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Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by SweetCunt97(f): 7:02pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
NobleSeed:So it's not obvious the guy is a sadist and a psycho? He's definitely the type to pull out d Op braids with a plier if she fvcks up. She's even calling the sadistic being Fiance. @Op What ur so-called fiance is dishing out to you ain't love at all. He probably hooks up with other women but realizes their imperfections and come running back to you. A typical time waster. Someone that came to talk after being absent for 5 months wanna come drag my phone? You should have slapped his eye to earn some respect. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by luckyedgal1(m): 7:09pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
[quote author=Tiredagain post=91003019]I am active member here, reason for the pseudo account. Long post alert : I was/have been in a relationship with him for years, initially it was all rosy till he began to switch on/off at intervals.We hardly request for anything from each other because we both work and contented with the little we earn. Each time I sense that he wants to be left alone, I quietly give him his space. I have tried times without number to make him open up to me but it will all seem like a waste which makes me to retreat all the time. Mind you, he knows that i love him and practically can do anything or forgive him anytime he messes up. Our last fight before this was that he called me during working hours and wanted to know if I was chanced to meet him then i asked him if all was well with him, he became angry and dropped the call. I tried reaching out to him for months but he intentionally avoided me, after 3 to 4 months of my efforts, I decided to let him be to concentrate on myself and others, he started stalking me on all online platforms. We later settled though. To the main issue for this post, I have a colleague at work, we discuss practically everything and anything. My other colleagues knows that we are both best friends and nothing else, we also make fun of ourselves on 'stories'. But the issue is that my boyfriend thinks something is beyond that our friendship and that i have things i am hiding from him. To be honest, my best friend has confided a lot to me that i promised him that it would stay between us. Mind you, we have never sex chatted nor call ourselves romantic names of any sorts. So recently, after making up with my fiance, he wanted to meet up with me after so many months, I obliged, only for him to request for my phone, I gave him voluntarily, as he was going through it, he wanted to open the chat I had with my best friend but I forcefully collected the phone from him. I tried talking him out that there's nothing going on between me and my colleague but he assumed and concluded that something is going on between us . He said that my attitude shows that I value my best friend more than him but i tried proving him wrong because some many times, I needed his attention he wasn't there and my best friend is the only one who knows everything and vice versa.. He told me right through my eyes that it is over. Besides, he had once forcefully collected his phone from me sometimes last year when i was updating his WhatsApp for him and I mistakenly stumbled upon a chat of him with a lady.. I never made a case about it with him Honest Truth : I have never involved myself in any sexual act with my best friend or any man apart from my fiance.. I value both my friendship and relationship but my fiance is making me to choose Please i need your genuine opinion Help a sister Was i wrong What advice would you give to me Please i don't wish for it to make Frontpage because either of them would see and know who's behind the post because they are both members but not active� Modified : the content of the chat I had with my colleague was about my fiance and there were so many provoking words in it, reason i did what i did because I never intended hurting him[/quote You did wrong for not allowing him to go through your phone..certainly since you did not allow him, he will definitely believe that you and the guy is having an affair..bet me even if you give him now for him to check he will still have his thoughts. Make and female making best friends don't allow end well. It's either the guy will develop feelings for the girl or the girl will..its a matter of time. You have to chose who you value more now. |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by luckyedgal1(m): 7:12pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
You did wrong for not allowing him to go through your phone..certainly since you did not allow him, he will definitely believe that you and the guy is having an affair..bet me even if you give him now for him to check he will still have his thoughts. Make and female making best friends don't allow end well. It's either the guy will develop feelings for the girl or the girl will..its a matter of time. You have to chose who you value more now. |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by NobleSeed(m): 7:19pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Truth though ibkonekt: |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by NobleSeed(m): 8:12pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Hmm hope say if u dey the op shoes you will do as you just typed? #Slapped his eyes to earn some respect SweetCunt97: |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by roybanjo100(m): 8:47pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
tunize:you are very stupid u know, i follow u talk? abi u dey mad niii |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by tunize(m): 9:09pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
roybanjo100:i have already made my point one love bro |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Ayodejewel(f): 9:15pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
I think you love your fiance more than he loves you. Probably, he's your first love. That's how he'll keep treating you because he knows you love him more. It has happened to me, still happening though. Whenever you try to move on, he comes from no where and act all loving, and then creates a problem again and then disappears! You want the truth, please try to move on. Call off the relationship and then you can have peace of mind. That colleague of yours is throwing his shots, it might work out with him. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by ibkonekt(m): 9:59pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Rozz: maybe you should check again, men actually desire to cheat but most time but rarely succeed. women on the other hand sleep around with many top level men because it is easy for a woman to cheat..women are far worse. i hope for a technology that can reveal body-count then women whoredom may reduce a bit |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by pizzzy(m): 12:19am On Jun 25, 2020 |
Dis our generation funny sha he is my bestie, she is just a friend, the man is my uncle. I remember my friend(male) had one bestie like that, his girlfriend usually complained about the bestie he called her insecure, drama queen after they broke up guess who immediately became his next gf i bet u know the answer to that. Let's stop deceiving ourselves 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by eyinjuege: 5:12am On Jun 25, 2020 |
Your bf is manipulative . You're not meant to be together. It's a karmic relationship Leave him now, and find another bf |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by SavageResponse(m): 4:51am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Stop checking your partner's phone if you want to live longer! |
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