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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Pelxmiye(m): 11:15am On Jul 17, 2020 |
n1ky: There are two sides to this though 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Odunharry(m): 11:20am On Jul 17, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:It's better to be called stingy than to be labeled MUGU.. 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 11:22am On Jul 17, 2020 |
HeavenlyCherub: Will you keep quiet You dated broke men and stingy men too? Na only you waka come ni? You keep meeting irresponsible men and as usual you put the blame on stingy or broke. Stop using emotional manipulation and terming it fried rice. Its a relationship,not a means to satisfy your material wants. Funny enough, women who bring nothing to the table are always the first to shout 'broke men' 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nobody: 11:25am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Haywhymido:E pain am. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Pelxmiye(m): 11:30am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Keji1012: That's because they never loved the man, they just loved what he could provide and what he was providing for them, besides men these days have commoditize love and loving, there's so much confusion about what love is and what love is not , that's why the quickest , easiest descriptives for when a guy likes or supposedly loves a girl, you'll hear "he's kind, he's generous" and when guys are stingy ,it means he doesn't love the girl and that he's "stingy"... Truly love precipitates giving and altruism in relationships and romantic affairs, but then such shouldn't be done out of the need to grease or rub anyone's ego or entitlement to be taken care of...the best relationships I have had are the ones where giving was done out of love by both parties and a need to satisfy someone else's entitlement mentality,any woman that rubs that in your face doesn't give a flying Bleep about you,i have been with women who would give their last cash to me ,even the ones who would empty their account for me and I did same for them ,even though I'm no longer dating some of them, we still help each other out financially till date, there are girls and there are women, find your woman , leave the girls alone 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Pelxmiye(m): 11:31am On Jul 17, 2020 |
prettyGabby: Shine on jare |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Pelxmiye(m): 11:41am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek: Ehya...e pain you ....chill out ,guys go through the same steaming cave of lava all the time , immediately a chick does that nonsense to me ,i just reduce my likeness percent from 100 percent to 25 percent, that 25 percent is to see if she'll change and see that the world doesn't revolve around her, things like that you don't have to tag him stingy, he might just not be into all the mushy birthday atmosphere, I'm that way too ,but I always find a way to make the day special for the people I care about...laslas not everyone is meant for you, that don't mean they're stingy |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 11:48am On Jul 17, 2020 |
HeavenlyCherub:Another useless comment... Shame no dey catch una ni... Is dating synonymous to motherless babies home that someone must just carry your bills. Yet your moniker is heavenlycherub? You think those cherubs have this annoying entitlement mentality in heaven? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 11:49am On Jul 17, 2020 |
sharone21: It is best since you can't work to even afford the most basic of necessities. |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 11:50am On Jul 17, 2020 |
lisa286: Says only YOU!!! |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Pelxmiye(m): 11:51am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek: Number 1 thing we need , 1.Stop doing Shakara Olooje 2.Nigerian women should learn emotional intelligence, it would help you women a lot and we guys, imagine dating and getting married and you don't even know when your men his depressed about things and struggling alone within himself with work, family ,finance ,all of those thoughts all alone, while you the supposed gehfren nah only make-up, parties, selfies ,social media , cooking be your cup of coffee, different opinions are allowed ,but I think women of these days need emotional intelligence, they're really lacking in it , though men hide a lot of things too ,but how can you open up ,when your woman is emotionally daft , my advice to guys, please marry your friends , date your friends or meet women you can be friends with easily, then chasing women who are too deluded ,stop chasing women who live in their own heads, life's too short to be with women you can't even have great conversations with,peace 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Pelxmiye(m): 11:53am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Filmdirect: Good one, I already gave the same points |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by lexy2014: 12:04pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
sharone21: So ur existence is dependent on what a man spends for u? |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Haywhymido:Keep crying 1 Like
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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Samludas07(m): 12:47pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by mrchineke: 12:50pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
lisa286: Yinmu........Big time. ‘All I meet’.............has any wifed you? |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Sixfeetbelle: 1:00pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
lexy2014: Is it that you guys think you won't ever spend in a relationship or what? Cause I'm beginning to think some of you don't know what being in a relationship mean. Dates, hangouts and meet ups at cinemas, etc. calls, car rides and texts, birthday messages and celebrations, random gifts and cash, aren't they all part of dating? Are they done for free? 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Toks2008(m): 1:06pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Don't mind these boys. |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Alexaonfleek: 1:13pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Pelxmiye:The thing really pain me I no go lie Oga,I'm talking of an ex that cannot even buy #200 pinup earring for birthday or christmas,whereas I got him something on his birthday and for Christmas. I've gone to his place a few times and he has never even offer me water to drink....and I spent a good number of hours with him. If I'm going to his house and I have small change with me,I'd buy him something even if it's just corn. He kept saying he loved me but he has never given me anything with his money. Will you even want your sister to date that kind of guy? I just reasoned everything one day and I was just tired. Mo japa...blocked his number and moved on!! 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Alexaonfleek: 1:15pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Pelxmiye:Na una dey carry una body dey date slay quens who mostly care about iPhone and Brazilian wig. |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by lexy2014: 1:41pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Kindly explain to me d meaning of a relationship. Seems u no d meaning. Are u in a relationship because of d following: "Dates, hangouts and meet ups at cinemas, etc. calls, car rides and texts, birthday messages and celebrations, random gifts and cash"? If u don't get these in a relationship, is ur r/ship not complete? Must these things be done for u? I can see cash in your list. Don't u have a means of livelihood that u now see relationship as d source of cash for u? Lastly, kindly compare what u said above with d comment which I made earlier& tell me d correlation |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Sixfeetbelle: 1:46pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
lexy2014: Seems your understanding of what a relationship entails is different from mine if dates and hangouts are not a part of yours. 1. I know I am in a relationship if I can go on dates with the person, if we can meet for lunch and dinner at places, if we can go to cinemas on our free days, if we can spend birthdays together. None of that is for free for the guy, even if I pay for my own meal. If I don't get all these in a relationship, it isn't complete. Dating means exclusivity and should be shown by actions. 2. Why must these things not be done for me? I'm dating him, aren't I? Shouldn't there be a difference in what he does for and with me than what any random somebody does for me? My brother can take me shopping and I expect my boyfriend to not see it as anything if shopping is there. 3. I have a means of livelihood. However I don't see how I can say I'm dating someone if I don't have any special moments with them exclusively vis dates and hangouts I mentioned earlier. I didn't see your initial post, but I'm beginning to see your idea of dating someone is different from mine, so hasta la vista 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by HeavenlyCherub(f): 2:03pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
luminouz: I’m not entitled at all and I said what I said, I’m the type of woman who will do anything for my man by God’s grace if I have the money. Why should I settle for any less. A lot of people can say what they want on this blog I don’t care. I used to apologize or feel sorry for God’s grace and blessing over my life but I will not, sorry. You can never guilt trip me into doing so. You my dear are used to women who aren’t confident and can talk down to. Not me. I’m God fearing confident and I’m a good woman. I will not settle for someone sent to drag me down in life. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by lexy2014: 2:05pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: U didn't see my initial post but u gave a response to d post u said u didn't see. U still haven't been able to explain what a relationship is since u say I don't no d meaning. So kindly explain to me d meaning of a relationship. So obviously, u are in a relationship because of d following: "Dates, hangouts and meet ups at cinemas, etc. calls, car rides and texts, birthday messages and celebrations, random gifts and cash"? So according to u, these are what define relationship. Must these things be done for u? Y must they must b done for u? Are u handicap? I can see cash in your list. Don't u have a means of livelihood that u now see relationship as d source of cash for u? If u say u are working, then y is cash on ur list? What's wrong if u sponsor d so-called "special moments"? |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by lexy2014: 2:06pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Toks2008: Pls define boys and define men |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by HeavenlyCherub(f): 2:10pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
luminouz: Oh sweetheart I am the table. I love God, I’m hard working, everything I touch prospers, I help those I love by his grace, I’m humble. I will do anything for the right man. Anything I touch prospers. That is because I try understand other people’s perspectives first on why they think how they think before bashing them. I totally blame myself for dating men like that once upon a time, I was foolish. a relationship is about give and take. You give and take in love, support, respect, commitment. Word of advice. Sow into your loved ones you won’t regret it. |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Sixfeetbelle: 2:12pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
lexy2014: I already gave you my response. But you are yet to give me a breakdown of what your relationship is about. So no dates? |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by lexy2014: 2:17pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: U haven't given anything. Ur comment was in response to this: If u don't get these in a relationship, is ur r/ship not complete? Must these things be done for u? I can see cash in your list. Don't u have a means of livelihood that u now see relationship as d source of cash for u? U still haven't said what a relationship is since u said that I don't no what it is. So what is a relationship? Meanwhile, these are still pending: So obviously, u are in a relationship because of d following: "Dates, hangouts and meet ups at cinemas, etc. calls, car rides and texts, birthday messages and celebrations, random gifts and cash"? Must these things be done for u? Y must they must b done for u? Are u handicap? I can see cash in your list. Don't u have a means of livelihood that u now see relationship as d source of cash for u? If u say u are working, then y is cash on ur list? What's wrong if u sponsor d so-called "special moments"? |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by NevetsIbot(m): 2:19pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Toks2008: Guy.... He totally dissected your poor write up. The excerpt he quoted from your hogwash of a post buttresses the fact that a man's love is proportional to how much he is able to part with...... What other way are we supposed to understand that "if a man really loves a woman, he will give her" TF are you saying man So I'm only loved on the premise of what I can give. Shior |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by sharone21(f): 2:48pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
luminouz: I am NOT the lazy type which u easily seem to tag Nigerian ladies.....FYI, Nigerian ladies do not & will never fall under the category of lazy women in the world.... I'm sure you saw your dad not spoiling or pampering your mum in anyway, so no one to take a cue from.... Abi before wife, no be girl friend? Local man.... |
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