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Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by DexterousOne(m): 11:11pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
alramon: I know a man and his younger sister who still live with parents And they both have respective good jobs Will you say that their value has reduced? There are young men making hundreds of thousands monthly Still in their parents house Has their value reduced Your value reduces when you add no value to yourself and the house at thag age Not because of the fact that you are still in the house 4 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ruffDiamond: 11:12pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Lemme tell u something today's children are mostly overgrown baby!sissified asshole modafuckerz,who can't even support or, feed themselves, for a day! Damn!one of the useless undergraduate uniguy on lockdown stole our led TV all in a bid to support his ganja smoking habit!useless lots! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by OBku4(m): 11:12pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
wish we could all learn. There is something called "leaving your comfort zone". Pls young men, never have this mindset the OP is advocating for and on this matter, don't listen to comments from ladies! they always talk based on emotions Boys must know from a young age, that at a certain age they are required to leave home and be independent This mindset helps boys become responsible. for those who r religious, didn't the Bible say, "for this reason, a man shall leave his father & mother and be united to his wife" 4 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Mypeople2(m): 11:17pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Bigyusluv:The problem is most guys are listening to the ladies that still live with parents telling them to move out of their father's house .It is not easy to move out of your house and be healthy .You will be shocked to see expenses you never bargained for . In addition, even that babe encouraging you to leave your father's house will leave you saying you are not caring since you no longer give her the money you used to give to her when you were in your father's house . So if you want to live your parent's house, make sure you have something tangible to do and stay away from babes that will want to milk you .If not ,you will not grow 7 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Dangrace01: 11:17pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
sexylassie2: Nobody pursue me from my house in Lagos. I just pack my bag run. I am in owerri marketing online for my niggas in Lagos running my web design business in owerri. At least I have met new people who have moved my life forward. I never blow but on God. I don't know whether it's pride I can't just stay with my people it's too comfortable for me 3 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by DexterousOne(m): 11:18pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Bakin3: Well said Dont rush the process 1 Like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Athemisia: 11:20pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Okuda:@ 20, I brought my gf to the house my parents no talk |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by DexterousOne(m): 11:20pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
ruffDiamond: Wow this is serious Hope yi apprehended and dealt with the bagger very well |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by armadeo(m): 11:20pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Atiku: Whenever you can afford to live on your own. Till then accept it. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by OBku4(m): 11:23pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
And if you are still in your parents house, you must know that it is not ok to be there. You are required to leave there and become independent Men are wired by nature/God to know this. We are 'husslers', we go out to 'hunt'. We were designed that way This new kind of mindset kills... not just the person who has it, but also the male children he raises 2 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Akhirastriver(m): 11:24pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
bukatyne:Okay ,at least there are shes with sense ,more grease to ur elbow |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by neyobills: 11:26pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
prekumohtim: Lol which European parents Italians are famed to live in with their parents almost for life,don’t take my word for it google is your friend 1 Like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Gabkosh: 11:28pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Bigyusluv:Abundance blessing fall on you my brother. Let them keep deceiving themselves. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by JoffreyBeroth(m): 11:30pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
RemiAbdulSamad: Samad, you’ll be ok. Wanna play chess? |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Ategberoson(m): 11:31pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
abbey621: those liking your upside down talk are doing you no good kid I don't need you to understand my post since you're staying under your parents roof. so those staying or relying on their parents for survival, if those parents die today, what would be of them tomorrow? won't they survive? that should be the reason for all guys to hustle because If those parents receive the nature calls, what would be of them? you need a good intellect to decode my post, I'm a victim of this mom & dad things and leaving faraway from the house rewrite my success story till date. I'm giving reasonable hustlers advise and you're forcing me to reason like the Op that have the same mental class with you 2 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
neyobills:Have seen a lot of videos where they got their children arrested and some had to chase them out through court |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Fortune109: 11:34pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
chatinent: Make una dey lie small small abeg |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by slimjosh231(m): 11:42pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Vyzz:Hahaha. BUSTED”. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by richyfunky(m): 11:45pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Savage |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Elsueno: 11:46pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
I am going to live in my papas house Eat his food, Enjoy free electricity & even watch his cable tv. I ain't going nowhere till am married, even at that, am moving into one of his empty apartments till I finish building my own. If you like move out at 10, as for me, I just finished chopping half a chicken from the kitchen a few hours ago..pretty sure breakfast will be brought to my room b4 I go shop tomorrow 6 Likes
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Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by richyfunky(m): 11:50pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
RemiAbdulSamad:Trust me, everything will be fine soon, I was once in your shoes, my brother e no easy 1 Like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by abbey621(m): 11:57pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Ategberoson: So much rubbish in one post, I find your comments very comical . If only you calmed yourself, you would realize that I support hustling fully, only part that I fault you is thinking just moving away from parent/s' house is enough to be called an hustler. I'm not even going to entertain the other nonsense you wrote because when I was hustling in the streets of Mushin all the way to Ago-Iwoye from 2002-2007, you were probably still wearing pants on the street playing with cans. Nigga listen, farabale make you no injure yourself, English can be confusing sometimes so I understand if you feel threatened, go back and read my posts but this time read slowly! 4 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by SpeciallyUnique(m): 12:00am On Jul 30, 2020 |
THE PRESIDENT OF GHANA LIVED IN HIS FATHER’S HOUSE TILL HE BECAME PRESIDENT IN 2016. HE’LL STILL MOVE TO THE SAME PLACE AFTER HE FINISHES HIS TERM. HE LOVES THAT HOUSE. 2 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Ogaonos: 12:01am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Doyouhavehoil:most pple leave their parent house because of relationship/hangout freedom mostly.staying in Ur parent house good in our harsh economic society.one u save money to establish ursef. 1 Like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by CalebLebsco56(m): 12:02am On Jul 30, 2020 |
I want to categorically tell you that is not by Age but your responsibility at home to offer something atleast to show sign you can live on your own.. But the number one matter is this if you dont have a better income that can sustain you out there and you managing menial job...how will you survive out there...its not by living your parents because you are 25 or 28 ...its your capacity to survive out there....The truth remains depends on your family..some family even you are 25 and have something doing like handwork Baba you must remain with them oh..only when you have a decent job that pays always before you will b allowed to stay.. Also get in mind some homes have outside compound and rooms even when you are 30 or 35 you will be allowed to stay only when you want to get married and decide to go rent your own apartment. My opinion is nobody should rush you or decieve you if you have rest of mind at home, the main thing is what you can offer not only eat and mama thankyou.. When its right time and you have steady income by 25 you can leave..i know pple who are 35yrs still under same roof with there parents..checkout ladies too that has not gotten suitors, you want them to kill thereself......comfortZone is not really good for some1 that is 30 or above staying with his parents, but when no means to survive whats the essence, since he can assist financially at home its fine..but if he gets something tangible he is supposed to live. This Life no balance. 1 Like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by seanwilliam(m): 12:04am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Atiku:if you are making money, and paying certain Bill's with them, then they would never be anything like "unacceptable " |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by seanwilliam(m): 12:07am On Jul 30, 2020 |
chatinent:ogbeni next time, always write in full. Your first post is confusing and ambiguous... if I know read this one now , I no go know you are saying something meaningful.. no be everybody sabi guess.. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Nobody: 12:15am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Married and living with his dad? Munzy14: |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Julius209(m): 12:20am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Truth be told,I left home at the age of 19-year-old immediately I finished my secondary school. I was born in a remote village in Oyo state and my parent parted ways just when I was 2-year-old owned to the fact that my dad was a christian while my mum was a Muslim.i was brought up by my granny .My dad is a drunkard who doesn't care about children so immediately I finished my secondary school I left the village unceremoniously for Lagos .On getting to Lagos,I started riding okada and was sleeping inside a shop with my fellow okada boys thou we paid the show owner every week as we all know that there's no free thing in Lagos but due to the passion I have for academic and owing to the fact there is no a single graduate in my family, I decided to further my education so fastforward to 2016 I obtained jamb form and I was admitted to a state polytechnic in ibadan .I struggled to finish my OND.did my one year industrial training in a insurance company in Lagos and now I am 24- year-old in 100level(Unilag) so presently , I am with my mum in sokoto and I am putting my eyes on graphics design and programming but now my step-dad has started complaining of me staying with them as he is always fighting my mum over my matter. So this life get as he be jareh. Note: I went through a lot just keep the story short 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Ategberoson(m): 12:21am On Jul 30, 2020 |
abbey621: I will take you and your family not just on English writing but its rudiments, logic and application. your parents failed to imbibe minding your business in your upbringing hence this your show of stupidity if I don't intrude in your opinion, you've no reason to stand against mine I'm not buying the Op submission in regards to something and you want my post to pictured with his own submission? this show the level of your dumbness. if you like stay under bridge at mushin for 300yrs that's your problem you claimed to be a street guy but you forget street person have no time to be finding fault in one personal opinion you think na everyone wey dey street dey streetwise, you can spend 100yrs in street and still get lower brain than ajebuter as you've now I don't know why someone can't just learn to corporate with their mental guideline when their mental provider had failed them. you want to use me learn words but I will so disappoint you in regards, I'm not that civil 3 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by askakim(m): 12:42am On Jul 30, 2020 |
We should be constructive when making contributions.. not all fingers are equal... my younger brother left home immediately after school.. I waited two good years after Nysc to rent my own apartment... we actually left same time.. What have learnt is God will only help those who planned ahead of time. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by abbey621(m): 12:44am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Ategberoson: - Ladies & Gentlemen I present.....The future of Nigeria |
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