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Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by chris51(f): 8:54am On Aug 04, 2020
chris51:
Lauretta. Onochie should mind her business. A parent has the privilege to discipline her child as he/ she seems fit, as long as the child is not assaulted or treated badly.

In the case of "mummy calm down". From the dialogue between mother and son, you can see that boy knows he did wrong but just pleading with the boy.

The mother didn't beat him but only wants him to be cautioned.

Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by LaReinaa(f): 8:57am On Aug 04, 2020
Madam Lauretta Shut up and face the only thing you’re good at which is abusing and destroying this country undecided
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by obyrich(m): 8:58am On Aug 04, 2020
Nonsense
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Temmylee01(m): 8:59am On Aug 04, 2020
icebird25:
Mtcheew. .is it everything that you compare with UK... someone can't beat discipline his/her own child again Ni..
if not that you're somewhat derange or something, why on earth will you be hitting a minor African parents with bad mentality expecting a little child to behave like an adult.

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Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Zooposki(f): 8:59am On Aug 04, 2020
I’m an adult and that video traumatized me. How can you make a child cry like that? I could not even finish watching it. There are better ways to discipline a child.

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Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Peacefuluz(f): 9:01am On Aug 04, 2020
Copy copy country... tueh
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Nobody: 9:03am On Aug 04, 2020
Flier:
It’s a pure child abuse and the woman could have lost his custody and charged if it happened in a civilized society
Anyway she should apply for a visa to test her popularity,let’s see if she is going to get it
You must discipline your child but don’t post the video
It’s very sad that 75% of people on this thread are educated-illiterate and that is why most Nigerian youths are not employable

Not even "educated illiterates". I can't even describe them bro. The journey is still a long one for this country.

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Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Zakarara(m): 9:03am On Aug 04, 2020
Madam, u are where u are today bc someone once spanked u. That thing has not gone to d abuse level nah! The mother was even saying stretch ur hand; that means is a thoughtful correction. But we'll no wahalla, raise ur own kids the way u like and free us jare.
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Damseldammie(f): 9:04am On Aug 04, 2020
Old woman, is this how you train your children.
Can't one scold little child for a misdeed again.... Ìyá e máa ba aye je fun wa


DISCIPLINE IS NECESSARY FOR A GOOD UPBRINGING


E ńle momo
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by unekwu212: 9:05am On Aug 04, 2020
Bunch of haters everywhere, how is it child abuse.. Madam Lauretta
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Angelfrost(m): 9:11am On Aug 04, 2020
LadySarah:
Oh! I didn't know they actually know there's something called child authorities and social services.
So they know and they haven't passed laws that forbids having underaged as househelps.Chikd labor, out of school children and death sentence for child rapists. Compulsory family planning so parents won't pour out their frustration on their kids.

Has she spoken up all these while on what they are doing to protect the Nigerian child?

You know how things are in the UK but will never replicate it in Nigeria.


Leave the hypocrite!!!... Everyone wants to trend with meaningless things!!!
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by tonquendo4u(m): 9:15am On Aug 04, 2020
See this 1. Boy wey dem no even beat. Spare the rod and spoil the child.
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Saig: 9:17am On Aug 04, 2020
Madam you are not in the UK. Different strokes for different folks
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by TreaSuretunde: 9:21am On Aug 04, 2020
WE NEED TO RUN COVID 19 TEST ON HER. shocked sad cool
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Jeffersonagain(m): 9:22am On Aug 04, 2020
Even if we agree with you that it is child abuse, we would like you to know that it's not in any way close to the Nigerians abuse under buhari.
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by MhizJoyce(f): 9:22am On Aug 04, 2020
Goldencheese:
Person no go correct im child in peace again? Na wa o, Lauretta Onochie.
With all the discipline, wetin e produce?? A bunch of corrupt politicians, lasma officials and police?? A beg the discipline thing doesn't work. It's nonsense!

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Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by philiancoop(m): 9:22am On Aug 04, 2020
Mumu talk. Go to public schools and see how teachers use logs of wood to whip students.
You were you not flogged as a child?
This is the way we correct children since life bagan. This is how we were all whipped and that's how our fathers were whipped. We didn't die
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Angelfrost(m): 9:23am On Aug 04, 2020
Fourwinds:




y Onojanson(m): 7:55am
What about the abuse we facing under Buhari. Is that how the UK government is abusing there citizens.

This is a very good question!!! The hypocrisy of most Nigerians make me laugh!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by MhizJoyce(f): 9:24am On Aug 04, 2020
philiancoop:
Mumu talk. Go to public schools and see how teachers use logs of wood to whip students.
You were you not flogged as a child?
This is the way we correct children since life bagan. This is how we were all whipped and that's how our fathers were whipped. We didn't die
And that is how we will can continue to have thieves for politicians. With all the discipline, aren't we all corrupt? Think!!

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Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by CioAngels(f): 9:24am On Aug 04, 2020
Ejima1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t24NQxyf8jg
The “mummy calm down “ video is a clear case of child abuse and not discipline — Pres. Buhari’s aide



https://mobile.twitter.com/Laurestar/status/1290192758624227328
For once Lauretta, you said something worth hearing. I for one cried because his mother thought she was in the right to have him on video and sent it to internet. I was afriad when he said his last time in the world. Mother, apologise to your now because tomorrow is huge and will remember this. To her, she has turned a celebrity.
Parents thinks beating children is the very best way to correct a child, No.

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Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by MhizJoyce(f): 9:25am On Aug 04, 2020
Tina001:
It's not wrong. You have to correct your child... Do not spare the rod and spoil the child. (don't over beat him sha, some parents own pass beating, na killing cheesy), Use one hand to beat your child, use the second hand to draw him near yourself. Shikena
We don dey beat pikin since time immemorial. What did it produce? Bad leaders? Senseless police officials? Wicked lasma officials? Tell me na

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Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Nobody: 9:30am On Aug 04, 2020
Fourwinds:




Acidosis(m): 7:56am
Your economy is like that of Somalia, your schools like those in Niger, your health facilities like those in South Sudan and Kazakhstan, your literacy level like that of India, Bangladesh and Burkina Faso but you want parents to give their children the UK and US treatment? Mad people.

The children are the future. It's not only about infrastructures. It's about cultures and ideologies. Build whatever infrastructure you want and without the right orientation, those infrastructures will be worn out because of absence of proper etiquette.

Take every person in Oshodi to Oslo (Norway) and take every person in Norway to Oshodi , let them stay for 10 years and watch if Norway won't become Oshodi where people urinate and dump refuse in drainage channels.

My little nephew who attends a new generation school where pupils are not flogged was angry in the car on our way to the airport when his mother threw wraps of snacks while I was driving, he said "Mummy, it's wrong to throw wastes on the road, it causes pollution". These young ones raised without abuse have empathy for chickens and goats and definitely human life . They're not like those who were flogged but kill for rituals and loot public funds.

The new and most relevant method of upbringing in the 21st century is not beating up a child to show supremacy, or simply telling him to stop doing something. Take your child and give him half an hour long correctional talk on why he should not do it. Deny him some fun as punishment and he won't do it again. If he still does it after that it means he would still have done it after you flog him although not in your presence.



Swear that disciplinarians around you have not thrown wraps of snacks out while they were driving. Swear that disciplinarians around you take their domestic refuse to incinerators for disposal and when they get there they pour it into the tank and not near the tank or worse gutters. Tell me if a child whose parents never abused him because of a hair cut would become a SARS official and stereotype young males because of dreadlocks.

You see, no matter the roads the government build the scenarios I mentioned in the preceding paragraph will cause flooding in the long run and damage those roads.

Orientation of our young ones to be modern humans and not just hypocritical savages is as important as building infrastructures , even more important because unlike their fathers who imported the services of other people's fathers abroad to build roads and railways for them, the critical thinking and freedom liberalism breeds will make them confident to build Nigeria themselves.

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Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Psoul(m): 9:30am On Aug 04, 2020
Look at this woman again oooo.
They want to also destroy the little that is remaining for us.
In Africa, we instill discipline in children.
We flog, spank and knock.
So long as u are doing it without wicked mind.
It has helped to bring up disciplined children in Africa.
We are very much proud of our parents that flogged and shaped us to what we are today.
This woman is comparing our mode of discipline with that of the Western world.
This is so absurd.
Forget about our backwardness and corruption here in Africa. Africans produce more disciplined children than Western word that always talk about Child Abuse and Right.
You don't give a child right more than he/she can handle.
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by philiancoop(m): 9:32am On Aug 04, 2020
MhizJoyce:

And that is how we will can continue to have thieves for politicians. With all the discipline, aren't we all corrupt? Think!!

So, it's because of corporal punishment that Nigerian politicians are corrupt?

it's like saying, we've been going to school since we were born and Nigerian politicians are still corrupt, let's stop going to school.

Why don't we stop other things like getting married, having children, building houses or going to school, or even drinking water. There's no connection!

THINK!!!
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Emmanuelcann: 9:32am On Aug 04, 2020
Your opinion of course!
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Yus2020: 9:35am On Aug 04, 2020
This stupid woman
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by Obeysco: 9:36am On Aug 04, 2020
Stupid, careless woman! No wonder their children always end up being drug addicts and menace to the society as a result of indiscipline and over pampering. Personally, I see nothing wrong with the way the woman handled her child. Yoruba people are well disciplined, we don't joke with it.
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by friday2011(m): 9:42am On Aug 04, 2020
Yeye woman...

They are always quick to compare us to UK in such matters...

Pls compare our style of governance too...

Idiot
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by fidelism: 9:43am On Aug 04, 2020
Ejima1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t24NQxyf8jg
The “mummy calm down “ video is a clear case of child abuse and not discipline — Pres. Buhari’s aide



https://mobile.twitter.com/Laurestar/status/1290192758624227328

People like her are quick to quote the Bible, Koran and African culture that LGBT is a sin. Hypocrisy.

You failed to realised that disciplining a child in the bible is not an abuse. You failed to quote that correcting a child in Africa in not an abuse.

So, you quoted that time has changed and made reference to the UK. If you want to go the UK way, don't castigate LGBT. Smh.

Take note that I am not pro LGBT. I am only exposing the crisis of identity among some Nigerian hypocrites
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by dinachi(m): 9:43am On Aug 04, 2020
Ejima1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t24NQxyf8jg
The “mummy calm down “ video is a clear case of child abuse and not discipline — Pres. Buhari’s aide



https://mobile.twitter.com/Laurestar/status/1290192758624227328
I completely agree! That child was abused by her mother, someone who was supposed to protect his dignity. Threatening, your child and watching him cry, then recording it to show people or uploading it on social media is the worst form of abuse! The mother needs to be in Jail.

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Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by shiwex: 9:44am On Aug 04, 2020
Ejima1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t24NQxyf8jg
The “mummy calm down “ video is a clear case of child abuse and not discipline — Pres. Buhari’s aide



https://mobile.twitter.com/Laurestar/status/1290192758624227328

Nonsense....Uk that the kids have no respect or discipline, we see them everyday. not everything is abuse.
Re: Lauretta Onochie: The Calm Down Video Is A Clear Case Of Child Abuse by kaywhy09(m): 9:45am On Aug 04, 2020
These are the same people who will never copy any developmental projects and programmes in developed States. Hypocrites!!

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