the moment you appear judgmental. So try as you can not to judge people. Only tell them the consequences of their actions. This is true especially when this people are adult and grown enough to know what to do with their lives. But on a second hand it is normal for people not to like you when you tell them the truth. So you owe no one an apology for saying the truth and you shouldn’t be concerned when people stay away from you because you speak the truth. It is normal except you yourself have ulterior motive with saying the truth. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by romenna: 10:17am On Jun 08, 2020 |
"mind your business" will destroy dis generation |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 12:12pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
MoodyQueen:shut up |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by WeRblessed(f): 3:12pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Grandmeister: Another jobless, frustrated, hungry, dirty, smelly, Nigerian bastard. Even if you fast and pray and fast for eternity, you nor your generation will never be at my level. You think everyone that comment on NL is Nigerian or as dumb as you? I comment on the truth when I see one, and those are my openions. People like you is the reason why an uneducated illiterate dullard is your president. That is why your country is backward and messed up. If someone like you can speak up for the oppressed or defend their rights without pulling people down, your country would go a long way in fighting human rights abuse. But unfortunately, you dont know any better. What a scum bag and lower than low of a man. I'll rather have a dog as a family member than someone like you. Next time you see my comment please stay clear, because I only discuss with intellectuals and not a backward and low life scum like you. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Grandmeister(m): 3:26pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
WeRblessed:Lol your infantile rantings are like music to my ears..didn't even have the time to peruse such gibberish....I could taste the anger and frustration from the lengthy rant.. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by jidxin(m): 4:31pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
BlueAir:now my point is why would you wanna go tru all this stress |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by AsabaIjaww: 5:01pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by BlueAir: 6:13pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
what are the chances i still won't go through the stress if I pokenose in 80% vain.. that kind of girl is deep and ideologied in the dirty game .forget jidxin: |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Jaika(m): 6:46pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Sorry to disturb oo, but I noticed that the comments on the first page had a lot of likes and shares...... |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by codeKart(m): 12:03am On Jun 09, 2020 |
BabaJoe001: A minor is a person under the age of full legal responsibility. In Nigeria, only people UNDER 18 are classified as minors. Once you're 18+, you're an adult. You can vote, be voted for and, if you commit a crime, be sentenced to Prison. The girl in question is 21. She's an adult and her employer should learn to treat her as such. She's not his child and he has no other obligation to her other than to pay her salary. Anything else is extra. Abi, how is her sex life tied to the number of sales she's making? As a country, we need to stop focusing on things that don't matter and learn how to focus on what matters. Especially when it has to do with someone else's private life. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by codeKart(m): 12:12am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Grandmeister: My bros.... This scenario does not happen "all too often". This your scenario na Super Story and it is very very unlikely. She's an adult. As long as it does not affect office work, she should be allowed to live her life. That's all. This life na one. If the OP is concerned about her getting pregnant then maybe he can find another woman to educate the girl on safe sex. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by codeKart(m): 12:20am On Jun 09, 2020 |
luluosas: Sorry o. What is the "lowest of all" here? That she's having sex? With different people? Really?? 95% of Nigerian adults, both Christians & Muslims, are doing it. Even a lot of married folk (especially men) commit adultery. The girl did not steal. She did not lie. She did not commit any crime. Na penis she dey collect. That she goes to Church and then later fornicates is between her and God. It is not anybody else's concern. Make we no dey swallow Panadol for another man headache 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by codeKart(m): 12:25am On Jun 09, 2020 |
obentenyson: This is Olofofo behaviour. If someone logs into their email or any account on your device or a public device, and you need to use it, the right thing to do is to log out of their account. What are you looking for in someone else's personal account please? She's not your wife or your child. You have no business looking through her chats or messages 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by coolhumble(m): 7:26am On Jun 09, 2020 |
I fear your mouth well i think OP was just reacting according to the trust he has in her and the respect he has for her for being decent and devoted Christian. OP is not a man like me, no matter how much i trust you i will always keep hollow space for disappointment or unexpected event. Am i too sensitive? Ariza: |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by maasoap(m): 12:57pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
LastProphet: Keep deceiving yourself. Like you have never read anyone else's messages before. Mind you, his phone. I don't know why Nigerians adoot this big brother attitude even where they are not invited. Does the OP know how many times his own daughter has aborted? His younger sister? And even you that's typing do you know the REAL MOTIVATIONS of the OP? And you again do you know how many abortions you might pay for in the future? Yes tell me those church yen yen yen, you haven't seen anything yet. We have caught pastors aborting who never imagined they'd share street with someone who does. Learning to mind your business never goes wrong. That's why you now have liveable society |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 1:04pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
lets be honest with ourselves.op has a crush on the girl and is just mad that she is giving the cookie to others while he"s not getting it.when u see a man angry and mad when a woman dates other men while ignoring him then know such a man is jealous.why will i be concerned in the guy a girl dates when she is not connected to me in anyway.As long as she does not bring men to fuk into ur venue of business i dont think it should pain u except like i said b4 u are crushing on her on her 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
coolhumble:he is a naive young man.that a girl can speak in tongues and be in the spirit is nothing.those ones wey dey carry church for head na dem dey fuk pass .any man who know this one is naive . 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by LastProphet: 1:30pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
maasoap: Na wa for you oh, you blast me you come hail me again, ayam confuz oh |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by MJACORY(m): 10:22pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
This one weak me o
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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by coolhumble(m): 1:18pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
lefulefu: |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by SHOCK7(m): 8:27pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Michelle55:Enuf of this mind 'ur bus. advice, do you know if the op is just the right person at this point in her young life to counsel and rehabilitate her! |
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