placeofallure:


A piece of advice for you, if you ever become a father, and your kid score low in comprehension passages, Don't ever raise your voice, let alone your hands on him or her. It would be a chip off the old block!

Uncle No Network, my grouse isn't about the long distance relationship, it's about you suggestng that she probably asked the man for money, hence the reason for ghosting her.

Try and understand this one, biko. Or which of the dialects do you speak so.....

I gave my 2 reasons why are u hell bent on one ? U can choose to be insulting yourself not me

plus your father and brothers

U sure say u no ask am for money

majamajic:



I gave my 2 reasons why are u hell bent on one ? U can choose to be insulting yourself not me

No insult intended. Sorry if you feel insulted in any way.
For the fact that you gave two reasons doesn't mean I must comment on both. It's a long distance relationship, no argument about that, the reason why I didn't talk about that.

The other reason you gave is that the guy ran away possibly because she was demanding.
In the post, she never said she demanded anything from the guy.

Maybe I'm too passionate about guys' general misconception about every girl being a gold digger. There are some of us who are diligent workers, who though have a bf or hubby figure in our lives but don't depend on them for our daily needs, we have hands and we put them to good use.

Once again, sorry if you're hurt by my words. Ciao!

He is ignoring you because he has found someone to date in his vicinity, he is not coping with the long distance relationship.

placeofallure:


No insult intended. Sorry if you feel insulted in any way.
For the fact that you gave two reasons doesn't mean I must comment on both. It's a long distance relationship, no argument about that, the reason why I didn't talk about that.

The other reason you gave is that the guy ran away possibly because she was demanding.
In the post, she never said she demanded anything from the guy.

Maybe I'm too passionate about guys' general misconception about every girl being a gold digger. There are some of us who are diligent workers, who though have a bf or hubby figure in our lives but don't depend on them for our daily needs, we have hands and we put them to good use.

Once again, sorry if you're hurt by my words. Ciao!

We are all looking at reasons why he ran , and we are looking at possibilities , which demanding might be part of , u didn't expect her to mention it , but as a guy I know what can easily make a guy disappear without notice , that's why I gave 2 most likely reasons.

majamajic:


We are all looking at reasons why he ran , and we are looking at possibilities , which demanding might be part of , u didn't expect her to mention it , but as a guy I know what can easily make a guy disappear without notice , that's why I gave 2 most likely reasons.

Yes Sir!

Stop disturbing my brother

Maybe he just didn't see the need to continue something that would not last long or may cost him even something bigger...ie...He has a relationship already or he just made a personal decision to stop it so not to break ur heart...
Done it before so i know what it means to do it on various cases.

When he found you, u were half-attractive. Now you're -0 attractive.
That's what we do to those of u we no longer like or never liked.
Don't worry u will soon forget him.

NeeKlaus:
Smh.
And so? How many guys are you ignoring on your Whatsapp currently? Go and reply all of them first before we can talk about that "guy".

bar man!!give this guy one chilled bottle of beer..what's your brand sir??

It's always hard for girls to accept rejection. Don't worry, Uncle will resurface any day he wants your attention or may be he found someone around his environ to cure his conji for now. You'll be Fine.

Sandrazima:
There is a guy I met few months ago. He has all the qualities I want in a man. I met him him before the locked down when I travelled for a business trip to Abuja where he resides. We had a long interesting conversation and we realized we shared a lot in common and he seemed very into me.

I was sad when I had to return to Lagos because he was such a great guy. He said he occasionally travels to Lagos for meetings and business trips and that made me happy knowing that I would get to see him more.

The lockdown and ban of interstate travel distanced us for months but we exchanged calls and text messages all the time. The more I got to know him the more I fell in love with him. He told me he was attracted to me and I felt the feelings I had for him were mutual. We flirted a lot, exchanged pictures and talked about sexual topics.

A month ago he just stopped responding to my texts and calls. When I text him the messages will go through, but he won't reply. If I call him the phone will ring and he won't pick. We didn't quarrel and put last conversation ended on a good note. It's been a almost a month. I see he is online and he occasionally updates his WhatsApp status so I know nothing is wrong with him. I feel very disrespected.

Why would a guy tell you he likes you, flirt with you and then just disappear from your life? Doesn't he know that he is hurting me by acting in this way? Men are indeed trash.

maybe he is married

Sandrazima:
There is a guy I met few months ago. He has all the qualities I want in a man. I met him him before the locked down when I travelled for a business trip to Abuja where he resides. We had a long interesting conversation and we realized we shared a lot in common and he seemed very into me.

I was sad when I had to return to Lagos because he was such a great guy. He said he occasionally travels to Lagos for meetings and business trips and that made me happy knowing that I would get to see him more.

The lockdown and ban of interstate travel distanced us for months but we exchanged calls and text messages all the time. The more I got to know him the more I fell in love with him. He told me he was attracted to me and I felt the feelings I had for him were mutual. We flirted a lot, exchanged pictures and talked about sexual topics.

A month ago he just stopped responding to my texts and calls. When I text him the messages will go through, but he won't reply. If I call him the phone will ring and he won't pick. We didn't quarrel and put last conversation ended on a good note. It's been a almost a month. I see he is online and he occasionally updates his WhatsApp status so I know nothing is wrong with him. I feel very disrespected.


Why would a guy tell you he likes you, flirt with you and then just disappear from your life? Doesn't he know that he is hurting me by acting in this way? Men are indeed trash.

ROTFLMAO!

OMG! Guys, una replies got me in different stitches but na confirm true yearns una yearn nonetheless . BTW, who amongst u guys dropped this?

When one door closes, another door opens. My sista dont worry. your own will come

It's very simple... He has found a new distraction, so move on.

placeofallure:


No insult intended. Sorry if you feel insulted in any way.
For the fact that you gave two reasons doesn't mean I must comment on both. It's a long distance relationship, no argument about that, the reason why I didn't talk about that.

The other reason you gave is that the guy ran away possibly because she was demanding.
In the post, she never said she demanded anything from the guy.

Maybe I'm too passionate about guys' general misconception about every girl being a gold digger. There are some of us who are diligent workers, who though have a bf or hubby figure in our lives but don't depend on them for our daily needs, we have hands and we put them to good use.

Once again, sorry if you're hurt by my words. Ciao!

WOW do u speak italian ?

majamajic:


Oh , she will ?
No Nigerian girl will admit he demanded from a guy , and u can't chat them without demands , especially those on long distance , when u see u are not going to Lagos soon , na to run
This man will reappear when he is about visiting Lagos !

tell us about the fucking first

Sandrazima:
There is a guy I met few months ago. He has all the qualities I want in a man. I met him him before the locked down when I travelled for a business trip to Abuja where he resides. We had a long interesting conversation and we realized we shared a lot in common and he seemed very into me.

I was sad when I had to return to Lagos because he was such a great guy. He said he occasionally travels to Lagos for meetings and business trips and that made me happy knowing that I would get to see him more.

The lockdown and ban of interstate travel distanced us for months but we exchanged calls and text messages all the time. The more I got to know him the more I fell in love with him. He told me he was attracted to me and I felt the feelings I had for him were mutual. We flirted a lot, exchanged pictures and talked about sexual topics.

A month ago he just stopped responding to my texts and calls. When I text him the messages will go through, but he won't reply. If I call him the phone will ring and he won't pick. We didn't quarrel and put last conversation ended on a good note. It's been a almost a month. I see he is online and he occasionally updates his WhatsApp status so I know nothing is wrong with him. I feel very disrespected.

Why would a guy tell you he likes you, flirt with you and then just disappear from your life? Doesn't he know that he is hurting me by acting in this way? Men are indeed trash.

Repeat after me....say "some" men.....

Because one person trash with you, you now pack us all together....

Kriss216:

A Nigerian girl can buy a car of 3Miliion today and still ask for 1K recharge card tomorrow.

Baba...finishing leleyi kee....

kalex0:

Nice one

They can't handle rejection but the can reject guys

Lol

This is a different case. She probably wouldn't have had a problem with him if they didn't get mutual. Why did he get flirty with her in the first place if he knew he was going to eventually treat her this way? 'cause it seems premeditated to me. Bros, women get wahala but let's call a spade a spade, the guy is wrong for ignoring her just like that. He should have at least told her what she did wrong.

BTW, is it by force for a lady to accept you? She nor like you na im be say she nor like you. Move on!

Don't call me an ass licker, I'm simply being realistic.

fecosequence:
bar man!!give this guy one chilled bottle of beer..what's your brand sir??

Bitter lemon, Sir.
Bitter lemon with a spoonful of 5Alive.

Sandrazima:


He is not married. I know this for sure. I have his social media handles.

He's above your standard. You have been ignoring guys who are below your taste for a long time. You too should taste rejection small.

Na the new way now. If you get to meet a babe who aint up to your standard or class. Dump her silly ass. No time to waste. Some babes think they are smart , well to do, intelligent, cute but when you have a conversation with them youbget to see they are empty and can only serve one purpose, sex.

Sandrazima:
There is a guy I met few months ago. He has all the qualities I want in a man. I met him him before the locked down when I travelled for a business trip to Abuja where he resides. We had a long interesting conversation and we realized we shared a lot in common and he seemed very into me.

I was sad when I had to return to Lagos because he was such a great guy. He said he occasionally travels to Lagos for meetings and business trips and that made me happy knowing that I would get to see him more.

The lockdown and ban of interstate travel distanced us for months but we exchanged calls and text messages all the time. The more I got to know him the more I fell in love with him. He told me he was attracted to me and I felt the feelings I had for him were mutual. We flirted a lot, exchanged pictures and talked about sexual topics.

A month ago he just stopped responding to my texts and calls. When I text him the messages will go through, but he won't reply. If I call him the phone will ring and he won't pick. We didn't quarrel and put last conversation ended on a good note. It's been a almost a month. I see he is online and he occasionally updates his WhatsApp status so I know nothing is wrong with him. I feel very disrespected.

Why would a guy tell you he likes you, flirt with you and then just disappear from your life? Doesn't he know that he is hurting me by acting in this way? Men are indeed trash.

Its usually sad when people behave in such way with no reason whatsoever. It doesn't show a sign of maturity. I'm sure the same person will also feel bad if another person did same thing to him.

However, i can assure you that you dodged a bullet. It goes to show you the type of person he is, someone who doesn't care about how their acts and inactions affect other people. Simple courtesy and good etiquette entails that he should at least reply you and tell you what's going on.

Having said that, you didn't say in your write up that both of you were dating. You said you guys
"...flirted a lot, exchanged pictures and talked about sexual topics." Well, in my understanding, it doesn't amount to anything as it is something most people do without getting emotional about it.

You also said you guys share mutual attraction. Mutual attraction is good if you want to take a relationship to the next level, but as you have stated, you guys weren't dating. Mutual attraction fades off eventually if there are few contacts between the persons involved.

Finally, remember that when you say all men are trash, that includes your father and your brothers. Your post would have still been made without insulting more than 3 billion men in the whole world just because you felt one guy treated you badly.

Regards!!!

Sandrazima:
There is a guy I met few months ago. He has all the qualities I want in a man. I met him him before the locked down when I travelled for a business trip to Abuja where he resides. We had a long interesting conversation and we realized we shared a lot in common and he seemed very into me.

I was sad when I had to return to Lagos because he was such a great guy. He said he occasionally travels to Lagos for meetings and business trips and that made me happy knowing that I would get to see him more.

The lockdown and ban of interstate travel distanced us for months but we exchanged calls and text messages all the time. The more I got to know him the more I fell in love with him. He told me he was attracted to me and I felt the feelings I had for him were mutual. We flirted a lot, exchanged pictures and talked about sexual topics.

A month ago he just stopped responding to my texts and calls. When I text him the messages will go through, but he won't reply. If I call him the phone will ring and he won't pick. We didn't quarrel and put last conversation ended on a good note. It's been a almost a month. I see he is online and he occasionally updates his WhatsApp status so I know nothing is wrong with him. I feel very disrespected.

Why would a guy tell you he likes you, flirt with you and then just disappear from your life? Doesn't he know that he is hurting me by acting in this way? Men are indeed trash.

it is because you have nothing to offer him neither are you adding any positive growth to his career.
the only thing u have to offer is your stinking pussy of which after lashing he had to opt for a better lady.
take heart and go for your type

SweetCunt97:
Did she mention anything about demanding?

shut up

Humanoid01:

This is a different case. She probably wouldn't have had a problem with him if they didn't get mutual. Why did he get flirty with her in the first place if he knew he was going to eventually treat her this way? 'cause it seems premeditated to me. Bros, women get wahala but let's call a spade a spade, the guy is wrong for ignoring her just like that. He should have at least told her what she did wrong.

BTW, is it by force for a lady to accept you? She nor like you na im be say she nor like you. Move on!

Don't call me an ass licker, I'm simply being realistic.

Is it by force for the guy to keep talking to her
He no like am again ma Im be say he no like her...
Tell the motherfucker to move on.

I'm being realistic here too

Ass licker!!!

placeofallure:


No insult intended. Sorry if you feel insulted in any way.
For the fact that you gave two reasons doesn't mean I must comment on both. It's a long distance relationship, no argument about that, the reason why I didn't talk about that.

The other reason you gave is that the guy ran away possibly because she was demanding.
In the post, she never said she demanded anything from the guy.

Maybe I'm too passionate about guys' general misconception about every girl being a gold digger. There are some of us who are diligent workers, who though have a bf or hubby figure in our lives but don't depend on them for our daily needs, we have hands and we put them to good use.

Once again, sorry if you're hurt by my words. Ciao!

U sound like a very matured lady.

Where do u stay??
This is the first time I'm asking a nairalander this Q.

I'm not hitting on u biko