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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by n1ky(f): 2:56pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Pelxmiye: That is it, The situation is in two sides........ a guy that is not spending is expecting able to cook different meal and washing of clothes as a wife materials.......... it goes hand in hand jare |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by sharone21(f): 2:59pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
lexy2014: So, the peanuts u will use to oil your relationship into & in marriage is too much for u abi? Anyway, Mammon is your God.... I pity any woman that will make the mistake of being in your life, it will be far better she is on her own or with the right man that will APPRECIATE her since women invest a lot of themselves in a relationship. Would u like your sister or daughter to bring your type home? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Sixfeetbelle: 2:59pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
lexy2014: And I've told you that it seems my definition of what a relationship is, is different from yours. Give me yours as I've given you mine. As long as your definition differs, you won't agree with me. Give me yours and let's compare. |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by lexy2014: 3:05pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: U haven't given any definition & neither have I. Its u who said I don't no what a relationship is. If that's ur statement, then u can't be asking me to give u a definition of something u said I dont no anything about. What I expected u to do is to fill d knowledge gap by educating us on what a relationship is. Meanwhile, these are still pending: So obviously, u are in a relationship because of d following: "Dates, hangouts and meet ups at cinemas, etc. calls, car rides and texts, birthday messages and celebrations, random gifts and cash"? Must these things be done for u? Y must they must b done for u? Are u handicap? I can see cash in your list. Don't u have a means of livelihood that u now see relationship as d source of cash for u? If u say u are working, then y is cash on ur list? What's wrong if u sponsor d so-called "special moments |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by lexy2014: 3:06pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
sharone21: U haven't answered my question: Is ur existence is dependent on what a man spends for u? Simple yes or no? |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by lexy2014: 3:14pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
sharone21: D peanuts u are referring to, do u even have it urself? Can u take of urself without a man in ur life? If Mammon is my God, who is ur God? How does a man appreciate a woman? How does a woman appreciate a man? What are d investments that u say women invest in relationships? Who is my type? Who is ur type? |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by stanliwise(m): 3:31pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
mrchineke:Is their sense in what you typed in relation to what I typed? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Haywhymido(m): 3:36pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Zoie:right after you hungry girl |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Sixfeetbelle: 3:37pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
lexy2014: Please don't mention me again. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Haywhymido(m): 3:39pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Zoie:no girl, it didnt. I work my ass off to live a pretty much comfortable life. Borrow a leaf from that and stop seeing dating/relationship/marriage as an escape from poverty that has overshadowed you. If you choose to continue with this type of lifestyle it will end in tears for you 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Haywhymido:More tears
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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by lexy2014: 4:33pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: And if I mention u again, what will happen? |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by lexy2014: 4:36pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
stanliwise: What do u mean by "good things"? If a woman wants those "good things", is she going to spend b4 she has them? |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by stanliwise(m): 4:42pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
lexy2014:My point was clear, everyone deserves how much they can give. That’s the conclusion of my point. A person becomes stingy when one wants more than one gives. It doesn’t matter the gender. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 4:59pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
sharone21: Lol... Emotional manipulation doesn't work on me. Work for your own money and stop frothing at the mouth |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 5:01pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
HeavenlyCherub: I still maintain that being broke is a state,not a crime. Why dont you practice your last line and reap the fruits then? You love God yet you condemn someone based on his perceived present state? |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 5:06pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
HeavenlyCherub: Please,stop yapping with the religious tone. It further strips whatever dignity is left of your stories. If you are that good or will do anything for your man,surely,praying him or helping him to succeed is not too much? Demonizing someone cuz he is broke ain't part of the agape love una church dey preach? Since you enjoy grace and your successes are not by your own handiwork,why make it seem dating a broke man is hell. Surely, you remembered that dream Paul had,of him refusing to eat certain animals he deemed unclean yet God told him all animals have been certified clean. The restrictions you place on status is all in your mind. Funny that you quickly turned the route of a virtuous woman when I called out your moniker |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 5:14pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Lmaoooo... See your life. So all these make up your own concept of dating and yet you expect HIM only to do all these for you? Chai,men don suffer oooh. Everything you put up there centred around just YOU,FOOD and MONEY. CANT YOU BLŌÓDY STAY WITH HIM FOR A WEEKEND AND JUST ENJOY EACH OTHER'S COMPANY? What of prayer and fasting or mountain retreats to build your spiritual lives? That one no matter abi? Or pulling funds together to execute a project? Or you supporting him in a business deal and he does likewise? Jogging with him early morning nko or gym classes together? You know nothing about relationships, LADY SNOW Cc lexy2014 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by mrchineke: 5:42pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
HeavenlyCherub: Tell your brothers to go and SOW their lives into a walking yansh and pussy only women. Go and ask your father what plan he has for your life when he ‘born’ you....yeye woman! Getta a here!! |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by sharone21(f): 5:48pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
luminouz: Oga, relationship IS NOT a MUST... Go hustle first as one guy suggested to broke guys....Even father Adam who should be your mentor was taking care of gardens before the arrival of Lady Eve....Broke guys like u have no business with relationships.... Please, lazy Nigerian youth stay off my mention!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 5:51pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
sharone21:Lmaoooo... Nope,I won't Darling since you refuse to have some measure of self worth. You are a human being, not an object to be purchased and bargained for using gifts and money. You have a mind and soul of your own. Dont be a victim of laziness. Thinking any human being must cater for your needs as a grown up is pathetic. 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Sixfeetbelle: 6:13pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
luminouz: It's funny how you assumed all I wrote there is meant for only him. But I don't blame you. You already have your mind made up To humour you, I'll elaborate. The "enjoying each others company" shebi we'll do it in your house and when we are done, we'll eat your food and sleep on your bed? The project we'll embark on, is it your money we'll use, abi my boyfriend won't bring his own share? The dates we'll go, won't he pay for his own meal at least, even just once? If he has a car, won't he at least drive it to wherever we'll have our date for the day? Will you fuel it for him? If we agree on cinema, since always staying indoors can't suffice, won't he get there somehow abi he's an edo witch? If I get him something on his birthday, won't he reciprocate the gesture at the very least? If he's coming to see me, maybe after travelling out of state, will he show up empty-handed abi do you visit people empty-handed? I'm tired of giving you examples No guy can convince me he went into a relationship and didn't spend extra kobo cause of it no matter how prudent they were in spending. The little gestures I listed above are the snippets of what being in a relationship entails. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by mrchineke: 6:30pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
stanliwise: Ok, no vex ma! Apologies. But sha men are catching on and it is now a proven fact that women don’t need any man to survive. I will disown any daughter who chooses to depend on a man instead of doing for herself. Never wait for any man including a husband!! |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by mrchineke: 6:34pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
luminouz: Really pathetic oooo! Sharone21 |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by stanliwise(m): 7:43pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
mrchineke:Everyone wether man or woman should get and ask for from anyone as much as he/she is ready to give to such person. If a woman can give so much their is nothing wrong in asking for so much. Except the partner don’t want such dedication and he/she is not willing to give also then things are balanced. By the way I am a guy. |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 8:11pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I didn't assume darling,what you said that I responded to,showed only him,not YOU. You still didn't talk of going for night vigils, prayer and fasting and mountain retreats or is your relationship based on physical bills alone. Spiritual bills are necessary too |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:13pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
luminouz: Like I said, I'm tired of giving you examples. |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by luminouz(m): 8:21pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Bye Felicia darling... |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Pelxmiye(m): 8:28pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek: Godspeed meeting better people and better men, i get your point anyways ..but don't tag we the decent guys "stingy" but I don't give anyways, I'd rather invest in women who would do same for me... that's my philosophy in relationships "do me I do you" 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Pelxmiye(m): 8:32pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek: Abeg don't come with that overused "men date slay queens who care about iPhone and Brazilian wigs"... it's stale, almost every girl these days dream and long for those things, even the ones in churches and mosques and the religious ones, very few are just different and those few are either hardworking or just rich enough not to place so much importance on those things |
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Pelxmiye(m): 8:33pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
n1ky: I don't fully get you , but I understand some points |
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