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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Greatidonis: 5:48am On Jul 17, 2020
Totoscatter212:
17 year old boy who won millions in bet9ja is now building house its indeed a game of luck
^^^^^ Unless its God that will help him if he keeps playing that stuff he will still later sale the house to play.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by sylve11: 6:02am On Jul 17, 2020
Gambling @ 24? Not good even @ 98. cool
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by therajah: 6:04am On Jul 17, 2020
For how long did you accumulate 300k
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Carter4luv(m): 6:07am On Jul 17, 2020
DonPikko:
Get a good job, you won't think of bet at all. Unless you are cursed of course.

get a good job for which country. when vice president of nigeria osibanjo said 1.4million people will loss their job before December 2020 due to covid 19. guy if u see a good job lemme know. thank u
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Cardinalpoint: 6:08am On Jul 17, 2020
One thing people that engage in betting don't understand is probability. Know this that the odds is rigged against you. The probability that you will win is less than 33.3%.

Ask yourself, how come betting companies keep up springing up in every corner? That tells you that they are making a lot of money. Many people must lose their bets for them to stay in business.

THE MARKET IS RIGGED IN FAVOUR OF THE BOOKMAKERS


For you to overcome this addiction, you need to replace this addiction with something positive.

Stop being idle, the idle mind is the satan's workshop. Look for something productive to do.

Also, get an accountability partner, open up to someone that you trust about your addiction and let that person know that you are making efforts to stop this act. Report yourself to that person occasionally so that he can track your progress.

Lastly, pray about it. Tell God your desire to stop this act

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Carter4luv(m): 6:15am On Jul 17, 2020
we all know gambling is bad. life itself is unpredictable nobody knows when he/she life will cut like 49million ticket. not everybody are destined to make it via gambling. let the truth be told, it is better to play bet9ja dan to do yahoo.

go learn a skill, wen you're busy dat way it will help u to avoid going to betshop
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Pinopinodaddy: 6:31am On Jul 17, 2020
The main thing is being able to know that you are condemning yourself as you did. God will deliberate you. Please curtail your friends; choose the real ones and leave the misleading ones.

Pray to God also to help you on that. Gambling has killed so many people, adults, teenagers and even minors. I pray God deliver you completely from such addiction in Jesus name, Amen.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Nobody: 6:35am On Jul 17, 2020
"DON'T SAY U WAN EQUALISE" hahahahahaha... u 4ni die... at least, u don learn sense.. Never trust easy.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by written007: 6:36am On Jul 17, 2020
Kyrx:


You're wicked oo, someone is already this low as a result of gambling, and you still dey encourage am, nothing is assured in gambling, but assurance dey for better hustling.

@Poster

You're already addicted to this, and honestly, you're the only one that can get yourself outta the mess, as schools never resume now, go dey learn one work/skill, either informal or digital one.

Lastly ba, I get one solution wey dey work Wella, genuinely make an oath with whatever you serves, and place a DEEP curse on yourself should you returned to gambling. It will restrict you till your mind is totally free of it.

I don't know if you can stick with this...but it's exactly how I manage my addictions. I now go every six months. U can choose every 3months. I remember how i would indulge myself when it's the last lap esp the first week of the last month grin. How I would technically argue in my head that the third month is the third month wether is on the 1st or 31st just so I could dive in, and I did dive in only to be reminded of the hell I am trying to escape from( just after few days of misery), before going back to another 3months readily. I think the last time I played virtual or the weekly bet9ja should be June 2019... It helps only if you religious, wether little or very.... having any form of job/work would help smooth things for you. Mine is work and playing online competitive chess.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Unrated900(m): 6:43am On Jul 17, 2020
If you wanna stop gambling,you need to stop watching football

Take your eyes off any matches that would be played

Am sure gambling won’t come your way.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Actuarydeji(m): 6:44am On Jul 17, 2020
The problem with our youth nowadays is the love to make quick money and laziness.
Evidence1000:
My name is David. I'm a 24 year old young man. I'm in my final year in one of the universities in the south west.
I'm addicted to gambling. Like, I can't just help it.

The craze for this thing started sometime last year. It has eaten deep into me that it now dictates my mood. The only time I can be genuinely happy is when I win money from bet9ja virtual. If I should loose, it makes me very sad to the extent that I see myself as a useless person.

I've gone to the extent of using my school fees to play virtual and that of my course mate that trusted me so much. Though, I was able to pay my course mate's fees without her knowing the truth, I'm unable to pay mine till now. I always have this mentality that I will win.

Whenever money enters my hand like this, no matter how little, it is to head straight to Bet9ja shop or online. The urge is usually very strong. Sometimes, it seems like there's a force pushing me to do it.
Before this lock down, I accumulated a debt of over a hundred thousand naira in a Bet9ja shop in my school environment which I'm unable to pay till now.
I know the owner of the shop would be waiting to pick me up with police when I resume. I don't know what to do.

I need help badly. I've prayed to God severally but it's as if nothing is happening. I've even promised God not to play Bet9ja again but I keep on seeing myself still playing it.

Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. Sometimes, I feel like taking my life so that everything will just end but if I remember the pain it would cause my mother, I'll just hold back.

Please for the people that were once addicted to gambling, how did you stop it? Is there any remedy for it because I'm in need of it badly?

I can't sleep at night anymore because I'm always thinking of debts that I've accumulated which has run into over 300,000. All thanks to Bet9ja virtual.

Someone advised me to get a job that would keep me busy so that I won't have time to play virtual but there are no jobs. I don't mind doing any, even if it is a menial job till school resumes.

Please I need your advice. Feel free to bash me because I deserve more than that even.

Please I'd appreciate if you can move this to front page.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by timstone(m): 6:53am On Jul 17, 2020
Evidence1000:
My name is David. I'm a 24 year old young man. I'm in my final year in one of the universities in the south west.
I'm addicted to gambling. Like, I can't just help it.

The craze for this thing started sometime last year. It has eaten deep into me that it now dictates my mood. The only time I can be genuinely happy is when I win money from bet9ja virtual. If I should loose, it makes me very sad to the extent that I see myself as a useless person.

I've gone to the extent of using my school fees to play virtual and that of my course mate that trusted me so much. Though, I was able to pay my course mate's fees without her knowing the truth, I'm unable to pay mine till now. I always have this mentality that I will win.

Whenever money enters my hand like this, no matter how little, it is to head straight to Bet9ja shop or online. The urge is usually very strong. Sometimes, it seems like there's a force pushing me to do it.
Before this lock down, I accumulated a debt of over a hundred thousand naira in a Bet9ja shop in my school environment which I'm unable to pay till now.
I know the owner of the shop would be waiting to pick me up with police when I resume. I don't know what to do.

I need help badly. I've prayed to God severally but it's as if nothing is happening. I've even promised God not to play Bet9ja again but I keep on seeing myself still playing it.

Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. Sometimes, I feel like taking my life so that everything will just end but if I remember the pain it would cause my mother, I'll just hold back.

Please for the people that were once addicted to gambling, how did you stop it? Is there any remedy for it because I'm in need of it badly?

I can't sleep at night anymore because I'm always thinking of debts that I've accumulated which has run into over 300,000. All thanks to Bet9ja virtual.

Someone advised me to get a job that would keep me busy so that I won't have time to play virtual but there are no jobs. I don't mind doing any, even if it is a menial job till school resumes.

Please I need your advice. Feel free to bash me because I deserve more than that even.

Please I'd appreciate if you can move this to front page.

Involve yourself in effective evangelism
the spirit will leave you
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Eryyy92: 7:04am On Jul 17, 2020
bet9ja is abt to ruin me too but if I see 11k I go stop ooo I'm desperately looking for me money to fund my Forex account (deriv.com)
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by SHEAU(m): 7:08am On Jul 17, 2020
My own bet9ja na one girl like that, she dey beg me to come back but Lailai
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by West2019(m): 7:20am On Jul 17, 2020
its not only you , first of all.delete that online bet on ur phone .and always try to avoid watching football
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by chatinent: 7:30am On Jul 17, 2020
Addiction of gambling is like pornography; the more one indulges, the harder to break-free. I'll advise you stop watching football for a while. How can you predict if you wouldn't be watching and be interested?

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by jumper524(m): 7:35am On Jul 17, 2020
Totoscatter212:
17 year old boy who won millions in bet9ja is now building house its indeed a game of luck
beleive me if Na virtual the guy use start that foundation, trust me Na the beginning of him problem be that.
no be swear Na just fact.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by wale86: 7:41am On Jul 17, 2020
Totoscatter212:
17 year old boy who won millions in bet9ja is now building house its indeed a game of luck
that house will soon be sold to play bet9na. I bet it with you

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by JustcallmeFavou(f): 7:50am On Jul 17, 2020
Evidence1000:
My name is David. I'm a 24 year old young man. I'm in my final year in one of the universities in the south west.
I'm addicted to gambling. Like, I can't just help it.

The craze for this thing started sometime last year. It has eaten deep into me that it now dictates my mood. The only time I can be genuinely happy is when I win money from bet9ja virtual. If I should loose, it makes me very sad to the extent that I see myself as a useless person.

I've gone to the extent of using my school fees to play virtual and that of my course mate that trusted me so much. Though, I was able to pay my course mate's fees without her knowing the truth, I'm unable to pay mine till now. I always have this mentality that I will win.

Whenever money enters my hand like this, no matter how little, it is to head straight to Bet9ja shop or online. The urge is usually very strong. Sometimes, it seems like there's a force pushing me to do it.
Before this lock down, I accumulated a debt of over a hundred thousand naira in a Bet9ja shop in my school environment which I'm unable to pay till now.
I know the owner of the shop would be waiting to pick me up with police when I resume. I don't know what to do.

I need help badly. I've prayed to God severally but it's as if nothing is happening. I've even promised God not to play Bet9ja again but I keep on seeing myself still playing it.

Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. Sometimes, I feel like taking my life so that everything will just end but if I remember the pain it would cause my mother, I'll just hold back.

Please for the people that were once addicted to gambling, how did you stop it? Is there any remedy for it because I'm in need of it badly?

I can't sleep at night anymore because I'm always thinking of debts that I've accumulated which has run into over 300,000. All thanks to Bet9ja virtual.

Someone advised me to get a job that would keep me busy so that I won't have time to play virtual but there are no jobs. I don't mind doing any, even if it is a menial job till school resumes.

Please I need your advice. Feel free to bash me because I deserve more than that even.

Please I'd appreciate if you can move this to front page.



Addiction is really a terrible thing. I pray and hope you get free from the shackle's of gambling. It is well with you
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by mekuz2014(m): 7:52am On Jul 17, 2020
Hi, the truth of the matter is that you can't help your self. Addiction is a strong hold. And the funny thing is that it is not difficult to overcome.

Just accept Jesus as your lord and savior, ask him to help you. And then by faith receive his help. You will suddenly lose the interest to gamble.

And becomes he came to give life more abundantly he will supernatural take care of your debt.

I know because he did it for me.

God bless you.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by changedinchrist: 7:53am On Jul 17, 2020
Slurity:
I need deliverance that the OP. My case is different
What's your case? How could it be much worse?
I can help you quit

God bless in Jesus name. Send a PM if you don't want to reply here
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by muziyindo: 7:55am On Jul 17, 2020
Hello I was once like you, I spent over 200k playing virtual bet, and in return I got about 400k, but then it was as if I was spotted and focused on by bet9na, I started losing every damn game play, 50k, 80k, an so on that accumulates to around 500k. I got broke. The good side for me was that I was working and I didnt borrow money from anyone. I realized I couldn't win any major money in bet9na anymore. The earlier wins were just to lure me in. Now they want to take all I have. I stopped when I got broke and never looked back again. So I advice you focus on paying your debt and never play bet9na virtual bet again. The real game is by far better than virtual, as bet9na has no control over real games , only virtual games
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by jumper524(m): 7:57am On Jul 17, 2020
ChildOfDoom:
As harsh as what i am about to say might sound, there is no cure. Even if you work, you will dupe your employers to gamble. Use your salary too. You will drop out of school, steal to gamble, sell your properties and that of family members & friends, just to play bet9ja virtual. No amount of advice or prayer from an elder, priest or pastor will make you stop. Even beating from community boys or arrest, won't work. It's just one year you started. You should rather be scared of your future misfortunes, not small 300k. By 2022, your debts/troubles will be worse. People should avoid any financial dealings with you for their own good. I am speaking as a bet9ja addict too. Since 2015. I am miserable and unfortunate in life. The earlier the govt sees bet9ja as the new enemy of the youths, the better
bro I stopped by trying to regulate it at first.
meaning I never used money that's not mine then finally I stopped completely.
I know a guy whom the same gambling wrecked as much as this guy who has finally stopped.
thing is it might take time.
I started in 2015 and stopped 2018.
most people who started the act with us in 2015 has also managed to stop.
it's not easy but the OP is on the right track to stopping.
thing is that spirit dragging him to play, I can relate I swear Na strong spirit.
once money enter your hand, voom u don go play.
he needs commitment and prayer to kill that spirit.
OP your on the right track.
don't force yourself to quit, try to understand and regulate it.
virtual has this policy. if you win today, tomorrow you must go back there to either win or lose if you still win again, trust me you'll keep returning back till you loose it all. you need to understand this fact.
nobody don cheat virtual.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by mark2sunny(m): 7:58am On Jul 17, 2020
Things I have never done and will never do God helping me.

Gambling: more like putting money on something I don’t have control over. Just like forex trade. Learned forex when I was about 20, was only trying the demo. My friend went into it full time, wasted his money and those of people who gave him money to invest.

Drinking alcohol: never tasted that shit in my life. First, it has little health benefits. You could become an alcoholic. You’ll have friends who’ll use alcohol to try to cool of or stay up something. It eventually becomes a habit.

Smoking:

Clubbing:

Well a whole lot.

To get yourself off this hook in your jaw. You’ll need to learn the hard way. Maybe doing a short time in a police cell or just talk to your pastor, let him help you. You need a responsible father figure who can guide and discipline you from now.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Davefate: 7:59am On Jul 17, 2020
ChildOfDoom:
As harsh as what i am about to say might sound, there is no cure. Even if you work, you will dupe your employers to gamble. Use your salary too. You will drop out of school, steal to gamble, sell your properties and that of family members & friends, just to play bet9ja virtual. No amount of advice or prayer from an elder, priest or pastor will make you stop. Even beating from community boys or arrest, won't work. It's just one year you started. You should rather be scared of your future misfortunes, not small 300k. By 2022, your debts/troubles will be worse. People should avoid any financial dealings with you for their own good. I am speaking as a bet9ja addict too. Since 2015. I am miserable and unfortunate in life. The earlier the govt sees bet9ja as the new enemy of the youths, the better
No matter how worse it may sound to you, God can reposition your destiny, trust me on this. Your 360% turnaround is possible if YOU BELIEVE!!!

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by uncletbuddy(m): 8:00am On Jul 17, 2020
Evidence1000:
My name is David. I'm a 24 year old young man. I'm in my final year in one of the universities in the south west.
I'm addicted to gambling. Like, I can't just help it.

The craze for this thing started sometime last year. It has eaten deep into me that it now dictates my mood. The only time I can be genuinely happy is when I win money from bet9ja virtual. If I should loose, it makes me very sad to the extent that I see myself as a useless person.

I've gone to the extent of using my school fees to play virtual and that of my course mate that trusted me so much. Though, I was able to pay my course mate's fees without her knowing the truth, I'm unable to pay mine till now. I always have this mentality that I will win.

Whenever money enters my hand like this, no matter how little, it is to head straight to Bet9ja shop or online. The urge is usually very strong. Sometimes, it seems like there's a force pushing me to do it.
Before this lock down, I accumulated a debt of over a hundred thousand naira in a Bet9ja shop in my school environment which I'm unable to pay till now.
I know the owner of the shop would be waiting to pick me up with police when I resume. I don't know what to do.

I need help badly. I've prayed to God severally but it's as if nothing is happening. I've even promised God not to play Bet9ja again but I keep on seeing myself still playing it.

Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. Sometimes, I feel like taking my life so that everything will just end but if I remember the pain it would cause my mother, I'll just hold back.

Please for the people that were once addicted to gambling, how did you stop it? Is there any remedy for it because I'm in need of it badly?

I can't sleep at night anymore because I'm always thinking of debts that I've accumulated which has run into over 300,000. All thanks to Bet9ja virtual.

Someone advised me to get a job that would keep me busy so that I won't have time to play virtual but there are no jobs. I don't mind doing any, even if it is a menial job till school resumes.

Please I need your advice. Feel free to bash me because I deserve more than that even.

Please I'd appreciate if you can move this to front page.


Addiction is sweet and bitter. I quit a 100 times in my mind until I finally quit completely. I channeled that energy to another addiction gaming! And craving for more money via writing business ideas and trying to get them done.

Quite gambling, change your friends, cause if you don't they will lure you into the act. Stop visiting betting house. When you lose control of simple things, you will lose control of many things, including your life.

24, you're young. Go to Nairaland investment or business section and find a new business or drive.

God help you dear.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by jumper524(m): 8:06am On Jul 17, 2020
Op u can help yourself by pitying others.
your not the first, second or third to make such tread.
all you need to do is go through those treads especially that of childofdoom. go through how wrecked them and look at yourself on how you can get worse if you don't stop now.
visit bet9ja shop in your area and watch how it wrecks others and be happy for yourself.
gradually you'll overcome.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by tightpussy156: 8:10am On Jul 17, 2020
@cucumber70% of my winnings are virtual.if you read well I indicate I don't play more than 1k a day an I don't play more than twice a week.in this game of virtual you bet what u can afford to loose that is the secret it is not a do or die game.i play with brains.The last 178k I won on Monday was from virtual correct score with 200# that was the first bet I played on Monday after I was paid I ran straight an bought a bike for the rider to balance 350k cash hope you now understand my point.if it were to be some people they will stand there an finish that money on more betting that day hoping to win bigger.So that is it.Today I will still go an try with 1k immediately I win I run four forty out of the shop till next week again if I don't win with the 1k I will still run four fourty from.the shop.remember he who fight an run away live to fight another day.since I started bet it is only 9 times I tried with 1k which I loose I didn't win anything thing.remember I don't play small odd, I played big odd an stake with 200# and the lowest money I have won is 11k.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by anslemarinze52(m): 8:10am On Jul 17, 2020
Bro it was jus like the same case like mine but what Yu need is determination to stop this.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by jumper524(m): 8:13am On Jul 17, 2020
Benprince25:
For me oooo....it's better bet9ja kills me..
I have lost enough money....I must recover my money back ooo����
lol!!
my guy no put virtual in your recovery process.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by born2begreat(m): 8:25am On Jul 17, 2020
It’s not Bet9ja that’s ruining your life it’s you yourself that’s putting knife on your own neck. Most of guys in your age do play Bet9ja but the fastest and easiest way to go into bankruptcy is playing VIRTUAL BET. Those people you see in Bet9ja shops during lockdown when 97% if not 100% of leagues and sports were shut down... Those people are not only gambler rather ADDICTS. I do play Bet9ja and i’ve won 264k with just #200 betslip and many small small amounts too but not the virtual bet you are playing just normal bet. No Pastors, Alfas or prayers can help you if your mind still thinks of betting. Maybe if you are picked and jailed you would learn. A day i caught my younger brother last born precisely playing Bet9ja and few months later i sent him message with money. He claimed he lost the money... I just told him gambler don’t lost money, or money fell from his pocket or he’s been picked. He thought i was joking until many slaps landed on him and started confessing he used the money to play Bet9ja. Work on your mind because there’s no place you will relocate to that you won’t see bet shops. Work on your mind and yourself...

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