It's safe to say she won't get whatever favour she's looking for

TOPCRUISE:
In Nigeria she is right especially if you are Nigerian. But not right in Europe if you are from there

It's better to err on the side of caution.
When approaching someone for a favour you need to be on your best behaviour

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Nonsense...na this part of the world we for dey carry greetings and respect for head...

I don't see anything wrong starting a conversation with "hey" and responding to a question by saying 'are u dewumi"
If she is not going to help or go ahead with the assist....then she can go fuckkk herself

She dey expect make the small gir abi na small boy kneel down for WhatsApp dey greet her

. My nigga, deep down i know you personally can't start a conversation with a relatively unknown person like that. Just check back the kid's replies even after the woman greeted and observed her well. Common sense no too de common for dis our gen again. Still respect you bro

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Nonsense...na this part of the world we for dey carry greetings and respect for head...

I don't see anything wrong starting a conversation with "hey" and responding to a question by saying 'are u dewumi"
If she is not going to help or go ahead with the assist....then she can go fuckkk herself

She dey expect make the small gir abi na small boy kneel down for WhatsApp dey greet her

Unfortunately for you, if you find yourself in "...this part of the world...", decorum dictates you do as the Romans in Rome.

Michelle55:
Aside the fact that he/she lacks manners, you don't address someone with abbreviated words. Short hand and lack of manners just ruined whatever help he/she hoped to get from the woman.

Even the woman, had to greet him/her properly with the right wordings. It's time we youth learn how to write in full sentences without the annoying use of abbreviations.

K

I got more engaged when She (Dewumi) said, "Mo gba 8 good years ni owo e". Meaning she's 8 years older than Busola, aunt to the disrespectful guy/girl. Poor manners indeed!

Next time be courteous

Skyfornia:


Ladies do that a lot. The one wey dey vex me pass is 'Hmmm'...I have never come across any lady that doesn't use the BS 'Hmmm'

They use that when they are angry or uninterested

Who wan help you go help with or without manners

444crop:
Who wan help you go help with or without manners

Really? Continue

Courtesy demands that if you are chatting with someone for the first time, you be as polite as possible.
One thing I find improper is when you're chatting with someone for the very first time and you don't introduce yourself first. For example, Kola is chatting with Eve for the first time.
Kola: Hi
Eve: Hello
Kola: How are you?
Eve: I'm fine, you?
Kola: I'm Kola, what about you?
Eve: I'm Eve
Kola: Nice.... Can you tell me about yourself?

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This is so wrong. You initiated a convo with an unknown person and you can't even do a proper introduction of yourself.

luminouz:


They use that when they are angry or uninterested

It's boring as fvck

Openbusiness:
what do you mean she's from Naira Marley clan? Is it not the OP or (whoever that boy is) that obviously lacks home training? The woman is right to have blasted him off like that

oga wats your stress! Are we not saying the same thing propably you didn't read me well.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Nonsense...na this part of the world we for dey carry greetings and respect for head...

I don't see anything wrong starting a conversation with "hey" and responding to a question by saying 'are u dewumi"
If she is not going to help or go ahead with the assist....then she can go fuckkk herself

She dey expect make the small gir abi na small boy kneel down for WhatsApp dey greet her

Damn! I spit on your post! Birds of a feather they say.

CosmicPhoenix:

your aunty recommended you to someone for assistance and you start with 'hey',too many idiots in this life.

And many more here on this forum, on this thread! I'm worried for this generation of young people. Some of us are not old but we dare not! Imagine "Hey!"

Openbusiness:
Ok, no problem. Even though it's not gender specific, I just assumed the character is a Boy since the OP that brought the matter is a male profile and I assume it was the OP in the conversation.

No it wasn't the OP. I saw this on Facebook a day or two ago. It's a typical case of copy and paste.

placeofallure:


No it wasn't the OP. I saw this on Facebook a day or two ago. It's a typical case of copy and paste.

Ok, no wonder. Thanks for enlightenment

Skyfornia:


It's boring as fvck

At least that way,u leave them alone or give them a nice fat 'K' as a reward

luminouz:


At least that way,u leave them alone or give them a nice fat 'K' as a reward

Nah...the best is to ghost on the person. And delete her contact after 7days

Skyfornia:


Nah...the best is to ghost on the person. And delete her contact after 7days

U try sha...I go ghost them immediately after my 'K'!