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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by Joshmanuel10: 1:51pm On Aug 02
Very deep
Ur mom should have told u from d beginning not to date...
She's been with u when things where tough what else do u need, u just tired of the relationship already
Life we make decisions and stick to them, man up to them, work things out, pastors ain't marriage counsellor they can only give both of u advice on how to make your marriage work-out nit to stop d marriage
Marriage is a decision for u not ur mom or ur pastor... Marriage Na man and woman not man, mom, pastor
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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:52pm On Aug 02
proclinician:
Hehe a confused young man you truly are. As me de now there's no pastor that has my phone number or that has ever talked to me on personal issues. They never born the pastor that will oppose my choice of marriage sha. Where will he even see me? That's how a man keeps his shits together. Unless you're not a man just a sissy with a penis.

Proclinician is back shockedshocked

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by dominique(f): 1:53pm On Aug 02
StPete:
Sense is very far from you OP. If you have to base your decision on what other people think or suggest then you're still a baby and not fit for marriage. I wish the poor girl will even abandon you cause with your kind of mentality, any ills that come your way (which will naturally happen) in the course of the marriage would be blamed on her

I hope the lady opens her eyes and flee from this man and his mother. Jumping from pastor to pastor on top her matter, very fetish and diabolical people.

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by LadySarah(f): 1:58pm On Aug 02
We never learn. Ppl are regretting marrying the ones pastors chose for them. The pastor choosing for you, do you think his marriage is rosy?

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by Anuoluwa1234(f): 2:01pm On Aug 02
Lol cheesy cheesy grin grin
Fmlao:
That's just a mere prediction from the pastors.


Top footballer and analysts predicted that Chelsea will beat Arsenal to the FA cup.


Atlast, mere predictions doesn't define the game.
Na so i gave 3 female names give a pastor and an alfa.. Bola, Justina and Blessing.
U know what, the pastor picked Justina while the Alfa picked blessing.
Then, I don't even have a girlfriend then.


As God will now have it, my new girlfriend's name is Bola
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by zabuur: 2:02pm On Aug 02
For the fact that your mother could even go to anyone (pastor, Alfa etc) to ask about what could happen in d future regarding your marriage shows you aren't from a good home.

I hope and pray your girlfriend finds someone better whose mum won't be seeking spiritual, diabolical helps up and down.

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by Horlahmah(m): 2:03pm On Aug 02
You don't nee to be troubled. Ask them what they see, and they should be able to proof there reason. Then go back to your closet and weigh their views. Don't allow them to decide your destiny.

You should know what you want and to some extent you should have the clue to expectation of what the lady would be.
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by Anuoluwa1234(f): 2:05pm On Aug 02
Lol... cheesy cheesy cheesy.. u ppl will just not kill me cheesy cheesy grin grin
paulolee:
na the pastor won sponsor the wedding??
na so pastor take advise brother stanley not to marry the beautiful and yellow sister Elizabeth for church that year after almosts 1 year or courting...
because him say thier spirit isnt spiritually bonded or connected..
las las na pastor second pikin wey come from abj naim marry sister Elizabeth after 3 months wey that yawa happen and them don even born 3 lai this...
and brother stanley still they pray to find him own spiritual wife material, we still they pray for brother stanley shaa

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by theowane: 2:06pm On Aug 02
I swear, if to say I get bottle, I for break am for your head. Between you and the pastors, who suppose know you girlfriend pass I'm very sure these pastors have never even set eyes on your girlfriend before, so why would they tell you what you know? See, it's high time we stopped all these over spirituality and get wisdom. If marriage were to work by God revieling your wife, then people like Pastor Chris Ikotie, Pastor Chris, Pastor Iginla and co for no divorce, because God would have shown them the perfect "virgin Mary" from heaven to marry. My brother, na you wear your shoe, na you know where e dey pinch you or where e dey sweet you. At the end of the day, na only you and your wife na him go stay the same house, even your mama, na only visit she go visit. If the girl gives you joy and you are able to live with her, pls go on. It is strictly your choice

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by kolade560: 2:08pm On Aug 02
sorry to say this, women generally are gullible and easy to manipulate inclusive of our mothers.
I hate depending on pastors, they scatter home, pray to God.
if u entrust something in women's hand they will misguide u, dey are weak, forget age

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by Judybash93(m): 2:08pm On Aug 02
Nigga, do your thing, ain't no pastor can change anything... Jizzz
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by Luckydubby7(m): 2:11pm On Aug 02
I don't waste my advice on this kind of topic..

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by KaptainAfrika: 2:11pm On Aug 02
He wan fvck your babe, ignore him.
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by AmuDimpka: 2:11pm On Aug 02
You see how they use religion to mess folks brain up

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by wristbangle: 2:12pm On Aug 02
Ideally, when parents blesses the union of their children, it is more than enough. This is how it suppose to be.

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by jom4real007(m): 2:12pm On Aug 02
In other countries, Intending couples will go for marriage counselling but here in Africa, its always pastors and spiritual issues....we get problem oohhh
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by 2cribz: 2:12pm On Aug 02
Be like say those 3 pastors wey dey against am sef wan blow . Even during dis corona period those pastors no see am,na pastors approval u dey wait unto. Men. Wtf. Follow your heart,dey use condom .if e no work out,onto the next one .
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by paulolee(m): 2:15pm On Aug 02
Anuoluwa1234:
Lol... cheesy cheesy cheesy.. u ppl will just not kill me cheesy cheesy grin grin
soo sory oo...its a happy new week loading that's why...
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by Ravenbeast1(m): 2:15pm On Aug 02
Marriage is not a day thing.
If these pastors hear from God directly, then you really shouldn't marry her.
The future may not be pleasant.
Love is not enough
Don't be stubborn.
Ask them why.
If they see anything, they'll tell you, if dey don't, just know that God is not man.
Keep praying, maybe he'll show you too.
But trust me if those voice came from God and you marry her, love may not solve the problems that'll follow.
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by skimena: 2:16pm On Aug 02
When I was about to marry my wife, I took her to my pastor and my pastor told me in her present that the marriage is not going to work. Meaning we are not meant to be together as husband and wife. instantly my wife to be started crying like a baby in the church. But as a curious man that I am. I asked the pastor a question that he couldn't reply. I said sir, this thing you just said now that my marriage with this girl is not going to work Is it the Holy spirit that reveal it to you? or sir did u see something about my life, family or her life or family that may impose a great danger in future? He was dumbfounded. he couldn't reply a word or even give me one reasonable reason why it will not work. so me and my babe left the church to a very quiet environment where we could chat heart to heart. we prayed together and commit the future of our marriage into God's hand. we got married in another church and today we are blessed with a boy and a girl. The marriage work? abi e nor work? God has the final say not man

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by PrecisionFx(m): 2:16pm On Aug 02
Marks112:
Hi everyone, my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things.
She asked 4 pastors, 1 said she’s okay, others said no.

But the thing is I am exhausted, I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very much. She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money.

I have just been thinking a lot cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no.

And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage, how do I convince her?

And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot .. I just tire.
Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or f*ck up
I don’t want to hurt her.

U made a terrible mistake by following her to those churches.

Only ur parents needs to approve of ur marriage, keep away from churches
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by NaDem34: 2:16pm On Aug 02
Marks112:
Hi everyone, my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things.
She asked 4 pastors, 1 said she’s okay, others said no.

But the thing is I am exhausted, I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very much. She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money.

I have just been thinking a lot cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no.

And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage, how do I convince her?

And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot .. I just tire.
Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or f*ck up
I don’t want to hurt her.
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Don't be silly you are sounding really stupid...do you pray at all? Prayer changes the mind of God...Most nigerian Christians are so lazy to sort out their salvation your parents or pastor can't dictate what is best for you only God...Marry that lady and be loyal and faithful to her...Back it up with prayers and see your prosperity....you sound more like a baby than a man

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:17pm On Aug 02
Marks112:
Hi everyone, my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things.
She asked 4 pastors, 1 said she’s okay, others said no.

But the thing is I am exhausted, I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very much. She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money.

I have just been thinking a lot cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no.

And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage, how do I convince her?

And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot .. I just tire.
Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or f*ck up
I don’t want to hurt her.

Tell you Pastor God told you to tell him to divorce his wife.

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by soundlala: 2:18pm On Aug 02
Marks112:
Hi everyone, my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things.
She asked 4 pastors, 1 said she’s okay, others said no.

But the thing is I am exhausted, I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very much. She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money.

I have just been thinking a lot cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no.

And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage, how do I convince her?

And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot .. I just tire.
Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or f*ck up
I don’t want to hurt her.
if you dont know what to do @ this age and also u going about asking from yahoo men of God then you are not mature enough to settle down
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by cinderellashoes(f): 2:18pm On Aug 02
Marks112:
Hi everyone, my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things.
She asked 4 pastors, 1 said she’s okay, others said no.

But the thing is I am exhausted, I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very much. She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money.

I have just been thinking a lot cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no.

And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage, how do I convince her?

And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot .. I just tire.
Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or f*ck up
I don’t want to hurt her.

Some pastors are fake, especially those Woli in Celestial churches. One told me I will have issues with my mother in law but till day she treats me like an egg even when I was trying to conceive, no issues from her. Then those same people told me that someone did something for me so I won't be able to give birth but that's another lie. Please pray about your girl and if you have peace in your heart about her, go ahead and marry her. If your mother hasn't met her yet, tell her you broke up with the previous girl and still introduce same girl to her. Pastors and mothers are not the ones in the relationship, you are, so be wise.

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by MrHighSea: 2:18pm On Aug 02
emkz:
Marriage is not by sentiments. You have to carry out indepth research into your potential spouse. Go to her village, look for that her aunt/uncle that is hated and ask questions. Look for neighbours and ask questions. Ask follow up questions. Investigate her married spouses and find out how they treat their spouses. If her mum is divorced, find out what caused the divorce. If her dad is dead, find out what killed him.

So while you are loving with your heart, listen to dissenting voices as they may be your saving grace in future. Marrying the wrong woman can ruin you. Pray.
All these research.
Marriage abi dissertation?
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by freemandela4: 2:22pm On Aug 02
Marks112:
Hi everyone, my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things.
She asked 4 pastors, 1 said she’s okay, others said no.

But the thing is I am exhausted, I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very much. She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money.

I have just been thinking a lot cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no.

And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage, how do I convince her?

And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot .. I just tire.
Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or f*ck up
I don’t want to hurt her.

4 pastors-1 said she's okay, 3 said not okay. Did the 3 that said not okay give your mum any reason? Are they all celestial pastors? If yes,ask your mum to tell the 3 pastors what the other one said so as to know why the girl is okay. But if they are not of the same celestial church, advise your mum to stop jumping from one church to another as that is a big problem to you and your family.
You love her, she loves you back bro you are settling down with your wife not your mum. You guys have been through alot together and am sure you understand each other.
For all this while you guys are dating and your mum attending church pastor did not see vision that you are not compatible it is now that you want to marry her that she's not okay.
About your mum no know say you get girlfriend

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by GamalNasser: 2:22pm On Aug 02
If I was a girl I can't marry into a family that goes to look into the future

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Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by Ghostmode2two(m): 2:25pm On Aug 02
I tire for this kind matter. So you come here to get suggestion on how to disobey your pastor and mother or what? Una like to d y shook eye and nose for anything. You go meet babalawo sef
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by Myer: 2:26pm On Aug 02
Marks112:
Hi everyone, my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things.
She asked 4 pastors, 1 said she’s okay, others said no.

But the thing is I am exhausted, I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very much. She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money.

I have just been thinking a lot cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no.

And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage, how do I convince her?

And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot .. I just tire.
Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or f*ck up
I don’t want to hurt her.

Interesting how they can see the one that you should not marry but cannot see the one you should marry.
The only thing you need to worry about is making your family including your mom like her.
Most African moms just want to see a caring and clean wife who is not a feminist.lol
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry My Girlfriend by mperornero: 2:27pm On Aug 02
Marks112:
Hi everyone, my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things.
She asked 4 pastors, 1 said she’s okay, others said no.

But the thing is I am exhausted, I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very much. She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money.

I have just been thinking a lot cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no.

And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage, how do I convince her?

And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot .. I just tire.
Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or f*ck up
I don’t want to hurt her.
. if Na by money, she might be pretending o or getting it from somewhere else, except her parents are Rich or has a good source of income.

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