virginprincess:
I have things to offer apart from sex, i had to ask them such question because they keep saying women have nothing to offer when you and i know women offer much in a relationship.

virginprincess:
Where they not in a relationship before they got married, a woman that didn't contribute financially in relationship will not also contribute financially in marriage, mind you not all relationship of nowadays consist of sex.

shaybebaby:

Whilst I agree to your point, surely relationships cannot be a measure of a person's worth.

We are people first and it is who you are inherently that you bring into different situations, be it relationship, work, socialising etc.

CosmicPhoenix:

a lady contributing in marriage doesnt mean she did while dating,that's a fallacy and i dont care if relationship consists of sex or not,most ladies only have sex to offer.

virginprincess:
Why would you people say women have nothing to offer in a relationship apart from sex.

Silentgroper:
Because that's how YOU PEOPLE Portray yourself

virginprincess:
Really, not you people, it depends on the type of girl you date.

Silentgroper:
Alright then. Are u entangled with someone?

Ardar:
Trash. I thought the op asked a general question to both mails and women. But alas, it's just another thread to offload their ever growing bitterness on women.

atheistandproud:


Nothing else.

They can't discuss sports with you, politics and recent happenings in Nigeria na zero, business ideas beyond retailing or hairdressing na zero.

Money has to be exchanged for value. The value depends on what the owner of the money wants it to be.

After all, the owner of the money didn't get it for free, not even if it's N5.

virginprincess:
No why do you ask?

Silentgroper:
heard rumours that u might be married

virginprincess:
Ah who said that.

Silentgroper:
A little birdie. Bt u are in d marriage age right?

virginprincess:
Maybe, but not ready yet.

Silentgroper:
Lol.. U jxt confirmed my curiousity.

virginprincess:
How?

virginprincess:
And what do men have to offer women apart from money .

Preshieben:
A very nice write-up

shaybebaby:

Not bashing you but your question and indeed the ops question says what YOU think you HAVE to offer the opposite section and society at large.

A person who says money really means that they measure their worth by that. Lots of money to them means they consider themselves a person value and without money, they perceive themselves as useless to society at large.

Same for you with your comment about sex, it means asides from that, you do not consider yourselves to have any contribution society.

Sad in both instances.

atheistandproud:


someone with sense

shaybebaby:

To give balance to your post, do you hold your male counterparts to the same standards?

Are they dismissed if they are not wealthy? Do you question their value as humans?

Let me pose the same question to you and the fellow males , asides from sex, what do you have to offer to offer me?

Note, I do not need your money.

CAPSLOCKED:
WELL I HAVE A DEGREE IN FUNDS MISMANAGEMENT. I MAY BE JUST RIGHT FOR YOU.

atheistandproud:
A lot of ladies today complain bitterly about how men only see them as sex tools. It's a drum that has been beaten pretty badly. Everywhere you turn, it's all you hear. Stop sexualizing women or women aren't sex tools.

Now here's the shocker. Ladies who make/have their own money rarely ever complain about sexual harassment or about the come to my house trope by konjified guys. You also rarely see or hear this complaints from intelligent ladies as well who are goal oriented.

So check out this out...

A lady that doesn't have a skill or handiwork, perennially broke, zero fiscal assets (in other words, a liability), zero original ideas (cannot discuss sports, books, politics, law, writing, science, tech, smartphones, blogging photography etc.), spends a good majority of the time discussing about herself, her ego, BBN, Zeeworld, Telemundo etc.

She's part of the urgent 2k crowd, has no interests besides her self vanity. The only topics that interests her are the lives of celebs and cheap gossip.

Please, what else are you good for?

The redeeming qualities of many females is that they can incubate children or can lay down to accept a p*nis. Many of whom should be thankful that some man somewhere would even consider such vapid hollow shells.

When you build your worth as a human being first, and as a woman second. Even if you don't have money, men will fall over themselves to give you for free because you exude value.

If you tie your value to your body and to your kitty Kat, that how you'll be addressed.

shaybebaby:

To give balance to your post, do you hold your male counterparts to the same standards?

Are they dismissed if they are not wealthy? Do you question their value as humans?

Let me pose the same question to you and the fellow males , asides from sex, what do you have to offer to offer me?

Note, I do not need your money.