Please,Give her the money

giv am nw, wetin u dey wait 4, ol dis whyl wey she dey entertain u, u no complain na nw wey she ask 4 part of her fees na im u no wan let us hear word.

give her the 3k since you claim to be a ph buisness man and not a student and stop disgracing ph men cus i know they do big things there.

but if your a student i will advice you to focus on your studies ok there lots of campu chicks u can toast without spending much , just do assignments together.

Two options:

1. Give her the money and move on
2. Do not give her the money, move on and just shut the hell up already.

Some women don't just get it, that, nothing compares to being independent and self-reliant. You command a guys respect by that.

^^I totally agree with you.

@OP
Don't give her the money if you don't want to. If she's really your friend, you may wish to advise her.
But if you have been calling each other 'honey, darling, sweetie, sugar cane, etc' and/or you have been acting/talking like a big boy who has money to throw around then you should pay up. Whatever you do remember that once you start paying you have to continue for as long as you want the relationship/friendship to last.
Weldone, Mr BIS.

Mcleo007:

Some women don't just get it, that, nothing compares to being independent and self-reliant. You command a guys respect by that.

you don talk am.

I don't seem to get you @op,dis girl in question ve you ask her to be ya babe already or just hide n seek?does she have a boy friend?how many people is she asking for dis same BIS?you in PH and she in lag don't u think you are trying to waste a lot over a drop of honey?are u ready to spend at least N50k (flight fare +)every time u wanna bang her?bros I was doing this same thing last year,she is in abuja and am in lag,I became a known face at arik MM office,its crazy,make use of the ones in ya area,you can give her the 3k if she won't call you mumu,we the men sometimes I wonder what it is that we are looking for,sometimes we spend a lot of time n resource over noffin.LET US USE OUR HEAD WELL,I gat to get married soon and it got to be her geting all the attention!

@ op: guy dunno wat 2 say bt do wat is on ur mind. Btw guy we fit talk. We nid 2 yarn business. Am in ph 2.

@virus,
lets get to talk nw. hit me up at judokah2002 at yahu dot cum

@steve,
i no dey marry her, we aint befriending, we just met online less dan a week and callin each oda honey and sugarcane but i discovered she's doin it to turn me into an ATM. lol

Some girls are funny sha. How can you be drawing debt with someone you've known for a week? And then the next thing will be 'oh he doesn't respect me', How will he respect you when you don't respect yourself? Bb is not for everybody. Some people gather all their life savings to buy one only to find out that the cost of maintaining it is too high. If she can't afford the Bis then why did she buy one in the first place? Was she not paying for the subscription before the guy came along?.
I can't ask anybody for credit or anything because most people(guys) give things with ulterior motives,and i seriously don't want to hear anyone say 'but you were collecting my money' down the line.
If he offers to give,great,but i won't ask. The only people i can disturb for credit are family members.(i wouldn't mind sending 10 pls credit me messages at once to my big sis,because when you disturb them enough,you'll get what you want. . Lol). But a random guy? Haba. . The minute you do that he'll lose any sorta respect he had for you.

@Arterides,
yeah ur right, i lost respect for her instantly and i see her as a LovePeddler. i mean, whot do u think of a gurl who posts p.o.r.n as her bb profile pix?
she culda chosen to play me for a while, gain my confidence as a real true normal friend then i can even buy her a higher spec bb. While I still smile to myself with all happiness that av been ripped off.

She was too quick to want to reap her investment (wait oh. Wot did she even invest in?)

^^^^ so what are you still doing with a girl like that? someone you see as a LovePeddler?

bhusayor:

^^^^ so what are you still doing with a girl like that? someone you see as a LovePeddler?

you can say they are more exciting, interesting and more adventurous (and less-expensive) than the usual and f'course a long return on a short investment , fully front-end paid-up

Give her d money and stop complaining, what is 3k mtschwww

Some girls and blackberry,so annoying and timid of them.

@OP you know wat,it depends on you,maybe u like her body and all that but I suggest you cut communication cable ,or u just throw away the money to her,3k too big too small,we can drink it in a table,not much,u can come to lag to meet with her,if u don't have any guy in lag u can call any naira lander to take you around,maybe I will ,just fuel the car LOL,blind date is sweet a times.

Why buy blackberry when you cant pay for subscription? some girls are just damn annoying,

Give her if you have o (the boy is nice, alarudale!),

@bug24
Pls don't give her the money.
not because you cant afford it,but because she shouldn't use you just because she feels like it
if she knew that she couldn't maintain a blackberry she shouldn't have got one
you guys are on the path of becoming friends, you haven't even met
and all of a sudden she's testing your generosity and demanding money
if the idea came from you ,i would understand
but she feeling bold enough to ask for it get k-leg
what next would she demand for ?
that you pay her rent?
i beg oh
independent woman means independent woman
and if she is a student ,get her to ask her parents for it

Mr Poster

Be a man and stop making a fool of yourself on the internet.

Whats the big deal in a girl you met and interacted with asking you to help her with three thousand naira so she can renew her bis subscription? Is tht why you are trying to ridicule her?

At least give her credit for being honest and straight with you tht she wanted to use it to renew her bis. She did not not start lying tht she wanted to use it for hospital treatment or tht somebody died or stuff like that.

You don't have to meet anyone face to face before helping the person out. You don't have to know or meet children living in an orphanage before sending the orphanage a cheque.

If you have the money and you want to help her, help her. If you dont want to, simply say you can not afford it. No need to come to internet to ask for advise.

Its not a crime to be in need of money. If she could afford 3k, she would not have asked you to help her.

@chire

U seem to me like an alhaji who long time has been in d trade of dishing out bis money to all unilag students.

Wot wuld I need to meet her for bfor giving her dime? That aint me. Pls read my replies before u come here screaming that 3k is too small for me to whine abt and those insults u just threw at me, I block am, Back to sender

Alhaji like u. Dem go turn u to ATM machine till u selll ur boxers.

How are we even sure she didn't just renew her bis last week and is trying to milk me? Mcheeeww.

What's in contest here is woman dignity and not weda 3k is small or big.

Take ur time o.

bug24:

@chire

U seem to me like an alhaji who long time has been in d trade of dishing out bis money to all unilag students.

Wot wuld I need to meet her for bfor giving her dime? That aint me. Pls read my replies before u come here screaming that 3k is too small for me to whine abt and those insults u just threw at me, I block am, Back to sender

Alhaji like u. Dem go turn u to ATM machine till u selll your boxers.

How are we even sure she didn't just renew her bis last week and is trying to milk me? Mcheeeww.

What's in contest here is woman dignity and not weda 3k is small or big.

Take your time o.

@ poster,

Depending on ur interest, u can invest then wait 4 the outcome sometimes you loose some and win some.

@poster: if you think you have any chance of sleeping with her then you are foolish.
pesin wey ask you for money when una never even sabi?
una dey crase.

Pure 9ja gal

This is why i keep on telling pple that bb is purely for business and should pay bis for what business you use it for.

I already expressed my distaste at even the responses some girls in NL gave the OP. Like he's obligated to give her money.
NL girls no dey try sef.

My sincere opinion------------there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. It adds to the fun, I had a girl I never met and never wanted to meet cos i was enjoying every bit of the game, she was using an older version of BB and I bought a more recent one and sent to her. there's never a dull moment for both of us. the anonymity is so exciting, we do all such. dirty, clean, sexy etc

OP.
PLS GIVE THE MONEY . . . . Nigerian men are stingy.