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How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Missyajoke(f): 10:26pm On Jun 12, 2020
This questions rings true for me.Throughout my life, I have always desired to settle for nothing less than God's best. In regard to a mate, you must know yourself, know God's model, and know the type of person you long to marry. Take a critical inventory of yourself. Ask yourself " What type of person would complement you ?

Steps to take includes:
1. Understanding the importance of resting on others
2. Praying for guidance
3. You must be available, this may seem overly simplistic, but if the guy can never contact you, it makes starting a relationship amazingly more difficult.
4. Continue to serve in the capacities the Lord has called you.
5. The parents must approve of the Union. Regardless of whether or not parents ate believers , they still know your personality the best. Trust your parents.


Lists of what men/ women wants in a Relationship.

1. Sweet spirit ( gentle, nurturing, comforting, caring)
2. Wonderful Mother / Husband
3. A good communicator
4. Someone who loves to be held and will still allow the man/woman to provide
5. As little emotional and physical baggage as possible.
6. Smiles often
7. Someone who can spur you on
8. Someone who embraces and encourages your passion.

Incompatibility destroys many marriages does he /she meets my requirements. kiss kiss kiss
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Oghenerobo2002(m): 10:29pm On Jun 12, 2020
Is there really a right person for everyone? I'm getting tired of waiting.
kissIs there really a right person for everyone? I'm getting tired of waiting.

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Galactico4ever(m): 10:32pm On Jun 12, 2020
So Missyajoke,what kind of mate would you want God to give you?what traits and qualities do you wish for and expect in a potential partner?
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Missyajoke(f): 10:35pm On Jun 12, 2020
Galactico4ever:
So Missyajoke,what kind of mate would you want God to give you?what traits and qualities do you wish for and expect in a potential partner?

He must God fearing and intelligent

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by osamz007: 10:39pm On Jun 12, 2020
Missyajoke:


He must God fearing and intelligent

Say no more he's right here.
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by McBrooklyn(m): 10:44pm On Jun 12, 2020
Sighs..
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Galactico4ever(m): 11:09pm On Jun 12, 2020
Missyajoke:

5. The parents must approve of the Union. Regardless of whether or not parents ate believers , they still know your personality the best. Trust your parents
Some parents can be mean,wicked and tribalistic
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Missyajoke(f): 11:16pm On Jun 12, 2020
Galactico4ever:
Some parents can be mean,wicked and tribalistic

Make your parents see the reasons you chose her /him. It helps at times. Once you stand by your words your parents will agree on the long run. Most parents wants the happiness of their children.

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Galactico4ever(m): 11:33pm On Jun 12, 2020
Missyajoke:


Make your parents see the reasons you chose her /him. It helps at times. Once you stand by your words your parents will agree on the long run. Most parents wants the happiness of their children.
True.But I've also witnessed a case where a lady was forced to marry someone chosen by her parents because the suitor is richer and more affluent than the person she loves.Today the lady is married with kids,but not happily,all thanks to her self centered parents

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Missyajoke(f): 11:40pm On Jun 12, 2020
Galactico4ever:
True.But I've also witnessed a case where a lady was forced to marry someone chosen by her parents because the suitor is richer and more affluent than the person she loves.Today the lady is married with kids,but not happily,all thanks to her self centered parents

The problem with most parents is that the get easily carried away when they meet rich people. Probably they threatened to disown her or cut her from the inheritance. One thing is that you should take your stand. Am sure she's regretting now.

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by yanabasee1(m): 12:20am On Jun 13, 2020
Oghenerobo2002:
Is there really a right person for everyone? I'm getting tired of waiting.
kiss



There's no right person for anyone.....


People just get attached to the people they have feelings for and build a relationship with..



Waiting for the right person is a delusional sort of planning.....

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Onyi22(f): 12:32am On Jun 13, 2020
Hmmmm
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by crismark(m): 12:34am On Jun 13, 2020
It's jst natural... U ll notice how tin wuld be working out naturally without stress.
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Oghenerobo2002(m): 9:14am On Jun 13, 2020
yanabasee1:




There's no right person for anyone.....


People just get attached to the people they have feelings for and build a relationship with..



Waiting for the right person is a delusional sort of planning.....
I thought as much
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Prodigee: 9:17am On Jun 13, 2020
Don't bother yourself. You are a confused being
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by CsRockefeller(m): 9:34am On Jun 13, 2020
yanabasee1:




There's no right person for anyone.....


People just get attached to the people they have feelings for and build a relationship with..



Waiting for the right person is a delusional sort of planning.....

Same belief as mine. I believe there is nothing like the right person. One could fall in love with a thousand persons who possess same desired attribute it characteristics.

What we do as individuals is to pick one out of this many. The success or failure of this union depends on the two people involved.

I don't know what term I can classify this school of thought but I came to notice it during my sojourn of looking for admission all around Nigeria that there is no best school except the one that admitted you in and your success depends on your input while holding other factors constant.

Maybe I will create a thread on this and my findings sometime.

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by yanabasee1(m): 11:11am On Jun 13, 2020
CsRockefeller:


Same belief as mine. I believe there is nothing like the right person. One could fall in love with a thousand persons who possess same desired attribute it characteristics.

What we do as individuals is to pick one out of this many. The success or failure of this union depends on the two people involved.

I don't know what term I can classify this school of thought but I came to notice it during my sojourn of looking for admission all around Nigeria that there is no best school except the one that admitted you in and your success depends on your input while holding other factors constant.

Maybe I will create a thread on this and my findings sometime.



That would be nice and I'd love to read about it...
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Missyajoke(f): 11:45am On Jun 13, 2020
Prodigee:
Don't bother yourself. You are a confused being


undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Liposure: 12:05pm On Jun 13, 2020
Easier said than done.
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jun 13, 2020
When I find the right person, I dont need anyone to tell me, I will know.

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Mandela27: 12:37pm On Jun 13, 2020
When i meet her,i will know and she will feel same too .

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by CsRockefeller(m): 7:00pm On Jun 13, 2020
Joycekkh:
When I find the right person, I dont need anyone to tell me, I will know.

More like when I see what I want and what I like, I will know.
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by paulolee(m): 7:02pm On Jun 13, 2020
the vibes with her go tell me....ma stick go de stand whenever she de around me..
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by judedwriter(m): 7:34pm On Jun 13, 2020
Missyajoke:
This questions rings true for me.Throughout my life, I have always desired to settle for nothing less than God's best. In regard to a mate, you must know yourself, know God's model, and know the type of person you long to marry. Take a critical inventory of yourself. Ask yourself " What type of person would complement you ?

Steps to take includes:
1. Understanding the importance of resting on others
2. Praying for guidance
3. You must be available, this may seem overly simplistic, but if the guy can never contact you, it makes starting a relationship amazingly more difficult.
4. Continue to serve in the capacities the Lord has called you.
5. The parents must approve of the Union. Regardless of whether or not parents ate believers , they still know your personality the best. Trust your parents.


Lists of what men/ women wants in a Relationship.

1. Sweet spirit ( gentle, nurturing, comforting, caring)
2. Wonderful Mother / Husband
3. A good communicator
4. Someone who loves to be held and will still allow the man/woman to provide
5. As little emotional and physical baggage as possible.
6. Smiles often
7. Someone who can spur you on
8. Someone who embraces and encourages your passion.

Incompatibility destroys many marriages does he /she meets my requirements. kiss kiss kiss


All you have said is right. Good write up.

But I am sorry to say that most ladies today marry for financial security than any of what you listed above.

This puts a lot of guys under pressure and is also a major reason why many marriages crumble like a pack of cards.

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Missyajoke(f): 7:49pm On Jun 13, 2020
judedwriter:



All you have said is right. Good write up.

But I am sorry to say that most ladies today marry for financial security than any of what you listed above.

This puts a lot of guys under pressure and is also a major reason why many marriages crumble like a pack of cards.


Thanks
You're very correct. Most men are afraid of marrying because of the stories about how marriages are breaking and Most ladies don't want to suffer with their partners rather they want rich guys who will foot their bills.

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Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jun 13, 2020
CsRockefeller:


More like when I see what I want and what I like, I will know.
You gat it.
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by callmeRichie(m): 10:34pm On Jun 13, 2020
[quote author=Missyajoke post=90604093]
Go and settle the matter between your dp and signature first.
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by CallMeGrace(f): 10:46pm On Jun 13, 2020
[quote author=callmeRichie post=90639701][/quote]
You're right oh grin
She be confused being.
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by callmeRichie(m): 10:56pm On Jun 13, 2020
CallMeGrace:
You're right oh grin She be confused being.




gringrin

Running away GF, hope you are good?
Re: How Do You Know You've Found The Right Person. by CallMeGrace(f): 11:37pm On Jun 13, 2020
callmeRichie:






gringrin


Running away GF, hope you are good?
Trying oh

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