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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:10pm On Sep 11, 2021
For some men, it’s like a secret code they can’t understand so they end up thinking women are mysterious and unfathomable. Girls are masters at reading body language.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:11pm On Sep 11, 2021
They can tell everything about you just by the way you walk, talk and the way you are dressed. I personally don’t think its some secret gift they have, its just part of their experience.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:12pm On Sep 11, 2021
They learn it culturally from other women and from talking to people and being social for years. Guys start to hit on them at thirteen and try to pick them up, sell them stupid stories, ask for dates, and sneak inside their panties. When they go out, they talk with 5-10 guys per day. Each guy is a different story. With time, they start recognizing patterns and are able to make predictions.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:13pm On Sep 11, 2021
After a few years of experience they know when they see a guy dressed poorly with weak body language that he is probably a geek with a boring, predictable life and is not so good in bed.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:13pm On Sep 11, 2021
Of course if a guy like that approaches her, she is going to brush him off because she doesn’t need to talk with him; she already knows everything about him. It’s really not hard to recognize an insecure geek around.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:14pm On Sep 11, 2021
Whatever this guy says to a hot girl, even if it is funny, cocky, interesting, she is not going to believe it because she can see his legs are shaking, his hands are wet and he doesn’t know how to dress.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:15pm On Sep 11, 2021
The nonverbal communication must be congruent to what’s being said…it’s really hard to fake girls out on anything.

A few girls once told me that they can even recognize how good a guy is in bed just by the way he walks.

Subcommunications matter.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:17pm On Sep 11, 2021
The Art of Body Language and Non-Verbal Cues
So how do we subcommunicate the right things? Through proper use of body language and non-verbal cues.
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:18pm On Sep 11, 2021
As I mentioned, facial expressions, voice intonation, speed of speech, how you walk, the way you carry yourself through the world, making eye contact, how fast you move, and even our breathing communicate attributes to the people around you.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:19pm On Sep 11, 2021
Start watching people closely as you go about your daily life. At work, in school, in the store, on the street, even at a party; just sit back and observe what people are doing with their bodies and guess what they are feeling.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:19pm On Sep 11, 2021
You can see when somebody is sad, happy, excited, honest, or angry -- even when they are trying not to reveal their emotions.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:20pm On Sep 11, 2021
Look at somebody who rapidly moves his foot up and down and won’t look people in the eyes. He is insecure and expressing nervous energy.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:21pm On Sep 11, 2021
Somebody who is hunched over with her feet together is subconsciously trying to not be noticed.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:22pm On Sep 11, 2021
A person who walks tall and relaxed, with his chest out and head high is happy and comfortable.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:23pm On Sep 11, 2021
Watch people’s smiles. Some are happy and genuine, others are fake and nervous.
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:23pm On Sep 11, 2021
We can find a wealth of information about people by their body language. #SaturdayMusings

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:24pm On Sep 11, 2021
In terms of seduction, we need to learn to read what females are feeling on a deeper level.
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:26pm On Sep 11, 2021
A woman will do the exact same to you… tenfold. Their process of screening by looks and body language is a self-defense mechanism.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:28pm On Sep 11, 2021
She really doesn’t want to hook up with some low self-esteem loser. So, what exactly are the non-verbal cues that women look for?
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:29pm On Sep 11, 2021
First, let me ask you who the really confident guys in our society are; the ones with an attitude larger than life?

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:29pm On Sep 11, 2021
A good answer will be superstars, CEOs, actors, artists, doctors, politicians, eccentric millionaires/bullionaires, etc
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Re: The Red Truth by Skoonheid(f): 4:30pm On Sep 11, 2021
Dpsychologist: Quote

Misogynist, quack psychologist and really sad person . You're all alone here still trying to radicalise those who are ignorant enough to swallow your red pill. If only you knew you were once a female and you will inevitably return here as one, you would not waste one second more of your life promoting this degenerate ideology. Sad you.
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:30pm On Sep 11, 2021
Take a look at how they walk, how they sit, how they speak, and you’ll notice something really interesting. They are totally calm, like they control TIME.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:32pm On Sep 11, 2021
They are not in hurry. The way they move and how they speak completely radiates super-confidence. They own the world they live in.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:33pm On Sep 11, 2021
No woman controls the feelings of a man that knows his self worth. #SaturdayMusings

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:33pm On Sep 11, 2021
This is an aspect of body language not often noticed by many men… Emotional projection. The emotion or feeling you are projecting when you approach a girl is the greatest factor that will determine the success or failure of the approach.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:34pm On Sep 11, 2021
If you were to imagine yourself playing a character, what emotions are you putting out to her?
Seductive? Lusty? Cool? Insecure? Needy?

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:35pm On Sep 11, 2021
Are you projecting something positive and congruent or are you projecting emotions that make you look like a nervous schoolboy?

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:35pm On Sep 11, 2021
If you project negative emotions on the approach, they will unconsciously respond negatively. But if you project positive emotions, the dramatic results will surprise you.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:36pm On Sep 11, 2021
Positivity is contagious, so also is negativity. You either choose to affect them with your positivity or infect them with your negativity. – Dpsychologist

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:37pm On Sep 11, 2021
Most men have weak APOLOGETIC APPROACHES. If you are concentrating on your words and approach girls with sweaty palms, a nervous voice and bad body language, you will fail like the nice guys who came before you.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:37pm On Sep 11, 2021
This is the same anchor that has been set in her mind, triggered by weak approaches, over and over for years.
She will reject you automatically as soon as she sees the signs.

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