I'm interested to know the advantages and disadvantages of two couple who are virgins.
You constructive feedbacks are highly needed.

Unigrad:
I'm interested to know the advantages and disadvantages of two couple who are virgins.
You constructive feedbacks are highly needed.

Well, I think it's many.

Advantages
1. You must have heard of Okarfor's law before.

Many people who cheat on their spouse do it with someone they've been with before marriage, who did it "properly" than they are getting with their current partner.

Also, I believe majority of people who complain about their partners not satisfying them sexually in marriage are those with numerous experience.

Just imagine a lady who was into runs during her college days, and have being with over 100 men in the process, getting married to a man who have never been with a woman before, how will their skills match? How will he satisfy her sexually?

if they both get married as a virgin, they get to learn together and build up their skills together, making it far easier for them to become compatible.

Also, there's no 'ex' that have given them an unforgettable sexual experience before that they can go back to.


2. If they both marry as a virgin, then there's less likelihood that the past of one of them will come back hunting their marriage. Scandals like having hidden children, sex tapes leaked by an ex, inability to give birth due to a past infection or abortion and many other things.

All this type of Marriage wrecking scandals will be far from them.

3. If they both marry as a virgin, then there's less likelihood of having recurring STDs that can destroy their marriage.

I was at someone's house in school last year and the dude was discussing with another guy.

Apparently, the guy have Gonorrhoea which he have treated, but somehow, the infection returned.

So, by marrying each other as a virgin, it will be difficult for them to contract all this recurring STDs and it's consequences.

4. Sex also have some spiritual stuff attached to it as many religious people believed. Even the Bible said something like "Anyone who commits adultery sins against his own soul".

So, whatever spiritual stuff that could have been contracted by sexing around would be avoided.


I think there are other ones though. But this are the ones that came to my mind right now.

Unigrad:

Can you list some?

Updated.

Another Update
As for disadvantages, a post made Front page few months ago. The guy was complaining about his wife being scared of sex. He said his in-laws even bought lubricants for them and many other things.

In one of his comments, He said he was initially at fault since he can't identify the hole to put his pencil initially.

I think this is the only disadvantage, but it is also an advantage since they will get to learn everything together as stated in point 1.

Aside the risk of entering into the wrong hole which can damage the woman's organs I see no disadvantage. Both have no experience to make comparison so I believe they are PERFECT!

Ayemileto:

Well, I think it's many.

Can you list some?

Not. A . Single. One.

Not. A . Single. Disadvantage.

Ok

its the perfect union where they can pair bond perfectly

Let the virgins talk...A virgin I am not

Kissiemu:
Let the virgins talk...A virgin I am not

Will you marry a virgin?

Advantage? Earn high selves value, prestige and respect from your partner and families in the loop.

Disadvantage? Complications may arise during child birth sha depending on the body/tissue arrangement of the lady though. Fear is another one.

Unigrad:

Will you marry a virgin?

Nna men!

Do I look like a mad man to you? So as a bachelor wey don sample ashewo,oloshos, girlfriends n enough friends with benefits I will now open eye to go n marry virgin?
Well unless there is #100m attached to the torture of marrying a virgin.

I no discourage virgins but since I am not a virgin why will I look for one to marry...abeg...abeg...shoe get size. Na non virgins be my size.

What can a niggah do?

callmeRichie:
Advantage? Earn high selves value, prestige and respect from your partner and families in the loop.

Disadvantage? Complications may arise during child birth sha depending on the body/tissue arrangement of the lady though. Fear is another one.

Thank you so much Ma
I don't understand the fear you talked about

Kissiemu:

Nna men!

Do I look like a mad man to you? So as a bachelor wey don sample ashewo,oloshos, girlfriends n enough friends with benefits I will now open eye to go n marry virgin?
Well unless there is #100m attached to the torture of marrying a virgin.

I no discourage virgins but since I am not a virgin why will I look for one to marry...abeg...abeg...shoe get size. Na non virgins be my size.

What can a niggah do?

Which type of torture are you talking about?

There is no disadvantage in here.

Unigrad:

Thank you so much Ma
I don't understand the fear you talked about

Ama "HE" bro

Fear, as in fear of having sex at least for the first few months. Some of them would be so childish this moment ehn, they would be like "Awnn honey, it would pain me" lol

I have been thinking here for about 3 minutes, Guy no disadvantage dey oh.

I have been seeing the 'wrong hole' in comment. Could you guys throw more light pls

InfinityFabric:
There is no disadvantage in here.

Thank you so much

callmeRichie:


Ama "HE" bro

Fear, as in fear of having sex at least for the first few months. Some of them would be so childish this moment ehn, they would be like "Awnn honey, it would pain me" lol

Thank you so much for this points.

Gentle0wavez:
I have been thinking here for about 3 minutes, Guy no disadvantage dey oh.

Is very advisable then.

Ayemileto:


Well, I think it's many.

Advantages
1. You must have heard of Okarfor's law before.

Many people who cheat on their spouse do it with someone they've been with before marriage, who did it "properly" than they are getting with their current partner.

Also, I believe majority of people who complain about their partners not satisfying them sexually in marriage are those with numerous experience.

Just imagine a lady who was into runs during her college days, and have being with over 100 men in the process, getting married to a man who have never been with a woman before, how will their skills match? How will he satisfy her sexually?

if they both get married as a virgin, they get to learn together and build up their skills together, making it far easier for them to become compatible.

Also, there's no 'ex' that have given them an unforgettable sexual experience before that they can go back to.


2. If they both marry as a virgin, then there's less likelihood that the past of one of them will come back hunting their marriage. Scandals like having hidden children, sex tapes leaked by an ex, inability to give birth due to a past infection or abortion and many other things.

All this type of Marriage wrecking scandals will be far from them.

3. If they both marry as a virgin, then there's less likelihood of having recurring STDs that can destroy their marriage.

I was at someone's house in school last year and the dude was discussing with another guy.

Apparently, the guy have Gonorrhoea which he have treated, but somehow, the infection returned.

So, by marrying each other as a virgin, it will be difficult for them to contract all this recurring STDs and it's consequences.

4. Sex also have some spiritual stuff attached to it as many religious people believed. Even the Bible said something like "Anyone who commits adultery sins against his own soul".

So, whatever spiritual stuff that could have been contracted by sexing around would be avoided.


I think there are other ones though. But this are the ones that came to my mind right now.



Updated.

Another Update
As for disadvantages, a post made Front page few months ago. The guy was complaining about his wife being scared of sex. He said his in-laws even bought lubricants for them and many other things.

In one of his comments, He said he was initially at fault since he can't identify the hole to put his pencil initially.

I think this is the only disadvantage, but it is also an advantage since they will get to learn everything together as stated in point 1.

God bless you Sir
You did a very nice job here.

Ariza:
Aside the risk of entering into the wrong hole which can damage the woman's organs I see no disadvantage. Both have no experience to make comparison so I believe they are PERFECT!

Even the wrong hole story self will only last few hrs max. Anybody won't regret staying a virgin till marriage. Sex is inborn you'll get better at it with time.