She's my my superior at work and I don't do colleagues and will never do. I know how much women loathe rejection. How do l put this to her to make her understand and not despise me after? She's an influencial staff and she can get me fired just by the flick of her finger.

Treat her like you would your mother. It will kill all sexual feelings in her.

Did she literally ask you out or you perceive she is into you

Be explicitly specific.

Respect her and tell her she has high standards, and once in a while ask her for relationship advice about you and you girlfriend. if you treat her as a big sister her emotions towards you will turn to that of a guardian, i have been in your shoe before and it worked.

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Ask your pastor

Start meeting her for relationship advice. ...and always address her as "sister, anty"

As far she didn't ask you out directly, then there is nothing there to reject. do not respond positively to her green lights. If she invites you, form busy. Also, beware of soft influences such as doing stuff for you (eg free food), to avoid the feeling that you're indebted somehow to her.

It is not your fault if other adults can't deal with rejection, but do not accept a relationship you do not want to be in.

enter the kpekus first and tell her dt ur pastor isnt happy with the both of you being together.

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squash47:
Start meeting her for relationship advice. ...and always address her as "sister, anty"

The downside of this method is that he will appear inexperienced and amateurish, and she may also lose respect for him and her trust in his competence. Especially in a situation where they both work together.

pansophist:


The downside of this method is that he will appear inexperienced and amateurish, and she may also loose respect for him. Especially in a situation where they both work together.

if she looses respect for him, that's better than engaging in a romance with him.

The op doesn't want to do anything romantic with his boss.

pansophist:
As far she didn't ask you out directly, then there is nothing there to reject. If you believe she is romantically interested in you by her actions and green lights, then do not respond positively to it. If she invites you, form busy. Also, beware of soft influences such as doing stuff for you (eg free food), to avoid the feeling that you're indebted somehow to her.

It is not your fault if other adults can't deal with rejection, but do not accept a relationship you do not want to be in.

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Become a nice guy around her. Keep complaining about your relationship,how your gf left u for been a 2 mins man. She will lose interest in u

Darius990BC:
She's my my superior at work and I don't do colleagues and will never do. I know how much women loathe rejection. How do l put this to her to make her understand and not despise me after? She's an influencial staff and she can get me fired just by the flick of her finger.

Start by giving her little compliments like, i wish i had a mom like you, or i wish you were my older sister, do this without any guilt, and once in a while.