A read a piece today of the life of Candace Bushnell (Author of Sex and the City) and her current regrets of not having children..Note..this piece is not to drag or rubbish any ideals ,but only to enlighten people about accepting nature as it is.

In Candace Bushnell's words "I look at people who have children and I feel they have an anchor, something that is missing in the lives of people who do not children "

Candace Bushnell is one of the lead figures behind modern feminism,her collection of essays "sex and the City" which was adapted into the popular HBO series of the same name was popular as well as her books which all centered of women living their best lives with no strings attached , living their dreams , enjoying and living all their sexual fantasies without allowing society and child bearing to hold them back.

In 2010,she said women don't need to have children to have a fulfilled life, though she was married at the time, she was in her mind 40s then and even said her career as a writer was enough fulfilment and her career was her first child.

Fast forward to 2020, she's 60 years old now , she's worth 20-30 million euros ,has enjoyed a youthful life filled with good fucking sexxx,has traveled the world, is a world renowned figure in the feminism world,an award winning writer ,but what is the problem? She's said , she's going through Middle-age Depression (M.A.D) because now everything feel empty ,her eyes are clear now ,the DJ has stopped the music and the lights have gone out and she's alone in the dark , without the music ,all alone.

For the feminists and the Men Going Their Own Way, nature has a wild card that it's always going to play on you and that is "growing old"
Right now,you might be in your 20s , saying you don't need men or you don't need women or all you need is a babymama or babydaddy, here are the scenarios life has for you.

1.The feminist/Career Woman
Chasing your dreams are important, it's one of the key to being fulfilled in life,in fact , it's one of the crucial pillars in building the life that you want ,but nature is cruel , especially to women ,women biological make up puts them at a very unfair spot,by 20s ,a woman's ovaries are at their most fertile stage and most important point in their life ,the decisions they make at the point are mostly influenced by peers , friends and the belief ,that they can remain ageless and the delusion that there's time , however there isn't that much time for both women and men ,the other difference is that fertility in women reduces faster as they leave their 20s for their early 30s,by this time in their 30s,child bearing becomes even more difficult ,as the functionality of a woman's ovaries reduces and even fertile eggs begin to die faster at that point,by 35-40, even going on a sex spree doesn't guarantee anything ,this facts are hard to stomach but it's the truth,we live in a world where we eat a lot more mechanized foods that kills our body faster than of old times.

2.The General fact
Men going their own way, time to expose we the men ..in as much as nature might seemingly be a little on the side of the male gender , I'll tell you this, there comes a time when the light goes out and the music stops ,no matter how we paint men going their own way to live a life of "no strings attached" or "friends with benefits"...a time comes when we all long for a sense of belonging, family , here's the punch ,some of your friends you go to bar with will get old , they'll gradually die as the years go by,some might even leave the "mgtow" train and get married or fall in love and settle down to play "man of the house" while you remain "the club guy"...it doesn't mean they'll become converted or become religious D ... it's just life, their comes a time when we must grow up and move to the next stage of life ,if you wanna remain the clubbing ,no strings attached ,no emotional attachment guy, it's all good,but remember that your friends will leave you eventually, they'll grow up(as in move to next stage of life) they'll die ,some I'll get married, you'll stop being the life of the party as you'll grow old and become the male version of "milfs" well you'll become a sugar daddy , you'll Bleep young girls for sometime and find some solace in it, then you won't be satisfied with it again as you'll be around 68-70 years of age,by that time your life decisions would gradually be coming to hurt you, you children who's mothers are your babymamas,might even want anything to do with you if you didn't make time to be present in their lives, you'll try living alone for sometime, inviting prostitutes over ,but even your body won't respond to sex anymore .. simply because you're gradually reaching the end ,by 75 years if you live that long and have not died, you'll have no real friends, you'll have no strength for bars ,clubs or social life, you'll be in house or maybe one room apartment or maybe out on your balcony (if you're rich and made money... though the money won't matter at this point,most times money ,fame and luxury are needed more from 20-65 years of age,by 65, you don't need money ,you need people,you need friends, you'll need family to live out the remainder of your years in joy , happiness, that's why the decisions you make at your younger years are important )I imagine that at 70-75 years, Mgtow men would be lost in the world,staring out into the night sky from their homes (whether luxurious or not) wondering what could have been? Just like Candace Bushnell is regretting right now ,in the best ways you can , feminist or not ,MGTOw or not ,make decisions that the 60 years old version of you would look back and be proud.

What's would a 60 years old you regret doing and not doing while they were young? Drop comments

Thumbs up mate.That was really good.

Both Metoo(feminism inclusive) and Mgtow are good ideas.
Honestly I support the idea of an independent and intelligent woman who has a high opinion of herself and does not need the validation of men.
I also respect a man who has value.He set his priorities straight and doesn't heed to societal pressure

But being an exteremist or fanatic is not good.
U see,Man is a social being.....like it or not,we need people around us to give a sense of belonging.

These extreme philosophies are good for youths but need to be reevaluated when we grow older