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Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by farem: 6:22am On Sep 10
“DADDY FREEZE IS WRONG" - BEN AKABUEZE

It is Biblical for A wife to submit to her husband

Director-General of the Budget Office and a Pastor of the Redeemed Christian Church of God has tackled On Air Personality, Daddy Freeze on his comments concerning the role of a wife in marriage.

Freeze had argued that a wife needs not be submissive to her husband, Akabueze disagrees, stating that Freeze is very wrong and is turning the scripture on its head.

Akabueze made his feelings known in a facebook post...

Daddy Freeze has a penchant for using his eloquence and media reach to peddle wrong interpretations of scriptures, as he has done in this case. My fear is that many are thereby being led astray, and that is why occasionally I intervene to point out his error.

Apostle Paul likened the relationship between a wife and her husband to that between the church and Christ. Freeze’s argument about mutual submission would therefore imply that the church and Christ are also to submit to one another! This cannot be. Only the church is to submit to Christ, and not vice-versa.

Christ loved the church (ie, the people), and gave His life for it, even before it submitted to Him, and continues to love it regardless. Therefore, a husband is not to make submission a pre-condition for loving his wife. Neither should the wife make her husband loving her a precondition to submit to him (as Freeze preaches). Husband and wife will each be judged separately when they die, and none can excuse his/her own disobedience to God’s word by the other person’s failures.

A woman who truly desires the best out of her marriage should embrace the scriptural injunction to submit to her husband. This is what Apostle Peter wrote one the same subject – 1 Peter 3:1-2 AMPC

[1] In like manner, you married women, be submissive to your own husbands [subordinate yourselves as being secondary to and dependent on them, and adapt yourselves to them], so that even if any do not obey the Word [of God], they may be won over not by discussion but by the [godly] lives of their wives,

[2] When they observe the pure and modest way in which you conduct yourselves, together with your reverence [for your husband; you are to feel for him all that reverence includes: to respect, defer to, revere him-to honor, esteem, appreciate, prize, and, in the human sense, to adore him, that is, to admire, praise, be devoted to, deeply love, and enjoy your husband].

Submission is not a dirty word. It does not make the woman inferior to the man in any way, after-all they were both created in God’s image – Genesis 1:27 AMPC [27] So God created man in His own image, in the image and likeness of God He created him; male and female He created them.

However, for good order sake, God has ordained that the husband be the head of the household. Remember the saying that there cannot be two captains in one ship?

If Freeze were to study Ephesians 5 in some other versions of the Bible than the one he read from, he would find that verse 18 to 21 is one continuous sentence, in which Paul was addressing the entire church. The injunctions for husband and wife then begin from verse 22 and end at verse 33.

I strongly recommend the following passage of scriptures to Daddy Freeze:
2 Timothy 2:15-19 AMPC [15] Study and be eager and do your utmost to present yourself to God approved (tested by trial), a workman who has no cause to be ashamed, correctly analyzing and accurately dividing [rightly handling and skillfully teaching] the Word of Truth. [16] But avoid all empty (vain, useless, idle) talk, for it will lead people into more and more ungodliness. [17] And their teaching [will devour; it] will eat its way like cancer or spread like gangrene. So it is with Hymenaeus and Philetus, [18] Who have missed the mark and swerved from the truth by arguing that the resurrection has already taken place. They are undermining the faith of some. [19] But the firm foundation of (laid by) God stands, sure and unshaken, bearing this seal (inscription): The Lord knows those who are His, and, Let everyone who names [himself by] the name of the Lord give up all iniquity and stand aloof from it.

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by LawLab247: 6:25am On Sep 10
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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Deborah98(f): 6:31am On Sep 10
Freeze is always looking for a way to turn the scriptures upside down....

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by ebenhazard(m): 6:31am On Sep 10
Nigeria everyone shall wants to be famous

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by olaric(m): 6:48am On Sep 10
True

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by GarangDeMabior: 7:02am On Sep 10
All these nonsense, See exactly what Christ did below

'Mr. Brown had thought of nothing but numbers. He should have known that the kingdom of God did not depend on large crowds. Our Lord Himself stressed the importance of fewness. Narrow is the way and few the number. To fill the Lord's holy temple with an idolatrous crowd clamoring for signs was a folly of everlasting consequence. Our Lord used the whip only once in His life - to drive the crowd away from His church."


If Christ our Lord will be here today, he will use whip to drive out Oyedepo, Adeboye, Ibiyeomie, Ben Akabueze, Daddy freeze and others away from his church.

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Emempaul(m): 7:03am On Sep 10
guy go and read the Bible well and don't twist this thing in order to trend. verse 21,25 27 and 28 says it all husband and wife shud submit to themselves for a fruitful and loving marriage

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by chiommy123(f): 7:05am On Sep 10
it is arguments like this that causes problems in our homes. husband's love your wife and wife summit to your own husband. if we continue doing things our way leaving out Christ principles the problems will always be there until we go back to his principles and enjoy the blessings therein

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Igbochief001(m): 7:09am On Sep 10
Daddy freeze never said wife's should not submit to the husband ...he only said it's a two way thing ...both husband and wife should submit to each other ....and gave a Bible verse to back it up

I wonder what's wrong with that ?

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Igbochief001(m): 7:10am On Sep 10
Deborah98:
Freeze is always looking for a way to turn the scriptures upside down....
Have u listened to freeze or just hear say ?

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Awol1(m): 7:17am On Sep 10
I agree with Freeze sometimes but he's wrong this time.

Wives' submission to their husbands is not only biblical but also cultural and traditional. And as much as we want to westernize, there are things we must never compromise.

Bastardization of our marriage institution will be the undoing of the African people. Freeze should not speak further on that.

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Awol1(m): 7:19am On Sep 10
GarangDeMabior:
All these nonsense, See exactly what Christ did below

'Mr. Brown had thought of nothing but numbers. He should have known that the kingdom of God did not depend on large crowds. Our Lord Himself stressed the importance of fewness. Narrow is the way and few the number. To fill the Lord's holy temple with an idolatrous crowd clamoring for signs was a folly of everlasting consequence. Our Lord used the whip only once in His life - to drive the crowd away from His church."


If Christ our Lord will be here today, he will use whip to drive out Oyedepo, Adeboye, Ibiyeomie, Ben Akabueze, Daddy freeze and others away from his church.

Are you confused?

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by espn(m): 7:20am On Sep 10
Awol1:
I agree with Freeze sometimes but he's wrong this time.

Wives' submission to their husbands is not only biblical but also cultural and traditional. And as much as we want to westernize, there are things we must never compromise.

Bastardization of our marriage institution will be the undoing of the African people. Freeze should not speak further on that.
He said it is both ways.

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Awol1(m): 7:32am On Sep 10
espn:
He said it is both ways.

And by both ways he means?

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Deborah98(f): 7:34am On Sep 10
Igbochief001:

Have u listened to freeze or just hear say ?
I have....

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Igbochief001(m): 7:39am On Sep 10
Deborah98:
I have....
So how is what he said wrong and in biblical ?

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by sammysmiles(m): 7:43am On Sep 10
Deborah98:
Freeze is always looking for a way to turn the scriptures upside down....
Asin eh... That's why Jesus said take heed that no Man deceive you.... That means it's all lies in your hand if you will be deceived or not

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by DelTel(m): 7:44am On Sep 10
My oga
Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by BigBelleControl(m): 7:44am On Sep 10
They've given Daddy Freeze the attention he needed.

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Joshmodest(m): 7:44am On Sep 10
Christianity is the most confusing of all religions ... if Jesus is the origin of Christianity , why should apostle Peter's opinion on husband and wives become something everybody should abide by ...
if u look at it clearly , men wrote these books , and like I always say no matter how you try to tell me, that they received Inspiration from God , their sentiments can never be overlooked ....
imagine ibiyeome or Adeboye or even father the father oyedepo , were alive then and had the chance of writing the bible , abi are they not getting inspiration from God ? they would have put things like if anyone defames you lock him up , or if your secretary is tempting you sack her or pay your tithe if not if it will be tithe for you , and the sweetest of all -- if you don't pay your tithe you are under a financial curse ....
And people of these days would have to abide by such nonsense ...

You need no bible to tell you that , your wife is also human , and needs respect to and not a slave that you can order around the place or insult the way you like cos one book says she has to submit ....
if the bible had even put it the way freeze said it ,my respect for the writer would be really high !

Daddy freeze , oyedepo , Adeboye , ibeyiome are all same of the same , confusing and brainwashing people , I prefer Freeze's brainwash tho , cos he comes with facts and not sentiments !!!

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by bkool7(m): 7:45am On Sep 10
Is this man saying the wife must submit totally to the husband but the husband is not obliged to reciprocate?

You just want a "Yes sir" wife.

Is that a union or companionship?


That's more like a boss and slave relationship.


Even Jesus honoured his disciples by washing their feet. And that's Jesus o

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by LandMann: 7:46am On Sep 10
Corruption has a way of eating into people's mindset and changing their thinking.

Freeze is clearly a victim of the destructive power of corruption.

This is why we must all change our ways and work together to actualise a bill that prescribes death penalty for public officials found guilty of corruption.

Only through this can we rid this country of corruption and it's attendant evils in Nigeria.

Thank you

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by TheGiftedOne(m): 7:46am On Sep 10
This is how to correct people....







Not that over zealous, thug who was spilling maggots from the pulpit the other time.










Many thugs hiding under the guise of pastors.









Las Las na tithe dey cause quarrel












Freez was right on tithing....







You don't fleece the sheep to be flying around the planet on a private jet.












If this truth is too bitter to digest, go and throw up.

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by JackWolfskin: 7:46am On Sep 10
Most won't read but jump to pre-established conclusions.

He's simply calling "sheathing of swords" as trading words does more harm than good to the general body of Christ and it's attendant evangelistic theme.

...Hence, the 2 Timothy 2:15-19 passage.

Read more.
Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Djyucee1(m): 7:47am On Sep 10
It's easy to read the bible and interpret it to your understanding but it takes the guidance of the Holy spirit to give you a divine understanding. Daddy freeze thinks the Bible is mathematics. The Bible is deep

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by googlepikins: 7:47am On Sep 10
My own is, why did Erica accept an evil ring from Laycon in a competition. Who does that.

Laycon we hope your ijebu ode juju go make the money last for you.

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by joelbooks: 7:48am On Sep 10
Please, pastor
Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Omoluabi16(m): 7:49am On Sep 10
All these pastors are disappointing. They should stop giving this guy relevance. Outside this his attention seeking and attack on scriptures, he's just another unknown yeyebrity.

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Kalatium(m): 7:49am On Sep 10
The battle continues

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by Rapsodee(m): 7:49am On Sep 10
The devil is really working hard to destroy the institution of marriage in this era we are, it's a pity that many ladies and people like daddy freeze are the tools of this evil plan.

God who instituted marriage gave the rules to make marriage work but civilization is making men see the rules as archaic. No wonder we now have so many divorce cases nowadays.

Marriage is very enjoyable but can be disastrous if not done well.

Can two work together unless they be agreed?

Wives, submit to your husbands and husbands love your wife.

Shalom!

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Re: Ben Akabueze Replies Daddy Freeze: "You Are Wrong" by money121(m): 7:49am On Sep 10
Ok

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