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| Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Damayor12(m): 4:13am On Sep 19, 2013 |
Breakups with the ones we love could be really hurting. Some of us are in disbelief for days and weeks... some even reject food and cry in their closets.. Please share your Experiences...   6 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Nobody: 4:52am On Sep 19, 2013 |
The only time I had such an experience was when my first ex broke up with me. I was young and "head over heels" if you will. He broke up with me simply because he could, leaving me distraught. It felt like my world ended... literally. I was in my room for days, thinking the worst of myself. Actually telling myself, "you're this"... "you're that". Sometimes I'd be driving to work or school and I'd start crying right there in the car. Or I'd be in my room doing homework or listening to music and I'd be stricken with sorrow, and tears would flow again. It was a very painful experience but I'm more than grateful for it now. During my grief, I did some analysis. I reflected back on the relationship and realized that the crying I was crying after the relationship was no different than the tears I shed during the relationship. He was a shitty boyfriend and I was hardly ever happy with him, so why on earth was I crying over him releasing me? Once I came to that realization, I healed very quickly. The whole process didn't take up to two weeks. The only thing I regret is not having someone to confide in about it. I dealt with it alone as I didn't want anyone pitying me or getting angry at him. Not even my sister knew. I wish I had someone who would've heard me out and told me what I later realized. It would have saved me a lot of time and tears. 33 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Acidosis(m): 4:59am On Sep 19, 2013 |
^ ^ awww Ogugua *wipes tears*   4 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Nobody: 5:29am On Sep 19, 2013 |
No awws are needed. I came out stronger. I have muscles and undestructable odeshi now. Have you had an experience? 5 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by fernandoc(m): 6:17am On Sep 19, 2013 |
Me think its better to give than receive. After I got bleeped over once av been on the giving end. 5 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Chaleeee: 7:20am On Sep 19, 2013 |
I used to date this girl in 2008. She can be said to the the most beautiful lady I ever dated. She was head ove heels in love with me. I know this because back then I was a fresh graduate with no job and money wasn't coming from home anymore and she has very rich parents. I mean the father has a whole road named after him in the tushed part of Lagos Island. I know she loved me because of ythe way she respects me and was always wanting to see me. In my house she was accepted though my brothers were suspicious, my father was really fond ofher and all. Issues started when I got a job in Lagos. She complains I close late, I don't have time and I always took the pain to explain to her (I totally hate nagging. I would rather sleep on the street than ssleep onthe same bed with a nagging woman) One day she called me up and told to meet her in a restaurant on Allen Ave. I saw her park this new Mistibushi SUV behind my car. When I asked her what happened to her car, she said he boyfriend just got her the new Mistibushi and she won't be seeing me anymore. I tried to act mature. We ate and we went our separate ways. I felt bad for weeks. Though I still kept intouch, ibegged her repeatedly to come backto me. Whenever my dad asks after he, I always lied that she's out of the country. The whole experience made me loose faith the in woman gender and all. I've dated over 6 girls since then but that was the most painful of mybreakups because she said I didn't do anything wrong but she has to move on. I guess it was the money. Imbetter off now though. *winks* Me sef don buy muscle camry. Don't relent. Hustle pays. 97 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Nobody: 7:56am On Sep 19, 2013 |
Hmmm |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Dyt(f): 9:43am On Sep 19, 2013 |
Choi See my life I have loved each of my main BFs *thinkin* which really hurt me sef I think its same feeling I get each time one leaves as I get a replacement sharply Was never single lol Bt I hav cried o Choi Bt I can't remember jor |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Damayor12(m): 10:31am On Sep 19, 2013 |
Chaleeee: I used to date this girl in 2008. She can be said to the the most beautiful lady I ever dated. She was head ove heels in love with me. I know this because back then I was a fresh graduate with no job and money wasn't coming from home anymore and she has very rich parents. I mean the father has a whole road named after him in the tushed part of Lagos Island. Your story is something like mine...Why won't guys be players after this experience?! Why?! Money over everything mehn!!... Money solves almost anything..  2 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by 190: 10:34am On Sep 19, 2013 |
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| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by zeb04(f): 10:44am On Sep 19, 2013 |
I broke up wit him, I felt really bad nd cried,iwantd him 2 beg, he didn't,I cried again nd againend of story. 6 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by debbieakin(f): 10:47am On Sep 19, 2013 |
He left me because i have a tumor,he simply told me his parents cant allow him marry from my area, but i cant say any thing for now till when i have my own husband & children.......it also happened to a friend of mine but she's now married with a set of twin boys & his then boyfriend got married to a lady without womb...God u're great! 3 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by 190: 10:49am On Sep 19, 2013 |
debbie akin: He left me because i have a tumor,he simply told me his parents cant allow him marry from my area, but i cant say any thing for now till when i have my own husband & children.......it also happened to a friend of mine but she's now married with a set of twin boys & his then boyfriend got married to a lady without womb...God u're great! what are you talking about  13 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by debbieakin(f): 10:56am On Sep 19, 2013 |
190:Read 5 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Damayor12(m): 11:05am On Sep 19, 2013 |
Fucc.k Love..Money over everything!!! |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by 190: 11:08am On Sep 19, 2013 |
lemme rebook this space since my first comment has been hidden  1 Like |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by 190: 11:09am On Sep 19, 2013 |
i place a bet on $1500 that this thread must hit frontpage! who wanna go ahead wif me brb with my story |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Damayor12(m): 11:17am On Sep 19, 2013 |
190: i place a bet on $1500 that this thread must hit frontpage!Amen o... High hopes..  |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by yuzedo: 11:35am On Sep 19, 2013 |
My story is many.. God wil punish ALL girl worldwild (esept my future wive) amem!  21 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Unluvable(f): 11:35am On Sep 19, 2013 |
He was my best friend, first love and more... Well I was just not devoted to the relationship and I started liking someone else. Due to guilt I broke up with him, it was really emotional. The hurt I caused him made me hurt so much. I felt real crappy, losing my bf*2 (boyfriend and best friend). Let's say it was a learning process for me.... I don't believe in fate but we got back together after 2 years. 9 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Popowaa: 11:38am On Sep 19, 2013 |
yuzedo: My story is many..Kai,the girls who tore ur heart into pieces really did it well 13 Likes |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Popowaa: 11:41am On Sep 19, 2013 |
Space booked 1 Like |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Handsomeemmy(m): 11:47am On Sep 19, 2013 |
Unluvable*: It does happen, we hardly love those that love us, we love those who hardly love us. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Handsomeemmy(m): 11:50am On Sep 19, 2013 |
Dyt: Choi lmao at "main boyfriends" so Dyt keep side boyfriend too? 1 Like |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Unluvable(f): 12:09pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Handsomeemmy:Somehow right, but that was not really the case. Maybe I wasn't consistent in what I wanted back then |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Handsomeemmy(m): 12:15pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Unluvable*:Consistency just like trust is key in a relationship. |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by Damayor12(m): 12:19pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
yuzedo: My story is many.. Oga yuzedo...Talk jorr... Nairaland girls for don do you strong thing gann.. 1 Like |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by AbuMikey(m): 12:40pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
All izz well sha  |
| Re: Your Breakup Experiences With Someone You Really Loved?? by AbuMikey(m): 12:46pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
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