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Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Doyouhavehoil: 1:17pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Ogaonos: U v said it all my friend |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Akhigbeblog(m): 1:19pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
chatinent:Yeah true, I'm very sorry |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by richiepolymer(m): 1:55pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Well......I beg to differ on this subject. Somehow, humans don't tend to improve on their efforts if they find a comfort zone. If you remain under your parents, they will co tell your life and make decisions for you. Of course they are wiser and more experienced than you. They will use this to achieve their domination and manipulate you at will. The sad part is that you will loose your free will and personality. You can never be totally responsible while under your parents roof. So long they are footing most of the bills you can never make progress as a man. If you leave to stay under the bridge, believe me, you will turn out a better person if you are focused and determined. First reality will hit you knowing nobody will provide your next meal for you. Any job that comes your way you will gladly take just to make ends meet. Your life will start to have a sense of direction and purpose. At his point you will start to discover yourself, your strengths, your weakness and what you need to do to survive. I left my parents house without a job. My parents were very well comfortable and their pension could feed a family of 5 comfortably. I discovered I wasn't making any progress with my life while remaining under their roof. I wasn't lacking anything under them. I learnt a spiritual lesson and I decided to give it a try. As soon as I left their house, I used borrowed money to rent an apartment (imagine the risk), I told my God to prove me right or wrong that being independent is gainful and is progressive. After 5 months, I miraculously got a job that paid very well. I was so shocked what I was missing all these years. This is no Nollywood! This is experience, true life experience. I began to understand how I have been manipulated and controlled all the while. Today, I am the head of my home, the driver of the destiny of my life. I won't lie to you, it is better to leave your parents house and suffer to gain your respect and dignity than to bask in the comfort of your parent's house. Think about it. When you're responsible spiritually, the heavens will move for your cause. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by jnoz23(m): 2:26pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Jman24:experience is my best teacher, you can believe whatever u like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by chatinent: 2:41pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Akhigbeblog:It's all right. My epistle is true. I strive to get daily bread. That's my nature. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by abbey621(m): 3:53pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Ategberoson: Guy your village people strong gan o, dem just dey use you constitute nuisance. I'll continue praying for you while I'm counting my dollars....Look me up if you're ever in Atlanta, I might be able to educate you some more....PEACE! |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by DaInferno(m): 4:02pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
chatinent:this is evidence that you can be harsh and still make it... ontop simple question see para!? |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Ategberoson(m): 4:05pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
abbey621: mushin street hustler chest beating to suit his ignorance, I doubt if you're Yoruba because we no dey chest beat that your bolded phrase, what point at you trying to passed out exactly because the grammar is weak me you obviously have nothing to say, I'll just leave you to swim on your foolishness |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by abbey621(m): 4:09pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Ategberoson: English is simple, comprehension on the other hand is very hard! Educate yourself my man and stop this foolery |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by chatinent: 4:58pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
DaInferno:It depends on what you consider as harsh. Read the conversation from beginning again. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by sunmarouk(m): 5:46pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
ArticleBeast: what's there to learn. why are you guyz rejoicing in suffering. it doesn't matter how someone got the money, the most important thing is, he has money. Learn the life all you want, you will all still meet in same market, same bank, only difference would be, wrinkles on the huzzlers face & still not be successful as the other person |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ArticleBeast: 5:56pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
sunmarouk:Ok |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by sunmarouk(m): 5:58pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
ArticleBeast: yes ooo, by his grace, I am. doing little business here and there to put food on the table, but definitely not enough to pay my coming house rent. I just wished I had a free accommodation/house, so I will only worry about my stomach, marry and continue my life. Can't be huzzling my life away na, gat to settle down at some good age, not when I reach 40yrs |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by vickydevoka(m): 8:00pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
eedimo:I turned 300 in my fathers house, buh de problem is dat I'm too comfortable I found an apartment to pay my parents started begging me , de reported me toy brother. Buh dis January I must leave whether de want it or not |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by vickydevoka(m): 8:02pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
eedimo:I turned 300 in my fathers house, buh de problem is dat I'm too comfortable with them, I found an apartment to pay buh my parents started begging me to stay , de reported me elder brother. Buh dis January I must leave whether de want it or not. Buh y it's lyk dat is bcuz I help Dem in dere business alot 1 Like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Ategberoson(m): 8:06pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
abbey621: irony of life, only you claimed to be mushin warlord now you don reach Atlanta, the foool too like better thing your family enter airport before? unlike me I don't need to be bragging here, you're even too low to be bragging with. go and play with your toys and hide your foolishnesss out of here |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by abbey621(m): 8:39pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Ategberoson: It's called experience, lil boy! From 2002-2007, I rugged pass you, From idi-oro to bariga I belonged to the streets, don't worry tho feel free to look into my profile, I'm sure you'll pick up a few life lessons along the way It's not called bragging if you can back it up, you really need to stop talking now because your profile already revealed you're just another hungry nigga with big mouth, you can continue arguing with your landlord to have mercy on your poverty stricken life
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Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by QueTeddy: 8:45pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Julius209: Bro, where you at in sokoto? |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Ategberoson(m): 8:53pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
abbey621: I have been engaging a 17yrs old boy since, what an insult. can you dig more of the post? who knows it might revive your lost common sense from the beginning of my post you've been reading something upside down that's why I called you don't understand English language. I've no reason to explained anything to a lowlifes like you, even if I've 1bn dollars, my 1kobo will never get to the hands of any useless npf you read that but unfortunately your brain failed you unlike me I won't even visit any station if not for some neighbors, leave your parents house now before your brain retrogress finished |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by abbey621(m): 9:36pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Ategberoson: I've seen it all on Nairaland....At this point na to just use you dey catch tripz...ODE |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Ategberoson(m): 9:52pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
abbey621: Tripz indeed. your brain is doing overheating, visit a rewire at the psychiatric for a reset I've said it earlier that you are just one low life attention seeker but I'm telling you, this will be my last civil response for you |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by abbey621(m): 10:01pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Ategberoson: |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by MetalJigsaw(m): 11:45pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
chatinent:You rented a room in a few months with how much salary? At 14? Oga no dey Bobo us joo |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by MetalJigsaw(m): 11:47pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Vyzz:Don't be a fool to believe that.. sorry to say |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Mryacks: 4:12am On Aug 01, 2020 |
bukatyne: Well said... 1 Like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Julius209(m): 7:52pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
QueTeddy:gidabawuri.you stay in sokoto? |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by QueTeddy: 8:41am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Julius209: Army barracks. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Clicked(f): 12:28pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
TalkTalkTwins: Please which part of Owerri do you stay? I'm considering moving there too, cos of the same reason as yours. Plus as much as I like Lagos, it is too chaotic for me, I like the pace of life in Owerri. Can you recommend any place that has running water, security, and constant electricity? I would have loved Ikenegbu but it might be too expensive for me. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by TalkTalkTwins(m): 1:39pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
Clicked: I stay at Ikenegbu bro, but I'm considering moving to Akwakuma now because it's more cool. EVEN Amakohia has good light with lesser noise |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Clicked(f): 4:27pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
TalkTalkTwins: Does self-con at Amakohia cost more than 200k? |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by TalkTalkTwins(m): 8:48pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
Clicked: No, I doubt. There are ones of 140k even, depending on the area |
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