Love and marriage my black ass.

Bunch of Lord of the rings.

You are still thinking a woman loves you in 2020.

The Angels are praying for you in Heaven.

kurupt1:


The building part is the riskest part?
See una mentality? So u want a man to build and sweat and u just pack into his life without building with him?
This is not how the older generation saw life.Most women then started from scratch with their husbands!
Continue to look for who has built,let you park in .What a lazy mentality
Do you know what it means when you are someone's wife?

This is a very stupid mentality. Financial stability is a must for every right thinking man before going into marriage.

You're not doing her a favour by being a provider, protector to your family. Your legacy dies without the right woman. And your building doesn't end when you marry. Your 1 million will turn to 10 million with the right woman.

It's weak men that think they need a woman to build with from scratch and any woman getting into such an arrangement is shooting herself in the foot.

I swear you know what's up. I'm really fed up and gradually going into depression but God nor go shame us

Samadhii:
In my own opinion, the hardest thing to acquire is a job as a fresh graduate. I don't know if I'm the only one :PIn my own opinion, the hardest thing to acquire is a job as a fresh graduate. I don't know if I'm the only one

onwuakpachris:
only when naija men start looking beyond beauty nd sex appeal..and naija ladies start looking beyond money nd material benefits will they find their perfect life partners...shalom..

100%

mikebabs101:
ladies should stop saying this. In most cases, even when the man was broke, the lady was still a liability and offers not much than sex and little gains just because she hasn't found a better option, even if you check most ladies that claim to be with broke guys , they are still cheating on the broke guy with more comfortable men and trying to expand her tentacles if she will lucky to land a ready made man. I have one in my contact , always forming love and love quotings with one broke guy , but will readily come and give me a good sex anytime I want with just 5k. So its just normal if the broke guy decides to change his taste when he become successful cos he only pretended, endured and took a lot of shits cos he doesn't have many option when he was broke.There are exceptions though, but these exceptions are mostly from girls from a relatively financially comfortable family not the hungry ones we have these days

another reason I don’t take chances.. it’s better u date a okay man , than dating a broke guy with the possibility that he might leave you . U never know the true character of a man till he has money . Nothing like a good broke man

Swtbabyvee:
to me there are jobs everywhere, just that many guys hv a standard they want and money they want , forgetting that many people started from somewhere . If u are looking for a 20k job u would see one in weeks .

would you agree to date me if I tell you that I am collecting 20K per month. be sincere

True..but i'm not worried cus i've not met my mrs right,rather i put all my attention in my dreams to come..mrs right will definately come later if she doesnt come now

Its hard 2 find a girl who is ready 2 manage with u. Every girl wants it all. Even if she agrees 2 tag along with u in your broke state. Chances are she might leave u in di future

mikebabs101:
ladies should stop saying this. In most cases, even when the man was broke, the lady was still a liability and offers not much than sex and little gains just because she hasn't found a better option, even if you check most ladies that claim to be with broke guys , they are still cheating on the broke guy with more comfortable men and trying to expand her tentacles if she will lucky to land a ready made man. I have one in my contact , always forming love and love quotings with one broke guy , but will readily come and give me a good sex anytime I want with just 5k. So its just normal if the broke guy decides to change his taste when he become successful cos he only pretended, endured and took a lot of shits cos he doesn't have many option when he was broke.There are exceptions though, but these exceptions are mostly from girls from a relatively financially comfortable family not the hungry ones we have these days

Your assertions are � correct. I have dated ladies from humble backgrounds in the past, while my current girlfriend is from a rich home, though not super rich. I will talk about the experiences later in the day, I'm on duty presently.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

I wear my intellectual cap abi thinking cap while reading between lines with keen interest
I understand the message you are trying to pass

You mean say
Wetin go be go be!
Which means our action in life most times don't change our destiny...
Maybe true sha o

Because some girls with their annoying character gets a nice man.
And the ones with nice character won't get anything.
Life is really funny sha and life is not fair

my dear life no balance at all .

efosky1246:


This is a very stupid mentality. Financial stability is a must for every right thinking man before going into marriage.

You're not doing her a favour by being a provider, protector to your family. Your legacy dies without the right woman. And your building doesn't end when you marry. Your 1 million will turn to 10 million with the right woman.

It's weak men that think they need a woman to build with from scratch and any woman getting into such an arrangement is shooting herself in the foot.

well said . Thank you

extol1:

would you agree to date me if I tell you that I am collecting 20K per month. be sincere

there are so many women who would . Trust me

Swtbabyvee:
there are so many women who would . Trust me

maybe not in our contemporary Nigeria. even by response, you can't stay with such a man that earn that kind of money.

irumanle:
Your assertions are � correct. I have dated ladies from humble backgrounds in the past, while my current girlfriend is from a rich home, though not super rich. I will talk about the experiences later in the day, I'm on duty presently.

please do us a favor and come back to tell us the full gist

Swtbabyvee:
to me there are jobs everywhere, just that many guys hv a standard they want and money they want , forgetting that many people started from somewhere . If u are looking for a 20k job u would see one in weeks .

This is 2020, how can you be looking for 20k job. You cannot build a home with that. Please if you're earning 20k as a guy don't think of relationship. Yes I'm also a guy. A fresh graduate too. Please take away that idea off your mind. Don't father children you won't be able to take care of that's wickedness. Just imagine your child struggling the same way you're struggling with your career now? Please in our quest for love and building a home, let's think about our unborn and make provision for them so when we pass away they will have a soft landing and something to fall back on.

ta! sharrp!, i remember years back, i stay in one room and i was earning 45k a month, i ask that girl to marry me then, b!tch refuse, say i don't have money, up till now that leech never marry, big time desperado, infact that "over used pussy" make me zero my mind about marriage except i find "hymen intact virgin" or i go for babymama way. you can't say from your 18 yrs to date no man have never propose marriage to you, maybe you refuse or give excuse. and for the guys Bleep those desperate girls and move to the next one

extol1:

maybe not in our contemporary Nigeria. even by response, you can't stay with such a man that earn that kind of money.

it’s better than being jobless

Swtbabyvee:
Having a partner seems to be one of the hardest things to get right now. That companionship and friendship, someone to call, someone who calls and care for you , it ain’t easy. Especially for women.

finding true companionship is harder for men than women.

Don't get it twisted. Almost every Nigerian girl has at least 3 mumu men ready to die for her. I don't know if it's true love but it is what it is.

The same is not true for most guys