Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

Since they are not yet married, pls, save ur friend a future disaster loading to happen. Na serious lay about be that. That is the problem with this so called modern women, they are so much used to sex that they just cant stay one day without sex. She is dating the second boy friend for sex cos she cant endure the long wait for ur friend since he is born again and she has to pretend to him to get married to him. Meanwhile she is a loose woman. Tell ur friend about the ashawo he is about to marry

obinna58:

If he is a good friend to you don't tell him, it'll seem as if you're trying to put asunder, destroying people's happiness.
You can't truly judge a person by just an act. She might really be a good person, your friends saw something in her before proposing.


You only have one thing to do and it'll be left on her to decide.

Persuade her to tell him. Threatened her that you're going to tell him if she doesn't.

So after reading this post you're saying this. Everything you wrote here is total rubbish.

Whiteball:
if they were just dating it would have been easy for me to say 'baba free that babe she's not ur type' but they are about getting married one need to trend to trend caution before assasin begin find me. Am confused aswear.

I've read your replies on this post. God forbid I have your kinda person as a friend

PerfectlyPerfect:

So after reading this post you're saying this. Everything you wrote here is total rubbish.

Coming from an average aggressive Nigerian

Ahmed0336:


Three things are involved.

1. You can tell your friend.

2. Strike an agreement with her that you won't tell your friend, chop her then tell your friend.

3. If you keep quiet and your friend goes ahead and marry her your conscience will forever haunt you.




Singing these hoes ain't loyal till chorus fade.....

Who are hoes? Disloyal people attract disloyal people. You all should stop calling women derogatory names.

obinna58:

Coming from an average aggressive Nigerian

There's nothing aggressive about my post, I'm just telling u things as it is

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

remember the GUY's CODE , be your brother's keeper.
Thats all u need bro

Whiteball:
Love/marital affair is a dicey situation. if i tell him and dey finally get married d woman will forever hate my generation for trying to kill her joy,if dey dont get married same tin goes. Am thinking i should tell him to pray more.. While i stay my lane

nothing dicey about this,
tell ur guy and tell am make him use im head so that u no go dy involved. make him play game
act like him no get idea. then discharge am codedly.
las las him go thank you.

PerfectlyPerfect:

There's nothing aggressive about my post, I'm just telling u things as it is

That's what they say.

Juliusmomoh:

Bro go and read ur bible..
1 thessalonians 4:11-12

1 Thessalonians 4:11-12
New International Version
11. and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you,
12. so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.


How does this relate to the topic? we are talking about a lady cheating on her husband to be. and you are quoting a part of the bible that talks about working hard and minding your own business and not be dependant on anyone. so how does the two works?

Whiteball:
He's not aware yet and he's not on NL. Am thinking of talking to d lady to stop that nonsense if she truly wanna marry my friend. I dont know what my friend will do if he gets to know

Don't do that dude. She might want to strike a deal with you or blackmail you. Better tell you friend for your sake and your friend's sake. If they want to sort it out, let it be between them. Also that will set you free. Also, I'll advise you to consider marriage. Baby mama option is not better than marriage. At least for your child. You also don't need someone to get a girl for you. With what has happened, imagine the kind of girl she is bringing for you to marry. Bird of same feather. So look for the girl yourself, get to know her qualities and whether both of you are compatible. Also know that no one is perfect. But knowing the truth about yourselves will help to decide the marriage. That's why you should tell your friend. He deserve to know the truth. Or you tell his fiancee to report herself to him. He deserve the truth. If they decide to work it out fine.

Askme2020:


1 Thessalonians 4:11-12
New International Version
11. and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you,
12. so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.


How does this relate to the topic? we are talking about a lady cheating on her husband to be. and you are quoting a part of the bible that talks about working hard and minding your own business and not be dependant on anyone. so how does the two works?

I don't feel like answering u bro..

YES I AM THE GIRL IN QUESTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT IS IT SEF? DONT YOU GUYS DO WORSE? BIKO ALLOW ME JUST ALLOW ME.....IF YOU LIKE REPORT, IF YOU LIKE COME AND SUBMIT YOUR OWN APPLICATION ....

athaboi:
You no go face your front

Na dem!!

Whiteball:
if they were just dating it would have been easy for me to say 'baba free that babe she's not ur type' but they are about getting married one need to trend to trend caution before assasin begin find me. Am confused aswear.

You aren't a good friend, if you don't tell him.
What nonsense caution are you trying to thread.
It's better you loose your friend after telling him the truth, than loose him later when he finds out on his own, knowing you knew and didn't tell him.

rita25:
YES I AM THE GIRL IN QUESTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT IS IT SEF? DONT YOU GUYS DO WORSE? BIKO ALLOW ME JUST ALLOW ME.....IF YOU LIKE REPORT, IF YOU LIKE COME AND SUBMIT YOUR OWN APPLICATION ....

I dont know if what you are claiming is true, but i am quoting it to prevent it from getting deleted

Juliusmomoh:

I don't feel like answering u bro..

because you can't be man enough to admit that am right.

athaboi:
You no go face your front

What a disappointing comment!

If the guy was your blood brother, is this the senseless comment you will pass too?

Yeah...seems u girls are the same after all!

JidennaJason:
That's how someone will be fuckiing your wife/girlfriend and your friends will laugh and "mind their business"

I like this comment!

you can quote a thousand and million times plsss feel free.

vonxe:

I dont know if what you are claiming is true, but i am quoting it to prevent it from getting deleted

bro... tell your guy about the whole thing, .. he may not believe you... thats certain but clear your mind by telling hine cos when ish go begin xup.. you conscience no go leave you

GraGra247:


The guy living in the compound already told you she usually comes there to visit her side boyfriend.

So you mean she visits him and sleeps over and they only read bible throughout.

Whiteball:
I didnt see them f*ck . I wudnt wanna b at the centre of a collapse relationship and while writing i tried to b very discrete. i just wished i never saw her. My guy will b broken if i tell him .....one part of me say i should look away

Bro, u dont need to see them do anything.. u have seen enough far as i am concerned. you will live with the guilt forever because if shes cheating now, she will cheat again. Do what you must bro!

I will advise you to hear from her first, don't conclude yet. Talk to her as a brother, if she fails to listen, advise your friend to pay close attention on her.

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

Any update on this issue?

Have you told your friend or have you met with the fiancée?

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

Bros no mind all these useless advice of people telling you to mind your business...i don't know why some nigerians are becoming too comfortable with immoralities .

Tell your guy and don't think twice about it.
What a nonsense....marriage marriage marriage, but they still want to catch cruise outside.

athaboi:
You no go face your front

Just shut up!
This is what people like you always say.

ChybuzzDD:


Just shut up!
This is what people like you always say.

who's this one again..lolz

careerlife:
I will advise you to hear from her first, don't conclude yet. Talk to her as a brother, if she fails to listen, advise your friend to pay close attention on her.

Ridiculous. He should tell his friend immediately.

Whiteball:
Love/marital affair is a dicey situation. if i tell him and dey finally get married d woman will forever hate my generation for trying to kill her joy,if dey dont get married same tin goes. Am thinking i should tell him to pray more.. While i stay my lane

Bruh, the ain't two ways bout this. Telling your friend is the best thing to do..


I hope you already did.

Karma is always a bitch...

na waoh.. the dude that created this thread made it clear he has abandoned ship since page 10 or thereabout. Still surprised to see fights going on here.

What if God wants you to save your friend from future troubles. If you are my friend and you see something that will harm me and refuse to say it, then, that shows You are not my friend but my greatest enemy.