Neurotika:


Dude did you read what you typed up there? She agreed to the job offer which I'm sure took like probably 24 hours or more before she resumed there. In between this interval she would have spoken severally with the fiancé but she didn't remember she's gonna start work an "old male friend" gave her. She started the work, she still didn't remember where she was. Until the fiance made a video call to her she now remembered she didn't tell him. That's an enormous load of bulllshit.

CosmicPhoenix:

how can you forget to tell your fiance something like that yet you claim you guys chat frequently,we all know you are lying so just tell us the truth.

MODIFIED-now i have no doubts in my mind that the op is lying.

https://www.nairaland.com/6005431/hes-transparent-me-financially-doesnt

lefulefu:
old male friend?
I am not being critical that u took up a job but then this issue of old male friend..as in ur ex?
u said u have a fiancee and u still connecting with ex
u know how it is in naija
as soon as ur ex knows u have a fiancee and u about to get married he go still wan nack to get a final taste and he might just be using this matter as u being his site supervisor as a reason to get into ur pants
why not just avoid ur exs so as not to put an issue in ur relationship
would u feel ok if ur guy was now meeting his exs as well under the reason of one business deal or the other?
anyway na ur relationship sha

AdesewaAde:
Nope ,not an ex boyfriend
Can’t you have male friends without thinking of sexual benefits in Nigeria?
I’m no more getting you guys

lefulefu:
ok just a normal male friend? i thought it was an ex boyfriend.well just talk with ur man why u need to do the job.I am sane human being he will understand

AdesewaAde:
so how has my previous post gotten to do with this ?
I may take any bullshit from you,but I won’t take calling a lair,you are free to just pass if you don’t have anything to say

AdesewaAde:

Thank you sir
I really appreciate,but I already stopped the job

White knights plenty for here.

AdesewaAde:
I’m not manipulative ,just that I don’t see any big deal in the job,the location is just a stone throw to my house,even when he called,I was laughing while telling him on phone until he changed everything for me

AdesewaAde:
My fiancé traveled three weeks ago on a business trip,we do call at least thrice daily and we do chat frequently,two weeks ago I told him I needed an amount of money to settle one particular bill that I never planned for earlier,he said he is going to send the money by this month ending.
Last week,I was strolling down the street when I met my old time male friend,we exchanged pleasantries and after much discussion he told me he needed someone who can help him to supervise his site which is under construction and he will pay,I told him I will do it since I’m not having a job for now and I don’t like sleeping at home,we agreed on the payment and I started the work three days ago,the only mistake I made was that I forgot to tell my fiancé about the new development,I was at the site yesterday morning when he called on video call and I explained everything to him,he was really mad at me ,he was shouting at the top of his voice as if Heaven will fall,he said I lack patience,he qualified the work as being a labourer,I apologised but it seems my sorry wasn’t enough,he angrily sent me the money I told him I needed earlier but he doesn’t reply my messages nor pick my calls since yesterday.
Is it a crime for me to work?
I need advice

AdesewaAde:
My fiancé traveled three weeks ago on a business trip,we do call at least thrice daily and we do chat frequently,two weeks ago I told him I needed an amount of money to settle one particular bill that I never planned for earlier,he said he is going to send the money by this month ending.
Last week,I was strolling down the street when I met my old time male friend,we exchanged pleasantries and after much discussion he told me he needed someone who can help him to supervise his site which is under construction and he will pay,I told him I will do it since I’m not having a job for now and I don’t like sleeping at home,we agreed on the payment and I started the work three days ago,the only mistake I made was that I forgot to tell my fiancé about the new development,I was at the site yesterday morning when he called on video call and I explained everything to him,he was really mad at me ,he was shouting at the top of his voice as if Heaven will fall,he said I lack patience,he qualified the work as being a labourer,I apologised but it seems my sorry wasn’t enough,he angrily sent me the money I told him I needed earlier but he doesn’t reply my messages nor pick my calls since yesterday.
Is it a crime for me to work?
I need advice

iamadonis2:
I’m an “old male friend “ to a long time friend I’ve known years now. Something nearly happened simply because I’m an old friend.

AdesewaAde:
I’m not manipulative ,just that I don’t see any big deal in the job,the location is just a stone throw to my house,even when he called,I was laughing while telling him on phone until he changed everything for me

SweetBuns:
Why should he be mad at you? These men self.

God just blessed you with 2x the amount you needed. And youre worried.

He will get over it. When he comes back, give him assurance.
Be wary of that "friend" of yours o, keep collecting his benefits but keep him at arms length.

Its not a sin for a strong lady to work. Why is he oppressing you

mosdii:


'Keep collecting his benefits but keep him at arms length'.

What an advice from a typical Nigerian farm tool...let her continue to collect then one day, she will be obliged to pay with something.

SweetBuns:
Why should he be mad at you? These men self.

God just blessed you with 2x the amount you needed. And youre worried.

He will get over it. When he comes back, give him assurance.
Be wary of that "friend" of yours o, keep collecting his benefits but keep him at arms length.

Its not a sin for a strong lady to work. Why is he oppressing you

Bennysam:
If you stop this lie and tell us the truth , it will be better for you me us because you will get a better advice

AdesewaAde:

Thank you sir
I really appreciate,but I already stopped the job

AdesewaAde:
My fiancé traveled three weeks ago on a business trip,we do call at least thrice daily and we do chat frequently,two weeks ago I told him I needed an amount of money to settle one particular bill that I never planned for earlier,he said he is going to send the money by this month ending.
Last week,I was strolling down the street when I met my old time male friend,we exchanged pleasantries and after much discussion he told me he needed someone who can help him to supervise his site which is under construction and he will pay,I told him I will do it since I’m not having a job for now and I don’t like sleeping at home,we agreed on the payment and I started the work three days ago,the only mistake I made was that I forgot to tell my fiancé about the new development,I was at the site yesterday morning when he called on video call and I explained everything to him,he was really mad at me ,he was shouting at the top of his voice as if Heaven will fall,he said I lack patience,he qualified the work as being a labourer,I apologised but it seems my sorry wasn’t enough,he angrily sent me the money I told him I needed earlier but he doesn’t reply my messages nor pick my calls since yesterday.
Is it a crime for me to work?
I need advice

RedPanthar:




Hope you both resolved it?

AdesewaAde:
My fiancé traveled three weeks ago on a business trip,we do call at least thrice daily and we do chat frequently,two weeks ago I told him I needed an amount of money to settle one particular bill that I never planned for earlier,he said he is going to send the money by this month ending.
Last week,I was strolling down the street when I met my old time male friend,we exchanged pleasantries and after much discussion he told me he needed someone who can help him to supervise his site which is under construction and he will pay,I told him I will do it since I’m not having a job for now and I don’t like sleeping at home,we agreed on the payment and I started the work three days ago,the only mistake I made was that I forgot to tell my fiancé about the new development,I was at the site yesterday morning when he called on video call and I explained everything to him,he was really mad at me ,he was shouting at the top of his voice as if Heaven will fall,he said I lack patience,he qualified the work as being a labourer,I apologised but it seems my sorry wasn’t enough,he angrily sent me the money I told him I needed earlier but he doesn’t reply my messages nor pick my calls since yesterday.
Is it a crime for me to work?
I need advice

Truvel:
He Is Just Being Childish. People Like Dis Don't Like Their Women Working Or Doing Anything To Get Money 4 Demselves. Dey Prefer Giving Money To Their Women So As To Av Control Over Dem.

AdesewaAde:
you are right,we were having some conversations long time ago and he stylishly told me that men are to make money while women are to keep the house.
I’m having a second thought about the relationship now,cause I’m a type of woman that I can’t stay without working,I’m not used to that