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Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Oct 07, 2020
Zzor:
You are always very aggressive and I know why
i'm not aggressive..
you are just annoying .. and your attention seeking has gotten worse recently.

girl bye
Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Oct 07, 2020
Descortes:
i'm not always aggressive.. you are just annoying .. and your attention seeking has gotten worse recently.
girl bye
What is your current financial situation?
Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Oct 07, 2020
Zzor:
What is your current financial situation?
ask your Dad.. he's the gateman at my work place smiley
Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Oct 07, 2020
Descortes:
ask your Dad.. he's our gateman at work smiley
lmao,dont worry,no condition is permanent.You will be out of your situation in no distant time
Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Oct 07, 2020
Zzor:
lmao,dont worry,no condition is permanent.You will be out of your situation in no distant time
see ehn ... to be serious now. stay of my mentions, I don't want this bants with a child like you anymore.
you dy dull person brain. I beg you, always resist the urge to mention or quote me.. and I will do same

cheers...
Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Oct 07, 2020
Descortes:
see ehn ... to be serious now. stay of my mentions, I don't want this bants with a child like you anymore.
you dy dull person brain. I beg you, always resist the urge to mention or quote me.. and I will do same

cheers...
as if you are not the one mentioning me unnecessarily,get lost.
Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Oct 07, 2020
Zzor:
as if you are not the one mentioning me unnecessarily,get lost.
brainless ugly-looking malnourished fowl grin

swerve jare
Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Oct 07, 2020
tobechi74:
Monogamy is not for everyone one. Most are polygamous in nature. Forcing them into monogamy make them unfulfilled. Cheating is inevitable

Marriage is an individual choice and not a collective one. The government has no business regulating how I use my genital.  It is mine and mine alone.  I decide who I choose to get married to . I can decide to share it with a single person or a married person.  It is  my freedom to choose to be a celibate or be married.   While married, I decide with my partner whether to make it open relationship or monogamy.

Marriage is not for everyone. There are people who are happier single. I mean those who are do introverted that they cannot tolerate a very long time without feeling drained. There are people who prefer long distance relationship with few visits and frequent absence rather than continued presence.  those whose high attention sexual urge cannot be satisfied by any one individual. There are others who dislike the boredom of sticking to one  partner scares the hell out of them. Variety is the spice of life.The fun of experimenting with various sizes and  types thrills them. There are yet another group whose need for independence and freedom makes them dislike the idea of  consulting with another before making decision.  There is another group that  love to be in motion. They wake up one morning and decide to relocate to another state only to explore another culture the next year. Traveling is their hobby and getting married with kids hinders that . Settling down is like a death trap. Flowing water is cleaner. Stagnant water attracts mosquitoes and other microorganism.

Human needs are various. the concept of getting married does not fit into their ideal future. They are better off single or in an open relationship. imposing  monogamy marriage on them will choke them. Their partner and children would suffer . Cheating is bound to occur. The fact that cheating still exist means we should question the effectiveness of monogamy and possibility of open marriage.

Investment experts would advice you never to put all your eggs in one basket to mitigate against risk. Economic  expert suggest diversification and not depending on only crude oil. Why don’t we  Apply  the same analogy to our own emotional life.   Risk is mitigated when we stop expecting one person to be our confident, sexual satisfier ,friend, mother of children etc. Can we consider open marriage and celibacy as alternative to monogamy

I feel like you’re a wise person. Maybe because you have a mind that only 0.0000000000001% of the world’s population will ever have.

Freedom, in what ever form, trumps all else.
Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Nobody: 5:55am On Oct 08, 2020
People change....
Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by placeofallure(f): 2:35am On Oct 09, 2020
Blackmiserable:


There are lessons and sublesons in your write-up and the sublessons can be further broken down. And that too, can be broken, O boy.

I am talking of a combination of moral lessons from the story, the depiction of the human characters and their attributes and the outcome of the story. The education gained from this "negative" albeit good experience would linger long.

Yes, you can say that again grin
Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by MrCork: 12:33pm On Oct 10, 2020
Zzor:
What is your current financial situation?


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