Drink one derica of garri with #10 groundnut in her presence consistently whenever she is around while keeping your cupboard and cabinets closed, she will get the message but If you can feed her whenever she comes.


There's no food where we are going to.

Maobichek:
"Tired of it," so you you are now tired and didn't say everything at first? I must tell you the truth, if you are tired, is she tired? Just go on your knees and beg her that you don't want again because she is a human being, imagine if she is your sister and another guy just said that he is tired of her. You don't give a goat yam to keep, also you don't give a rat dry fish to keep, do the needful, thank you.

Chief i didnt say am tired of sexing her, we av never done such. i said i am tired of sex already and i love someone else but work and distance kept us far apart. we meet once in a while

Alexgman1:
we are devoted church workers. i cant try any rubbish. i no wan hear, "he tried to rape me"

Dey dere another guy man, don dey help u service am,

Oga u are not tired, cus if u really are tired, u will open that ur mouth and talk, if she is incoviniencing you in any way open that mouth and talk, abi na she dey pay ur rent or buy ur food stuff ni U never ready

I think the easiest way is to tell her you're developing feelings and DO NOT want a relationship or compromise your current relationship with her. After that, it should be easier to tell her to stop coming as a result.

That way, there won't be hard feelings.

Alexgman1:
Its not as easy as u tink. We av formed dis gud and
non-romantic bond.

Then make it romantic or introduce her to any of your sharp friends. She is just lonely and bored

wareh:
I think the easiest way is to tell her you're developing feelings and DO NOT want a relationship or compromise your current relationship with her. After that, it should be easier to tell her to stop coming as a result.

That way, there won't be hard feelings.

Best advice, go with this one

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

My dear in as much it is good to be good , you have to choose your good wisely.

That’s how a fellow brother in my church said he wants to pay me a visit that year . I said no problem only for him to come in the morning and I was to go to work by 11am . He said he won’t stay long. I said fine , he came and when it was time to go he asked if I won’t offer him breakfast, I said no time again and he suggested I dish the food in a takeaway pack, I did and then he left. A week later he said he wants to return my plate , I politely told him that I am not around and would be away for a week. Busy busy lady he calls me now.

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

I'm not going to talk about the food aspect but you really need to tell her to stop coming to your house. Call her by name and tell her she needs to stop coming because as Christians and church members (not siblings) and a opposite sex, people might think it's something else that's happening behind closed doors. Now, it's just about the movie and food but I tell you the devil is probably planning to bring up temptations you might not be able to resist, something that'll soil your relationship with God. Prevention is better than cure my dear.
Also, when there is light, look for somewhere to go without dropping your key, pick up a book and read of which you wouldn't want to be disturbed. Be firm, that's the bottom line

UDUJ:


Excellent question

Because once you've eaten the kpekus it becomes difficult to tell her to stop coming.

As long as the kpekus has not been touched I don't see why telling her to reduce or seize coming to your house should be an issue.

Guys be careful how you chop kpekus up and down. There are some tough girls that will show you hell once you chop kpekus and want to clean mouth

.even if he don chop the kpekus, it doesn't mean that he should lose his sense.....
Someone comes into your house regularly as a parasite to devour you and you don't know what to say to her...
If a wife can be supporting her husband that both of Bleep daily, weekly or monthly I don't see any reason why the lady will be a parasite sister in the lord.....

Alexgman1:
Hahahahahaha i wan laugh die. Wat do u even knw?

Abeg na ur problem

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

Why do you stress that she is "fair and pretty"

Viking007:
My true life story.

i thought your own na your fiancée

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

Na only laugh i fit laugh here ooo, heheheheheheheheheh
Abeg free the girl jor, a little chop my food here and there wont kill you.. Just take it as a form of helping out or tithing..

Alexgman1:
Its not as easy as u tink. We av formed dis gud and
non-romantic bond.

Then why are you bothering us on nairaland?

Since you have defined your cross then carry it

Make a move on her , if she doesn't want it she would start avoiding you don't force her ohh before you would say somebody on nairaland ask you to

1Sharon:
Are you tired that she eats your food or tired because you can't smash?

Nigga

We are sisters and BROTHERs in christ nah,

DAVE5:


I don't know why you are vexing ohh, but anyone who keeps coming to your house to eat always all in the name of "dedicated church worker" and even had audacity to open your door in your absence and takes food cos she knows where you keep the key is a LEECH

don't make it seem like the girl just bashed into his home and started eating his food .she rejected his advance towards her which made him angry

Tell us all, maybe you mistakenly had sex with her at the initial stage of her visiting (which means you involved your self by yourself).
If it happened so, then that is where she gained the advantage. But if nothing happened like that, simply keep her off your way, this is covid-9 season prices of consumable items are getting higher.

GenBuhari:
Dude , you have a pretty babe , who goes to your church that likes to share your meals and gist with you?

I don't believe you are complaining about her eating your when you have a ready-made wife in waiting.

Is she cooking the meals for you? If so you deserve a slap for complaining!

You need to step up your hustle, so can comfortably feed her without financial strain; if you can afford to feed her, you a ready for marriage.

Think expansively, start plotting to wife this babe already, the day she stops coming could be day you start regretting possibly the biggest missed opportunity of your life.

what he's rejecting is wat many are praying for. If this knd babe cross my way now ehh, wù sex help? She'll be so useful.

For u too start with PRETTY FAIR LADY u no ur hidden agenda...just do am.

NO RAPE HER Oh

Martinez39s:
Tell her to stop coming. Is there any other way? She has cleverly infiltrated you, and she is draining you. Anyway, since you can't be direct, when next she knocks on your door, tell her "your timing is awkward. I want to be alone, and I don't want any visitors for next one week. Come back later." Keep doing this.

If she gets angry and start distancing herself, don't be surprised. If she tries to infiltrated harder, don't be surprised. Just stand your ground like a being with balls.

Gbam

DAVE5:


He knows this, he is probably catching feelings and shy to knack her cos I see no reason why he would let her know where he keeps his key and come her to complain that he doesn't want her coming again to his place

lol your head dey dia I don't see any reason why she should know where he keeps the keys if truly he isn't comfortable with her.

And another thing, I think the girl isn't really sexually attractive to him ni, if not I'm sure this wouldn't have turned to a complain like this He would have been banging her for free

Alexgman1:
we are devoted church workers. i cant try any rubbish. i no wan hear, "he tried to rape me"

No devoted church worker will allow an opposite sex in same house alone. We were thought to avoid such company.... Temptation is knocking at you . Stop it. you can help from a distance if you have

Ask her for anything that you know she can't afford.; either in cash or in kind.
Trust me, she will run and never come back

Viking007:
My true life story.

Watsapp me .

ImaIma1:


Then hide it elsewhere na abi?

When she comes and knocks, you can choose not to answer. You have a right to your privacy and rest.

I have been indoors and someone was knocking and I didn't respond till the person left.

Another time, someone came as early as 7am on a weekend banging on the door. I woke up from sleep and rushed to open the door thinking it was an emergency. When I opened the door and saw the person, I slammed the door back, locked it and went back to bed.

At some point, you can't act all nice everytime. You can't like what you hate.

Alol ! 100% certain it was a guy/man we don suffer

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UDUJ:


Excellent question

Because once you've eaten the kpekus it becomes difficult to tell her to stop coming.

As long as the kpekus has not been touched I don't see why telling her to reduce or seize coming to your house should be an issue.

Guys be careful how you chop kpekus up and down. There are some tough girls that will show you hell once you chop kpekus and want to clean mouth

bro u sabi the koko...chopping the kpekus be like blood covenant.

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

Tell her you want to marry her.

franciskaine:
what he's rejecting is wat many are praying for. If this knd babe cross my way now ehh, wù sex help? She'll be so useful.

Beautiful young ladies are highly in demand, she has a choice of rich men willing to host her if she chooses trust me. But the girl is a good girl and must really like the op to have chosen to spend her time with him.
He is complaining about a rare gem wife material that has crossed his path. He would soon lose her when she realizes he cannot even afford to host her.