DonBenny77:
It's bad but this is naija where bad trends.
"Everyone is doing it"

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WHETHER MARRIED OR NOT WOMEN ARE ALWAYS NEEDING MONEY URGENTLY (2K MOST TIMES). AS FOR THE MARRIED ONES, NOT THAT THEIR HUSBANDS DON'T PROVIDE FOR THEM. SOME OF THEM ARE EVEN WORKING AND EARNING BUT WILL NEVER CEASE TO BEG FOR MEANINGLESS CRUMBS BECAUSE BEGGING HAS BECOME THE CULTURE OF THE NIGERIAN WOMAN.

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WHETHER MARRIED OR NOT WOMEN ARE ALWAYS NEEDING MONEY URGENTLY (2K MOST TIMES). AS FOR THE MARRIED ONES, NOT THAT THEIR HUSBANDS DON'T PROVIDE FOR THEM. SOME OF THEM ARE EVEN WORKING AND EARNING BUT WILL NEVER CEASE TO BEG FOR MEANINGLESS CRUMBS BECAUSE BEGGING HAS BECOME THE CULTURE OF THE NIGERIAN WOMAN.

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WHETHER MARRIED OR NOT WOMEN ARE ALWAYS NEEDING MONEY URGENTLY (2K MOST TIMES). AS FOR THE MARRIED ONES, NOT THAT THEIR HUSBANDS DON'T PROVIDE FOR THEM. SOME OF THEM ARE EVEN WORKING AND EARNING BUT WILL NEVER CEASE TO BEG FOR MEANINGLESS CRUMBS BECAUSE BEGGING HAS BECOME THE CULTURE OF THE NIGERIAN WOMAN.

GreatResearcher:
Once a girl chats me up is either her sub has finished or her gas.

emmaodet:


Hahahaha,
Naija women and 2k are like 5 & 6

BECAUSE MEN'S EGO WILL MAKE THEM FEEL 2K IS SMALL MONEY. EVEN IF HE IS JOBLESS AND POOR HE WILL BORROW OR CARRY CONCRETE AT A SITE JUST TO BE ABLE TO PROVIDE THE 2K FOR HIS "WE'RE JUST FRIENDS".

IF SHE REQUESTS SAME 2K FROM 20 SHIT MEN IN A WEEK SHE'LL DEFINITELY GET REPLIES FROM 10 MEN AT LEAST, WITH SOME OF THESE FOLKS SENDING MORE THAN REQUESTED JUST TO PLEASE HER AND BOOST THEIR CHANCES OF GETTING LAID ONE DAY.

IF YOU LINK UP ALL THESE 2K SHE HAS BAGGED YOU'LL DISCOVER HOW MUCH SHE MAKES FROM THE "I NEED A FAVOR" BUSINESS.

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BECAUSE MEN'S EGO WILL MAKE THEM FEEL 2K IS SMALL MONEY. EVEN IF HE IS JOBLESS AND POOR HE WILL BORROW OR CARRY CONCRETE AT A SITE JUST TO BE ABLE TO PROVIDE THE 2K FOR HIS "WE'RE JUST FRIENDS".

IF SHE REQUESTS SAME 2K FROM 20 SHIT MEN IN A WEEK SHE'LL DEFINITELY GET REPLIES FROM 10 MEN AT LEAST, WITH SOME OF THESE FOLKS SENDING MORE THAN REQUESTED JUST TO PLEASE HER AND BOOST THEIR CHANCES OF GETTING LAID ONE DAY.

IF YOU LINK UP ALL THESE 2K SHE HAS BAGGED YOU'LL DISCOVER HOW MUCH SHE MAKES FROM THE "I NEED A FAVOR" BUSINESS.

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SOMETIMES IT'S RECHARGE CARD 200, AND IT'S COMING FROM A PERSON THAT EARNS 60-100K A MONTH.

THEY MAY COME HERE TO CLAIM THAT YOU SHOULD CHANGE THE CIRCLE OF GIRLS YOU DEAL WITH, BUT LET ME TELL YOU, THESE BEGGARS ARE IN ALL CIRCLES AND IT'S IRRITATING.

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BECAUSE MEN'S EGO WILL MAKE THEM FEEL 2K IS SMALL MONEY. EVEN IF HE IS JOBLESS AND POOR HE WILL BORROW OR CARRY CONCRETE AT A SITE JUST TO BE ABLE TO PROVIDE THE 2K FOR HIS "WE'RE JUST FRIENDS".

IF SHE REQUESTS SAME 2K FROM 20 SHIT MEN IN A WEEK SHE'LL DEFINITELY GET REPLIES FROM 10 MEN AT LEAST, WITH SOME OF THESE FOLKS SENDING MORE THAN REQUESTED JUST TO PLEASE HER AND BOOST THEIR CHANCES OF GETTING LAID ONE DAY.

IF YOU LINK UP ALL THESE 2K SHE HAS BAGGED YOU'LL DISCOVER HOW MUCH SHE MAKES FROM THE "I NEED A FAVOR" BUSINESS.

emmaodet:


Hmmmmmmmm
You are really correct bro.
There is a lady i met on NL and we have been good chat mates for some time now but she do ask me for money virtually every time especially this 2k of a thing.
I do wonder why 2k? Probably she doesn't want to ask for something higher so as not to discourage me but if you add up 2k from 10 men, that is a reasonable money gotten from such a low love/friendship scam.

One thing have come to realise with women mostly nigeria ladies is that you can't be friends without them requesting for help no matter how small while the men can't be friends with ladies without nursing sexing them.

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IN MY EARLY TEENAGE DAYS I REALIZED HETEROSEXUAL FRIENDSHIPS ARE UTTER BULLSHIT, AND ONLY MANAGED TO KEEP ONE "FRIEND" IN MY ENTIRE LIFE. AFTER 4 YEARS, I HAD TO CUT IT ALL OF CUZ THERE WERE NO GAINS IN THE BUSINESS FOR ME BUT MY LOSSES WERE PILLING UP LIKE NO TOMORROW.
I CAN'T IMAGINE WHAT MOST OF SUCH FRIENDSHIPS WILL BE IN THESE TIMES WHERE FRUSTRATION AND GREED IS BRINGING OUT THE LEECH IN EVERYONE

emmaodet:


Hmmmmmmmm
You are really correct bro.
There is a lady i met on NL and we have been good chat mates for some time now but she do ask me for money virtually every time especially this 2k of a thing.

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BELOW IS A RARE PICTURE OF A NAIRALAND FEMINIST AND INDEPENDENT STRONG WOMAN.

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WHETHER MARRIED OR NOT WOMEN ARE ALWAYS NEEDING MONEY URGENTLY (2K MOST TIMES). AS FOR THE MARRIED ONES, NOT THAT THEIR HUSBANDS DON'T PROVIDE FOR THEM. SOME OF THEM ARE EVEN WORKING AND EARNING BUT WILL NEVER CEASE TO BEG FOR MEANINGLESS CRUMBS BECAUSE BEGGING HAS BECOME THE CULTURE OF THE NIGERIAN WOMAN.

emmaodet:

Hmmmmmmmm
You are really correct bro.
There is a lady i met on NL and we have been good chat mates for some time now but she do ask me for money virtually every time especially this 2k of a thing.
I do wonder why 2k? Probably she doesn't want to ask for something higher so as not to discourage me but if you add up 2k from 10 men, that is a reasonable money gotten from such a low love/friendship scam.
One thing have come to realise with women mostly nigeria ladies is that you can't be friends without them requesting for help no matter how small while the men can't be friends with ladies without nursing sexing them.

crackhaus:

Lol, there's something that happened to me just last night with one of these same type of chics – this one is not on NL anyway. Although she's a friend and we once lived in the same neighborhood, but I got to know her through her married elder sis whom I am much closer to.

Every single time this younger lady chats me up, I subconsciously expect to get billed and last night was no different except that this time, she went the extra mile. Babe sent me a video of herself twerking, she loves twerking normally and it's not the first time she's sending such, but last night's own was peculiar because it came out of the blues... probably she was trying to whet my appetite.

Na so she start normal conversation after I watched the video – how's everyone, how's life, how's work, I miss seeing you and your wahala etc. etc. Of course, I played along. She even asked me to rate her video, told her she killed it. We had a conversation lasting almost an hour because I was doing other things in-between, but my brother, by the end, the thing I was expecting finally came through and BOOM, billing...

"I need it urgently, I will pay you back (wash), just send 2000 to this Airtel number." Normal format.

I was like wait o, but you don't have an Airtel number na cos I've sent airtime to both her MTN and Glo before. She was like it's my new number, I just said okay send it.
First thing I did was to dial the number and one boy picked up. I sha just ended the call, smiled then went back to our chats to ask her who had the number. Babe just kept dancing around the question without telling me.
I didn't need to waste my time, simply told her that my Bank App was having issues... I've gotten two missed calls from her this morning already, babe has still refused to get the point.

My issue with most of these women is not even the fact that they ask for stuff, everyone needs some assistance. My issue is the fact that they feel entitled to your help, I don't get that at all
And once you help them out with something one time, it's as if in their mind, they have registered you as their go-to helper whenever they need something else in the future.

The ladies who don't ask at all, I have some as friends as well. They will never ask you for a dime, but they also will usually find a way to talk about one issue or the other that can be solved with money, LOL...
The idea is that you will use your head, be a gentleman and just offer to help them out.

emmaodet:

My brother, it is really well.
Do you know the funniest thing, this babe was jobless during the Covid lockdown and was constantly begging me for help, so i gave her 5k.
Do you know the following week she asked me for money again? Now turning it to a weekly thing and when i replied i just gave her 5k last week she retorted that what did i even give her that am making reference to? Just 5k that she finished up before the end of that day? That can't even last for a day? Is what am talking about?
I felt bad, really really bad because i know if i had given a jobless man that money, not only will he really really appreciate it, he may even hold and manage the money for like 5 days compared to this entitled so called friend not even dating of a human, how much more if we are even dating sef.

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SOMETIMES IT'S RECHARGE CARD 200, AND IT'S COMING FROM A PERSON THAT EARNS 60-100K A MONTH.

THEY MAY COME HERE TO CLAIM THAT YOU SHOULD CHANGE THE CIRCLE OF GIRLS YOU DEAL WITH, BUT LET ME TELL YOU, THESE BEGGARS ARE IN ALL CIRCLES AND IT'S IRRITATING.

emmaodet:



My brother, it is really well.
Do you know the funniest thing, this babe was jobless during the Covid lockdown and was constantly begging me for help, so i gave her 5k.
Do you know the following week she asked me for money again? Now turning it to a weekly thing and when i replied i just gave her 5k last week she retorted that what did i even give her that am making reference to? Just 5k that she finished up before the end of that day? That can't even last for a day? Is what am talking about?

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IN MY EARLY TEENAGE DAYS I REALIZED HETEROSEXUAL FRIENDSHIPS ARE UTTER BULLSHIT, AND ONLY MANAGED TO KEEP ONE "FRIEND" IN MY ENTIRE LIFE. AFTER 4 YEARS, I HAD TO CUT IT ALL OF CUZ THERE WERE NO GAINS IN THE BUSINESS FOR ME BUT MY LOSSES WERE PILING UP LIKE NO TOMORROW.
I CAN'T IMAGINE WHAT MOST OF SUCH FRIENDSHIPS WILL BE IN THESE TIMES WHERE FRUSTRATION AND GREED IS BRINGING OUT THE LEECH IN EVERYONE.

"CAN WE BE FRIENDS?"
"WE'RE JUST FRIENDS".
THOSE THINGS SOUND LIKE EXTORTION AND MANIPULATION TO MY EARS AND MY REPLIES HAVE NEVER CHANGED. "I DON'T KEEP FRIENDS".

ZINIBANKS:
Almost all Married women of nowadays are doing it

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UNGRATEFUL GOATS. JUST 5K THEY'LL SAY, BUT THEY DON'T HAVE IT.

HOW IS IT "JUST" WHEN YOU DON'T EVEN HAVE IT?
NASO ONE BILL ME 3K OUT OF THE BLUES LAST WEEK. BELIEVE ME I MET THIS SOUL ON A WEDNESDAY AND PAID FOR THE DRUGS SHE CAME TO GET AT A PHARMACY. STRANGE NUMBER CALLED ME LATER THAT DAY TO THANK ME I SAY NO WAHALA. ALAYE, BY FRIDAY YOUR FIANCEE DON CALL SAY E NEED 3 GRANDS URGENTLY. I WAS LIKE WETIN I DO YOU NA, I JUST SORT YOUR BILL BASED ON SAY I BEEN DEY GIVEAWAY MOOD THAT DAY.. YOU COLLECT MY NUMBER FROM THE PARM GUY CUS THEY KNOW ME WELL THERE, ONLY TO BILL ME? WHEN I NO EVEN KNOW YOUR NAME OR CARE FOR ANYTHING ABOUT YOU?

OMOH.. NA SO SHE HIT ME WITH THE "IS IT COMMON 3K THAT YOU'RE BEHAVING LIKE THIS" BS. I TELL AM SAY AS 3K COMMON, WHY SHE NO COLLECT AM FROM HER PAPA OR HER CHAIN OF MAGAS?
YOUNG BLOOD WASTED NO TIME TO HANG UP AND BLOCK THE SKANK'S NUMBER. IF YOU PLAY GENTLEMAN THESE FOLKS WILL DRAIN YOUR SOUL.

SavageResponse:


Do you have statistics to support this conclusion?

OlawaleBammie:

If she come with her usual 2k ish, I will just fetch her 3kilo of cocoa beans make she go sell am anywhere she wants

DON'T KILL ME.