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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 1:10pm On Jan 06, 2021
PETUK:
Meanwhile this is my first ever communication with this vigina person whom I sure she's less than 23 years old
She's already asking for airtime, who does that?

YOUNG MAN
I LOVE YOU
grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 1:12pm On Jan 06, 2021
LutanFyah:
As we all know that the REDPILL is all about self development, I think we should also be dropping links, lectures, ideas etc on how to better ourselves (financially, mentally, academically, how to draft that business ideas, steps to get grants, opportunities to learn new skills, etc) in this new year.


A couple of days from now, I will be sharing with the Alphas some good materials on how to trade cryptocurrency and forex for free.



LET'S KEEP INGESTING THE REDPILL.

GOD BLESS YOU

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 1:40pm On Jan 06, 2021
ObinnaValentine:
Another simp ready to be hanged..infacy this one deserves to be shot and killed by firing squad to be precise..him even give us advice on top stupidity

No
He didn't
Guy do you know the guy house??
Let me give you my shotgun
We need to blow this moh fvckah


One of these days I go enter street with my shotgun
I go just dey shoot men

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 2:03pm On Jan 06, 2021
LutanFyah:
As we all know that the REDPILL is all about self development, I think we should also be dropping links, lectures, ideas etc on how to better ourselves (financially, mentally, academically, how to draft that business ideas, steps to get grants, opportunities to learn new skills, etc) in this new year.


A couple of days from now, I will be sharing with the Alphas some good materials on how to trade cryptocurrency and forex for free.



LET'S KEEP INGESTING THE REDPILL.
In all, money is more "importanta", as it will be the only one to stand by you when others are gone, so far one is able to tame it.

We love your good gesture bro, and I prefer you launch a brand new thread for strictly redpill business/money making so as not to create a melange of redpill posts. This will enable proper comprehension of redpill understanding of female nature and redpill understanding of business and financial liberation.

There are other facets of the redpill e.g redpill religion, redpill politics, redpill education, redpill health etc and not only the intersexual dynamics which happens to be the major focus of the redpill, and this is where many has mistaken the whole tenets of the redpill as a tool for obtaining p^ssies. No! Redpill is a term that uncovers all the lies society has been made to believe in, and unveiling these lies by presenting the raw truths ensconced for ages.

Thank you bro. Please, endeavor to create the thread soonest.

PS: It's a new year my gees, make sure you sign up as a member of a gym center. Money and muscles should be your major target this year. And also, building your intelligent capacity.

I will be beginning my gym classes latest 18th January, 2021. It would have been earlier than that but holiday is still on the air and the gym center here has not fully kick off for the year. Also, a good book:Starting strength by Mark Rippetoe has been recommended by my mentor @tellyoursonthis/Illimitableman.com for those interested in building muscles and becoming fit.

God keeping us alive, we'll get to our destination.

Thanks.

God bless.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 4ckz: 2:08pm On Jan 06, 2021
I am now in page 30, I hate the fact that I am too busy to read faster. So many painful truths.

I just read one now, and I thought I should share this.
I'm currently in the stage of life that I count my ability to change women as a win, I always boast with "I could call 10 different girls now and they would be down for game right now".
cry cry
I have never had my goals and reward system so much bastardized on a single day, I have been reminiscing over this since
Of what value is it to me that I want to fuk any lady I see?
I always feel more empty inside after these dealings, but I keep going to keep face and maintain the conception by guys around me that I am an alpha male, well fuk them and their feelings
I have been l living wrongly

What stage would I have achieved in my career if I had seen this truth earlier?

I looked myself in the mirror, then brought out pictures of my university days when I didn't have much, so I invested in my looks to get ladies, what happened?
Why did I leave my self to fall to this? Because my goal all along was women

Not knowing about the redpill is a crime!

Now I have driven myself to the point that I get no pleasure after visiting same pvssy twice, I hope I can remedy this

I start the journey of making myself my goal, place more value on myself, direct my spendings to become better, then get pussies of those who crave me

Dear men, that you can afford more pvssy now doesn't mean you are winning, it might actually be your main distraction from winning.

Keep up the good work here so we continue learning, going back to page 30 now.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 2:13pm On Jan 06, 2021
softguy1:
[b][b]STORY


There was this my friend who broke up with this particular babe long time ago (her father is a senator and a prosperous business man).
So this babe came back and was asking for this my guy (her Ex), so they directed her and she later met each other.

According to my guy, before she travelled back they had sex and she gave him 2 million naira gift, which my Guy later use to Start up a business and uptill today he is still exploring with his business.

This my guy was very very stupid to accept sex and such kind of money from her Ex because he was ignorant of the redpill. had it been it was me, I would have rejected such offer because of these reasons:

- I am an Alpha redpiller.
- I always put myself first
-. She is from Nigeria and no Nigerian woman can offer such kind of thing.
- There are millions of women that could offer the same thing ( so why should I accepted it from her)
- and many more readpill reasons.

When he told me he accepted that offer ignoring those redpill reasons above, I was just laughing at his stupidity for accepting such an offer from an Ex.

mhen that guy is a stupid beta simp that need to swallow the redpill so that he will not accept such thing from an Ex again.

So Ubunja stop all these your argument you are not a redpiller if you can accept a gift from your Ex. You are simply a simp.[/b][/b]
this RedPill thing is making people stupid. Now if a guy accepts R70 000 from an Ex he's a simp. Lmfao. You guys really need to stop and catch your breath a little.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 2:30pm On Jan 06, 2021
ubunja:
this RedPill thing is making people stupid. Now if a guy accepts R70 000 from an Ex he's a simp. Lmfao. You guys really need to stop and catch your breath a little.

Uxolo. Let it slide. Sala Kahle.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 2:45pm On Jan 06, 2021
ubunja:
this RedPill thing is making people stupid. Now if a guy accepts R70 000 from an Ex he's a simp. Lmfao. You guys really need to stop and catch your breath a little.

Okay sir grin grin

Am just trying to prove something to those that want to hang you, hence that story.
You are very right.

As for me if my ex offers me something, I will take it and make her go into deep emotion while I remain logical in my doings cheesy

Some people are really beta claiming alpha
I am with you boss. cool

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 2:51pm On Jan 06, 2021
gold360:
as simple as this sounds, guys Cant understand it,
Its all about your interest, if you're down (which everyone is from time to time) and your ex offers you a helping hand. Grab it, its for YOUR OWN INTEREST... your ex isn't your enemy, the only thing is that by now being redpilled , how manipulative ish can no longer work on you.

Guys saying they Cant roll with their ex anymore are the real SIMPS, because you've not grown balls enough to stand her manipulative skills, so you're still scared hiding behind cut all contacts and draw a boundary crap


I have been saying this but they still don't want to phantom what I am saying. So they should stick to there own level of game.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 2:59pm On Jan 06, 2021
ElasmoBranchii:


Law 40: Despise Free Lunch.
But I find the reasons you stated above to be insubstantial and puerile.
Accepting a free gift from a machiavellian can be dangerous but if you are a higher mach the danger can be averted.
I agree when ubunja said it all depends on your level in the game and I'm not even a mach.
Accepting the gift doesn't make you a simp or a redpiller.
Let's everyone just do what they feel is best.


You are very right.
Accepting the gift does not make you a simp but falling for her manipulative nature is.
Rejecting the gift does not a make you a redpiller but a beta simp.

Read it again.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 3:07pm On Jan 06, 2021
MrLucifer:
I think one thing we should learn from this "ex" topic is to know your level of game/redpill.

I am a living example of why you should not burn bridges, ex girlfriend or not, and I'm not ashamed to say it.

I personally think anyone who insists on cutting off exes, is simply speaking from his emotional side. No logical person will cut off an individual simply because you once dated.

And if you've gotten past the anger phase of redpill, you will realise that the redpill teaches you to put YOURSELF FIRST.
It's a very simple rule, I don't know why most don't get it.
PUT YOURSELF FIRST, but you want to cut off a potential future connection because of your emotions, when you should be thinking in your logical, thinking how you can use such women to increase your SMV whenever such opportunity presents itself.
Come on! What are we really learning here.

Infact, I do the complete opposite of what most guys do. I use my current girlfriend to get my future girlfriend.
Any smart man knows that women are attracted to men other women find attractive. If I keep cutting off all the women in my life simply because we dated, I am reducing my harem, and no woman wants to be in a "one woman harem". When all these women hang around me and I maintain frame, other women see it and want to find out what's going on, they fall in. If this is not an advantage of keeping in touch with exes, then I don't know what is...

I never end my relationships on a bad note, even if I am at fault, I will still manipulate you to believe you ended the relationship, because I know the value of having someone who cares about me as a "connect". In this world we now live in, you are simply cheating yourself if you burn bridges totally.

But that is not to say every man can or should do this, that is why I began this post by saying know your level of redpill.
If you know you are not capable of withstanding her manipulations, my brother run for your life. But do not assume all men cannot, know your level.


You are right man!

Cutting of all your Exes means you are still in the anger phase of the redpill, it also means that you are emotional and redpill doesn't support such.

You just have to be logical as a redpiller and not the other way around.

Accept that gift and don't fall for her manipulative nature. That's all.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 3:14pm On Jan 06, 2021
Skepticus:


Uxolo. Let it slide. Sala Kahle.
lol yizo

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheUndercover: 3:22pm On Jan 06, 2021
4ckz:

Dear men, that you can afford more pvssy now doesn't mean you are winning, it might actually be your main distraction from winning.

This is the real point here. Some Men thinks because they keep getting girls here and there then they are actually winning or doing some worthy job just to bolster their self-ego. LOL!

The real alpha doesn't work towards increasing his self-worth through having so many sex mates or sleeping around; the real alpha boasts with developments, achievements, assets, power, status and all of that because he knows if he works towards these, then bragging about sleeping with girls will be his least problem because he won't find it amusing. Only SIMPs brag about worthless things.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 3:25pm On Jan 06, 2021
softguy1:


Okay sir grin grin

Am just trying to prove something to those that want to hang you, hence that story.
You are very right.

As for me if my ex offers me something, I will take it and make her go into deep emotion while I remain logical in my doings cheesy

Some people are really beta claiming alpha
I am with you boss. cool
I was literally having nightmares over that post lol. Cool

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Junnior: 3:29pm On Jan 06, 2021
ubunja:
lol yizo
Weytin Una dey talk.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Junnior: 3:30pm On Jan 06, 2021
ubunja:
I was literally having nightmares over that post lol. Cool
Wow. And I thought the sarcasm in the post was glaring undecided

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SlurUsername1: 3:31pm On Jan 06, 2021
emmaodet:


Unfortunately, most nigerian men are used to dating trashy women, women lower than them in societal class because the average lady won't want to date her mate.
So after break up, there is no reason having them around. They will continue to be a drain in the purse and an anchor dragging you down.
Gbam!!!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MrLucifer: 3:37pm On Jan 06, 2021
softguy1:



You are right man!

Cutting of all your Exes means you are still in the anger phase of the redpill, it also means that you are emotional and redpill doesn't support such.

You just have to be logical as a redpiller and not the other way around.

Accept that gift and don't fall for her manipulative nature. That's all.

We underestimate this "Anger stage" a lot, and we overestimate our ability to get out on time.

It's stays on you like a faint odour,even when you think you've moved on higher in redpill knowledge, even when you think you've known it all, that anger stage is almost for a life time.
Anger is ultimately an emotion and decision making based on emotions is not part of redpill.
It's a daily struggle, we can't be perfect.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 3:38pm On Jan 06, 2021
ubunja:
I was literally having nightmares over that post lol. Cool

Lol grin

They will learn one day.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 3:51pm On Jan 06, 2021
MrLucifer:


We underestimate this "Anger stage" a lot, and we overestimate our ability to get out on time.

It's stays on you like a faint odour,even when you think you've moved on higher in redpill knowledge, even when you think you've known it all, that anger stage is almost for a life time.
Anger is ultimately an emotion and decision making based on emotions is not part of redpill.
It's a daily struggle, we can't be perfect.

Anger stage = emotional stage.

Many people here, need to work on this anger stage because that is what they are still battling with. They are allowing the 20% emotion on them to surpass the 80% logic . Which is very wrong.

Women need to be more emotional (80%) and less logical (20%) while men need to be more logical (80%) and less emotional (20%) and not the other way round.

If you don't accept gift from your ex that means you are still battling with emotional problem instead of being logical.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jan 06, 2021
i926:
#singing#
I don't know what you heard about me
But a bitch can't get a dollar out of me
No Cadillac, no perms, you can't see
That I'm a motherfuckin' P.I.M.P




Yeah, In Hollywoood they say there's no business like show business
In the hood they say there's no business like hoe business, you know?
Lol at the bolded. Redpill have been existing since time of Adam......

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jan 06, 2021
softguy1:
[b]STORY


There was this my friend who broke up with this particular babe long time ago (her father is a senator and a prosperous business man).
So this babe came back and was asking for this my guy (her Ex), so they directed her and she later met each other.

According to my guy, before she travelled back they had sex and she gave him 2 million naira gift, which my Guy later use to Start up a business and uptill today he is still exploring with his business.

This my guy was very very stupid to accept sex and such kind of money from her Ex because he was ignorant of the redpill. had it been it was me, I would have rejected such offer because of these reasons:

- I am an Alpha redpiller.
- I always put myself first
-. She is from Nigeria and no Nigerian woman can offer such kind of thing.
- There are millions of women that could offer the same thing ( so why should I accepted it from her)
- and many more readpill reasons.

When he told me he accepted that offer ignoring those redpill reasons above, I was just laughing at his stupidity for accepting such an offer from an Ex.

mhen that guy is a stupid beta simp that need to swallow the redpill so that he will not accept such thing from an Ex again.[/b]

Your friend collected the money to build himself, which is aiight by me.

You can't be broke and still be an alpha.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MrLucifer: 4:07pm On Jan 06, 2021
oyolohi:


MGTOW comes in stages. Stage two to three are men who have come to deeply understand the society and consequently no longer give f.ucks about it.

MGTOW is like a quiet bar without a sign, no recruitments...nothing. You stumble upon it, they raise their glasses to you.

An MGTOW level 3 man can get up one day and decide to get a vasectomy without regrets because he has seen how much of a scam marriage, morals, children, etc. are. You don't speak of patronizing prostitutes/porn to an MGTOW guy: he knows that society frowns on these things simply because of mere prejudice and the nonsense called morals. If he finds any of those entertaining, he goes for it!

MGTOW are men who can spot and detect stress from a thousand miles away --no matter how much you disguise it. You offer them crap: they simply give you a long stare and continue sipping their beer.

Finally, the last stage of MGTOW is leaving the bar filled with other MGTOW men and enjoying the mountains and rivers of a distant land flowing with milk and honey. grin

Exactly!

Only difference for me is this is my idea of redpill, I never separate MGTOW from redpill, they are one and same for me, all quests for enlightenment.

Notice how in this hypothetical bar you described, the atmosphere is that of a logical one, emotions are kept aside.
You know why, because the outside world is saturated with emotional bullshit, we wake up with emotions, we sleep with emotions, we Bleep with emotions, we choose careers based on emotions, we choose what we eat based on emotions...all bullshit.

So when you decide to take the redpill, you enter this quiet bar like you put it, drop all your emotion aside, all the garbage, leave it at the door.

Bask in the sauna that is LOGIC. Enjoy it, learn all you can while you can, oh! blessed are the young men on this thread, for the future is theirs. The best stage in life to stumble into this Bar is between 18 - 29 as a man, and 13 - 25 as a woman.

Soak yourself in it, till you get to that last stage of redpill/mgtow/enlightenment/Zen/Nirvana. Because your previous years of constant miseducation cannot just be washed away, nothing is empirically right or wrong.

You know deep down that even this LOGIC you love so much is not the ultimate, you will then on your own, leave this hypothetical Bar, and go back out into the Real world. Equally balanced in all spheres of life, a man who knows himself.

Edit: That is why I love women, contrary to what outsiders think, redpill makes you a misogynist, it's not true.
As you progress on your journey, you will come to love and admire the female gender, they figured out all these things while being overburdened with lots of emotion, nature overdosed them with emotions, yet they still somehow managed to use the little logic they have to get the best out of life.

Imagine you, blessed with almost 100% logic, but you chose to cling to that little bubble society has created for you, making important decisions, based on something as temporary as an emotion.

I don't care if you dumped me when I was broke, I'm still broke, you are now Rich, as long as I've learnt my lesson from our previous relationship, I will use you to get to where I am going without any remorse, I know you will do the same for me.


Every simp out there should be ashamed of himself, I weep for all my years as a simp, and I will never go back into the matrix.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Junnior: 4:12pm On Jan 06, 2021
You are all right

There are good reasons to cut off your ex completely and there are also good reasons to not do that:

Cutting her off completely might be what's best if she is a problem that persists. On the contrary, if she is someone who could be beneficial and maybe potentially help you improve your status, then that would be a good reason for maintaining her access to you.

Also, there are bad reasons why you should cut her off and also bad reasons why you should not:

Cutting her off might be you potentially shooting yourself in the foot. For instance, the future has a way of bringing us all back together; what happens if you need a favour with something vital and she's the only one that can help out, or knows someone that can? We all don't know for CERTAIN how future events would turn out.
Also, allowing her access to you might be a bad move. For example, some girls will only return to punish you. I once read a story of a lady, after contracting HIV, deliberately going back to infect her exes through sex.

So, as you can see, you're both right. It is left for each of us to do what we're comfortable with and and decide to bare whichever consequences that may occur if what we settled for turned out to not favour us. May the force be with you. cool

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 4:22pm On Jan 06, 2021
i926:


Your friend collected the money to build himself, which is aiight by me.

You can't be broke and still be an alpha.

I thought collecting the money was a beta move!
Lol. grin

Some broke ass niggars here will decline an opportunity that will make them rich(more alpha) simply because, it is coming from there Ex. wtf

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 4:33pm On Jan 06, 2021
LutanFyah:
I'm not trying to derail the thread, I'm only suggesting that in the spirit of the Redpill (which is about helping and developing men),I think we can show the unemployed ones among us openings and where to drop CVs, show them WhatsApp or Telegram group to join to learn coding, how to thread cryptocurrency, point them to agencies that can help them to learn crane operations, forklift maintenance, excavator operations etc.


But if wetin I talk no make sense, abeg no vex.
Seems like you did not understand me bro...
To alot of people, this thread or The Redpill in general is about women which is not true...
So creating a new thread with a different aspect of the redpill would be better than adding it to this one which most people see as "189 pages of women rant" ...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 4:37pm On Jan 06, 2021
NOTE:

Nobody is saying you should not set boundaries with your Exe once issue arises. Infact you have to ghost her, Delete all her contact from your phone and things that won't remind you of her again.

But once she present a gift or opportunity that is of your own advantage, accept it and don't allow her manipulate you.

That is what redpill is telling you.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 5:40pm On Jan 06, 2021
Junnior:

Wow. And I thought the sarcasm in the post was glaring undecided
me and sarcasm

ubunja:
is this sarcasm or what? Cause I can never tell...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:49pm On Jan 06, 2021
It is at the heat of this ex topic that those in desire of their ex e.g Ubunja, gold360, softguy1 etc. started mentioning gifts, connections as a reason to still maintain friendship with an ex. Meanwhile, 1/3 of my posts in regards to the topic was when gold360 insists on going back to his ex when he's in "dire" need of sex and food. And of course going back to your ex for "sex and food" still remains absurd and stupid! Why because there were reasons you choose to dump her regardless of the professional sex and savoury meal she once provided you. If she was good, you would have ignored her foibles and continue with the relationship. But no, you ended it on your own terms. (Except this was not the case, that's both of you strolled out of the relationship without official breakup. And if this is the case, she's not your ex. Considering this, your ex is an ex for a reason.

In 2/3 of my posts on that same topic, the first 2 carries leverage purposes or Machiavellic purposes as the major reason for you to maintain friendship with your ex, that's if you perceived she's way better than you and has tighter connections which you can use as an opportunity to upheave yourself. But you must also know that your ex doesn't have the monopoly of helping you in life. Help from other sources is far beyond help from exes. But this is life, life is a game, and you must accept help whether it comes from your exes or allies.

I'm stating this because of the subtle remarks like forming alpha, forming redpill, anger phase, been emotional, dating trashy women, level of redpill bla bla bla that's flying in the air. And if the persons I mentioned has seen the nuances they would have understand that we all are making same points. It is good we have proper comprehension and understanding of nuances.

And by the way, who said you should cut your ex completely and dump her into the lagoon?No! Never!

But if your coming together with your ex is to quench your "dire" need for sex and hunger as at when due, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck main chick/buddy. She's not your ex, you're only spinning plates. Lol!

I still shalaye why?

Thanks.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 6:04pm On Jan 06, 2021
CaveAdullam:
It is at the heat of this ex topic that those in desire of their ex e.g Ubunja, gold360, softguy1 etc. started mentioning gifts, connections as a reason to still maintain friendship with an ex. Meanwhile, 1/3 of my posts in regards to the topic was when gold360 insists on going back to his ex when he's in "dire" need of sex and food. And of course going back to your ex for "sex and food" still remains absurd and stupid! Why because there were reasons you choose to dump her regardless of the professional sex and savoury meal she once provided you. If she was good, you would have ignored her foibles and continue with the relationship. But no, you ended it on your own terms. (Except this was not the case, that's both of you strolled out of the relationship without official breakup. And if this is the case, she's not your ex. Considering this, your ex is an ex for a reason.

In 2/3 of my posts on that same topic, the first 2 carries leverage purposes or Machiavellic purposes as the major reason for you to maintain friendship with your ex, that's if you perceived she's way better than you and has tighter connections which you can use as an opportunity to upheave yourself. But you must also know that your ex doesn't have the monopoly of helping you in life. Help from other sources is far beyond help from exes. But this is life, life is a game, and you must accept help whether it comes from your exes or allies.

I'm stating this because of the subtle remarks like forming alpha, forming redpill, anger phase, been emotional, dating trashy women, level of redpill bla bla bla that's flying in the air. And if the persons I mentioned has seen the nuances they would have understand that we all are making same points. It is good we have proper comprehension and understanding of nuances.

And by the way, who said you should cut your ex completely and dump her into the lagoon?No! Never!

But if your coming together with your ex is to quench your "dire" need for sex and hunger as at when due, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck main chick/buddy. She's not your ex, you're only spinning plates. Lol!

I still shalaye why?

Thanks.

not every breakup is because someone was wrong. And even if two people can't love each other they can be compatible sexually.

People need to stick to their level of game.

Lastly what does Shalaye mean?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:11pm On Jan 06, 2021
ubunja:
not every breakup is because someone was wrong. And even if two people can't love each other they can be compatible sexually.
You too like compatible sexually. Loooool. There's a tangible point there. Ashawo thread comes to mind.

ubunja:
People need to stick to their level of game.
Growth is imminent. If people got energy and time to level up their game, and understand other areas of game it will be very proficient to themselves and others rather than sticking to one rabbit hole forever. But they must first understand one area properly before migrating to another.

ubunja:
Lastly what does Shalaye mean?
Explain.

Oya fast and go drop another blockbuster thread as usual. You must drop 2 for making us to derail this thread with our shalaying. Lol

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 6:37pm On Jan 06, 2021
emmaodet:


Unfortunately, most nigerian men are used to dating trashy women, women lower than them in societal class because the average lady won't want to date her mate.
So after break up, there is no reason having them around. They will continue to be a drain in the purse and an anchor dragging you down.

Being long waiting to see this "MASTER PIECE" exclusive to shiiithole as you have mentioned. Thank you and God bless you. Case Closed......

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