Benitam:
It's terrible.. I know of a man that use to have sex with his maid till she left the house...

And what did you do about it...nothing I guess.. just knowing ...

spiritedtete:
I remember my old friend who told me we should exchange maids.. he had a boy maid i had a girl maid...

So when he saw her and discovered i wasn't doing anything with her.. to my surprise he started begging me to let her come work for him.. it is weird to me though..

How will I be eating goat they ask me to watch over... Godforbid.. I rather go very far even if atall i want to do nonsense.. even for the sake of respecting yourself and your wife please never do your maid... please see it as a taboo.

Did you exchange maids ?

Asadujames202:
To my utmost sincerity
I see nothing wrong with a man sleeping with his wife's sister and maid



Variety is the spice of life
Man's a polygamous being for effing sake

How does a sane mind expect a man to forever cling to one woman all his life?



Our great grandfather's married more than 6 women.

Nothing wrong with this generation of men keeping up with the culture.

but there is nothing wrong too paying all the bills alone and providing for the family alone

GOFRONT:
When you straff your maid in tension or fear, the better or sweeter the pleasure you derive.

There is this unexplained sweetness and pleasure that one experienced when bedding a maid or a wife's younger sister....If only you are not caught and embarrassed oo..

I dey tell you...na devil work b DAT tin oo

robosky02:



But why leave the madam... A woman you are legally married to, a woman you can do without fear or tension


For few minutes with a maid or or sister?

Do you think that all those maids come to your house with ordinary hands? Most of them come with juju to destroy your homes and collect your husband, steal your treasury, hypnotize your children, and manipulate the entire family.

Mypeople2:
What do you want people to discuss ? You want us to discuss how politicians are siphoning our money and telling us to stay at home and wash our hands like people who intend to eat fufu .My dear, there is nothing to discuss these days .

It’s ok dear, discuss what pleases ur fancy. I just raised my opinion. Stay happy .

Parisian:
Betrayal is an anomaly. That it happens doesn't mean it's okay, just like murder.

You are right. I rather chose the lesser devil. Betrayal /murder

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr Isoright
The woman's body is like heaven to the eyes
Hell to the soul purgatory for the wallet
I love pussy
But i can't bang my wife's sister Never. If she like make she be the epitome of beauty A real niggarrr can't do that

Neva criticize a situation u have Neva been

GOFRONT:
When you straff your maid in tension or fear, the better or sweeter the pleasure you derive.

There is this unexplained sweetness and pleasure that one experienced when bedding a maid or a wife's younger sister....If only you are not caught and embarrassed oo..

Wow...you're a very terrible man

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Some women inadvertently convert their maids to madam of the house. The maid assumes the role of a wife (cooks, feeds the children, take the children to school, shops for foodstuff, etc) while the real wife is busy playing madam. It is wrong for both parties. Some smart women do not want maids to cook for oga. Some of the maids have their network. She may be introduced to "forget-me-not" by other unscrupulous maids. Don't think that they don't exchange experiences and ideas.

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icankel:
Is common with most men even to some guys that's pretending above. but I wonder d reason a wife will keep a grown up lady as a maid. if u want to avoid devil and his agents just stay far away from them, we're mostly cause of our predicaments

The real truth and nothing but the truth.

Keeping a grown up lady in your marital home - maid, sister, friend or otherwise - is always a temptation to the man of the house, no matter his religiosity, and an invitation to disaster.

A man's carnal mind is easily affected by a grown woman's body, and it requires the grace and the Spirit of God to overcome every temptation connected to it.

Ingriid:
SMH! This is the only thing we are good at discussing. Sex sex sex, marriage , is ur bf/ gf good in bed, my bf is cheating on me bla bla bla. All of us ( youth) will be alright in this country . sha!

This is the only forum that has the highest followers and contributors...because relationship and family issues are so cheap and easy to discuss. But go to politics, investment, business, Technology, Agriculture, Computer, Religion, etc, hardly can you find many contributors.
when you create a new thread on relationships you have many likes and shares...because so many relationships and sex experiences
But when you create a new thread on Politics, except the topics has sth to do with Igbo tribes or Yoruba tribe, hardly will you have more likes and shares

All these men shouting betrayal upandan so girls can hit u up
U b man, it's in ur Gene to be polygamous but....


to stay faithful is to stay disciplined, to stay disciplined is to abtain from what will make you commit.
Why that fvck will you hire a sexy maid, u might look away but dicckks got a mind of its own.
Hire a sexy, tall, 6 pacz filled niggur and see if ur wife won't fvck him

Why I like some ladies is because they don't perceive what they won't eat, that way u can't even think about it

For me, I can't hire a maid ooo, and for those fvcking their sisters in law, u ain't a real man, u got no shame at all, u know it won't end well.

When they are caught, they will always blame the devil

michoim:

And what did you do about it...nothing I guess.. just knowing ...

Lol... What am I supposed to do... Inform the woman? Ruin her marriage ? or if they eventually settle, I'll now be the topic of their discussion...

GOFRONT:
If you ve ever straff your maid........ Anytime your maid be like: Aunty, there is something i want to tell you, Na so your mind go want to jump out through your mouth

Mypeople2:
What do you want people to discuss ? You want us to discuss how politicians are siphoning our money and telling us to stay at home and wash our hands like people who intend to eat fufu .My dear, there is nothing to discuss these days .

Lol.. funny man

but why do some men pick interest and pleasure in betraying their loved ones without thinking twice

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

The woman's body is like heaven to the eyes

Hell to the soul
purgatory for the wallet

I love pussy

But i can't bang my wife's sister
Never. If she like make she be the epitome of beauty
A real niggarrr can't do that

i need to save this somewhere this is one hell of a poetry my nigga take 1 wrap of sk from burna boy terry g will pay for you

Women should understand that; whatever you refuse to give your husband at home, he is sure to get it outside in abundance. Sex, respect, love, good food even peace of mind. Many women 'push' their husbands outside by denying them of basic conjugal benefits.

First of all we need to ASScertain the ASSets of the maid. Big ass, big breasts, big thighs, or is she an all-rounder, does she have thick lips - from this we can deduce if it is seduction or village people.

robosky02:
Married men sleeping with their wife sister or maid: let's talk about it.

I was shocked what I heard my neighbours maid telling someone behind my window how my neighbour refused to settle her and what she is planning to do to him.

From the gist the maid said since she came over to live with my neighbour she has never had rest.
My neighbour just say Mr John (I have to change the name for safety) lives with his wife and two little kids. And he is a contractor while his wife works as an accountant in a thriving company. So she leaves very early to work leaving the two little kids at home. Initially her mum was staying withe the kids till she left.

So now the man and the wife goes out together leaving the kids with the maid.

The issue now is, very early the man will dress up with the wife and escort her to the junction sometimes even enter car before her on their way to work.

But in less than 30 minutes he will be back home. By then the maid has drop the kids in school.

The next thing straight to the maids room and ...... Till he is done.

She said this has been going on for weeks. And the issue now she too want to gain or else we will make sure madam finds out. If he refuse to settle her.

Let's talk about it. Some case is the wife sister. Or even worse case

Na the madam dey worry the house keepers (boys)...


Abeg lets deal with this how to safe the relationship

dairykidd:
Lol.. funny man

Ingriid:

It’s ok dear, discuss what pleases ur fancy. I just raised my opinion. Stay happy .

Your opinion is well received. Thank you

Lord have mercy on us all

Only in Africa you will see this not surprised ,nigerians love anything related to sex more than anything , see views you will never see them discuss or create a topic on nairaland towards moving this country forward. Damn block heads.

Gforce2015:


This is the only forum that has the highest followers and contributors...because relationship and family issues are so cheap and easy to discuss. But go to politics, investment, business, Technology, Agriculture, Computer, Religion, etc, hardly can you find many contributors.
when you create a new thread on relationships you have many likes and shares...because so many relationships and sex experiences
But when you create a new thread on Politics, except the topics has sth to do with Igbo tribes or Yoruba tribe, hardly will you have more likes and shares

It’s just the way we think in this part of the world; I’m not excluding myself in any way.

A ‘ Mark Zuckerberg or Naomi Osaka”May likely not raise such topic at 3:02pm. I hope we get it right someday; infact verrrrry soon. Thanks for ur contribution.

GOFRONT:
If you ve ever straff your maid........ Anytime your maid be like: Aunty, there is something i want to tell you, Na so your mind go want to jump out through your mouth

But why would a man want to jump his house help when he has a wife? Unless the wife is not representing. Cos I don't see what will push a man to go beyond his bedroom. I really don't understand it.

Samiah33:

See your reasoning, why the violence? What happened to divorcing his sorry ass and keep the key to the house. If it was a man now all you’ll hear is gender violence nonsense

Don't mind her jare. Funny thing is, women cheat more than men these days. They play the game better than men, and when a man catches his cheating wife, he is expected to "act like a man".... Men have really suffered.

rosy1992:
This is the highest level of betrayal, a man who does this heinous act, can easily kill his wife.

really he just loves sex .. no murder capacity involved

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

The woman's body is like heaven to the eyes

Hell to the soul
purgatory for the wallet

I love pussy

But i can't bang my wife's sister
Never. If she like make she be the epitome of beauty
A real niggarrr can't do that

that's what the last one said Sha , now he's a proud father of a bouncy baby boy.