| Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by tobechi74: 2:43am On Sep 23, 2020 |
When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.
Pet is not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?
Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public. Expression of vulnerability is a sign of a weak man. Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.
In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.
Then came education. Female involvement in education at an early age especially science and law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.
Girls who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .
Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.
We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side. we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female. 3 Likes 
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| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by josephubah111(m): 2:54am On Sep 23, 2020 |
Nice.. I concur |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by tobechi74: 2:57am On Sep 23, 2020 |
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| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by tobechi74: 8:59am On Sep 23, 2020 |
Lalaatica |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by Nobody: 9:01am On Sep 23, 2020 |
I need a breakdown of this story book |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by CosmicPhoenix: 9:48am On Sep 23, 2020 |
what the op is saying is that,dont be a simp and embrace your masculinity
BornSnner9:
I need a breakdown of this story book 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by Nobody: 10:05am On Sep 23, 2020 |
CosmicPhoenix:
what the op is saying is that,dont be a simp and embrace your masculinity
Ok boss |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by tobechi74: 7:55pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
BornSnner9:
I need a breakdown of this story book Yru to read it |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by jimmychang: 8:38pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
Wow ,nice ,educating and captivating write up. |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by virginprincess(f): 10:08pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
Well i don't see anything wrong in kneeling to propose, it means you love, cherish&adore her. |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by LikeAking: 10:10pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
tobechi74:
When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.
Pet is not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?
Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public. Expression of vulnerability is a sign of a weak man. Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.
In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.
Then came education. Female involvement in education at an early age especially science and law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.
Girls who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .
Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.
We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side. we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female. Hero of men,thank you. LOL Ladies go here am. Dem go know as e dey b. God punish me the day I go cook food like soup,stew,rice,etc for my wife to eat. Or I help her in the kitchen. Or entertain any of her nonsense. Her Fada!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by mosdii(m): 10:19pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
virginprincess:
Well i don't see anything wrong in kneeling to propose, it means you love, cherish&adore her. Ta Tufiakwa Spits |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by mosdii(m): 10:23pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
The movement is real.
Young men are being treated like a piece of trash from these daughters of eve but good a thing that some are awakening the consciousness of men.
Men will be men again. |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by virginprincess(f): 10:28pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
mosdii:
Ta Tufiakwa
Spits You can spit who cares,but a man that loves a woman can do anything for her. |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by mosdii(m): 10:39pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
virginprincess:
You can spit who cares,but a man that loves a woman can do anything for her. Including killing himself? Snap outta that Romeo and Juliet thing or Rose and Jack thing. What is love in the first place? It ain't possible and any man who does so is unfit to be called a man. |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by talktrue1234: 11:32pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
Na modern society dey make woman feel like sey dem get liver. We are having a case where a 19 year old girl has a 50 year old millionaire he is calling sugar daddy, tell me what sort of alpha does a 20 - 25 guy who is still trying to settle some odds in his life want to play with such girl, some guys are sacked from work because a decision maker at work is interested in the lady they are dating, some are failed at school. Before the society guilt trip young lads for their loss of masculinity the society needs to check how it has defeated and humbled masculinity. Let the married face their wives and stop competing with the small girls in town and you will witness a decrease in all this complaint.
Have you forgotten that women are human too? They understand logic, they will bow to the most competence, like it or not, all of your I am a man you need to bow to me word doesn't buy a bowl of gari
Even so let women face life the kind of way a lot of men face it(no support from anybody, nobody is trying to pull you up and no pussy to sell) a lot of ladies may commit suicide I tell you.
You want to really be sure women are getting stronger? go and look at the life of most single mothers
Look at the rate men are coming to nairaland to seek advice on one or two life challenges they are dealing with, compare it to the number of females, you will understand what I am saying. Stop spreading the narratives that men are weak when they live from day to day fighting and competing
Before you post shit like this think first, look at the role men are playing in the society, the battles we are fighting you will understand men are not weak but heros and fighter. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by Nobody: 12:02am On Sep 24, 2020 |
If i was the op, I won't reply any damn mention from these simps. Your point is very clear, just that the simps are always ready to attack you when you tell them the truth. Majority of men nowadays are too weak and unwilling to man up to the truth. tobechi74:
When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.
Pet is not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?
Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public. Expression of vulnerability is a sign of a weak man. Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.
In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.
Then came education. Female involvement in education at an early age especially science and law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.
Girls who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .
Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.
We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side. we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by Skmoda360(m): 12:04am On Sep 24, 2020 |
tobechi74:
When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.
Pet is not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?
Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public. Expression of vulnerability is a sign of a weak man. Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.
In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.
Then came education. Female involvement in education at an early age especially science and law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.
Girls who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .
Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.
We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side. we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female. Baba, there are lotta simps this days ehn....you go talk tire......em no fit change.....  1 Like |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by Dangrace01: 1:55pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
Great article
The question is how do father's teach their sons to be masculine, he has work to do daily |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by Dangrace01: 2:38pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
Skmoda360:
Baba, there are lotta simps this days ehn....you go talk tire......em no fit change..... The problem be say this cycle go continue simps would give birth to sons that would become greater simps if this cycle continues like this women would become dominant in the nearest future 1 Like |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by Skmoda360(m): 4:19pm On Sep 24, 2020 |
Dangrace01:
The problem be say this cycle go continue simps would give birth to sons that would become greater simps if this cycle continues like this women would become dominant in the nearest future I'm telling you bro....  |
| Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by tobechi74: 10:24am On Sep 26, 2020 |
Lalastica |
