Adasun:
I learnt dis early sha

tundchip2:
Reminds me of that olamide's song "wonma".
No matter what you do, them go still Bleep am.��
O le te obinrin lorun

Godoverevery:

Good man .....most of us born in late 80's didn't learn early enough and infact is now worst.

Aksnoopy:
I learnt it late at age 30, though I was stingy with money. But the rest of them all, never again will I do it.

Godoverevery:

in 2011 as an undergraduate I bought a girl 3 shoes and one bag total cost 24,500 in one night to mention a few ....in our final year in 2012 this lady told me to my face she never benefited anything from me through out the relationship ....this was a lady I was giving 5k per month to support the 5k she was getting from home.....I can't explain the pain I felt that day....we broke up that day.....2weeks later she came begging all her/my friends beg me.... infact her school father who was a lecturer beg me but I never accepted her back despite how much I loved her because I couldn't stand an ingrate.

Aksnoopy:
Lmao! My last gf told me the same in 2015, this was her words then "Your mates are buying their gf human hair and iPhone and you are here talking about paying for my hostel fees". I was heart broken and broke at the same time. But then I graduated from medical school to the glory of God. Every young man out there should focus on making money, women will come later. I never believed it until now. Even married women are willing to be my gf now and the girls wants me to wife them despite the fact that I don't spend a dime on them. Met a girl I like recently and she was talking about going out, I was like bitch Bleep off!

Godoverevery:
As a man u need to be focus early and not waste the little money and time over bad girls.....I won't advise against dating / courting at this stage because is part of life and is very important to have some experience.
I would like to list some of the mistake you should avoid if at all you want to date....which obviously i made at that stage

1: Date a lady which the feeling is mutual (never beg a lady to love you)
2: Always use your brain and be real (never be a fool in love)
3 : Whatever money you are seeing or making at this stage out of 100% only spend 5% on her. (your family come first at this stage)
4 : Display madness once in awhile..... don't apologise all the time even if you are wrong (trust me is needed).
5: Never be ashamed to tell her you are broke anytime you don't have much (never borrow money to satisfy any lady)
6: Never pay any lady tution or send any lady to school (trust me you will regret it)
7 : Only do what is convenient for you (never take any risk for her sake)
8: Stay away from ladies who want good things but can't work for it but will expect you to provide it (buying her phone etc bro she is not your responsibility)
9: Know your pocket and level (some Ladies are meant for thieves and ritualist)
10 : Date a lady who also give back (someone you can also benefit from financially atimes)

Note : At this stage you shouldn't make the mistake I made relationship wise.....showing i was man enough financially even though it was never convenient for me and that was a very big mistake because it was a total waste.

whatever money you are seeing now don't waste it on any girl.....invest and save it.
what you owe a gf is entertaining her well anytime she comes visit you plus tfare once in awhile....you can help out financially but never let it be on her terms and demand.

U can never satisfy or please a lady so do things that are convenient for you always......even if you give her your kidney she would leave when a richer man show up and tell it to your face #you never did anything for her through out the relationship#....be vigilant and watch her attitudes whenever you don't give in to things she wants.

this my two cents guys.... peace.

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1) Whatever money you are seeing or making at this stage out of 100% only spend 5% on her. (your family come first at this stage)

2) what you owe a gf is entertaining her well anytime she comes visit you plus tfare once in awhile...

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Spot on OP except for the two points above...
1) You are not meant to even spend 0.001% on her....unless you jzt want to ( which i dont advice)
2) If she cant pay for her tfare to visit you then she's not worth your time
GL

Zabiboy:



Spot on OP except for the two points above...
[s]1) You are not meant to even spend 0.001% on her....unless you jzt want to ( which i dont advice)[/s]
2) If she cant pay for her tfare to visit you then she's not worth your time
GL

Zabiboy:



Spot on OP except for the two points above...
1) You are not meant to even spend 0.001% on her....unless you jzt want to ( which i dont advice)
2) If she cant pay for her tfare to visit you then she's not worth your time
GL

roteblomen:
most importantly, develop yourself. It will boost your rank in the attractive scale, which makes you in high demand by women, giving you the mantle to bid for some certain qualities reasonably.

For men at the aforementioned age, youll be dealing mostly with women at their prime, who have lots of male attention and you will be left alone with your reasonable standards, and if you're not developing yourself somehow to bridge this gap, you'll be left with low quality women, and you'll have to settle for standards you dislike, due to lack of choices.

Godoverevery:

1) bro there no way you won't spend ..... 2) giving her tfare atimes isn't too much .... just a gesture you do free will.

1) Really .......SMH....continue spending
2) once again i repeat, if she cant use her tfare to visit you, she's not worth your time...
GL

Zabiboy:


1) Really .......SMH....continue spending
2) once again i repeat, if she cant use her tfare to visit you, she's not worth your time...
GL

Godoverevery:

Bro you have vex finish ......those ladies too know they try some will even demand you transfer tfare before they come and some guys will give in.....that dumbness

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I'm not angry bro...
Its jzt pathetic to see matured men whose behaviours are still rooted in the feminine imperative and they think it's the right/normal thing to do...
Anyways some people would always learn the hard way.