It is well with you sorry

TheManOfTheYear:
All of you saying "Get a girlfriend" are just modafucking hypocrites (permit me to sound vulgar). You condemn masturbation and justify fornication, can you listen to yourselves.

Also, for those saying "Go and marry", not everyone is in a position to get married, some are not financially stable, some are still young and just starting life, some are students. Konji is not a respecter of anybody.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not justifying masturbation, but I just feel it is foolish to condemn Peter and praise Paul, furthermore, marriage is not a remedy for sexual immorality, married people still masturbate, married people still cheat and etc.

The thing is simple, if you want to abstain simply occupy your mindset with things to keep you busy, doing it once in a while has no repercussions (health-wise).

It only takes the grace of the Holy Spirit for one to be sexually pure. Y'all take a seat.

Lots of sense in this post. I would have sent you some cartons of Heineken but I will not just because of the vulgar language you used in addressing us

Nice one

derrick015:
Good morning everyone.

The subject refers,
I am a Christian. However, I have been struggling with a whole lot of non-Christian like habit. One such habit is watching pornography and masturbating. This habit has lingered for more than 10 years now.
I am an introvert probably what has made it worse and perpetual.
I don't like this act. But I usually still practice it.

I believe God loves me but he hates this act. I really don't know how to STOP IT.

Pls, I need help. This has really affected my relationship with the Holy spirit, myself, and other people please help.

Also I have discovered that in the past 2 years i have been so disorganized, and forgetful.

At work, I have been termed a LIER. I feel really embarrassed with myself when people give me something and I forget I have been given or I don't know where exactly I kept it. Then I will be asked about the same thing I won't be able to find it. Sometimes I deny it was ever given to me because I can't remember It was ever given to me.

This has brought me a lot of struggles at work(banking) and has made me ever so frustrated with myself.

I WASN'T LIKE THIS[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] before. It so unfortunate this is happening to me.

My prayer life to has gone down the drain it's zero. I attend church service Sunday however due to the current lockdown I can say I don't have any relationship with God!

Please I need help

First of all, you don't know you're in warfare as a Christian. If you know, you would have known that righteousness is God's warfare strategy. If you understand your place as a soldier in the war front 247, you will no take actions that will jeopardize your life and that of those under your command.

Put on the breastplate of righteousness.

When you understand what it means and your place as a soldier of Christ on the war front, when the devil whispers sin to you. You will take yourself you are not putting whole on your amour of righteousness.

Keep telling your spirit this thing (this is war strategy to survive the attack of darkness) till your spirit understands you. When he does, he will control your body to obey but until then. The battleground is your mind.

Pray when you feel like and when you don't feel like.

Ibritamibritam:
Even me
and the last time I Masturbate was last night,
Which I Did after chatting b4 going to bed.

I Really cnt stp dis
help plss.

Search masturbation quiting thread here on Nairaland .
You will get support on how to start

UDUJ:


Lots of sense in this post. I would have sent you some cartons of Heineken but I will not just because of the vulgar language you used in addressing us

Nice one

Or you're too broke to send them

I agree with u

growtogeda:
bros,
1. go and marry
2. get busy. only idle people get the time to masturbate .

presidentMZ:
Copy the link and register then start watching those videos to be paid any amount on the videos.

The more you watch, the more money in your account.

When it gets to a certain amount, you can withdraw.

You can view the videos with your data or any free data anywhere

It is a win-win

You lose nothing, but you gain everything.

It is only someone that loves you who can give you this info

Take it from me and run with it
https://aosvideon.pw/47344877850265/

Please how genuine is this?

hopefulLandlord:


Or you're too broke to send them

Maybe

Install your favourite game into your phone and play it each time you are alone. Try as much as possible to use a phone that can access internet like Nokia torch light and keep out any thing that arouse you from your room and bathroom.

God help u

What d hell man...every Sunday porn and wanking...na the only sin wey dey ..cant u guys preach out something different. Not every christian watches porn and and wants.

My brother, you have really take a good step for not keeping this to your self.....first thing you will need to do, is to go back to the father cry unto him to save you ask for the forgiveness of your sin....and let the holy spirit dwell in you....note for you to make him accept you, you must surrender all....I mean ALL.
If you can do this with determination, I surely know our God will help you.....
I advise you to download messages about addiction I recommend my mentor message apostle Joshua selman.....
I see God helping you

livinbygrace:
We are human and there are times we needs to discharge to relieve stress.Most Reverend Fathers masturbate ,does that mean they are commiting sin?

sin is a sin even if everyone is doing it.

You know what to do. Do it!

hopefulLandlord:

Food releases dopamine. Sex between two people that are in love/lust would release dopamine. Listening to certain music you love releases dopamine. drinking water can release dopamine. Scratching an itch can release dopamine. Even daydreaming can release dopamine

You'd agree with me that each and every one of these acts aren't really wrong on their own just because they release dopamine. Dopamine isn't the problem. it's when it gets out of control that problems arise like Gluttony, Extremely high libido. glueing headphones on oneself or dying of electrolyte imbalance due to consuming too much water, scratching your body till it bleeds, spend too much time daydreaming that you become lost in that virtual world

Dopamine isn’t the problem true....but there are habits that are more likely to induce addiction than others..

Bro, breaking from masturbation and pornography is not something you can technically succeed. First, let me tell you that God answer the prayer of an honest man. A man that knows his weaknesses and commit it to the hands of the Lord. Secondly, ask for the help of Holy Spirit to keeps you in all your acts. Thirdly, stay away from any form of immortality. God bless you

JahBwoy:

Search masturbation quiting thread here on Nairaland . You will get support on how to start

thanks I Will if only itz will work.

anytime you feel the urge to watch porn and masturbate, just remember how miserable and useless you will be after the act, including the amount of loss of energy, nutrients and strength you will incured. your mind will get off it as soon as possible. make use of this strategy and watch yourself conquer pornography and masturbation. my 10 cents.

growtogeda:
bros,
1. go and marry
2. get busy. only idle people get the time to masturbate .

Is not true. What u said is like saying that only idle people feel to bleep or that only idle people have sex.

Everyone is a hypocrite. No one's a sanctimonious being. Apparently most Christians today about 90% struggle with thr sin of masturbation, pornography and fornication.
To be honest with you my brother the fact is that when you pray, you'll still see yourself indulging in such act over and over again which i believe most people on this forum can attest to ,even if you keep your mind pre occupied i bet you'll still falter once again and indulge in such ungodly act. I can't really assure you that you'll be able to overcome this easily it might take an enormous period of time to overcome it that's if only you will. Once you've started there's no stopping it believe me. But you just have to be optimistic about the whole scenerio and believe you can overcome

Grandmeister:

Dopamine isn’t the problem true....but there are habits that are more likely to induce addiction than others..

So you're saying "addiction" is the problem then? if that's it then you're right and addiction is a sign that one has lost "control" so again, control is key

hopefulLandlord:
Bullsheet! I know rich men and women that engage in the two acts. It only becomes an issue if it gets out of control just like almost anything in life. Control is key

UDUJ:


Maybe

Sell the Lacoste hood on you, add some cash, buy the Heineken cartons and send them. remember you only promised cartons so the drinks aren't necessary.

athaboi:
Don't give up... everyone is struggling, even God knows that we can't keep all the commandments. You only have to be honest and sincere to yourself, if actually you are trying to quit the stuffs..keep trying, one day his grace will shock you

What ever i want to do that i'll do,if i don't want to nothing will change that...that's just me...though it took years to become who i am..

hopefulLandlord:
Sell the Lacoste hood on you, add some cash, buy the Heineken cartons and send them. remember you only promised cartons so the drinks aren't necessary.

You are right, getting empty cartons will be far cheaper

I admire your sense of humour. Have a great Sunday Chief

How can one be addicted to porn though;I just don't get it. I watch that shit once in a blue moon and its really disgusting to watch.

Here

better yet why cant the demonic leaders of the world just erase all porn from the internet ? a website called TUMBLR has erased every porn from its website. would that not be easier for everybody ?

funny after that site banned porn people stopped going there lmaooo
https://www.theverge.com/2019/3/14/18266013/tumblr-porn-ban-lost-users-down-traffic

The way out is to avoid triggers.

derrick015:
Good morning everyone.

The subject refers,
I am a Christian. However, I have been struggling with a whole lot of non Christian like habit. One of such habit is watching of pornography and masturbating. This habit has lingered for more than 10 years now.
I am an introvert probably what has made it worse and perpetual.
I don't like this act. But I usually still practice it.

I believe God loves me but he hates this act. I really don't know how to STOP IT.

Pls I need help. This has really affected my relationship with the Holy spirit, myself and other people please help.

Also I have discovered that in the past 2 years i have been so disorganized, and forgetful.

At work I have been termed a LIER. I feel really embarrassed with myself when people give me something and I forget I have been given or I don't know where exactly I kept it. Then I will be asked of the same thing I won't be able to find it. Sometimes I deny it was ever given to me because I can't remember It was ever given to me.

This has brought me a lot of struggles at work(banking) and has made me ever so frustrated with myself.

I WASN'T LIKE THIS[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] before. It so unfortunate this is happening to me.

My prayer life too has gone down the drain it's zero. I attend church service Sunday however due to the current lockdown I can say I don't have any relationship with God!

Please I need help

Porn and masturbation addiction is a very strong manipulation of the evil forces of darkness and it will only take God’s intervention through serious prayer and fasting to be delivered from this, Ive been there and I know what I’m talking about.

Only you will pray your way out of this, there is no other way. Only fasting and prayer can completely neutralize this element of the forces of darkness in you.

Do a 3 days dry fasting, with serious prayer during the process. If possible, avoid any occasion of distraction while on this. During the fasting session, pray ceaselessly day and night, with psalms especially psalm 51.

Elements of darkness feed on what the flesh feed, no element of darkness can survive when starved for 72 hours. Do this and give God the glory.

athaboi:
Don't give up... everyone is struggling, even God knows that we can't keep all the commandments. You only have to be honest and sincere to yourself, if actually you are trying to quit the stuffs..keep trying, one day his grace will shock you

Exactly...be real and sincere when you're talking to God or go to him in prayer. He knows you more than you know yourself....ask for grace and the spirit of God to help you. God likes when we Express our deep real emotions.

Y is it that anytime somebody open this stoopid NL he must see one useless post on Masturbation and pornography, why is it that perverts use Sunday to preach about Sex sex sex and a foolish mod everyday from Mon-Fri force this graphic and uncensored nonsense down everybody's throat, evertym masturbation and porn Mr. Man stop opening this stupid thread, if u av sense Quit it, is not good 4 it mental and emotional health simple! I don't know weda people aren't ashamed of themselves opening this useless thread and the moderator that keeps pushing this to FP has a backward Mental health issue! & needs to go for an AA program!

derrick015:
Good morning everyone.

The subject refers,
I am a Christian. However, I have been struggling with a whole lot of non Christian like habit. One of such habit is watching of pornography and masturbating. This habit has lingered for more than 10 years now.
I am an introvert probably what has made it worse and perpetual.
I don't like this act. But I usually still practice it.

I believe God loves me but he hates this act. I really don't know how to STOP IT.

Pls I need help. This has really affected my relationship with the Holy spirit, myself and other people please help.

Also I have discovered that in the past 2 years i have been so disorganized, and forgetful.

At work I have been termed a LIER. I feel really embarrassed with myself when people give me something and I forget I have been given or I don't know where exactly I kept it. Then I will be asked of the same thing I won't be able to find it. Sometimes I deny it was ever given to me because I can't remember It was ever given to me.

This has brought me a lot of struggles at work(banking) and has made me ever so frustrated with myself.

I WASN'T LIKE THIS[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] before. It so unfortunate this is happening to me.

My prayer life too has gone down the drain it's zero. I attend church service Sunday however due to the current lockdown I can say I don't have any relationship with God!

Please I need help

Ure problem is so simple to fix only if u knew how to do it. I mean it. 10year masturbation, which is just a bad habit by the way and others can be solve in a very simple manner. U just need to learn it.