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Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by PureGoldh(m): 12:52pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
judedwriter: Bro...many people are blind to see beyond the physical. I pray God will open their eyes to see how their life is spiritual caged by these evil acts. |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by judedwriter(m): 1:00pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
PureGoldh: Chronic Masturbation causes: 1. Stagnation 2. Regression 3. Poverty 4. Witchcraft attacks 5. Witchcraft initiations 6. failure 7. Depression 8. Anti social behavior 9. Loneliness 10. Arthritis 11. Spirit wife and husband attacks 12. Dullness of mind 13. Inability to get married 14. Inability to enjoy marriage 1 Like |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
PureGoldh:And say yes to Fornication adultery, right? Guess that is what you will teach your children. Everyday masturbation and pornography as if those sins are greater than fornication and adultery |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
[quote author=judedwriter 8. Anti social behavior 9. Loneliness 13. Inability to get married 14. Inability to enjoy marriage [/quote]what of Fornication causes? Ee no get abi? |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
judedwriter:chronic fornication and adultery causes what? |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by greypencils: 1:03pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
From someone who has suffered the same problem of masturbation and now free, buy a roll of paper tape, you could use plaster but paper tape is cheaper, once you find yourself alone, tape both your thumbs and both fingers next to the thumb. You can tape other fingers too if you want to. The idea is to burden your fingers so that they are not relaxed enough for you to touch yourself. Do this religiously for some months. Always bind your fingers at home.you can remove them when you are going out. It works. |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
PureGoldh:And fornication doesn't have spiritual causes right |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Komu1048(m): 1:07pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
FrLukas: My brother you can provide you suggestion without talking down on the scriptural way. I’m free from all forms of sexual sin today by the help of the Holy Spirit. Not only did I stop porn and masturbation alone I also gain control over all habits that I don’t want in my life. It’s was a long journey due to relapse and all that but I was determined and kept calling on God each time I felt short of his glory. Now when I come across any porn accidentally, I don’t feel anything special anymore, not move I jus see it as a human part that’s all. All my fear to stay alone at home before which makes me always abandon my apartment to be in crowded place for the fear of relapse are no more. To God be the glory |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by dynb: 1:14pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Bro you need Deliverance , Masturbation is a spirit, a stubborn one self... Fighting Masturbation is like fighting a war |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Bludo: 1:29pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
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Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Nothing wrong with mastubation, for those who wants to, ask your doctor he will tell you the same, if you ask crooked pastors they would start with their kangaroo judgement and start talking about sin, bible, hell and Jesus. ask them to show in the bible where Jesus said that mastubation is wrong or which country is hell located they would say that you are possessed by the devil, and i say show me them devil or what devil looks like, they cannot. crooked pastors and scamming churches. |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Viktoreze(m): 1:40pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
derrick015: I'm sorry but you'll never find any help on social media if you truly want help. The Holy Spirit is all you require. Just ask your Heavenly Father sincerely to open your heart to hear his voice. May God continue to bless you |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Edogold1212: 1:56pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
FrLukas: |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by jaoh: 1:57pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Hello Brother. Have Faith and trust in God to perfect His word in you. Then, get busy, an idle mind is the devil's workshop. You know places or things that make you vulnerable, keep away from them. God will help you |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by nathpope(m): 2:20pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
hopefulLandlord: And the rich men and women told you they watch porn and masturbate? Let us know when ur dodo has done abeg. |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by dudesexy111: 2:29pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
I was once like you....just don’t give up you will stop |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by mrdino(m): 2:30pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
growtogeda:No 1 reason you mentioned is one of the most common wrong reasons why people get married. Why should sex be a major reason for getting married. |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Komu1048: The same scriptures that you read that made you think that masturbation is a sin is the same scriptures pastor Chris Oyakhilome read that made him tell his congregation that masturbation isn't a sin. So forgive me if I don't believe in your interpretation of the scriptures. |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
derrick015:http://mycosmos4u..com/2010/05/importance-of-semen-preservation.html https://www.sacred-texts.com/nth/tgr/tgr16.htm Should help you |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by AKzee(m): 2:34pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
FrLukas:Number 2 is the way to go. It works like magic. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Tribalism123(m): 3:06pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
growtogeda: Wrong bro |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by hopefulLandlord: 3:07pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
nathpope:You can know this by getting access to their computers or phones and checking their browsing history or media files. I'm good with small computer issues so whenever I'm with some they might just tell me of this small phone or computer issues they have and I'd ask to check if it's something I can do |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by raf9ty: 3:11pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
[quote author=frugal post=92120722] There's a whole community on this: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/[/quot You can overcome this habit? There is Grace for you IN JESUS! |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by Dayoebe(m): 3:12pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
between weed, fornication and soapy. I will gladly choose the latter. Righteous89 any objection? |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by ayoyoloye: 3:17pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
What you are going through is not unusual or uncommon. I suspect that there are several Christians facing the same challenge but who are not able to come out and speak of their struggles. Hence they suffer in silence. There have been a number of valuable coments on this thread already around the themes of starving the addiction of whatever is feeding it, that there is a spiritual dimension to this issue and also the need to actively work at breaking free from this addiction. No temptation has seized you except that which is common to man. Many have gone through this before and have eventually come out safely on the other side. You can learn from the experiences of others and come through safely also. There is a Christian movie entitled "The Smell" that deals with this issue in some detail and it should help you a lot. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FW3ZmXkYEDw I pray it helps you. |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by bizhop01: 3:45pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Masturbation is evil spirit |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by bizhop01: 3:50pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
smellingKPEKUS:Don't allow devil to used you and destroy others |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by adegeye38(m): 4:01pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
derrick015:There is a spirit behind every addiction, confront it, especially with the mentality of who you are in Christ. Submit your self before God and ask him to help you. Make a conscious decision to stop it by all means Ask God to give you the grace to live for him. And God will help you in Jesus name, Amen |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by christscribe: 4:08pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Masturbation, porn addiction, and other variances of sexual perversions are deeply rooted strongholds of the mind needing not only prayers, but also a lot of mind renewing. All sins begin from the mind, through our thoughts activated by things we feed our minds with through the eye, mouth and mind gates. You need to ask yourself why and when you feel the compulsion to masturbate? It is different foes for different folks. Is it when you are sad, jobless, having nothing to do after a time period, and your mind begins to hunt for something to entertain itself with? You know, the devil finds work for idle hands, or is it when you are spiritually weak? Someone confided in me that he masturbates when he feels sad and depressed. Then, you must make up your mind to wage war against all the sexual sins afflicting your life. You engage in warfare with the word, ask for grace to spend time with God in worship and enjoy it, and spend at least one hour daily speaking in tongues. If you spend time with God, deliberately filling up and consuming your mind with spiritual content, the last thing on your mind will be to engage in sexual sins. And when the urge comes, change position, don't remain on the same spot, stand up, call someone and you can also burst into tongues, crying to God for help. And if you fall, stand up again and ask God for mercy for his mercy endures forever. Never give up on yourself, for a living dog is still better than a dead lion. Run from situations that compels you to masturbate, flee every appearance of evil. And lastly, Jesus came to destroy the power of sin and death in our lives. So cry to him for help, ask him for the grace to stop engaging in sexual sins and he will avail you his mercy. For you to live the successful and victorious life that God has ordained for you, you need to fight this and win. Sexual sins robs of the fullness of God's blessings, it strips you off the covering of God's presence, it opens the gates for legions to enter into your life and make a mess of it. SO it is a battle you must win, for whosoever is born of God has overcome the world. FREEGIFT International, a Christian drama company released a film 2 weeks ago, titled, THE SMELL. THE SMELL, a film that tells the stories of people struggling with sexual sins and effectively answered all lingering questions on this subject matter, all wrapped together in a compelling life transforming drama. It is a must watch, especially for those besieged with sexual battles. To watch the film YouTube, click this link and subscribe for more edifying and life transforming Christian contents. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FW3ZmXkYEDw&feature=youtu.be |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by daraj: 4:14pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
]Good morning everyone. The subject refers, I am a Christian. However, I have been struggling with a whole lot of non Christian like habit. One of such habit is watching of pornography and masturbating. This habit has lingered for more than 10 years now. I am an introvert probably what has made it worse and perpetual. I don't like this act. But I usually still practice it. I believe God loves me but he hates this act. I really don't know how to STOP IT. Pls I need help. This has really affected my relationship with the Holy spirit, myself and other people please help. Also I have discovered that in the past 2 years i have been so disorganized, and forgetful. At work I have been termed a LIER. I feel really embarrassed with myself when people give me something and I forget I have been given or I don't know where exactly I kept it. Then I will be asked of the same thing I won't be able to find it. Sometimes I deny it was ever given to me because I can't remember It was ever given to me. This has brought me a lot of struggles at work(banking) and has made me ever so frustrated with myself. I WASN'T LIKE THIS[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] before. It so unfortunate this is happening to me. My prayer life too has gone down the drain it's zero. I attend church service Sunday however due to the current lockdown I can say I don't have any relationship with God! Please I need help[/quote] what you need is deliverance, you need to be set free from this unclean spirits. Go to YouTube and search for the sermon on self deliverance by pastor dk olukoya of mountain of fire ministries. I can really assure you that if you sincerely want to be deliver from this and you follow the steps given by the pastor you will be set free. |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by growtogeda: 4:23pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
mrdino: bible says so. 1 Corinthians 7 v 9 |
Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by unanonso(m): 4:28pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
derrick015: I pray that Almighty God will deliver you in the mighty name of Jesus. And may the good Lord give you power over those habits in Jesus name. Amen. |
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