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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wierdceo: 5:07pm On Dec 13, 2020
luminouz:


Lol...since you dey vex...just find any beer joint near you and collect 2 plates of isi-ewu/nkwobi and 2 bottle of Heineken..

Bills on me. cheesy
Haha. Shey u dy whine me ni?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 5:08pm On Dec 13, 2020
Wierdceo:

Haha. Shey u dy whine me ni?
.........

tongue

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wierdceo: 5:13pm On Dec 13, 2020
luminouz:
.........

tongue
I greet you Alpha

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:14pm On Dec 13, 2020
MJBOLT:
the guy was even bragging to be an alpha on the ashawo thread,i believe he asked that question because he's feeling guilty,dont be suprised if he takes her back.

Every man will always claim alpha just the same way everyone will claim they are not idiòts.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Splitmind: 5:18pm On Dec 13, 2020
LordAdam16:


Read my post about marriage, I'm sure it would resonate with you.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 6:44pm On Dec 13, 2020
Wierdceo:

Right! So be careful with women is better than saying we should fear women. Some of us dont fear death, we dont fear even the devil. Is it now women we shoud fear. Anytime i see that statement it makes me so angry.
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Isn't it funny how men would kill themselves,fight dangerous animals, run into burning buildings and carry out all sorts of life threatening actions with very little fear, just to make society a better place, but get extremely nervous when they're asked to disagree with women?

I mean, just a simple NO would suffice. Why's that so hard to say? Why have we given pusssy so much power over us? Why can't we stand strong even in the face of crocodile tears and emotional blackmail? Why do men love to believe in the illusion of strength even when it's so glaringly obvious that we are so weak? When will men choose to wake up?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olaboy1: 6:49pm On Dec 13, 2020
pansophist:
An unknown aspect of female hypergamy is that it can only be possible becauase men naturally helps it thrives even if he doesn't. In every society for example, men by nature will organise themselves into hierarchy of competence, and a woman will choose the dominant man at the top of that very hierarchy. She have nothing to do with the hierarchical construction, but she wants the best meat cut of it. If men, through their logical workings begin to value truck drivers as they do to presidents, then women will start going for truck drivers. Hypergamy is the end result, but mens logic is the vehicle.

#RandomThoughts
Nice one and just to add to it. Everyone says it’s in the woman’s nature to chase that hierarchy and try to date men way way out of her league during her prime years, TRP is NOW saying it’s in the man’s nature not to date and marry her when she is out of her prime.
I use a free membership dating site and most women that wrote me complained about the low quality of men on the site, and were shocked when I replied with “I find 98% of the women on this site average and below average and if I’m lucky I’m able to find one gem in 2 months”.
Average and below average women complaining about average and below average men. Na who do women this strong tin sef �

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olaboy1: 7:11pm On Dec 13, 2020
Guys never get into any arguments with women. Your answers must be

Honestly I don’t know
Really I had no idea
Hmmm maybe you are right
Sure thing

Women argue backwards throwing all logic and facts away, and if you have any guy doing the same thing just know it’s his feminine side talking.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 7:17pm On Dec 13, 2020
tongue

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olaboy1: 7:56pm On Dec 13, 2020
COOL10:
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Bro, I for like tell the story as e be but there's no way I would do that without revealing certain things about myself,and this is an anonymous forum. That's why I tried making my points as direct and concise as possible but one thing I'll say is this :
Women no be am, my brother,they no be am at all.

It’s because of the demand and supply curve. Women have multiple guys writing them and that in itself creates false abundance. They are leveraging on that and are fast to cut off any guy that doesn’t understand the female psyche.
The only way to win in this game is through self development and give women your minimum best.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:15pm On Dec 13, 2020
Has asking random girls for their number in person become outdated? Jeez I cant believe my failure rate.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 8:30pm On Dec 13, 2020
embarassed

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 10:01pm On Dec 13, 2020
MJBOLT:
embarassed
...


Means he is special naA wink

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Camelot65: 10:09pm On Dec 13, 2020
MJBOLT:
embarassed
cheesycheesy Bleep , same shit happened to my guy.....

His babe even blacklisted his number, told me to help him call her to confirm and it went through cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by oyolohi: 10:53pm On Dec 13, 2020
COOL10:
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When will men choose to wake up?

Similar question: When will Chimps invent a computer?

Ans: As long as Chimps live alongside humans, they'll never invent a computer.

Similarly, as long as men live alongside women, they'll never "wake up."


P.S. : Some things are meant for only a few persons to enjoy. If you're among those who accepted these ways of thinking before getting yourself entangled in things such as marriage, kids, etc., you should rejoice. Flex your life while on your own. grin

Men weren't made to "wake up."

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 11:03pm On Dec 13, 2020
oyolohi:


Similar question: When will Chimps invent a computer?

Ans: As long as Chimps live alongside humans, they'll never invent a computer.

Similarly, as long as men live alongside women, they'll never "wake up."


P.S. : Some things are meant for only a few persons to enjoy. If you're among those who accepted these ways of thinking before getting yourself entangled in things such as marriage, kids, etc., you should rejoice. Flex your life while on your own. grin

Men weren't made to "wake up."

Take away the blinding effects of testosterone,and men would literally avoid women like we avoid snakes.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by mickelkingz(m): 1:17am On Dec 14, 2020
LordAdam16:


Apologies for the delay in my response.

As always, I'll open with a disclaimer (when necessary):

I'm MGTOW. By default, I'm a proponent of 1 Corinthians 7:1. As such, it's fair to actively parse my comment for bias and I may not be the best person to listen to on purple pill matters.

That said, the good thing is quite a portion--if not a majority of commercially successful media personalities in the manosphere are purple-pillers. So there isn't a shortage of good advice from folks who've taken the same path you intend to and who you might better relate with on shared experiences.

Take this remarkable comment by pansophist for example ('twas a response to yet another blue-pilled complainant):



If you need a precis or a pocketbook guide to committed relationships for a redpiller in the 21st century, importantly by someone who is walking the talk, that's as concise as it'd get.

The template is reproducible and easy to grasp.

A: Be certain of what you want.
B. Know what you'd compromise on and what you wouldn't compromise on.
C. Be willing to take your leave if she fails to meet her end of the bargain on a key benefit in the "no compromise" column.

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Now, maybe you want to hear what I have to say on the subject. In which case, I'd oblige.

I'd answer your question first. Then touch on the wider subject matter for emphasis

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Your question was:



Seeking women who are into the culture of previous generations is still possible in traditional climes like ours. However, times are changing for everyone and she'll inevitably be influenced by the changes. Especially if you reside in an urban setting or your own attempts at self-improvement offer her the opportunity to see first-hand what 'modern' women are up to and the complete insanity they can get away with.

Now you might be fortunate that she stays traditional ad infinitum. But the odds of that are low.

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You may have heard the expression:

Hard times create strong men, Strong men create good times, Good times create weak men, and Weak men create hard times.

This is relevant because by definition, culture is the way of life of a particular group of people. We are at the "good times create weak men" stage, which explains the changing culture. Thinking you can flip the script as a one-man army is wishful thinking.

To be accurate, we've been down this road before. In times of weariness and disaster, women don't care about rights. They just want to be safe and have access to resources. Of course, men have to bear the brunt of it and pay with our lives. However, when hard times are over and things are blissful, they get their rights without much prodding.

Ancient Egyptian women during the Middle Kingdom had more rights than modern Egyptian women. Why wouldn't they? The Empire was the dominant power on the planet, there was zero unemployment, little to no social mobility, and the concept of Ma'at meant everyone knew their place and their roles in keeping the empire running.
Spartan women had more rights than Athenian and even Persian women. Why wouldn't they? Their men subjugated a slave population that outnumbered the native Spartan population and they were feared on the battlefield. Like today with Western women having machines perform all their menial tasks. Spartan women had slaves do all their menial tasks.
Likewise with Roman women (citizens) compared to their contemporaries.

With the end of World War II and the ensuing prosperity and bliss, the same thing is happening with Western women.

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Now in the past, because of existential threats, there were hard limits to how much leeway women could get when times were good.

Today, most of those existential threats are no more with sovereignty, rules of engagement, war crimes, the ratification of fundamental human rights, mutually assured destruction and other fail-safe mechanisms.

As such, eventually that culture of previous generations that you fondly reminisce about will die out as simping becomes the gold standard. And those of us who live in urban settings or in the West/West-leaning conclaves are on the front-row.

This explains why it is not accurate to use some of the enduring longstanding marriages of yesteryears as templates for today. Ma Adeboye will not tell Pa Adeboye to go sleep on the couch after an argument. Joke Silva does not expect Olu Jacobs to share the chores 50:50. So while they celebrate their golden jubilees and you're fantasizing about replicating it or using them as #relationshipgoals, understand that the pillars and culture that made that possible are not available to you.

To get to that same point, be prepared to be chewed inside out and embark on a wildly different and rigorous journey.

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Thus, if you still decide to go for committed relationships, even though contemporary culture puts you at a disadvantage; the last thing you want to do is hope to find a unicorn. The idea of unicorns is that they're rare. Not enough to go round, are always sought after even if they're spoken for, and that at the end of the day, they're still horses.

A traditional woman is still a woman. And to give a lucid instance, most of the diaspora men who failed to realize that fact by inviting "women who are into the culture of previous generations" from Nigeria were sharply lectured with cold, hard horror experiences.

The best you can do is prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

Mind you, this is not as nihilistic as it sounds. This is not to mean that you would not have happy times in a committed relationship or marriage as a purple-piller. Especially if you continue to improve yourself and apply TRP nuggets shared here.

Heck, there are a lot of purple-pillers who say the good times are worth the risk and eventual lull periods. In any case, it's not my place to question your reality. That's one of the few good things about the current climate and one I hope more TRPillers take advantage of, you're at liberty to do whatever makes you happy.

Just remember that as investment bankers say "past performance is no guarantee of future results" and ensure you've made appropriate preparations or contingency plans should you become a statistic. Because we only hear complaints after the women have showed their wild side. But when modern men are feeling like Jay Z thinking they have their partners wrapped around their fingers, rather than make hay while the sun shines, they're usually reckless both in words and deeds.

Don't be reckless.

1. Enter every relationship with a clear idea of what you expect to get out of it and what you can reasonably expect to sacrifice.

If you're going in because you prefer to raise your kids in a nuclear family and are willing to sacrifice your individuality, many of your dreams, some of your cherished friendships, amongst many other things. Then by the gods, if years later she becomes insufferable that it begins to affect the family unit and your kids well being, read her the Riot Act.

2. I have to repeat this, have a clear idea of what you can reasonably expect to sacrifice.

Everything has a price. Including entering a marriage or a committed relationship. It might not sound like a big deal now. But 12 years later, you'd wake up, look at her face as she sleeps and wonder "how the f*ck was I so arrogant to believe I could deal with this sh*t for decades".

3. If you're improving yourself, she should be too.

If you choose to overlook this or tolerate her nasty, that's your prerogative and should be your choice. Don't be knackered into believing that while you're working on yourself and literally sucking up to your boss to maintain your lifestyle and not lose her, that her flaws are a package deal that you MUST accept without her even attempting to work on them.

In the 21st century, that's a pile of crap. If marriage is work, you should not be the only one stacking bricks.

4. Live in the moment, enjoy the little things, and soak up the experiences.

Because it might not last, it might be all that gets you through the bad times, it might be your only respite when you look back on your misadventure, or even be a critical reason why your marriage, civil union, or committed relationship lasts.

5. Have an insurance plan.

Whether it's walking away, getting a mistress, separation, signing a prenup if you're in the diaspora, having a sizable nest egg that can't be touched even if she goes scorched earth; never as a rule of thumb let yourself be at the mercy of a woman (or any human being for that matter).

Don't tempt fate! And don't let anyone guilt-trip you into thinking looking out for yourself means you don't "love" her enough. That should go both ways, if she "loves" you enough, she should want you to be happy if things don't work out.

6. Doing all these things and more does not guarantee anything.

People discover new things about themselves. Circumstances change and people react differently to change. Also, everyone has a breaking point.

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In fairness, I'll admit, it is depressing.

Most guys out there are just looking for dependable companionship, respect, and appreciation and are willing to walk to the ends of the earth for any woman who'd provide that or even the mere illusion of that. Unfortunately, they have to go searching through treacherous terrain for something their grand and great grand fathers probably took for granted.

That said, in the voice of Eneke the Bird, "Since [hunters] have learned to shoot without missing, I have learned to fly without perching."

Be like Eneke the Bird.

-Lord

u re good. Read 1 Cor 7 to the end
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ifyy07(m): 3:21am On Dec 14, 2020
emmaodet:


When i read his message, it was so close to what happened to me. I am always surprise at how women move on sooooooooo easily after promising heaven and earth to you moments ago.
I fear who know fear women.
Never believe a single word from a woman they are never truthful

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 2dice01: 7:33am On Dec 14, 2020
Respectedguy:
Has asking random girls for their number in person become outdated? Jeez I cant believe my failure rate .

I thought try to make themself visible so men can approach? All I keep hearing is that I dont share my number with strangers. Wheww.

I've had a dry spell in dating for a while and the more i try to break out, the more resistance I encounter

I keep deleting numbers when I sense the slightest form of disrespect
No bruh
It depends on a lot of things
Your Outfit
Are you Good looking or looking good
Your spoken English
You are not her type
Are you funny and witty
e.t.c

You need to know how to converse with a lady
In most cases when we are about departing
I will just give her my digit tell her my phone is low
if she calls then we can continue
If she doesn't we move cheesy

But if it is someone i will be seeing around
i will be mind fúcking & flirting without asking her digit
She will be wondering why is he not thirsty like them other niggas
¹
I had someone like that during one weekend she sent me launch and insert her digit
²
She was like 2dice01 this is the third Sunday and you didn't even ask for my number

Know your selling point
Women knows theirs

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Moneysoldier007(m): 9:01am On Dec 14, 2020
Buy a Nigga a bottle of beer and he remembers your face for a lifetime,

Give a woman the world and when she's too comfortable, you are kicked out and forced to start all over again in creating a world for yourself and not everyone recovers.

Never give people more than they deserve.

#Random thoughts#.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dpsychologist: 9:21am On Dec 14, 2020
Red pill quote of the month :

"Never try to impress a woman or she'll always hold you to that standard."-W.C. Fields

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 11:45am On Dec 14, 2020

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 2:46pm On Dec 14, 2020
grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ichidodo(m): 3:49pm On Dec 14, 2020
Brothers, Abeg help me check this matter......Is John Wick a simp?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 4:15pm On Dec 14, 2020
ichidodo:
Brothers, Abeg help me check this matter......Is John Wick a simp?
I have not watched the movie.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 4:26pm On Dec 14, 2020
give us reasons for asking this question

ichidodo:
Brothers, Abeg help me check this matter......Is John Wick a simp?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Mandela27: 4:27pm On Dec 14, 2020
ichidodo:
Brothers, Abeg help me check this matter......Is John Wick a simp?
No he's not,he was given that role to play.If u really want to know if he's a simp or nat,check his life outside the scene

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dunmorris(m): 4:55pm On Dec 14, 2020
Lol, She Hides her status from me, now calling me to pretend as if she cares, what type of game is that?

She taught I don't know all her moves, there was another day she posted a guy's pictures for two days.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 5:16pm On Dec 14, 2020
ichidodo:
Brothers, Abeg help me check this matter......Is John Wick a simp?
Since you said John wick and not Keanu reeves (The actor) the answer is NO. There's no substance or evidence in the movies that protrays him as a simp. He had his wife die of an illness and dog killed by some over confident jerks. ( Part one). Nothing simpy here....

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 5:20pm On Dec 14, 2020
dunmorris:
Lol, She Hides her status from me, now calling me to pretend as if she cares, what type of game is that?

She taught I don't know all her moves, there was another day she posted a guy's pictures for two days.
She's playing the both of you honestly. Darius M once said that women just have this thrill of leading people on. My advice? Reduce the number of people she's leading by one.. (YOU).

Me self I don't view people's status again. I mute them and never check again. Since then my data bundle has surprisingly been lasting long. grin more data for important things.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dunmorris(m): 5:39pm On Dec 14, 2020
Trex4:
She's playing the both of you honestly. Darius M once said that women just have this thrill of leading people on. My advice? Reduce the number of people she's leading by one.. (YOU).

Me self I don't view people's status again. I mute them and never check again. Since then my data bundle has surprisingly been lasting long. grin more data for important things.

How do i reduce it.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 21cents: 5:54pm On Dec 14, 2020
dunmorris:
Lol, She Hides her status from me, now calling me to pretend as if she cares, what type of game is that?

She taught I don't know all her moves, there was another day she posted a guy's pictures for two days.
No dey allow see finish. At the very first moment you discovered she wants to shiit test you by posting some random dudes photos, dump her like she never existed. It's called maintaining frame and still letting your self-esteem soar higher through the roof and letting her know that she's expendable if she doesn't act right. She'll know you're definitely not one to fawk with. All she's acting were borne out of the scarcity mindset you've portrayed.


flush out her contact. Na she go even dey wonder why she no see your statuses after few days.

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