2buff:

OP, one of the causes of infidelity (infact, a major one) is the sin of comparing your current partner to partners you've had in the past.
This will ALWAYS happen, be it actively or subconsciously, unless God helps you.

There are times even when I'm with someone else that I would sit back and start reminiscing of some freaky chick who blew my mind back in the day and who does it better than the current. This may go on for sometime, until I catch myself and actively snap myself out of it. Without me actively battering these thoughts aside, issues could arise later in my relationship, because "ermm I've had better". And thus this deadly cycle continues. . . except God intervenes.

As a person who marries as a virgin, you don't have to deal with that. Because the best is the person who you've given your virginity to and that person is your wife/hubby. You don't really care for anything different.
It also hold more meaning to you that you have given yourself purely to this one person, and this person is your spouse, and that you both will be together throughout your earthly life. It's definitely a nice warm feeling, and a great accomplishment . . . . but gaddemmit that girl got some nice thick azz thighs RIGHT NOW

deniyor:

With Mrs Chima and co virgins,I guess I am one too cos my experience is not up to 1/200th of theirs.

Mrs.Chima:

So if you are a virgin, how come you don't think my married arse is not a virgin too?

NONA20:

Okay good, different strokes for different folks as the white man would say, i have not seen any reasonable reply to this issue so far. What am saying is that is it good for me to still be a virgin at this age, am i not gonna be affected in the nearest future (i mean if i am married) most people say i will be inexperienced if the actual day comes and that my wife would not enjoy me. Aat that since i broke up with

deniyor:

Please refer privately to your husband's very busy 17 inch cock tool

chic2pimp:



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Kelvin0:

It is quite funny, different strokes for different folks as the whiteman will say, you Nairalanders are confusing me the more, an experienced friend told me that my wife is gonna kook down on me if i am not sexually active and she might end up cheating on me because of that, pls i need your advice is it safe to still be a virgin at this age of mine, i mean do i stand to loose anything if i give up this idea of virginity and look for woman that will sooth my desires,

chic2pimp:

Seek Serious Help Poster.

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savanaha:

Lame

chic2pimp:

Seek Serious Help Poster.

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Benstino:

Judging by the attachment of "P-I-M-P" in your name,I expects no other form of comment 4rm u.If there ain't any devil,there ain't any evil.

Mrs, Chima:

Having sex with another human is not hard to do. Anybody even a dog can have sex and some people just DON'T KNOW HOW TO REMAIN a virgin. Let use you as an example.

savanaha:

Lame

Benstino:

Judging by the attachment of "P-I-M-P" in your name,I expects no other form of comment 4rm u.If there ain't any devil,there ain't any evil.

Mrs, Chima:

Having sex with another human is not hard to do. Anybody even a dog can have sex and some people just DON'T KNOW HOW TO REMAIN a virgin. Let use you as an example.

Benstino:

This really shows dat we are living in a crazy world.If not,how can a youth of 23 lament about being a virgin.At 23,one is still supposed to be virgin.I've still got my destiny to pursue rather than crying because of virginity.Play now,pay later:Pay now,play later.