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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 12:37am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Organs:which one is Buhari + jonathan brain 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by JIMMY1393: 12:37am On Sep 30, 2020 |
yungEX: do you need glasses? it says "At 26 my dad still flogs me" |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Sotland: 12:37am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Mindlog: He is his father's son.. It doesn't matter how old he is.. At 26, his father whipping him is not a sin most especially when he is still under his roof.. If he feels he is above whipping. He should find an amicable way to tell his father without rudeness or disobedience.. I have read a lot of negative comment that can influence OP negatively.. Op just be guided and remember that your parents deserve that honour.. Know how to pass your message to your father rightly oooo.. God bless you 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by CoolJulian: 12:39am On Sep 30, 2020 |
[quote author=hstar post=94452748] Thanks Would you mind sharing urs too, if I can learn two or three things there, please? because for u to understand it, u must av passed 2ru it[/quote. Experience, they say, is the best teacher! If i were to tell, the story would be too long... It however affected my older siblings the most, cos i was not that mature at the time. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Timiblanko(m): 12:47am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Finally Nairalanders I think someone want to destroy this guys reputation by getting hold of his account... But if eventually you are the one typing all this after all persuasion from people including wise people, then you need Christ that you preach always.... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by JIMMY1393: 12:49am On Sep 30, 2020 |
linearity: oh its trueeee , i completely forgot, apologies |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by micflo28(m): 12:49am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Next time you are late, sleep over at a friend's place. No parent tolerates that. They are worried you are taking solace in bad gangs and may organize a hit on the family if care is not taken. Secondly, use your words well, shout and scream and scold him. He may throw you out, but just do it. Trust me, your mum will not let him do that. Above all, limit your night outings. Moderation is key. Hotels are reopening gradually, begin to prepare your former experiences to land another job so you get busy. 3 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Yankee101: 12:56am On Sep 30, 2020 |
You gotta try getting something to earn income and gain independence, visit a friend/uncle in a busy city like Lagos and try getting a job 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Edoziesmart(m): 1:04am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Prechgold1180: I bet with my balls that you are not up to 25 years. All these children with their childish comments everywhere #smh 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by koolaid87: 1:10am On Sep 30, 2020 |
You're a coward and a pvssy Time to leave the house Omo mummy 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Iambro(m): 1:14am On Sep 30, 2020 |
same thing with me, I am 20yrs old if I should start my own story I won't finish it. my mom still beat me even tho I do charge. She tore all my cloth, now I only have one T-Shirt and my bear chest. I can't go out anymore. I am a terma 1 cadet at Nigerian police academy. when I got shortlisted I was so happy, not because of the admission but because I will be free from abuses. Not until covid-19 made me returned home. The one my father did that pained the most was during this lockdown down. He sent a text message to my friend father that if they see me in their house they should send me away imagine?? They showed me the message and they were really angry at my father. Right now am fucking depressed. I have tried to commit suicide several times cause i hate the bully and maltreatment in the name of correction. though I am not perfect. I don't have any friends cause all of them are afraid of me/my parent. I havent stepped outside for 1 week because I don't have any cloth to wear and they don't care. I pray my school resumes so I can be free from depression again. I understand the poster plight very well it is what I am currently facing too. sorry for my bad english. 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kingdomcome: 1:27am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Can I have ur contact so I can find u small work. Ur story is pathetic please. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Oyerinde16(m): 1:37am On Sep 30, 2020 |
My dad can flog, chai i suffered in this world from flogging cot cee of P. man, but i had to put a stop to it at around 14-16 yrs. I remember the day he wanted to flog me, i held the cane, pulled it from his hand and threw it away, he was like what, gave me punches, i just stood still doing Odeshi, he went for the cane again, i held it, pulled it forcefully from his hand, broke it into pieces right in front of him before discarding it, we had this altercation for about 3 month with P, man always getting tougher until the day i told him point blank he should not try it... Mehn P,man was shocked if he uses his hands to hit me, i stood still he would get tired but he dare not use cane on me, before 17 i had my clean freedom, I thank my mom, she would be like dotun do you want to beat your fada, oya baba tunde you too leave him alone that beatings too have do... I love you momma.... To the op i think you are very stupid to allow your fada beat you at even 20 not to talk of 27... you better let your dad know you are now a fully grown up man and put a stop to that nonsense, If him no gree sound am better slap i tell you that is your freedom slap... let him know there are two ways to make it in this life, its either you make it while you struggle or you make it through him, if he did not create any meaningful channel for you to resume work in NNPC like is mates, he has no moral justification if you too did not resume work at NNPC... Wake up bro and work harder too... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Brunicekid(m): 1:49am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Kriss216:From the profile of the OP, it is a Male... Except, the story was written on behalf of someone else. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Queenserah26(f): 2:09am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Very true Mindlog: |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by ibrahim55(m): 2:14am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89:disciple an adult a full grown man at 26 by flogging? naa that shut stopped long before I became 26 lol |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by 1Sharon(f): 2:22am On Sep 30, 2020 |
puremaker7:This satisfied me |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by 1Sharon(f): 2:32am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Clasmanj: LOL. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by bigcasava1(m): 2:41am On Sep 30, 2020 |
I want to see your face 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by bigcasava1(m): 2:45am On Sep 30, 2020 |
situationreport:brother don't give up just hold on. I was ones in your shoe but God saw me through. Why not get closer to God in service and prayers he can't fail you. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Gabe427: 2:58am On Sep 30, 2020 |
I followed this thread page by page till the last page What kept me going was Mr Righteousness. I kept checking to make sure it was the original And he's way of response today marks the day he casted I doubt anyone would take him serious again E pain me small sah this goes to show no one is perfect don't model yourself after anyone they would disappoint you stick to your holy book mantra nature or wise quotes as that is your guide light And Sir Righteousness89 if everyone says something even this who those who's share your faith and preach and stand for the same message as you do points out an error But you insist in your way then....... Omo see me they write epistle by 3 am Abeg make I continue my hussle 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by madjune(m): 3:12am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Is your name Ozo? If so, let the flogging continue. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by udemzyudex(m): 3:24am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Your father no wan respect himself. Until he go lead you into temptation him eyes go clear 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by lereinter(m): 3:34am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Prechgold1180: Unbroken guy In all your sojourn in US no 26yr is living with parents You will die in US not nigeria o |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by mamajaz(f): 3:35am On Sep 30, 2020 |
So, in my house, I am the deputy parent ( being the first child, lol). You know how those parents handover their beating skills to you nah. Interestingly, my immediate younger brother came 6 years few months after me. In our struggles to make it in life, I relocated him to my side when I was in U.I, he was battling WAEC, GCE, NECO, JAMB. I was responsible for his upkeep, exams and lesson fees. One night like that ( devil drink water), he went to watch balls with a male friend ( my age mate), they have done that few nights before then and I'd warned him seriously that....this person is an undergraduate, if police hooked you guys, he will tender his student's ID but you have none. Besides, these people have good money, me was earning 12000 naira per month. I said we were together in this Agbowo when thieves and police fought dirty and exchanged guns that many lives were lost just in front of U.I one December night like that.This boy wouldn't heed my counsel. He went and came back with his big brother around 1:00am. They couldn't go back to U.I ( gates would have been closed at 12 midnight). They came ohhhh, knocked at my door severely. I didn't open for them, they slept in a friend's room just adjacent to mine. Second day, I was going to work, I took my bath, locked my door, went to work. They had no access to food. Night was for vigil. I came....just like the angel told Laban as per Jacob when Laban went looking for his stolen idols...say neither good nor bad to my servant Jacob. I didn't say anything to them. That night was a vigil, I went to church, met my brother reporting me to our fatherly pastor. I said thank God, because I've decided that I wouldn't say anything to anybody. After his reports, daddy mentioned his name, you've overstepped your boundaries...you know your sister doesn't play with you and your needs. How can you be night walking in hot zones like agbowo? Daddy shaa pacified me, and I apologized to him ( my brother). I organized meal and he ate. I moved fast and reported the case to my mummy because I know that brother he followed out has a way of making you look demonic to others... Long and short, we came back together as good brother and sister. That stopped the rubbish association he was forming. If I had beaten him, he might not beat me back but I doubt if we will be in great terms till date. As at 12 my dad would be telling me, by the time you're a teenager, it is a shame on the family if we flog you. He was teaching me how to behave so nobody would bring cane near me. Well, they still did beat me pass that age but at least, I knew most of those beatings were with good intentions and not beyond my teen age anyway. Except mum who did occasionally push me out of annoyance. Nothing like disgraceful flogging. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by franugo(m): 3:45am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89: I just know your case will be different 1 Like
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by franugo(m): 3:53am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Mindlog: If the guy is half as annoying offline as he is here eh....God save his wife n kids |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by franugo(m): 4:02am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Well at least now we know why you're unhinged.. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by franugo(m): 4:05am On Sep 30, 2020 |
KayCee92: I am the stones that the builders refused.... |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by franugo(m): 4:11am On Sep 30, 2020 |
MrsRighteousness: They are freaking multiplying....
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ebhod20(m): 4:23am On Sep 30, 2020 |
situationreport:I have a loptop how do we meet my WhatsApp number is 080 pls 3286 I need it 3128 |
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